Wednesday, April 27, 2016

April 2016 - 5

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 


THE OTHER DAY SAINT AMRUTHA HAD COME FROM HIMALAYAS... HE WAS GOING TO MADURAI AND ON THE WAY CAME TO SECUNDERABAD TO SEE ME.... WE BOTH HAD A LONG CHAT.... THE CHAT WAS SO INTERESTING, HE FORGOT TO BOARD THE TRAIN TO CHENNAI.... NEXT DAY HE WAS TO CATCH A TRAIN TO MADURAI FROM CHENNAI.... SO I DROPPED HIM AT AIRPORT.... AT THE AIRPORT, ONCE AGAIN WE STARTED CONVERSING BY SITTING IN THE FOOD COURT.... HE MISSED TWO FLIGHTS...
WE MET ALMOST AFTER 10 YEARS.... WHILE LEAVING HE HAD TEARS IN HIS EYES....
I ASKED....'WHY TEARS?'.....
HE REPLIED SMILINGLY....'BECAUSE IT IS THERE'.....
I FELT TOUCHED... HE JUST HUGGED ME AND WITH MUCH RELUCTANCE , LEFT BY THE LAST FLIGHT TO CHENNAI...
A VERY GREAT SAINT FROM HIMALAYAS.... OH....WHAT FUN WE HAD THOSE DAYS....

WE CALL THIS BHARATHA BHOOMI NOW A DAYS AS 'INCREDIBLE INDIA' BECAUSE IT IS A LAND TO WONDER AND HEART IS THE RULER.....

THE BODY WAS GIVEN BY THE MOTHER....
THE BREATH WAS GIVEN BY THE FATHER...
THE SOUL WAS GIVEN BY THE GOD....
THE MOTHER AND THE FATHER CAN BE EASILY IDENTIFIED BUT THE SOUL CANNOT BE IDENTIFIED AND IT CAN BE EXPERIENCED CONSCIOUSLY ONLY THROUGH THE WISDOM...
ONCE YOU EXPERIENCE THE SOUL IT IS THE ETERNAL JOY.....

SOME TIMES YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING BUT LOVE.... AT THAT MOMENT NOTHING ELSE LOOKS IMPORTANT... MIND WILL BE TOTALLY BLANK.... HEART ALONE SHINES.... IF THAT MOMENT OF 'SOME TIMES' CHANGES TO 'ALWAYS', IT MEANS GOD IS JUST SOME WHERE VERY NEAR YOU AND YOU HAVE STARTED ENJOYING HIS BLISS AND GRACE...

WHEN MIND STARTS PLAYING GAMES, SUSPICION HAS AN IMPORTANT ROLE TO PLAY....

HE ALWAYS SUSPECTED HIS PARENTS OF THEIR SIDING WITH HIS SIBLINGS.... HE ALWAYS SUSPECTED THE INTENTIONS OF HIS FRIENDS.... HE ALWAYS SUSPECTED ANY ONE ASSOCIATED WITH HIM.... HIS WIFE CAME TO SEE ME....
SHE... MY HUSBAND IS SUSPECTING MY CHARACTER.....IT IS OF LATE BECOMING UNBEARABLE....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
ME...HE HAS THIS PROBLEM RIGHT FROM HIS SCHOOL DAYS.... I HAVE TRIED MY BEST TO COUNSEL HIM, BUT I FAILED.... EITHER YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT HIM FOR WHAT HE IS AND IGNORE HIS ACTIONS OR JUST TAKE A DIVORCE AND QUIT THE SCENE....

HE....GURUJI, I AM WORRIED ABOUT MY SON'S FUTURE.... HE MAKES TALL TALKS BUT PRACTICALLY A ZERO IN ACTIONS....
ME...YOU NEED NOT WORRY ABOUT HIM AT ALL... HE HAS A BRIGHT FUTURE.... HE WILL BE A GREAT POLITICIAN.....
LOL...

NOW A DAYS PARENTS ARE MORE AMBITIOUS THAN THE KIDS.... THEY FORCE THEIR KIDS IN TO AREAS OF STUDY IN WHICH THE KIDS MAY NOT BE INTERESTED...THEN WHEN THE KIDS DON'T PERFORM OR WHEN THEY FAIL, THE PARENTS PANIC... PARENTS HAVE VARIETY OF REASONS FOR DOING THIS...SOME ARE...
-WORLD IS VERY CHALLENGING...SO MY KID HAS TO LIVE UP TO IT....
-MY BROTHER'S SON IS DOING ENGINEERING...SO MY DAUGHTER SHOULD ALSO DO ENGINEERING...
-AFTER ALL WE COMPEL ONLY IN MY SON'S INTEREST OF HAVING A BETTER FUTURE....
LIKE THIS THERE ARE 1000S OF REASONS.... BUT IF YOU COMPEL YOUR CHILD, AT SOME STAGE IT WILL BACK FIRE.... EVERY CHILD IS TALENTED... SPOT HIS OR HER TALENT AND ENCOURAGE IN THAT AREA/FIELD.... DON'T IMPOSE YOUR AMBITIONS ON THE CHILD....

THE GIRL IS A VERY CALM AND COMPOSED GIRL.... SHE LIKED DANCE... SO THE PARENTS ENCOURAGED HER BY PUTTING HER IN A FAMOUS DANCE SCHOOL IN CHENNAI.... SHE BECAME A GOOD DANCER... SHE ATTAINED MARRIAGE ABLE AGE.... SHE LOVED ANOTHER BOY WHO TOO WAS A DANCER IN THE SAME SCHOOL... THE PARENTS ASKED MY OPINION.... I SAID I WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO HER AND THE BOY....... I ASKED THEM MANY QUESTIONS, JUST TO KNOW THE DEPTH OF THEIR LOVE WITH EACH OTHER...I BEHAVED AS THOUGH, I WAS NOT IN FAVOUR OF THEIR MARRIAGE.... I ASKED THE PARENTS TO GO AHEAD WITH THE MARRIAGE SINCE I WAS CONVINCED OF THEIR DEEP LOVE FOR EACH OTHER.... I TOLD THE PARENTS TO INFORM THEM THAT I WAS NOT IN FAVOUR OF THEM GETTING MARRIED, BUT THE PARENTS WERE INTERESTED TO GET THEM MARRIED... SO THE KIDS DID NOT INVITE ME FOR THEIR MARRIAGE...
AFTER AN YEAR, THE MOTHER OF THE GIRL ONE DAY
SAID TO THEM.....'I AM SORRY DEAR..... UPON INSTRUCTIONS FROM GURUJI, I TOLD A LIE TO BOTH OF YOU.... ACTUALLY IT WAS ONLY GURUJI WHO PROMPTED US TO GET YOU BOTH MARRIED.... IN FACT WE WERE RELUCTANT TO GET YOU BOTH MARRIED.... YOU BOTH DID NOT INVITE HIM FOR THE MARRIAGE SINCE YOU BOTH WERE ANGRY WITH HIM.... SOME HOW I COULD NOT CONCEAL THIS TRUTH FOR LONG'.....
BOTH WERE ASTONISHED AT MY BEHAVIOUR....
THE GIRL CALLED ME ON MY MOBILE AND STARTED CRYING....
I ASKED....'WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH YOU? WHY ARE YOU CRYING?'
SHE SAID....'GURUJI, YOU KNOW THE REASON AS TO WHY I AM CRYING... WHY DID YOU HIDE THE TRUTH FROM ME? MY PARENTS WERE THE ONE WHO WERE RELUCTANT TO PERFORM MY MARRIAGE WITH HIM.... BUT ALL LONG I WAS THINKING THAT YOU OPPOSED TO OUR MARRIAGE... WE WERE SO ANGRY ON YOU THAT WE DIDN'T EVEN INVITE YOU FOR THE MARRIAGE.... WHY DID YOU ASK MY PARENTS TO TELL A LIE?
I LAUGHED AND SAID....'JUST FOR SOME FUN.... I WILL COME AND MEET YOU BOTH SOME TIME IN THE FUTURE'.....
AS A MASTER I DONT SAY MANY THINGS.... I NEVER LIKE TO SEPERATE LOVING COUPLES.... NEITHER I ENCOURAGE ANY BODY TO DO ALL THAT NONSENSE... IN THIS CASE THERE WAS SOME THING WHICH WOULD AFFECT THE COUPLE RIGHT ON THE DAY OF MARRIAGE.... SO IF IT CAN BE AVOIDED ON THE DAY OF MARRIAGE THEY WILL LIVE PEACEFULLY TOGETHER FOR AT LEAST 54 YEARS AS COUPLES TILL THE GIRL DIES FIRST AT THE AGE OF 79 YEARS, INCASE THIS ILLEFFECT AT THE TIME OF MARRIAGE IS REMOVED..... THEY WILL ALSO HAVE 3 CHILDREN.... SO DURING THE MUHURTHAM TIME, IF I AM IN THE FOREST AND A PRAYOGAM CAN BE DONE, THE ILL EFFECT OF THE UNION CAN BE REMOVED.... IF I REVEAL THIS TO THEM THAT I HAVE TO SIT IN THE FOREST AND DO SOME PRAYOGAM DURING MUHURTHAM, THROUGH OUT THE LIFE THEY WILL BE LIVING IN FEAR... SO I DON'T SAY THE REAL CAUSE....I AM HAPPY THAT THEY ARE UNITED....

THE TOP OF THE TREE SWAYS AS THE GENTLE BREEZE BLOWS, SINCE THE ROOTS ARE FIRMLY PLANTED ON THE EARTH....SO WHEN THINGS ARE COMFORTABLE AND THE BETTER FEETED IN LIFE, YOU TEND TO SWAY AND TALK MORE.... BE CAREFUL....THE MOTHER NATURE IS WATCHING YOU...THE GENTLE BREEZE CAN AT ANYTIME BECOME A CYCLONIC GALE AND YOUR ROOTS WHICH ARE FIRMLY FEETED WILL GET UPROOTED AND THROW YOU OUT OF GEAR.... SO BE BALANCED....

YOUR OPINIONS, YOUR VIEWS, YOUR CONCLUSIONS ABOUT GOD SHOULD BE DROPPED, FOR GOD TO REVEAL HIMSELF TO YOU....

ONLY A PERSON WHO RESPECTS YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE CAN BE A TRUE FRIEND IN WHOM YOU CAN CONFIDE....

THERE SHOULD NOT BE TOO MANY FRIENDS FOR YOU MAY NOT KNOW THE VALUE OF FRIENDSHIP....

LOVE IS A SUBJECT OF THE HEART.... MIND HAS NO ROLE TO PLAY... IF YOU GET DOUBTS ON THE SUBJECT OF LOVE, IT MEANS YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE....MIND DOUBTS, HEART KNOWS NO DOUBT....

WHEN MIND STARTS PLAYING GAMES AND INTERFERES WITH HEART, LOVE WILL CEASE TO EXIST....

TODAY JAISHIMI WAS ALMOST CORNERED BY BHANDURATH...IT WAS A CLOSE ENCOUNTER... WITH EMUSHA'S HELP, I COULD TRANSFORM KARMALA, SO I COULD REACH JAISHIMI... BHANDURATH FELT AGITATED ON SEEING ME WITH JAISHIMI.... SO HE POSTPONED SWALLOWING IT.... THIS ENIMITY BETWEEN JAISHIMI AND BHANDURATH MAY BE 25000 COSMIC YEARS OLD... EVERY TIME JAISHIMI IS ATTACKED BY BHANDURATH , I MAKE IT A POINT TO BE WITH JAISHIMI WITH THE GRACE OF EMUSHA.... THE DRAMA CONTINUES....
BOTH JAISHIMI AND BHANDURATH HAVE REASONS TO BE SO AND I DON'T FIND ANY FAULT WITH THEM.... IT IS VERY NORMAL FOR THEM TO BEHAVE THAT WAY... I ONLY KEEP PRAYING TO THE COSMOS THAT THIS ENMITY HAS TO END.... I KNOW ONLY EMUSHA CAN HELP.... I KEEP PRAYING TO EMUSHA TO HELP AVOID SUCH CLOSE ENCOUNTERS...

THE LIFE OF A PRAYOGI IS A BEAUTIFUL AND BLISSFUL.... HE MUST BE A VISIONARY AND SHOULD BE BEYOND ASSUMPTIONS/PRESUMPTIONS.... HE MUST BE ALWAYS ALERT AND CONSCIOUS.... HE SHOULD BE NON JUDGMENTAL.... HE SHOULD BE UNCONDITIONAL IN LOVE.... HE HAS TO BE EFFICIENT AND CAPABLE OF HANDLING ALL SITUATIONS... HE HAS TO BE COURAGEOUS AND SHOULD NOT BE BOTHERED ABOUT HIMSELF.... HE HAS TO WORK 24 X 7, 365 DAYS, THROUGH OUT HIS LIFE.... HE MUST BE AS AMIABLE AS WATER AND SHOULD BE AS STRONG THAT WATER CANNOT BE CUT BY KNIFE...HE MUST BE FULL OF LOVE AND YET DETACHED FROM BONDAGES OF ATTACHMENT.... HE HAS TO BE IN CONSTANT COMMUNICATION WITH THE COSMOS AND ACCEPT LIFE GRACEFULLY AS IT COMES.... HE WILL BE AN EPITOME OF SACRIFICE....

