Saturday, July 30, 2016

July 2016 -7

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

DON'T TAKE LIFE FOR GRANTED.... EVERYTHING KEEPS CHANGING IN LIFE.....LIFE IS DYNAMIC....IT KEEPS MOVING.... IT KEEPS CHANGING.... YOU MUST LEARN TO ADAPT WITH THESE CHANGES....IF SOME ONE SAYS THAT YOU HAVE CHANGED A LOT, FEEL IMMENSELY HAPPY.... IT MEANS YOU ARE GROWING....

TO UNDERSTAND LIFE, BEGIN UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF....


A DAD WAS SHOWING THE PHOTOGRAPH OF THE PROSPECTIVE BRIDEGROOM TO ME... I WAS JUST LOOKING AT THE PHOTO....
THE GIRL SAID....'DON'T WORRY UNCLE.... IF HE IS NOT OKAY, I WILL DIVORCE HIM AFTER MARRIAGE'.....
THE DAD WAS SHOCKED AND I WAS AMUSED....
ROFL....

HE SAID....'GURUJI, I AM GETTING MARRIED'....
I SAID...'SHORTEN YOUR TAIL'....
I THOUGHT IF HE DOESN'T SHORTEN, HIS WIFE WILL TOTALLY CUT THE TAIL....
ROFL...

GONE ARE THE DAYS WHEN GIRLS WERE BEHIND THE BOYS TO GET MARRIED QUICKLY....NOW A DAYS BOYS ARE IN A GREAT HURRY TO GET MARRIED, WHERE AS GIRLS HAVE BECOME VERY SMART.... THEY SAY WE NEED TIME TO THINK.....
LOL...

AFTER YEARS OF DATING, YEARS OF OBSERVING EACH OTHERS NEEDS AND BEHAVIOURAL PATTERNS, SOME OF PRESENT DAY MARRIAGES DON'T LAST A FEW WEEKS OR A FEW MONTHS.... THOSE DAYS WE NEVER DATED, WE NEVER OBSERVED, DESPITE ALL UPS AND DOWNS, WE ARE JOYOUS AND TOGETHER TILL TODAY.....

LIFE IN ITSELF IS SPIRITUAL, PROVIDED YOU ARE NON JUDGMENTAL TOWARDS YOURSELF AND OTHERS.... FROM THIS WILL FLOW UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WHICH WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE DIVINE...

YOUR SMARTNESS AND SHREWDNESS WILL NOT GUARANTEE A SAFE PASSAGE IN LIFE... ALL SAID AND DONE, LIFE IS UNCERTAIN AND RISKY TOO ....UNLESS YOU ACCEPT LIFE THE WAY IT COMES, YOU WILL HAVE TO REPENT AT SOME POINT OF TIME, WHEN IT DOESN'T MEET YOUR EXPECTATIONS....

BEFORE MARRIAGE SHE ASKED ALL SORTS OF QUESTIONS.... BOTH ARE IT PROFESSIONALS....
-WHERE DID YOU DO YOUR GRADUATION? POST GRADUATION?
-WHAT WERE THE COMPANIES YOU WORKED PRIOR TO THIS?
-WHAT IS YOUR SALARY?
-WHAT IS YOUR FINANCIAL CONDITION? LOANS AND SAVINGS...
-DO YOU HAVE A CAR?
-DO YOU OWN A HOUSE?
-DO YOU GO FOR SHOPPING?
-DO YOU GO TO CINEMA?
-DO YOU EAT OUTSIDE?
-DO YOU SMOKE?
-DO YOU DRINK?
SHE GOT MARRIED TO HIM