WE CAN ONLY WONDER AT EXISTENCE.... THERE IS NO END TO OUR DOUBTS AND QUESTIONING.... ONE QUESTION WILL LEAD TO ANOTHER QUESTION.... NO ANSWER CAN BE TREATED AS AS FINAL AND LAST.... BY THE TIME ANSWER IS TOLD, THE EXISTENCE WOULD HAVE CHANGED AND THE ANSWER WILL BE MEANINGLESS... YOU CAN AT BEST WONDER AT EXISTENCE AND THE EVER CHANGING EXISTENCE... THIS IS THE TRUTH ONE HAS TO REALISE AND THAT IS ETERNAL....

KNOWLEDGE IS NOT THEORY.... KNOWLEDGE IS ONE'S INATE EXPERIENCE OF ALL THAT HAPPENS ACROSS THE JAGAT... ONCE YOU START ENJOYING THOSE EXPERIENCES, YOU WILL LAUGH AT YOUR OWN STUPIDITIES.... BY THIS TIME YOU WOULD HAVE FORGIVEN YOURSELF OF ALL THE MISGIVINGS... YOU WILL REJOICE YOUR VERY EXISTENCE... YOU WILL NEVER FIND FAULT WITH ANYTHING OR ANY ONE... YOU WILL BE NON JUDGMENTAL.... THEN YOU WILL JUST WITNESS NOT ONLY OTHERS ACTIONS BUT ALSO YOURS... FROM THAT ART OF WITNESSING WILL ARISE THE PURE AND BLEMISH FREE WISDOM....

ASTROLOGER.... DO YOU WANT TO KNOW YOUR HUSBAND'S FUTURE?
WIFE...MY HUSBAND'S FUTURE? HIS FUTURE WILL BE DETERMINED BY ME...SO DON'T WORRY... I JUST CAME TO KNOW HIS PAST....
LOL....



INFERIORITY COMPLEX WITH EGO IS IMPOSSIBLE TO BE CURED....

SHE SHOUTED AT HER FATHER AND INFORMED ME....
I SAID...'WOW....WONDERFUL'.....

SHANMUGASUNDARAM WAS A HONEST GENTLEMAN WHOM I HAD KNOWN FOR ALMOST 25 YEARS... BEFORE HIS DEATH WROTE A WILL.... HE WANTED ALL THE KIDS (3 SONS AND 2 DAUGHTERS) TO SHARE THE PROPERTY EQUALLY....I WAS ONE OF THE WITNESSES TO THIS DOCUMENT
HIS ELDEST SON TORE OFF THE ORIGINAL WILL AND WROTE A DUPLICATE WILL IN WHICH IT WAS STATED THAT THE ELDEST SON WILL GET 3 SHARES IN THE PROPERTY SINCE HE WAS THE ELDEST AND OTHERS WILL GET ONE SHARE EACH... NONE IN THE FAMILY SUSPECTED HIM ACCEPTED IT AS THE DIVINE GRACE OF THEIR FATHER...
THROUGH ONE OF THE FRIENDS OF SHANMUGASUNDARAM, I CAME TO KNOW OF THIS MATTER... SO I WENT TO HIS ELDEST SON'S HOUSE IN MADURAI....
HE WAS VERY HAPPY TO SEE ME AND GAVE SOME SNACKS TO EAT.... CASUALLY I WAS JUST TALKING TO HIM AND HIS WIFE.... OCCASIONALLY I USED TO LOOK AT THE WALL BEHIND WHERE HIS WIFE WAS SITTING....
HIS SON...'GURUJI, I AM OBSERVING... RIGHT FROM THE TIME YOU CAME INSIDE THE HOUSE, YOU ARE LOOKING AT THE WALL BEHIND MY WIFE... WHAT IS THE MATTER?'...
I KEPT MY FACE VERY SERIOUS AND TOLD HIM....'I DON'T KNOW WHY YOUR FATHER WHO DIED 3 MONTHS BACK IS STILL STANDING BEHIND YOUR WIFE.... HE IS SAYING SOME THING AND I AM NOT ABLE TO UNDERSTAND'....
I LEFT THE HOUSE....
AFTER A MONTH THE FRIEND OF SHANMUGASUNDARAM TOLD ME THAT HIS SON SUDDENLY TORE OFF THE WILL AND SHARED THE PROPERTY EQUALLY AMONG ALL HIS BROTHERS AND SISTERS
....
NOW ONCE AGAIN I WENT TO THE SON'S HOUSE....
WITH A TREMBLING VOICE THE SON ASKED ME..'GURUJI, IS MY FATHER STILL STANDING BEHIND MY WIFE?'....
I SAID...'I DON'T SEE HIM ANYWHERE IN THIS HOUSE...I THINK YOU DID SOME YAGNA (SACRIFICE) TO SEE THAT HE IS PLACED BACK IN PITRU LOKA'....
I LEFT THE HOUSE AS HE AND HIS WIFE WERE BLINKING....
I CAME TO THE STREET CORNER AND HAD BOUTS OF LAUGHTER....

TO REALISE THAT ONE IS UNCONSCIOUS, ONE NEEDS TO BE CONSCIOUS...THIS IS VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE... SO WHEN YOU ARE CONSCIOUS, YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU ARE CONSCIOUS BUT WHEN YOU ARE UNCONSCIOUS, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THAT YOU ARE UNCONSCIOUS...WHEN DURING SUCH AN UNCONSCIOUS STATE YOU MAY EXTEND YOURSELF BEYOND YOUR CAPABILITIES AND MAY NOT BE ABLE TO COMPLETE THE TASK UNDERTAKEN...THIS TENDENCY OF NOT BEING ABLE TO HOLD ON OR NOT ABLE TO FINISH THE TASK UNDERTAKEN IS CALLED 'ALABDHA BHUMIKATVA' IN SASTRAS.... MANY SUFFER DUE TO THIS DEFICIENCY.....

NEVER ACCEPT ANY LUXURIOUS OR COSTLY GIFTS FROM ANY ONE.... IT WILL BIND YOU TO THE GIVER.....

THE KING WHO IS CROSSING A FOREST WITH SOLDIERS CARRYING GOLD ORNAMENTS IS ASTONISHED TO SEE AN OLD MAN WITH A LOIN CLOTH LYING ACROSS IMMENSELY HAPPY...
AN AVADHOOTA.... SWAYAM LORD DATTATREYA.....

WHEN YOU WANT TO BE AHEAD OF OTHERS, THEN COMES THE AMBITION, THE PLAN, THE EXECUTION AND THE RESULTANT PERFORMANCE.... THIS SUPPORTS AGGRESSION... SO YOU LOSE PEACE OF MIND.... INSTEAD OF RELATIVELY PERFORMING AHEAD OF OTHERS, ALWAYS TRY DO YOUR BEST AND DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN FOR IT.... WHAT YOU COULD NOT ACHIEVE BY BEING AMBITIOUS, YOU CAN ACHIEVE WITHOUT STRESS BY DOING THE BEST... FOR THAT TO HAPPEN YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE YOUR UNIQUENESS AND NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS...

WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE UNIQUE AND BALANCED IN YOUR OUT LOOK, YOU ARE CONSIDERED EXTRA ORDINARY...

YOU WILL BE DISRESPECTING YOURSELF WHEN YOU COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS...

NEVER COMPARE YOUR KIDS WITH OTHER KIDS.... AS PARENTS DON'T DEVELOP GREED IN YOUR CHILD.... IT WILL NOT ONLY AFFECT YOUR CHILD BUT WILL ALSO AFFECT YOU IN THE LONG RUN...

HE WAS THE THIRD CHILD TO HIS PARENTS.... HE WAS NOT THAT GOOD AT STUDIES.... PARENTS USED TO COMPARE HIM WITH OTHER CHILDREN IN THE FAMILY AND HE WAS MADE TO FEEL INFERIOR...
ONE DAY...
HE...GURUJI, SOME HOW I AM NOT GOOD AT STUDIES... NOTHING GOES IN TO MY HEAD...MY PARENTS KEEP ON COMPARING ME WITH MY SIBLINGS AND I FEEL INFERIOR...WHAT SHOULD I DO TO COME OUT OF THIS?
ME...LET THEM KEEP DOING THAT NONSENSE OF COMPARING YOU WITH OTHERS... YOU JUST IGNORE... TRY TO PUT YOUR HEAD A LITTLE BIT IN STUDIES... I DON'T THINK YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF PERFORMING... YOU WILL DECENTLY DO WELL... I KNOW THAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO SOME THING WHICH NONE IN YOUR FAMILY OR CLOSE CIRCLES WILL BE DOING.... YOU WILL MAKE EVERY ONE PROUD SOME DAY AND YOUR PARENTS WILL TURN AROUND TO SHOWER THEIR LOVE ON YOU... SOME THING IS CERTAINLY ON CARDS AND LORD WILL BRING THE BEST OUT OF YOU AT THAT JUNCTURE... SO BE PATIENT, COOL AND LEVEL HEADED TO RECEIVE THE GRACE OF LORD...
HIS STUDIES WERE BETTER AND HE FINALLY LANDED IN A GOOD BANK JOB...
AFTER 10 YEARS, HIS MOTHER'S KIDNEYS FAILED AND SHE WAS ON DIALYSIS.... THE TISSUES OF THE KIDS WERE COMPARED AND ONLY THE TISSUE OF THIS BOY MATCHED AND HE BECAME THE KIDNEY DONOR FOR HIS MOTHER...
THE OPERATION WAS SUCCESSFUL AND THE PARENTS FELT BAD FOR ALL THAT THEY HAD DONE TO THE BOY...
I SAID....'AS PARENTS WHEN YOU HAVE MANY CHILDREN, YOU HAVE RESPONSIBILITY EQUALLY TOWARDS ALL CHILDREN.... ONE MAY STUDY WELL AND THE OTHER MAY NOT.... BUT AS PARENTS YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO COMPARE AND SAY WHO IS INFERIOR OR SUPERIOR.... NOW SEE THE LORD'S DRAMA...ALL LONG YOU COMPARED AND SAID HE IS INFERIOR TO OTHERS... WHEN YOUR KIDNEYS FAILED ALL TISSUES WERE COMPARED...ONLY THIS BOY'S TISSUE MATCHED...LORD HAS SHOWN HOW SUPERIOR HE IS AND HE COULD COME FORWARD AND DONATE A KIDNEY.. SO LORD HAS TAUGHT YOU A SUBTLE LESSON THROUGH THIS DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE... HOPE YOU DON'T DO THAT IN FUTURE'....
IN FACT NOW ALL THE KIDS ARE ABROAD AND THIS BOY WORKS IN A LOCAL BANK AT HYDERABAD AND IS TAKING CARE OF THE PARENTS....
LORD'S GRACE...

WHAT IS ALREADY AVAILABLE IN BOOKS NEEDS TO BE STUDIED, RETAINED IN MEMORY AND VOMMITTED IN EXAMINATION.... TODAY THIS IS CALLED 'TALENT'.... THIS IS INDEED FUNNY...

IN GOOD OLDEN DAYS, HIS FATHER WAS A SOURCE OF INSPIRATION...
TODAY HIS SON IS A SOURCE OF PERSPIRATION....
LOL....

NEVER COMMENT OR JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE A THOROUGH KNOWLEDGE ON THE SUBJECT OF DEBATE.... STILL IT SEEMS GODDESS SARASWATHY IS LEARNING FROM LORD BRAHMA AND SHE IS GOING TO BE GRADUATED ONLY AT THE END OF KALIYUGA WHICH IS EXPECTED TO BE ANOTHER 4,27,000 YEARS FROM NOW... WE HAVE JUST COMPLETED 5000 YEARS IN KALIYUGA... SO BE BALANCED AND DON'T RUN AROUND COMMENTING LIKE A HEADLESS CHICKEN....

EGO
POSSESSIVENESS
GREED
JEALOUSY
ANGER
HATRED
SELFISHNESS
BLAME GAME
YEAH.... THE SICK NEEDS TO BE HEALED....

IF YOU SAY YOU ARE RELIGIOUS, IT MEANS....
YOU DONT HAVE ANY EGO AND YOU ARE NOT POSSESSIVE...
YOU NEVER FEEL ANGRY OR HATRED...
YOU ARE NEVER JEALOUS AND YOU DONT COMPETE WITH ANY ONE....
YOU HAVE NO FEAR....
YOU ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES....
YOU ALWAYS DO THE BEST AND NEVER THINK ABOUT THE RESULTS OR FRUITS OF ACTIONS...
YOU ALWAYS LOVE GOD....
YOUR LIFE IS MORE SERVICE ORIENTED AND IS PURELY DEVOTED TO THE WELFARE OF OTHERS...
YOU ARE SELFLESS....
YOU WORK FOR PEACE AND HARMONY OF THE SOCIETY...
YOU ARE CALM AND COMPOSED....

HIS HEART IS GOLDEN.... HE HAS A HEALING TOUCH.... A MAN OF HEART.... SELDOM MIND WORKS.... HE IS AN ASSET TO THE SOCIETY.... HIS VERY PRESENCE IS DIVINE...

DONT KEEP JUST MAKING RESOLUTIONS... MOVE TO IMPLEMENT IT.... LIFE IS SHORT.... TIME IS LESS.... MOVE...

THE DAY YOU REALISE THE STATEMENT 'JUST BE' AND 'MOVE' AS COMPLIMENTARY, YOU HAVE ARRIVED AT THE DOOR STEP OF REALISATION.... TILL SUCH TIME YOU WILL KEEP THINKING THAT THEY ARE DIFFERENT AND BE CONFUSED...

WHATEVER MAY BE YOUR DISPUTE WITH YOUR BOSSES...
HOW MUCH EVER YOU DISLIKE THE WORKING ENVIRONMENT.....
DON'T QUIT JOB UNLESS YOU HAVE A BETTER OFFER....
NOW A DAYS TO GET A SALARIED JOB IN COMMENSURATE TO YOUR PRESENT POSITION IS DIFFICULT... OF COURSE IF YOU WONT BE LOOKING AT DIGNITY OF LABOUR , YOU WILL GET PLENTY OF WORK TO DO.... BUT THE IRONY IS HAD YOU NOT LOOKED AT DIGNITY OF LABOUR, YOU WOULD NOT HAVE FELT INSULTED IN THE FIRST PLACE AND CONTINUE TO DO YOUR DUTY IRRESPECTIVE OF THE NATURE OF ENVIRONMENT...

MANY OF US LOOK FOR DIGNITY OF LABOUR INSTEAD OF JUST DOING WORK FOR WORK SAKE...WE SHOULD NOT BE BOTHERED ABOUT FRUITS OF ACTION....SINCE WE ARE ALL MORE USED TO PAMPERING, PRAISES, ENCOMIUMS AND REWARDS, WE ARE NOT PREPARED FOR BRICKBATS.... GOOD WORK IS WAITING TO BE DONE.... DO IT SELFLESSLY WITHOUT GETTING LOST IN THE TRACK....

LET ANY BODY TALK ANYTHING ABOUT YOU.... LET ANY ONE SPOIL YOUR NAME.... DON'T WORRY... YOUR SINCERITY AND DEDICATION IN WORK WILL ALWAYS STAND BY YOU... PEOPLE WHO TALK AT YOUR BACK WILL MEET THEIR OWN WATERY GRAVES...JUST WORK ZEALOUSLY AND SELFLESSLY WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN...

WHEN YOU BOSS OVER, DISSENT HAPPENS....A REBEL MAY BE BORN DEPENDING ON THE EFFICACY OF DISSENT....

TODAY AS I WAS DRIVING DOWN, I FOUND TWO GIRLS DRIVING BULLET CLASSIC..... THEY DROVE VERY ELEGANTLY....I SAW A WOMAN DRIVING A SCORPIO.... I SAW A GIRL DRIVING TUV 300.... YET ANOTHER GIRL I SAW DRIVING A VERNA... I AM HAPPY THAT WOMANHOOD IS PICKING UP FAST.... THEY ARE BECOMING STRONGER AND MIGHTIER... OF COURSE WHETHER IT IS A MAN OR WOMAN LET THEM BECOME INTERNALLY STRONGER BUT NOT HEAD STRONG....

THE HUSBAND AND WIFE BROUGHT THE PHOTO OF THE GIRL.... AN ALLIANCE FOR THEIR BOY...
PARENTS....GURUJI, PLEASE TELL US WHETHER THIS GIRL IS SUITABLE FOR OUR FAMILY....
I SAW THE PHOTOGRAPH....
ME...IN WHAT SENSE SUITABLE?
PARENTS BLINKED FOR SOME TIME AND THEN THE LADY STARTED TALKING....
SHE...IS SHE A SUBMISSIVE GIRL? WILL SHE LIVE WITH US OR AFTER A FEW MONTHS WOULD LIKE TO LIVE WITH MY SON ALONE? SINCE SHE IS EARNING, WILL SHE GIVE THE INCOME TO THE FAMILY? CAN SHE BEAR CHILDREN?
I JUST LAUGHED AND ASKED THE WOMAN....
'WERE YOU SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR IN LAWS? TO MY KNOWLEDGE IN MY PAST 30 YEARS OF ASSOCIATION WITH YOU, I HAVE NEVER SEEN YOUR IN LAWS WITH YOU'....
SHE...'NO THEY ARE IN VILLAGE AND THEY REFUSE TO COME'....
ME...'WHEN THEY ARE IN VILLAGE AND YOU EXPECT THEM TO COME AND SETTLE WITH YOU, INSTEAD YOU BOTH CAN GO AND SETTLE WITH THEM....DID YOU DO THAT?'....
SHE....'ITS PRACTICALLY NOT FEASIBLE SINCE MY HUSBAND WORKS HERE'.....
ME...'HE CAN VERY WELL RESIGN HIS JOB AND GO TO VILLAGE AND BE THERE WITH HIS PARENTS AND SERVE THEM...WHY CLING ON TO THIS JOB?'....
SHE....'THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE'....
ME...'EXACTLY.... THE SAME ANSWER IS APPLICABLE TO YOU ALSO....WHEN THIS GIRL FINDS IT IMPOSSIBLE TO LIVE WITH YOU SHE WILL LEAVE... IT CAN HAPPEN IN A DAY OR A MONTH OR AFTER 10 YEARS OR IT MAY NOT HAPPEN AT ALL... EVERY GIRL OR EVERY BOY IS GOOD AT THE TIME OF MARRIAGE.... AFTER THAT SO MANY INCIDENTS HAPPEN WHICH MAKES THEM TO RETHINK... SO NO GUARANTEE I CAN GIVE....SHE EARNS MONEY...WHY SHOULD SHE SPEND ON YOU? IT IS HER MONEY... SHE CAN DO ANYTHING SHE WANTS..SHE IS NOT A PAYING GUEST.... SHE IS NOT MARRIED TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR LOANS OR YOUR COMFORT...WHY EXPECT IN THE FIRST PLACE?. SHE WANTS TO GIVE YOU IT IS HER PERSONAL OPINION...IF SHE DOESNT GIVE ITS HER DECISION.....I DON'T REPLY STUPID QUESTIONS LIKE CAN SHE BEAR CHILDREN? ARE YOU NOT ASHAMED TO ASK SUCH QUESTIONS.... CAN I ASK YOU BACK WHETHER YOUR BOY IS POTENT TO IMPREGNATE HER? I DOUBT WHETHER YOU ARE A WOMAN... HAD I KNOWN THIS FAMILY, I WOULD ADVISE THEM NOT TO HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FAMILY...VERY SAD... I AM ASHAMED TO CALL YOU BOTH AS A FAMILY KNOWN TO ME FOR THE PAST 30 YEARS....JUST WASTE OF MY TIME AND ENERGY...YOU BOTH HAVE NOT LEARNT ANYTHING BY BEING IN THIS GURUKULAM...INSTEAD OF YOU BOTH THE DOGS AND CATS AT HOME, THE TIGERS AND BIG CATS IN THE FOREST HAVE LEARNT BETTER LESSONS BY BEING WITH US...'...
THEY LEFT...
HOPE ONE MORE WICKET DOWN...
ROFL.....

FROM TODAY, DON'T BRING ANY PHOTOGRAPHS OR HOROSCOPE.... I WILL NOT SAY WHETHER THE BOY AND THE GIRL ARE SUITABLE FOR MARRIAGE.... YOU HAVE TO FACE LIFE FOR WHAT EVER IT IS.... LIFE IS RISKY... LEARN TO FACE IT AND ACCEPT IT THE WAY IT COMES.... I WONT SEE ANY MORE PHOTOGRAPHS FOR SUCH PURPOSES... DON'T WASTE MY TIME..

GUIDANCE MEANS NOT 'SPOON FEEDING'.....

WITH MUCH DIFFICULTY WE PREPARE THE RAKSHAS... THE RAKSHAS ARE KEPT IN THE FOREST FOR A FEW DAYS OR FEW MONTHS AND IN SOME CASES FEW YEARS.... LOT OF WORK IS DONE.... SOME TIMES WE TAKE PRAYOGA ASHTA MANGALA DEVA AGNI PRASHNAM TO FIND OUT THE REASONS AND THEN WE DO PRAYASCHITTHA HOMAMS... IN SOME CASES IN ADDITION TO ALL THIS I MEDITATE ON THE AKSHARAS FOR THEIR BLESSINGS... AFTER ALL THESE PROCEDURES, THE RAKSHA IS PASSED ON TO YOU.... IT IS PRICE LESS... DON'T LOSE IT.... PLEASE TAKE ENOUGH CARE OF IT.... WHEN YOU LOSE IT, WE FIND IT DIFFICULT TO REDO THE ENTIRE PROCESS AS IT INVOLVES MORE TIME AND ENERGY IN ADDITION TO MONEY... SO KINDLY HELP US BY TAKING ENOUGH CARE OF IT....

TODAY IS VARAHA JAYANTHI.....
TODAY IS THE DAY YOU PRAY FOR ALL THE PROBLEMS WHICH ARE MUNDANE BY NATURE.... TODAY THE PRAYERS REACH THE LORD THROUGH YOUR MANES/FOREFATHERS/PITRUS..... SO DON'T MISS TODAY TO PRAY....
LORD IN THE FORM OF VARAHA GAVE RELIEF TO THE MOTHER EARTH (BHUMA DEVI) FROM HER MISERIES DUE TO HIRANYAKSHA...SO FOR ALL EARTHLY PROBLEMS, MUNDANE PROBLEMS, SRI VARAHA NRUSIMHASWAMY IS THE ANSWER... HE IS THE WAY....SO PRAY WITH FAITH DEDICATEDLY TO HIM....
OUR PRAYERS TO LORD ON THIS OCCASION.... TODAY WE ARE CELEBRATING THE DAY WITH OUR 109 TH YAGNAM IN THE SERIES AT BHANI SHANKAR TEMPLE AT BHOLAKPUR, MUSHEERABAD, HYDERABAD FROM 4 PM ONWARDS... IF FEASIBLE KINDLY ATTEND....
LORD' GRACE....OUR PRAYERS...

TODAY IS VARAHA JAYANTHI....WITH LORD'S GRACE, WE ARE PERFORMING OUR 109TH YAGNAM AT HYDERABAD TODAY TO COMMEMORATE THIS OCCASION...YOU MAY BE PHYSICALLY SOME WHERE BUT I AM ALWAYS IN YOUR HEART...SOME MAY BE OUT OF COUNTRY, SO THEY COULD NOT ATTEND.... SOME ARE IN THE COUNTRY BUT STILL NOT ABLE TO MAKE IT TO THE OCCASION DUE TO SOME REASONS... SOME ARE VERY MUCH IN THE CITY, BUT DUE SOME THING IMPORTANT WHICH THEY HAVE TO ATTEND, THEY MAY NOT BE ABLE TO ATTEND.....DON'T WORRY....NO BIG DEAL.... WE WILL CERTAINLY PRAY FOR YOU ALL.... I WANT YOU ALL TO HAVE A JOYOUS LIFE.... JUST WHERE EVER YOU ARE PLEASE JUST SPEND A FEW MINUTES/SECONDS WITH FAITH IN DHYANA TO SRI VARAHA NRUSIMHA SWAMY...OUR PRAYERS FOR ALL OF YOU, THOSE WHO KNOW US AND THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW US..... YOU WILL CERTAINLY BE BLESSED....

I AM TOLD THAT THERE IS A LIVE TELE WEB CAST ON SITEwww.jwala.in TODAY OF THE 109TH YAGNAM OF SRI VARAHA NRUSIMHASWAMY FROM HYDERABAD... 4 PM.... IF FEASIBLE THOSE WHO CANNOT ATTEND IN PERSON MAY VIEW ON THIS SITE...

WHEN YOUR COMFORT LEVELS ARE ADEQUATE, EXERCISE CAUTION...BE ALERT... KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.... THE COMFORT LEVELS MAY GET REVERSED ANY TIME... NOTHING IS PERMANENT... SO BE BALANCED...

THE PERSON WHO WORKS WITH A SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN ALWAYS ENJOYS WORK AND HIS WORK WILL BE A PERFECT ONE...

THE PERFECTION IN WORK IS ACHIEVED BY THE ONE WHO WORKS FOR WORK SAKE....

THE PROBLEM IS NOT IN UNDERSTANDING OTHERS, ITS MORE UNDERSTANDING ONE'S OWN SELF....

YOU STRUGGLE IN LIFE BECAUSE YOU HAVE MANY PRIORITIES....

WHEN YOU STRUGGLE WITH MANY PRIORITIES, AT TIMES, YOU DO NOT KNOW WHICH TO BE CONCENTRATED AND THIS LEADS TO STRESS... FINALLY YOU DON'T CONCENTRATE ON ANY OF THEM AND FEEL DEPRESSED...

INCASE YOU HAVE MANY PRIORITIES, YOU MUST BE A GOOD JUGGLER... A JUGGLER THROWS MANY OBJECTS IN AIR AND AT A TIME CONCENTRATES ONLY ON THE ONE WHICH HE SHOULD CATCH.... IF YOU ARE NOT GOOD AT JUGGLING, YOU SHOULD AVOID MANY PRIORITIES...

YOU ARE SEARCHING FOR THAT ONE THING WHICH WILL GIVE YOU ETERNAL PEACE AND JOY AMONG MANY PRIORITIES.... MAY BE SOME TIMES, JOY MAY BE NOT IN THE PRIORITIES LISTED BY YOU....

ONE THAT IS CLOSE TO HEART ALONE SHOULD BE A PRIORITY.... OF COURSE TO THE MIND MANY THINGS LOOK AS A PRIORITY....

ACCEPTANCE OF LIFE AS IT COMES CAN BE COMPARED TO A FLOWING RIVER.... IN A FLOWING RIVER YOU WILL NEVER STEP IN TO THE SAME WATER TWICE.... EVERY SITUATION IS CONSIDERED UNIQUE....

WHEN INSECURITY STARTS CREEPING IN YOUR MIND, YOU START STAGNATING THE FLOWING WATER BY BUILDING A DAM....

HE.... GURUJI, PLEASE BLESS ME TO GET A PERFECT GIRL...

ME...IF THIS IS YOUR MIND SET, ITS BETTER YOU DON'T HARM ANY GIRL BY MARRYING HER... AT BEST BOY OR GIRL CAN BE TOTAL... CERTAINLY THERE IS NOTHING LIKE 'MR.PERFECT OR MRS.PERFECT'.... IF YOU THINK THAT YOU ARE PERFECT, WHICH I KNOW IS IMPOSSIBLE AND IS CERTAINLY NOT THE CASE IN YOUR CASE, IT'S BETTER YOU DON'T SPOIL THE LIFE OF A GIRL.... EVEN THE THOUGHT OF MARRIAGE BY YOU WILL BE A HAZARDOUS PROPOSITION TO ANY GIRL.... BETTER BE SINGLE....

UNITED STATES OF AMERICA IS A BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY.... A LAND OF IMMIGRANTS.... RICH IN DIVERSIFIED CULTURE.... PEOPLE OF ALL CULTURES MERGE IN USA.... THE COUNTRY IS WELL ORGANISED AND DISCIPLINED... ONCE YOUR KID GOES TO USA, HE OR SHE LEARNS TO LIVE IN A COLLECTIVE SOCIETY WITH AN INDIVIDUALISTIC ATTITUDE...... THEY GET EXPOSED TO VARIOUS CULTURES AND IN THE PROCESS BECOME BROAD MINDED.... THEY ARE NO LONGER THE FROGS IN THE WELL.. THEY LEARN TO LIVE INDEPENDENT AND BECOME MORE INDIVIDUALISTIC BY NATURE.... THEY LEARN TO GUARD THEIR PRIVATE LIFE IN A BEFITTING WAY.... THEY LEARN WORK ETHICS BETTER AND ARE PROFESSIONAL IN THE FIELD OF EMPLOYMENT... THE SOCIETY IS SUCH THAT THEY BELIEVE IN CHOICE AND DEDICATEDLY WORK TO ACHIEVE IT....
AS INDIANS WE MORE BELIEVE IN FATE AND DESTINY.... WE ARE CHOICELESS AND WE LEARN TO ACCEPT THINGS AS IT COMES IN LIFE.... OUR CULTURE TOO IS MULTI DIMENSIONAL AND HAS THE LEGEND OF BEING THE OLDEST IN THE WORLD... THOUGH WE HAVE MANY LANGUAGES THERE IS A STRONG BONDAGE AMONG THE VARIOUS CULTURES WHICH CLOSELY CONNECT US.... WE ARE MORE USED TO JOINT FAMILY SYSTEM.... EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS MORE CONNECTED TO THE FAMILY AND THERE IS NOT MUCH OF PERSON TO PERSON INDIVIDUALITY GIVEN IMPORTANCE.... HERE THE FAMILY KNOWS EVERY THING THAT HAPPENS WITH THE INDIVIDUALS OF THE FAMILY....
SO ONCE YOUR KID LEAVES THE SHORES OF INDIA FOR STUDIES OR WORK, YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT HE OR SHE WILL TAKE SOME TIME TO ADJUST TO THE SOCIETY IN USA.... ONCE THE KID UNDERSTANDS THE SET UP THERE, HE OR SHE ADAPTS HIMSELF FOR HIS OR HER SURVIVAL AND GROWTH...THE KID SLOWLY TRANSFORMS HIMSELF OR HERSELF TO BE MORE INDIVIDUALISTIC AND NOT VERY MUCH BE DEPENDENT LIKE THE SCHOOL OF THOUGHT FROM WHERE THEY BELONGED.. PARENTS CANT KEEP SINGING THE SONG THAT THEIR KID IS NO LONGER ATTACHED TO THEM.... YES,THE KID MAY NOT BE ATTACHED, BUT THE KID WILL LOVE THEM BETTER AND DEEPER.... PARENTS SHOULD LEARN TO ACCEPT THIS CHANGE AND ENCOURAGE THEIR KID TO LIVE A STRONG INDEPENDENT LIFE IN TUNE WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES PREVAILING IN USA OR ANY OTHER COUNTRY AS THE CASE MAY BE...EVEN IN INDIA, PARENTS HAVE TO ALLOW THEIR KIDS THEIR SPACE SO THAT THEY CAN GROW BETTER TO BE RESPONSIBLE CITIZENS.... NOW A DAYS KIDS ARE BECOMING MORE INDIVIDUALISTIC HERE TOO.. PARENTS SHOULD GRACEFULLY EMBRACE THIS CHANGE AND ACCEPT THE REALITY WHICH HELP THE KID TO GROW BETTER....

THOUGH OFTEN I CHOSE TO REMAIN SILENT IN MY REACTION TO YOUR COMMENTS IN FACEBOOK, I DO READ ALL YOUR COMMENTS AS A VALUE ADDITION MADE TO MY STATEMENT....IN SOME CASES, I DO RESPOND.... SO YOUR COMMENTS ARE VALUABLE TO US AND WE CARE FOR IT A LOT.....


dakshachara and vamachara

DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGA VIDYA TEACHES ONLY LOVE AND COMPASSION... IT INCULCATES KINDNESS AND GENTLENESS.... IT ALSO CREATES DETERMINATION, CONVICTION AND COURAGE TO THE PRACTITIONER... IT NEVER TEACHES REVENGE OR AVENGE... A DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGI WILL BE AN EPITOME OF LOVE AND CONSEQUENTIALLY SACRIFICES HIS LIFE FOR THE CAUSE OF HUMANITY AND THE WORLD AT LARGE... THE DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGI'S AIM IS PEACE EVEN IF IT IS AT THE COST OF HIS LIFE...
HE LOOKS NORMAL BUT IS TRULY PARA NORMAL.... TO UNDERSTAND HIM IS POSSIBLE PROVIDED YOU KNOW THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART...

THE CAUSE OF FIGHT BETWEEN THE DAKSHACHARI TANTRIK AND VAAMACHARI TANTRIK IS MOSTLY OUT OF THE PROFESSIONAL ETHICS....THE VAAMACHARIS, MOST OF THEM BECOME JEALOUS OF THE DAKSHACHARA TANTRIK AND INDULGE IN UNFAIR MEANS TO ELIMINATE HIM.....BUT THE DAKSHACHARA TANTRIK WILL ALWAYS ADOPT FAIR PLAY AND NEVER EVEN WILL IMAGINE TO HARM ANY ONE LEAVE ALONE A VAAMACHARI...FURTHER THE MOVES OF DAKSHACHAARI CANNOT BE DECIPHERED WHICH FURTHER ANGERS THE VAAMACHARI.... THE DAKSHACHAARI SIMPLY SMILES AT VAAMACHAARI AND ACCEPTS EVERYTHING, INCLUDING THE WRATH OF VAAMACHAARI AS WILL OF THE LORD.... TO BE A DAKSHAACHARI ONE NEEDS TO BE TREMENDOUSLY COURAGEOUS, SKILLED, ABSOLUTELY COOL MINDED AND BALANCED.... A DAKSHACHAARI SERVES THE WORLD AT LARGE WITHOUT ANY FEAR OR FAVOUR OR EXPECTATION.....TRULY HIS LIFE IS SACRIFICIAL...

ONCE THERE WAS A VAAMACHARI BY NAME SRIKANTAN THAMPIRAN....HE WAS KNOWN FOR HIS NOTORIETY..... INCIDENTALLY I TOO KNOW HIM...HE CONSIDERED ME AS A THREAT TO HIS PROFESSION....I TOO HAD SCUTTLED MANY OF HIS VICIOUS ACTS THROUGH DAKSHACHARA TANTRA PRACTICES...HE WAS VERY FURIOUS... WHEN I HAD GONE TO KERALA ON SOME WORK, CLANDESTINELY, HE SENT SOME EATABLES THRU A PERSON WHO WAS VERY CLOSE TO ME...I ATE SOME OF THEM.... AFTER SOME TIME I STARTED FEELING OTHERWISE AND MEDITATED... I FOUND SRIKANTAN HAD MIXED SOME ITEM WITH THE EATABLES AND SENT... I LEFT TO FOREST... I HAD TO LITERALLY STRUGGLE TO REACH A SPOT.... THERE IS A BIG NEEM TREE AND I CONSIDER IT AS 'VRIKSHA BHAVANI'....I HAD MANY TIMES HAD A GLIMPSE OF HER IN THE FORM OF THIS NEEM TREE.... I PICKED A FEW NEEM FRUITS FROM THE TREE, DID A PRAYOGAM AND ATE THEM... AFTER 2 HOURS I WAS RELIEVED OF THE SUFFERING..I WENT TO THE NEARBY TRIBAL HAMLET...I ASKED THEM TO GIVE ME SOME COW'S MILK, COW GHEE, SOME 'NEEM' SAMITHAS...I PREPARED MILK PAYASAM... I DID A PRAYOGAM OF 'KSHEERAVAMSA'...ITS DONE TO LORD MRTYUNJAYA BHAIRAVA....IT TAKES 16 HOURS TO COMPLETE IT.... THEN I WENT BACK TO SRIKANTAN THAMPIRAN'S PLACE....HE WAS WRITHING WITH PAIN AND DOCTORS COULDNT DIAGONISE WHAT IT WAS...BUT THE PULSE RATE AND HEART BEAT WERE FALLING....HE WAS SEMI CONSCIOUS ON THE BED....I GAVE HIM THE PAYASAM LITTLE BY LITTLE IN THE MOUTH....AFTER ABOUT 3 HOURS HE WAS ALRIGHT....HE PROFUSELY CRIED HUGGING ME....HE LEFT 'VAAMACHARA' AND IS TODAY MORE IN TO A SATVIC LIFE...WE KEEP MEETING ONCE IN A WHILE...LORDS MERCY AND GRACE SAVED HIS LIFE....JAI MRTYUNJAYA BHAIRAVA...

THE LIFE OF A PRAYOGI IS A BEAUTIFUL AND BLISSFUL.... HE MUST BE A VISIONARY AND SHOULD BE BEYOND ASSUMPTIONS/PRESUMPTIONS.... HE MUST BE ALWAYS ALERT AND CONSCIOUS.... HE SHOULD BE NON JUDGMENTAL.... HE SHOULD BE UNCONDITIONAL IN LOVE.... HE HAS TO BE EFFICIENT AND CAPABLE OF HANDLING ALL SITUATIONS... HE HAS TO BE COURAGEOUS AND SHOULD NOT BE BOTHERED ABOUT HIMSELF.... HE HAS TO WORK 24 X 7, 365 DAYS, THROUGH OUT HIS LIFE.... HE MUST BE AS AMIABLE AS WATER AND SHOULD BE AS STRONG THAT WATER CANNOT BE CUT BY KNIFE...HE MUST BE FULL OF LOVE AND YET DETACHED FROM BONDAGES OF ATTACHMENT.... HE HAS TO BE IN CONSTANT COMMUNICATION WITH THE COSMOS AND ACCEPT LIFE GRACEFULLY AS IT COMES.... HE WILL BE AN EPITOME OF SACRIFICE....


AS A PRAYOGI, WE HAVE A LOT OF RULES AND REGULATIONS TO ADHERE AND FOLLOW..... HERE ARE SOME OF THEM....
YOU CAN GO TO ANY ONE'S HOME AT YOUR WILL.... I CANNOT DO THAT.... THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A SELF WILL.. EVERY DIRECTION OF MY TRAVEL IS DETERMINED BY THE NATURE... IN CASE I HAVE TO GO TO PUNE, THE ROUTE FROM HYDERABAD TO PUNE MAY BE VIA BENGALURU... THE TIME OF DEPARTURE AND TIME OF ARRIVAL IS PRE DETERMINED.... THE MODE...WHETHER TRAIN, AIR, BUS, CAR OR BY WALK WILL BE INFORMED AT THE LAST MINUTE..

YOU CAN EAT ANYTHING ANY WHERE...... THIS I CAN'T DO... WHAT TO BE EATEN....HOW MUCH TO BE EATEN.... WILL BE INFORMED AT THE LAST MINUTE... IN CASE I SHOULD NOT EAT, I SHOULD NOT.... EVEN WATER CANNOT BE TAKEN UNLESS PERMITTED....
YOU CAN MEET ANYONE ANYTIME..... THIS I CAN'T DO.... WHOM I CAN MEET, WHEN I CAN MEET IS PRE DETERMINED.. INCASE I COME ACROSS A PERSON WHOM I SHOULD NOT HAVE SEEN AT THAT POINT OF TIME, I HAVE TO DO PRAYASCHITTHAMS....
YOU CAN SLEEP ANYTIME.... THIS IS A CASE OF LUXURY FOR ME..... WHETHER I CAN SLEEP FOR 5 MINUTES OR 5 HOURS OR NO SLEEP IS WELL DEFINED....
YOU CAN WEAR ANY DRESS, ANY COLOUR..... DRESS CODE IS PRESCRIBED AND ONLY THAT COLOUR DRESS IS TO BE WORN... CHANGE OF DRESS IS ALSO PRESCRIBED AS TO WHEN IT CAN BE DONE....
LIKE THE ABOVE THERE ARE 1064 PRESCRIPTIONS AND PROSCRIPTIONS FOR EVERY DAY TO FOLLOW....
HOPE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND....
LORD'S GRACE....

WHO COMES WITH ME AND TO WHAT DISTANCE IS A PRE DETERMINED FACTOR BY THE LORD.... AS A PRAYOGI, I KNOW TOO WELL OF THIS FACT AND IS NOT A POLITICIAN TO BE BOTHERED ABOUT NUMBERS....I CAN'T HELP LAUGHING AT THOSE WHO TALK OF NUMBERS.... THAT WAY I THANK GOD FOR THE ENTERTAINMENT HE PROVIDES TO ME....


A PRAYOGI WANDERS IN MANY PLACES..... HE STOPS TO TALK TO THE PLANTS, TREES, BIRDS, ANIMALS AND HUMANS TOO.... AS HE KEEPS TALKING TO THEM, HE ALWAYS PONDERS ON THEIR ANCESTORS TO FIND OUT WHERE AND HOW HE IS CONNECTED.... SOME TIMES LORD SENDS HIM A NEW BATCH OF PEOPLE TO GET CONNECTED.... THE PRAYOGI WONDERS.... LORD REMINDS THE PRAYOGI THAT ONCE UPON A TIME, THOUSANDS OF YEARS BACK, THEY WERE THE BIRDS OR THE PLANTS OR THE TREES OR THE ROCKS TO WHOM HE HAD DIVINE CONNECTIONS.... HOW MAGICAL AND MYSTICAL ARE THE WAYS OF GOD....

DECEPTION IS A BEAUTY IN THE HANDS OF A DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGI...  HE USES IT EFFECTIVELY TO COMBAT THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF THE DARK FORCES OF NATURE...

SOME PROPORTIONS....

AMONG 125 CRORES OF PEOPLE IN INDIA,
AROUND 100 CRORES MAY BELIEVE IN GOD,
OUT OF THIS 100 CRORES, 75 CRORES MAY BELIEVE IN RELIGION.....
OUT OF THIS 75 CRORES AROUND 50 CRORES MAY BELIEVE IN TRADITIONAL RELIGIOUS ASPECTS OF RELIGION....
OUT OF THIS 50 CRORES, 5 CRORES MAY BELIEVE IN TANTRA WORSHIP....
OUT OF THIS 5 CRORES, MAY BE A LAKH MAY HAVE SOME KNOWLEDGE OF TANTRA.....
OUT OF THIS ONE LAKH, SOME 5000 MAY HAVE WORKING KNOWLEDGE OF TANTRA
OUT OF THIS 5000, THERE MAY EXIST 999 VAAMAACHAARIS
AND
MAY BE JUST ONE DAKSHACHAARI...


April 2016 - 4

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

ONE THING WHICH ANY WORTHY SAINT OR A COMPETENT SAGE OR A TRUE GOD-MAN OR AN ENLIGHTENED MASTER CANNOT COMPROMISE IS WORKING FOR PEACE AND HARMONY OF THE SOCIETY.... SUCH PEOPLE NEVER INDULGE IN ANY CONTROVERSY WITH OTHERS, BUT SILENTLY CHAMPION FOR THE CAUSE OF PEACE IN THEIR OWN WAY... THEY NEVER COMPETE WITH ANY SCHOOLS OF THOUGHT AND RESPECT ALL OTHER VETERANS IN THE FIELD OF RELIGION.... THEY ARE BEYOND ANY BIAS OR PREJUDICE... THEY ARE VERY SOFT AND YET CANT BE MANIPULATED OR POLLUTED.... SUCH GREAT PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS IN CONVERSATION WITH GOD AND BLESSED ARE THE SOULS CONNECTED TO THEM....

A MAN OF PEACE AND CONTENTMENT IS THE MOST JOYOUS PERSON IN THE WORLD....

EVERY ONE HAS A RIGHT TO DISAGREE, BUT IN A POLITE MANNER WITHOUT DISRESPECTING OTHERS.... DISAGREEMENT BY ITSELF DOESN'T BECOME IMPOLITE UNLESS IT IS REACTIVE AND INJURES THE SENTIMENTS OF OTHERS.... WHILE ENFORCING OUR RIGHT TO AGREE OR DISAGREE, WE SHOULD ALSO RESPECT THE OTHERS RIGHT TO CONTRADICT... DISCUSSIONS OR DEBATES MUST BE FAIR AND SHOULD NOT CROSS THE LIMITS OF DECENCY.... APPROACH TO THE SUBJECT OF SUCH AGREEMENTS OR DISAGREEMENTS MUST NOT ONLY BE HUMAN BUT SHOULD ALSO SEEM TO BE HUMAN....

ONLY A BALANCED PERSON WITH ABUNDANT KNOWLEDGE IN THE SUBJECT AND WHO IS NOT AN INTERESTED PARTY IN THE SUBJECT MATTER OF COMPROMISE CAN BE A GOOD NEGOTIATOR

SOME TIMES WHEN YOU GO TO A MASTER, HE MAY QUESTION YOU INCONVENIENTLY TO EXPOSE YOUR WEAKNESS SO THAT YOU CAN STRENGTHEN IT.... THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE MASTER DOESN'T UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE YOU.... HE IS JUST SUBJECTING YOU TO SOME RIGOROUS TEST, THEREBY VERIFYING YOUR LEVEL OF COMPETENCE AND UNDERSTANDING IN THE SUBJECT.... THIS IS A PART OF A ROUTINE EXERCISE BY THE MASTER WITH THE DISCIPLE IN A GURU KULAM....

I WAS ASKED TO MEDIATE BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND A WIFE IN SOME DISPUTE AT HOME.... THE WIFE WAS VERY RUDE AND VIOLENT WITH THE HUSBAND...... THE HUSBAND WAS WELL KNOWN TO ME, BUT THE WIFE I HARDLY KNEW....
HUSBAND.... KINDLY TALK TO MY WIFE AND CORRECT HER....
ME...YOUR REQUEST RIGHT AWAY SUGGESTS TO ME THAT YOU ARE PRESUMING THAT YOU ARE RIGHT AND YOUR WIFE IS WRONG... YOU WANT ME TO MEDIATE BETWEEN YOU AND HER, JUST TREATING YOUR WORDS AS TRUTH AND BINDING ON ME......AT THE OUTSET, I KNOW A BIT OF YOU, BUT I DO NOT KNOW HER.... I AM AN INTERESTED PARTY IN YOUR CASE SINCE I KNOW YOU.... THAT WAY SHE WILL HAVE DOUBTS AS TO WHETHER I WILL MORE SPEAK ON YOUR BEHALF AND SHE MAY NOT LISTEN TO MY WORDS... I CAN UNDERSTAND HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS ME.... SHE IS JUSTIFIED, IF SHE BEHAVES OTHERWISE WITH ME... FIRST YOU INTRODUCE ME TO HER AS YOUR MASTER.... SLOWLY WHENEVER I FIND TIME LET ME KEEP TALKING TO HER, TO KNOW HER VIEWS ABOUT EVERY ASPECT IN LIFE... THEN I MAY ALSO UNDERSTAND HER WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS... YOU MAY BE ON THE WRONG TOO... I CANNOT BE BIASED JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE MY DISCIPLE...I RESERVE I AM A MASTER NOT A POLITICIAN.... I HAVE TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF TRUTH ON BOTH SIDES... I ALSO RESERVE THE RIGHT TO QUESTION YOU BASED ON THE INPUTS SHE GIVES ME ABOUT YOU..THEN MEDIATION IS POSSIBLE.... MEDIATION WILL HAVE SOME MEANING.... THIS PROCESS IS BOUND TO TAKE TIME, IF YOU WANT ME IN THE PICTURE...FURTHER I MAY BE BITTERLY FRANK AND IT SHOULD NOT AFFECT YOU..... INSTEAD OF ALLOWING A LION IN TO YOUR DEN, ITS BETTER TO APPROACH A GOOD FAMILY COUNSELLOR... HE OR SHE CAN HELP YOU MUCH BETTER SINCE THEY ARE ALSO PROFESSIONALLY QUALIFIED AND BACKED WITH EXPERIENCE....YOU HAVE TO TAKE A CALL ON THIS....

I PITY THIS GUY A LOT.... HE TELLS A LIE AND THEN TO COVER UP HE STRUGGLES TO TELL NINE LIES.... I PRETEND AS THOUGH I AM NOT AWARE OF IT, SO THAT HE WILL BE COMFORTABLE IN HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH ME.... THERE IS NO NECESSITY TO HIDE FROM ME... I WILL CERTAINLY NOT EXPOSE YOU8 UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES....

DAY BEFORE YESTERDAY, I WENT TO A SHOP IN GENERAL BAZAAR SECUNDERABAD TO PURCHASE SOME SMALL TOYS, PUZZLES, SOME DRAWING BOOKS, PENCILS, SOME FEEDING BOTTLES, TEETHERS ETC.,....I NORMALLY HAVE THE HABIT OF STOCKING THESE ITEMS AND I GIVE THEM WHEN I SEE KIDS....
THE SHOP OWNER WANTED TO GIVE A DISCOUNT OF 10%...
ME....'PLEASE DON'T GIVE ME ANY DISCOUNT....AS A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE I DON'T TAKE THESE DISCOUNTS'....
HE WAS WONDERSTRUCK...
HE ASKED ME...'HOPE YOU ARE NOT ANGRY WITH US'....
I JUST SMILED PAID THE TOTAL BILL AND LEFT THE SHOP....
IT LOOKS LIKE IN ORDER TO HAVE MORE DISCOUNT PERCENTAGE, PEOPLE INITIALLY REFUSE DISCOUNTS SO THAT THE SHOP KEEPER INCREASES THE PERCENTAGE AND HE DOESN'T LOSE THE BUSINESS... SO I COULD UNDERSTAND WHEN HE SAID THAT HOPE I AM NOT ANGRY.... WITH ME HE WILL NEVER LOSE BUSINESS, SINCE I LIKE PURCHASING THESE THINGS FROM THIS SHOP....



WHEN YOU CALCULATE WITH POOR AND NEEDY, GOD ALSO APPLIES THE SAME PRINCIPLE SINCE YOU ARE POOR AND NEEDY BEFORE HIM....
WHEN YOU MANIPULATE WITH POOR AND NEEDY, GOD ALSO APPLIES THE SAME PRINCIPLE SINCE YOU ARE POOR AND NEEDY BEFORE HIM....

TOTAL SURRENDER MEANS TO LET GO OF IT TOTALLY.... IF YOU ARE STILL THINKING ABOUT IT THEN IT IS NOT TOTAL SURRENDER

COWARDS CAN NEVER 'LET GO'.... ONLY THE BRAVE CAN DO IT WITH THE GRACE OF LORD....

A MAN WHO IS FUTURISTIC IN HIS OUTLOOK TOWARDS MATERIAL THINGS CAN NEVER EVER 'LET GO'.... TOTAL SURRENDER NEVER HAPPENS...

HE POINTED TOWARDS A SAINT AND SAID 'HE IS SINCERE'...
I EXCLAIMED 'SIN SEER?'....
HE SAID....WHAT?
ME...I AM SORRY...I HEARD IT WRONGLY......
LOL

ONCE A SAINT, NEVER QUESTION HIS PAST.....

THOUGH THESE DAYS WE DON'T FIND MANY SAINTS, WE DO FIND A LOT OF SAINTLY PEOPLE....

WHETHER HONESTY GIVES ANYTHING OR NOT, IT WILL CERTAINLY GIVE PEACE....

IRONICALLY BONDAGE WITH A SADHGURU IS THE ONLY BONDAGE THAT PAVES WAY FOR FREEDOM, FOR SADHGURU HIMSELF IS THE LIGHT... HE HIMSELF IS THE TRUTH....

HE SPENT GOOD MONEY ON HIS SON'S EDUCATION.... TODAY HE CLAIMS IT AS A SACRIFICE BY HIM.... VERY FUNNY GUY....

RELIGION NEVER MAKES YOU FEEL GUILTY... EVEN IF YOU FEEL GUILTY, RELIGION HELPS YOU TO COME OUT OF GUILT.... SOME SO CALLED LEADERS OF RELIGION MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY.... THE ALARM BELLS SHOULD RING FOR YOU.... HAVE THE COURAGE TO DUMP SUCH A DEVIL BUT DONT DUMP YOUR RELIGION OR GOD....

RELIGION IS ALWAYS SERENE.... BUT SOME PROPAGATORS OF RELIGION, FOR THEIR OWN SELFISH INTEREST MAY MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY IN THE NAME OF GOD.... LORD IS THE DOER.... NEVER YOU CAN BE THE DOER OF ANY THING.... IF YOU ARE BLESSED WITH INTELLECT, IT IS HIS INTELLECT.... IF YOU ARE BLESSED WITH WISDOM, IT IS HIS WISDOM... IF YOU ARE BLESSED WITH WEALTH, POVERTY, EGO, EVERYTHING IS HIS AND YOU ARE NOT THE OWNER THERE OF.... HE JUST WANTED YOU TO BE A SMALL PART OF HIS LARGER SCHEME OF THINGS.... SO WHY FEEL GUILTY... HAVE FAITH ON HIM.... LET HIM BLESS YOU WITH UNSHAKEABLE FAITH.... THAT IS THE WAY... THAT IS THE PATH....

RELIGION IS PEACE, BROTHERHOOD, HARMONY, COMPASSION AND SERVICE.... RELIGION CAN NEVER SUPPORT AGGRESSION OR AMBITIONS.... TARGETS? IN RELIGION? THEN IT IS BUSINESS... RELIGION CANNOT BE DONE AS BUSINESS, BUSINESS CANNOT BE A RELIGION...

IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT ANCHOR AND PIVOT IN LIFE, YOU ARE SETTING GOALS AND TARGETS IN LIFE.... IT IS JUST AN EGO TRIP.... TRY TO FLY LIKE A BIRD ACROSS THE SKY.... THERE IS NO DESIGNATED PATH OR EVEN A TRACE OF LEFT OVER OF ITS PATH....

SAYEE... HOW GURUJI? HOW TO LET GO OF SELF?
ME.... I DID NOT TEACH YOU TO CLING ON TO SELF.... SIMILARLY I CANNOT TEACH YOU TO LET GO.... YOU LEARNT ON YOUR OWN TO CLING ON... YOU SHOULD LEARN ON YOUR OWN TO DROP..... SO IF CLINGING ON WAS EFFORTLESS, EVEN LET GO MUST BE EFFORTLESS...

JUST BE...

IF YOU ARE THIRSTY, YOU HAVE TO SEARCH WATER AND DRINK IT....

WHEN YOUR THIRST BECOMES INTOLERABLE, YOU WILL FIND WATER NEARBY....

THE TIME YOU VISUALISE GOD IN ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING, YOUR THIRST TOTALLY DISAPPEARS.....

SOME ONE HAD STOLEN HIS BICYCLE.... HE WAS SITTING ON A BENCH IN A PARK.... NEAR BY A COUPLE WERE SITTING ON THE BENCH....
HE.....DEAR, I AM ABLE TO SEE THE WHOLE WORLD IN YOUR EYES....
BICYCLE MAN..... KINDLY PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHERE MY BI CYCLE IS....
LIKE THIS, SAYEE, WANTS ME TO TRACE HIS BICYCLE AND GIVE IT TO HIM.....
ROFL....

A SENSITIVE PERSON MAY NOT BE SENSIBLE.... A SENSIBLE PERSON CAN'T AFFORD TO BE SENSITIVE.....

SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER WAS VERY WELL KNOWN TO ME... HE USED TO DISCUSS WITH ME BEFORE TAKING ANY DECISION.... HE DIED AT THE AGE OF 70 YEARS.... HE LEFT A WILL.... IN THE WILL HE HAD DIRECTED HIS FAMILY MEMBERS TO HAND OVER SOME AMOUNT AND JEWELS AFTER HIS DEATH TO ME... REST HE HAD WILLED IT EQUALLY IN THE NAME OF ALL HIS SUCCESSORS....
THE FAMILY MEMBERS WERE VERY RELUCTANT TO HANDOVER THE SAID AMOUNT AND THE JEWELS TO ME... I TOO DID NOT PRESS THEM MUCH FOR IT WAS A HUGE EMBARRASSMENT TO ME.... BUT I KNOW THE REASON BEHIND RAMASAMY GOUNDER'S INTENTION OF HANDING OVER SOME AMOUNT AND THE JEWELS....
ONE DAY I HAPPENED TO VISIT AARAGALUR.... THERE IS A BEAUTIFUL TEMPLE FOR SRI KAMANADHA ESWARA...THERE ARE ASHTA (8) BHAIRAVAS IN THIS TEMPLE.... THIS TEMPLE IS AROUND 15 KMS FROM THALAIVASAL ON THE ULUNDURPET TO SALEM NATIONAL HIGH WAY.... FROM THE HIGHWAY THERE IS A DIVERSION TO THE VILLAGE...
I WAS JUST SITTING IN THE TEMPLE AND PRAYING TO THE LORD BHAIRAVA.... SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER'S VILLAGE IS AROUND 50 KMS FROM THIS TEMPLE.....
AS I WAS PRAYING TO BHAIRAVA, A SAINT HAS GONE TO SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER'S VILLAGE.... THE SAINT WAS OFFERED SOME FOOD BY THE WIFE OF SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER.... THE SAINT REFUSED TO EAT, BUT WAS JUST SITTING IN A DILAPIDATED MANDAPAM OPPOSITE TO THEIR HOUSE... THE VILLAGERS CAME TO MEET THE SAINT.... THE SAINT WAS LAMENTING WITH ALL THE VILLAGERS THAT SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER HAD LEFT A WILL AND THE PEOPLE OF THE HOUSE HAVE NOT HONOURED HIS WILL THE WAY HE HAS WRITTEN.... THE WIFE, SONS AND DAUGHTERS CAME AND MET THE SAINT.. THE SAINT ASKED THEM TO BRING THE WILL AND THEY BROUGHT IT.... THE SAINT READ THE WILL ALOUD BEFORE THE VILLAGERS... NOW THE SAINT SAID, 'I KNOW WHERE THIS GENTLEMAN (IE., ME) IS NOW AVAILABLE... GET THE MONEY AND JEWELS...WE WILL GO AND GIVE IT TO HIM'.....
THE SAINT AND THE FAMILY ALONG WITH THE MONEY TRAVELLED BY THE CAR AND CAME TO THE TEMPLE.... THEY ALL ENTERED THE TEMPLE.... HIS WIFE SONS AND DAUGHTERS SAW ME SITTING IN THE TEMPLE AND CAME RUNNING TO ME.... THEY NARRATED THE STORY.... WE LOOKED AROUND FOR THE SAINT.... HE WAS NOT TO BE FOUND.... THEY HANDED OVER THE MONEY AND JEWELS TO ME.....
SINCE I KNEW THE REASON AS TO WHY SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER HAD MENTIONED MY NAME IN THE WILL, I WENT WITH THE MONEY AND JEWELS TO THE TEMPLE HUNDI... I GAVE THE JEWELS TO HIS WIFE AND DAUGHTERS TO PUT IT IN THE HUNDI.... I GAVE THE AMOUNT TO THE SONS AND ASKED THEM TO DROP IT IN THE HUNDI....
SRI RAMASAMY GOUNDER ALWAYS WANTED HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN TO PARTICIPATE IN CHARITABLE AND RELIGIOUS ACTIVITIES.... BUT THEY NEVER DID SO AND HE HAD A BIG DESIRE THAT SOME DAY HE SHOULD MAKE THEM DONATE SOME MONEY TO GOD... SO HE WANTED THAT MONEY TO BE GIVEN TO ME THROUGH THEM SO THAT I CAN UTILISE IT IN THE YAGNAMS.... BUT I ALWAYS DESIRED THAT THIS MONEY SHOULD GO TO HIS KULA DEVATA LORD SRI KAMANADHA ESHWARA AND THE ASHTA BHAIRAVAS... I ALSO HAD A DESIRE IF IT CAN BE MADE THROUGH HIS WIFE AND KIDS IT WILL VERY NICE... SO I WAS PRAYING TO LORD BHAIRAVA THAT IT SHOULD HAPPEN....
LORD BHAIRAVA HIMSELF CAME AS A SAINT DIRECTED THEM, BROUGHT THEM AND MADE THEM TO DROP IT IN THE HUNDI, IN FULFILMENT OF MY DESIRE.... I WAS MORE HAPPY THAT THE VILLAGERS AND THE FAMILY COULD HAVE A DARSHAN OF HIM IN FLESH AND BLOOD....
OM KSHAM MAHA BHAIRAVAYA NAMAHA....
LORD'S GRACE...

HE WAS A BIG MISER... SO I TOLD HIM IF YOU WANT TO CONVEY ANY GOOD NEWS TO ME YOU SHOULD CONTRIBUTE RS. 1000/- TO THE YAGNAM.... IF IT IS A BAD NEWS, THEN RS.500/- WILL DO...
ONE DAY HIS SON PASSED HIS DEGREE EXAMINATION IN MECHANICAL ENGINEERING AND CAME TO CONVEY THAT....
HE KEPT HIS FACE SAD AND SAID THAT...'GURUJI, MY SON DID NOT FAIL IN HIS EXAMINATION'....
AS I SMILED AT HIS BEHAVIOUR HE KEPT RS.500/- BEFORE GOD AND LEFT.....
ROFL.....................

ONE WHO HAS FAITH DOESN'T NEED ANY EXPLANATION AND ONE WHO HAS NO FAITH, ANY AMOUNT OF EXPLANATION IS OF NO USE.... JUST HAVE FAITH...YOU DON'T OWE ANY EXPLANATION TO ANY ONE...

FAITH AND DEDICATION TO THAT FAITH ARE IN A WAY MY PARENTS TOO...

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

April 2016 -3

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

TODAY MORNING SOME ONE KNOWN TO ME CAME HOME TO SEE ME.... SHE WAS IN TEARS.... HER DAUGHTER WAS MARRIED TO A GUY WHO WAS IN AUSTRALIA AND SUBSEQUENTLY MOVED TO USA WHEN SHE WAS HARDLY 22 YEARS.... THE MOTHER IN LAW WAS DICTATING ON SPYKE AS TO WHAT DISH SHE IS SUPPOSED TO COOK FOR HER SON.... SLOWLY IT TURNED IN TO A NIGHT MARE AND HER IN LAWS WERE INTERFERING IN ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING.... THE GIRL ALSO FELT LONELY SINCE SHE DIDN'T GET A JOB... THE SON-IN-LAW ASKED THE GIRL'S PARENTS TO COME TO USA AND TAKE THEIR DAUGHTER AWAY SINCE SHE WAS DEPRESSED... THE PARENTS WENT TO USA AND BROUGHT HER BACK.... SHE IS STILL DEPRESSED BUT HOPES TO JOIN HER HUSBAND SOME DAY..... SHE IS AS OF TODAY NOT READY TO DIVORCE... ITS 2 YEARS SINCE SHE HAS COME BACK TO INDIA AND ALL COMMUNICATION CHANNELS WITH THE HUSBAND IS BLOCKED....
PARENTS ARE IN SHEER URGENCY TO GET THEIR DAUGHTERS MARRIED AT AN EARLY AGE, DO ALL SORTS OF MISTAKES.... NOW A DAYS NO GIRL WANTS TO MARRY AT 22 YEARS... GIRLS TAKE THEIR OWN TIME AND THE AVERAGE AGE OF A GIRL GETTING MARRIED IS 26 OR 27 YEARS... THE BOY'S AGE IS WELL BEYOND 30 YEARS... PARENTS ONLY THINK ABOUT COMPLETION OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITY AND SELDOM THINK OF THE CHANGED CIRCUMSTANCES OF TODAY'S WORLD.... TODAY GIRLS OR BOYS ARE WELL EDUCATED, DRAWING FAT SALARIES BUT LACK MATURITY AND UNDERSTANDING TO LEAD A HAPPY LIFE... TODAY DIVORCES ARE BECOMING VERY COMMON WITHIN AN YEAR OF MARRIAGE AND THAT WILL BE A BIGGER BURDEN THAN THE GIRL NOT GETTING MARRIED TILL 26 OR 27.... GIRLS OR BOYS HAVE MANY PRIORITIES IN LIFE TODAY AND IT AFFECTS THE HARMONY OF TOGETHERNESS... ADDED TO THIS THE YOUNGSTERS ARE EMOTIONALLY CHARGED AND HAVE NO PATIENCE TO WAIT OR ALLOW THINGS TO SETTLE DOWN....I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE ARE HEADING?

DONT KEEP DELAYING... IF IT'S NOT WORKING OUT, BETTER COME OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP.... THERE IS NO POINT IN SLOGGING FOR A RELATIONSHIP.... THE RELATIONSHIP IS MORE PERSONAL AND SHOULD FALL IN ITS PLACE.... IN FACT WORKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP IS MORE A COMMERCIAL BUSINESS... IN BUSINESS WE WORK FOR A RELATIONSHIP.... MARRIAGE IS NO BUSINESS... IN A MARRIAGE IF THE RELATIONSHIP DOESNT FALL IN ITS PLACE , ITS BETTER TO WALK OUT AND BE FREE INSTEAD OF SLOGGING FOR IT....

PARENTS OF THE GIRLS OR THE BOYS SHOULD NEVER INTERFERE IN THE LIFE OF THE KIDS AFTER MARRIAGE.... IN FACT IT IS BETTER TO MAKE THEM LIVE INDEPENDENT OF THE PARENTS.... EVEN IN CASE OF ONLY SON OR ONLY DAUGHTER THEY MUST BE ALLOWED TO LIVE INDEPENDENT OF THE ELDERS.... THE ELDERS SHOULD NEVER EVER INTERFERE OR TRY TO GET TO KNOW AS TO WHAT IS HAPPENING AT THEIR END.... THE KIDS NEED TO EXPERIMENT AND LEARN OUT OF EXPERIENCE TO LEAD A HAPPY LIFE... THEY SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO ENJOY LIFE FREE AND THE ELDERS SHOULD JUST PLAY AN ADVISORY ROLE THAT TOO ONLY IF REQUESTED BY THE CHILDREN.... THE PARENTS SHOULD RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF THEIR CHILDREN'S LIFE AND SHOULD NOT POKE IN TO IT, IN THE NAME OF CONCERN FOR THEIR WELL BEING.... IF THEY DO SO THEY WILL BE HARMING THE INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN IN THE LONG RUN....

ALL LONG THE BOY WAS IN MOTHER'S CONTROL.... HE GOT MARRIED....
MOTHER....NOW A DAYS MY BOY DOESN'T LISTEN TO ME... HE ONLY LISTENS TO HIS WIFE....
ME...YEAH.... HE IS TRUE TO WHAT WAS TAUGHT TO HIM.... YOU NEVER ALLOWED HIM TO OPERATE FREE.... YOU WERE ALWAYS BEHIND HIM.... YOU JUST CONTROLLED HIM AT EVERY STAGE.... HE NEVER HAD ANY INDEPENDENCY OF THOUGHT.... HE WAS NEVER ALLOWED TO THINK FOR HIMSELF.... YOU MADE HIM TO TOTALLY RELY ON YOU... NOW HE IS MARRIED.... JUST THE REMOTE CONTROL IS CHANGED FROM YOUR HANDS TO YOUR DAUGHTER-IN-LAW.... HE HAS TO NOW RELY ON HER... HE CANNOT THINK INDEPENDENT OR ACT INDEPENDENT SINCE HE WAS NEVER TAUGHT TO BE INDEPENDENT.... HE WAS A SLAVE THOSE DAYS TO YOU AND NOW HE HAS CHANGED HIS LOYALTY... HE IS A SLAVE TO HIS WIFE... ALL SAID AND DONE HE ENJOYS BEING A SLAVE....NOW ONLY THAT THE MASTER HAS CHANGED.....

DONT ENSLAVE YOUR CHILDREN IN THE NAME OF LOVE... IF YOU ENSLAVE THEM IT IS JUST POSSESSIVENESS AND NOT LOVE.... RESPECT YOUR CHILD'S INDIVIDUALITY AND ALLOW IT TO GROW.... LET THE CHILD EXPRESS ITSELF.... THE CHILD NEED NOT REFLECT YOUR VIEWS FOR IT IS GENERATIONS APART.... THE CHILD COMES WITH NEW IDEAS AND NEW THINKING.... AS A PARENT YOUR ROLE IS TO NURTURE YOUR CHILD IN SUCH A WAY THAT THE DELICATE FABRIC OF ITS INDIVIDUALITY IS NOT TAMPERED WITH.... DON'T ENFORCE YOUR IDEAS ON THE CHILD... ALLOW THE CHILD TO GROW ON ITS OWN AND DON'T HANDICAP ITS GROWTH BY THRUSTING YOUR VIEWS AND OPINIONS ON IT....

DO YOU REALLY TAKE STEPS TO DEFUSE TENSION OR YOU WOULD ALSO LIKE TO JOIN THE CROWD TO PANIC? IF YOU HAVE TO WALK AN EXTRA MILE TO BRING CALMNESS AND PEACE WOULD YOU MIND DOING IT OR YOU DON'T WANT TO WALK THAT EXTRA MILE? THE ANSWER 'YES' OR 'NO' ACCORDINGLY DISTINGUISHES THE 'EXTRA ORDINARY' FROM THE 'ORDINARY'....

IT'S ALWAYS GOOD TO SEE HER WORKING.... WHEN SHE IS FULL WITH WORK, SHE DOESN'T FRET OR COMPLAIN.... A COUPLE OF DAYS BACK SHE WAS COMPLAINING... I VERY WELL KNEW SHE HAD NO WORK TO DO.... THE BEST WAY TO KEEP A DEVILISH MIND AT BAY IS TO BE BUSY WITH WORK...



PEOPLE WHO LACK PATIENCE, LEAVE ALONE LISTENING, THEY MAY NOT EVEN HEAR.... I FEEL A LOT FOR SUCH PEOPLE FOR THEY MAY MISS MANY THINGS WONDERFUL IN THEIR LIFE....

A FEW YEARS BACK A SAINT HAD COME TO THE RESIDENCE OF A WELL KNOWN BUSINESS MAN IN HYDERABAD.... I JUST DROPPED IN AND STOOD IN THE QUEUE.... IT WAS MY TURN AND I WAS OPPOSITE TO HIM.... HE MATERIALISED SOME VIBHUTHI FROM THIN AIR AND GAVE IT TO ME.... I JUST APPLIED A LITTLE BIT ON MY FOREHEAD AND SMELT THE REMAINING VIBHUTI....
I EXCLAIMED....'PAZHANI VILAS'......
ALL STARTED LAUGHING.... THE SAINT GOT WILD AND WENT INSIDE.... HE COULD NOT ENJOY MY JOKE... I JUST LEFT THE PLACE....

IF YOU ARE CONSCIOUS AND MEDITATIVE, YOU CAN VISUALISE THE FACES BEFORE YOU WERE BORN NOW FOR THE 'N' TH TIME......

I CANNOT THINK AHEAD OF YOU..... I HAVE A FEELING LIKE THIS.... IF I THINK AHEAD OF YOU, I WILL START COMPETING WITH YOU.... I MAY BECOME AGGRESSIVE IN THE PROCESS... THIS AGGRESSION WILL FUEL MY AMBITIONS OF BEING AHEAD OF YOU.... IN CASE I SUCCEED IN MY AMBITION OF BEING AHEAD OF YOU, IT MAY RESULT IN PRIDE.... PRIDE IN TURN WILL MAKE ME EGO CENTRIC.... SO I CAN NEVER THINK AHEAD OF YOU.... INSTEAD I AM GLAD TO WATCH YOU PASS BY AND BEING AHEAD OF ME... AS YOU TURN AMBITIOUS, I START LAUGHING.... I KNOW WHAT IS THE END RESULT....

HE MISSED THE DESERVING ONE, SINCE HE WAS BUSY BEHIND THE UNDESERVING.....

SHE WAS DANCING..... A BIG CROWD AROUND HER....
ME....WHY ARE YOU DANCING?
SHE...I AM KALI AMMAN....
ME...IT'S OKAY... BUT WHY ARE YOU DANCING?
SHE....OTHERWISE PEOPLE WILL NOT KNOW THAT I AM KALI AMMAN WHO HAS COME AND HENCE THE DANCE.....
FOR A MOMENT I THOUGHT, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN EASY FOR PEOPLE TO IDENTIFY KALI AMMAN HAD SHE ENROLLED HERSELF FOR AADHAAR CARD... SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN ELIGIBLE FOR SUBSIDY UNDER GOVERNMENT SCHEMES TOO.....

I DONT BELIEVE THE MIND.... I HAVE FULL FAITH WITH THE HEART.... MIND WILL DECEIVE YOU WHEREAS HEART WILL NEVER DECEIVE YOU....

I EASILY GET TO KNOW, WHO TALKS FROM THE MIND AND WHO FROM THE HEART.... SOME TIMES I LAUGH TO MY HEART CONTENT, WHEN I SEE YOU TALKING FROM THE MIND.... I JUST EXCLAIM 'DRAMATIST'.....

RAJEEV SAXENA WAS ON HIS DEATH BED.... HE WAS FIGHTING HIS LAST MOMENTS WITH CANCER.... HE FINALLY BREATHED HIS LAST....
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MY SELF AND RAJEEV WERE GOOD FRIENDS.... WE ALWAYS HAD A SPECIAL CONNECTION.... RAJEEV WAS MORE PHILOSOPHICAL BY NATURE.... IT SUITED ME TOO SINCE WE ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING COMMON TO SHARE AND DISCUSS.... HE WAS ONE YEAR SENIOR AT MY COLLEGE... SO MY FRIENDSHIP DATES BACK TO THOSE YEARS..... ONE DAY WHEN HE WAS LEAVING FOR DOING M.S IN U.S.A., HE BECAME SLIGHTLY EMOTIONAL....
HE...'IN CASE, I HAPPEN TO DIE EARLY, WILL YOU ACCOMPANY MY SOUL TO ITS DESTINATION?'....
ME...'WHY DO YOU ASK ME SUCH A QUESTION?'....
HE....'SOME WHERE DEEP DOWN I FEEL THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH ME IS VERY DIVINE... I HAVE A FEELING THAT I AM CONNECTED WITH YOU IN THE PAST TOO.... THIS LIFE IS JUST A CONTINUATION OF THE PAST... I HAVE A FEELING THAT YOU GUIDED MY SOUL IN THE PAST TO ITS DESTINATION SO THAT ONCE AGAIN I HAD A CHANCE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH YOU...I WANT YOU TO GUIDE MY SOUL IN CASE I DIE EARLY SO THAT I DON'T MISS YOU IN FUTURE TOO'....
ME...'IN CASE, I HAVE TO DO SUCH A WORK, I WILL DO IT THE WAY YOU DESIRED NOW'.....
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JAYAVARMARAJA BHOOPATHY WAS A KING.... HE HAD A FRIEND PHILOSOPHER AND MASTER BY NAME SRI VASUDEVA DATTA.... JAYAVARMARAJA BHOOPATHY USED TO GO TO THE FORESTS FOR HUNTING.... MASTER SRI VASUDEVA DATTA ALWAYS ACCOMPANIED HIM... ONE DAY JAYAVARMARAJA BHOOPATHY DURING HUNTING ACCIDENTLY KILLED A MAN BY NAME KRUPANIDHI.....
BEFORE DYING KRUPANIDHI WANTED SOME WATER TO DRINK.... JAYAVARMA WENT IN SEARCH OF WATER.... MASTER SRI VASUDEVA DATTA WAS A PRAYOGI... JAYAVARMARAJA BHOOPATHY COULD NOT COME IN TIME WITH WATER....SO MASTER SRI VASUDEVA DATTA CREATED A POND OF WATER WITH HIS YOGIC POWERS.... HE POURED THAT WATER IN THE MOUTH OF KRIPANIDHI AND KRIPANIDHI PASSED AWAY......
KRIPANIDHI BECAME A VETHALA (GHOST) AND STARTED HAUNTING THE KING JAYAVARMA.... JAYAVARMA TOOK REFUGE IN HIS FRIEND AND MASTER SRI VASUDEVA DATTA...
SRI VASUDEVA DATTA CALLED THE VETHALA AND ASKED IT AS TO WHAT WAS ITS NEED.... THE VETHALA WANTED TO TAKE REVENGE ON JAYAVARMA, THE KING WHO WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR ITS DEATH.... SRI VASUDEVA DATTA NEGOTIATED WITH VETHALA AND PROMISED IT A SAFE RETURN TO THE LOKA OF THE PITRUS SO THAT IT CAN HAVE A CHANCE TO BE REBORN.....
SRI VASUDEVA DATTA THROUGH VARIOUS PRAYOGAMS COULD ESTABLISH CONTACT WITH THE ANCESTORS OF KRIPANIDHI.... HE COULD NEGOTIATE SAFELY A DEAL WITH THE JIVA PITRU OF KRIPANIDHI.... FINALLY THE SOUL OF KRIPANIDHI, WHICH WAS IN THE FORM OF VETHALA WAS GUIDED BY THE MASTER SRI VASUDEVA DATTA TO ITS ANCESTORS IN THE PITRU LOKA.....
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I WENT IN TO YOGA NIDRA.... I TOOK THE SOUL OF RAJEEV SAXENA AND LEFT IT UNDER THE CARE OF HIS ANCESTORS IN THE PITRU LOKA.....
LORD'S GRACE....
PITRUBYA SWADHAVIBHYA SWADHA NAMAHA....
PITHAMAHEBYA SWADHAVIBYA SWADHA NAMAHA....
PRABITHAMAHEBYA SWADHAVIBYA SWADHA NAMAHA...
AKSHAN PITARAHA.....

HAVE FAITH IN GOD... IT HELPS YOU TO TAKE HONEST DECISIONS... HONEST DECISIONS WILL ALWAYS BE A RIGHT DECISION... IF YOU FEAR TAKING A DECISION, IT MEANS THAT YOU ARE CONFUSED... IN CONFUSION NEVER TAKE A DECISION... IT WILL CERTAINLY NOT BE HONEST...

HE HAD A BIG PLAN.... HE WANTED TO PURCHASE A HOUSE AND THEN MARRY....
HE...WHAT SHALL I DO GURUJI...SHALL I PURCHASE A HOUSE AND THEN MARRY?
ME..TAKE A HONEST DECISION....
HE...I AM CONFUSED....
ME...THEN DON'T TAKE A DECISION ABOUT HOUSE OR MARRIAGE....
HE...PLEASE GURUJI, UNLESS YOU GUIDE ME WHO ELSE WILL?
ME...OK...GET MARRIED FIRST... THEN IN CONSULTATION WITH YOUR PARTNER (WIFE) GO IN FOR A PURCHASE OF HOUSE... AFTER ALL SHE IS GOING TO SPEND REST OF HER LIFE WITH YOU IN THAT HOUSE.... ITS IMPERATIVE THAT SHE IS TAKEN IN TO CONFIDENCE AND THEN A HOUSE IS PURCHASED...
HE..OK GURUJI... I WILL DO SO....
SOME HOW HE COULD NOT LIVE UP TO THIS COMMITMENT.... HIS FAMILY MEMBERS PRESSURED HIM TO PURCHASE A HOUSE.... SO HE PURCHASED... AFTER A YEAR HE GOT MARRIED....
NOW AFTER 8 MONTHS OF MARRIAGE, HIS WIFE COMPLAINS THAT THE HOUSE IS NOT GOOD.... SHE HAS LEFT FOR HER PARENTS PLACE AND SAYS THAT UNLESS HE SELLS AND BUYS A NEW HOUSE AFTER CONSULTING HER, SHE IS NOT GOING TO BE BACK WITH HIM.....
OUR PRAYERS...
LORD'S GRACE....

MOST OF US HAVE FAITH IN GOD... THE FAITH IS BASED MORE ON THE THEORY OF CONVENIENCE.... ITS JUST FARCE AND GOD WILL CERTAINLY LAUGH AT US.....

WHEN BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE EMPLOYED, ITS ALWAYS BETTER FOR ONE TO PURSUE A CAREER.... IF BOTH PURSUE A CAREER AT WORK, IT IS VERY LIKELY THAT THEIR PERSONAL LIFE WILL GET AFFECTED...

HOW SO EVER BUSY YOU MAY BE IN YOUR PROFESSIONAL LIFE, DON'T COMPROMISE ON YOUR PERSONAL LIFE AND THE TIME YOU SPEND WITH YOUR FAMILY....

GOD IS SO BEAUTIFUL.... HE TAKES CARE OF EVERYTHING.... THE ENTIRE EXISTENCE HE TAKES CARE.... HE TAKES CARE OF EVERY CREATION HE CREATED IN THIS COSMOS....YOU SHOULD HAVE UNQUESTIONABLE FAITH IN GOD... YOU ARE NOT SEPERATE FROM THIS EXISTENCE... YOU ARE A PART AND PARCEL OF THIS EXISTENCE... YOU ARE ALWAYS INCLUDED IN THE HIS SCHEME OF THIS... BUT YOU ARE POSSESSIVE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR INTERESTS... SO YOU WANT ADDITIONAL ASSURANCE AND SECURITY OTHER THAN WHAT IS BEING OFFERED BY GOD... SO YOU TURN GREEDY TO PROTECT WHAT YOU POSSESS... IN THE PROCESS YOU LACK FAITH.... YOUR EGO SELDOM ALLOWS YOU TO ACCEPT THIS FACT...

THIS IS A FACT.... NEVER DEAD TURNS ALIVE.... WHAT IS ALIVE TODAY IE., YOU AND ME WILL TURN DEAD TOMORROW.... SO WHY ALL THESE FIGHTS? SO WHY ALL THIS EGOISTIC PROJECTIONS? LIVE LIFE JOYOUSLY WITH OUT REGRETS AND DANCE YOUR WAY TO DEATH WITH TOTAL CONTENTMENT IN LIFE....

I TOLD HIM 'YOUR LIFE IS IMPORTANT'.....
ME...NOW TELL ME WHAT IS IMPORTANT.....
HE...MY LIFE IS IMPORTANT....
HE...GURUJI, WHAT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU?
ME...MY LIFE IS IMPORTANT....
HE...WHAT GURUJI.... I EXPECTED A BETTER ANSWER FROM YOU...
ME....YEAH...I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS.... BUT YOUR STATEMENT AND MY STATEMENT IS ENTIRELY DIFFERENT...
HE ...HOW COME GURUJI? YOU MADE THE SAME STATEMENT WHICH I MADE...
ME... YEAH THE STATEMENT IS SAME BUT IT MEANS DIFFERENT.... WHEN YOU SAID 'MY LIFE IS IMPORTANT' YOU ONLY MEANT YOUR LIFE IS IT NOT?
HE...HONESTLY 'YES' GURUJI....
ME...THIS IS WHERE THE DIFFERENCE IS.... WHEN I MADE THE STATEMENT 'MY LIFE IS IMPORTANT', IT MEANT MY LIFE IS ONLY YOU AND THAT IS IMPORTANT TO ME... I DO NOT HAVE A LIFE OTHER THAN YOU.... FOR A MASTER WHEN HE SAYS 'MY LIFE', HE MEANS 'HIS FOLLOWERS/DISCIPLES/DEVOTEES LIFE'...FOR A FOLLOWER/DISCIPLE/DEVOTEE HE MEANS JUST HIS LIFE'.....
LORD'S GRACE....

FAITH IN THE LORD MAKES YOU FEARLESS .... YOU WILL NEITHER FEAR EVIL NOR SMELL DEVIL EVEN AT THE TIME OF DEATH.... WHEN YOU DEPART, YOU WILL PEACEFULLY DEPART....

WE ALWAYS HAVE SOME CONNECTION SOME WHERE IN THE PAST.... NEVER EVER IT IS POSSIBLE TO REMAIN WITH ME WITHOUT SOME CONNECTION FROM THE PAST.... SOME TIMES IT SO HAPPENS THAT PEOPLE DO LEAVE ME BUT TO RECONNECT ONCE AGAIN IN FUTURE.... IT DEPENDS ON YOUR KARMIC CYCLE.... AS LONG AS YOU THINK AND EXECUTE THINGS WITH THE THOUGHT AND ACTION THAT YOU ARE THE DOER, THE EFFECTS OF KARMIC CYCLE REMAINS.... IN TAMIL THERE IS A PROVERB....
'ENGUM SUTRI RANGANAI SERU'....
THE WORLD IS ROUND.... ANY WHERE YOU GO CLOCKWISE OR ANTI CLOCKWISE YOU HAVE TO FINALLY REACH THE FEET OF THE LORD RANGANATHA....
SO NO ONE ESCAPES.... WHERE EVER YOU GO, YOU HAVE TO COME BACK.... I AM JUST AT THE SAME PLACE.... I AM LIKE SECUNDERABAD RAILWAY STATION... THOSE DAYS I HAD TWO PLATFORMS.... TODAY THERE ARE 10 PLATFORMS... ONE DAY YOU STAY IN PADMA RAO NAGAR...ANOTHER DAY YOU SHIFT TO ECIL CROSS ROAD OR CHARMINAR AREA...SO IT LOOKS FAR SOME TIMES SINCE YOU ARE FAR AWAY... I AM AT THE SAME PLACE... EVEN PEOPLE WHO HAVE LEFT ME, I HAVE NOT LEFT THEM... I KEEP WATCHING THEM.... WILL A MOTHER EVER DISOWN HER KIDS?........N E V E R........LORD'S GRACE...

IF YOUR FAITH ON GOD IS STRONG, NOTHING REALLY WILL BOTHER YOU.... IF SOME THING BOTHERS YOU, CHECK WHETHER YOUR FAITH IS TOTAL AND UNCONDITIONAL....

SHE HAD DIFFERENCES WITH HER HUSBAND.... SHE ABORTED THE PREGNANCY.... NOW THE HUSBAND HAS LEFT HER AND GONE.... SHE IS ASKING ME NOW 'WHY I COULDN'T GIVE BIRTH TO MY CHILD?'....
IN A FIT OF ANGER AND EMOTIONS, WE DO MANY STUPID THINGS IN LIFE...OF COURSE SOME ARE IRREVERSIBLE....

SOME TIMES WHEN I LOOK AT OTHERS, I FEEL LIKE TELLING THEM.....'I LIKE YOU SO MUCH..... THANKS.... ON SEEING YOU I REMEMBER ALL MY MONKEY STUPIDITIES WHICH I DID WHEN I WAS YOUNG'..... ROFL....

IF A RELATIONSHIP IS FORMAL, ALL SAFE GUARDS MUST BE FOLLOWED.....

A MAN OF ACTION IS 'SPORADIC'.... HE IS REBELLIOUS... HE NEVER EVER PLANS FOR HE CAN NEVER STICK ON TO PLANS... HE JUST LIVES THE PRESENT....BUT OF COURSE OTHERS MAY NOT UNDERSTAND HIM... IT IS THEIR PROBLEM AND NOT HIS....

DON'T ALLOW ANY ONE TO FEEL GUILTY FOR A LONG PERIOD OF TIME... YOU HAVE TO COUNSEL THEM AND PUT THEM BACK IN TRACK....

MANY OF US ENJOY REPETITION.... I DON'T.... SHE LIKES SOME GUY AND LOVES HIM.... THAT GUY IS A DOWN RIGHT COWARD... HE HIDES BEHIND HIS FAMILY.... HE WANTS EVERY ONE TO APPROVE HIS MARRIAGE.... CITES HIS PREVIOUS MARRIAGE FAILURE AS A CAUSE... HE KEEPS CHANGING VERSIONS.... THIS GIRL CONTINUES TO BELIEVE HIM... SHE WAS ALREADY IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS IN THE PAST.... KIDS OF THIS KIND CALL IT LOVE.... BUT I SEE ONLY A BIOLOGICAL NECESSITY... DONT MIX UP LOVE WITH URGE..... VERY SAD INDEED....

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO REMAIN SINGLE INSTEAD OF MARRYING WITH A LOT OF EXPECTATIONS AND FEELING DEJECTED AFTER MARRIAGE.... IF YOU WANT TO BE JOYOUS AFTER MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MUST BE UNCONDITIONAL ....

NO ONE SPEAKS TRUTH BEFORE MARRIAGE....
AND
NO ONE CAN AFFORD TO SPEAK TRUTH AFTER MARRIAGE....
ROFL.....

I KNOW ONE FAMILY.... HE EARNS WELL.... THEY DON'T WANT HIM TO MARRY.... REASON ...HIS MONEY.... VERY DANGEROUS FAMILY....

USE YOUR IMAGINATION AND CREATIVITY TO INSPIRE OTHERS IN COMMUNITY BUILDING....

IT IS GODLY AND GRACIOUS TO SEE THE HAVES SHARING WITH THE HAVE-NOTS.....

WHY LIKE, LOVE AND THEN SEEK PERMISSION FROM PARENTS?
BETTER SEEK PERMISSION BEFORE LIKING AND LOVING....

NEVER COMMIT YOURSELF TO A GIRL OR A BOY UNLESS YOU ARE QUITE SURE OF YOUR COMMITMENT TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP....

DON'T KEEP CLINGING ON.... DON'T WORK FOR A RELATIONSHIP.... IF IT DOESN'T FALL IN ITS PLACE UNCONDITIONALLY, HAVE THE COURAGE TO CALL IT QUITS.... JUST DROP IT AND PROCEED YOUR WAY....

KRANTHI KIRAN.... GURUJI...PARDON ME.... IF WE KEEP QUITTING, I AM NOT SURE WHAT KIND OF TRADITION AND CULTURE WE PASS ON TO OUR NEXT GENERATION....
ME... SUCH A VIEW IS THE STARTING POINT IN IMPOSITION OF FUNDAMENTALIST AND EXTREME PHILOSOPHY IN THE NAME OF TRADITION AND CULTURE..... FIRST YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO KNOW WHAT OUR TRADITION OR CULTURE BEFORE COMMENTING.... REPEATED ACTS OF THE SAME KIND DOESN'T BECOME TRADITION.... TRADITION IS SOME THING DIFFERENT... REALISTICALLY SPEAKING TRADITION IS DYNAMIC AND NOT A STATIC ONE.... IT IS SAID IN VEDAS....'SASTYRAAYA CHA SUKHAYACHA'.... SASTRAS OR TRADITION OR PRINCIPLES CAME FOR THE COMFORTS OF HUMAN BEING... SO SASTRAS SAY THAT IT EVOLVES ITSELF IN TUNE WITH THE CHANGES AND CIRCUMSTANCES... IN TUNE WITH CIRCUMSTANCES, THE 5 PANDAVAS WERE MARRIED TO DRAUPADI....IN TUNE WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES SAGE VYASA WAS ASKED TO BLESS THE WIDOWED DAUGHTER'S-IN-LAW AMBIKA AND AMBALIKA WITH DRIDRASHTRA AND PANDU.... IN TUNE WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES BHEEMA'S MARRIAGE WITH HIDIMBHI TOOK PLACE... IN TUNE WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES BRAHMINS LIKE DRONACHARYA, KRIPACHARYA DONNED THE ROLE OF SHATRIYAS AND FOUGHT MAHABHARATA... LIKE THIS THERE ARE MILLIONS OF INSTANCES WHERE THE SASTRAS NEEDED TO BE FINE TUNED IN RESPECT OF CIRCUMSTANCES AND IT WAS ACCEPTED AS A NORM...
SO I STAND BY WHAT I HAVE SAID AND I DON'T AGREE WITH THE STATEMENT OF KRANTHI KRAN ON TRADITIONS AND CULTURE.... INSTEAD OF LIVING A RELATIONSHIP FALSIFIED IT IS BETTER TO BE TRUTHFUL TO ONE'S FEELINGS AND CALL IT QUITS... THIS IS IN TUNE WITH THE PRESENT DAYS OF KALI YUGA (YUGA DHARMA)....

RELIGION IS NOT JUST AFTER LIFE.... RELIGION IS ALSO PRO LIFE.... RELIGION HELPS YOU TO LIVE THIS LIFE PEACEFULLY.... PEOPLE WHO ARE AT THE HELM OF RELIGION ARE MORE CLOSER TO TRUTH AND REVERED ON PAR WITH GOD.... SUCH MASTERS WHO HAVE MASTERED RELIGION ARE THE BEST BLESSED SOULS OF GOD AND CARRY THE DIVINE MESSAGE OF PEACE... IN CASE YOU FEEL THREATENED BY ANY OF THE STATEMENT MADE BY THE SOME SO CALLED GOD MAN IN THE NAME OF RELIGION, HAVE COURAGE TO QUIT THE GOD MAN BUT NOT THE GOD OR YOUR RELIGION... RELIGION SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO BE USED AS A TOOL AGAINST PEACE, TOGETHERNESS AND HARMONY....

GOD IS BEYOND ANY HUMAN LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING..... HE CANNOT BE UNDERSTOOD BY THE INTELLECT BUT CAN BE THOROUGHLY ENJOYED THROUGH FAITH....

SOME PEOPLE ARE PESSIMISTIC AND ARE AN INTROVERTS.... THE FUN IS THEY ARE FULL OF DESIRES... DESIRES WITHOUT THE COURAGE TO ACHIEVE IT, SPEAKS MORE OF AN IMPOTENT PERSON.... DESIRES WITHOUT COURAGE TO ACHIEVE IT, IS SHAMEFUL.... PEOPLE COME OUT WITH MULTIPLE EXCUSES EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE JUST A FEW STEPS AWAY FROM ACHIEVEMENT OF THEIR DESIRE.... THEY ARE SCARED OF THE CONSEQUENCES... THEY WANT TO HAVE THE CAKE AND EAT IT TOO...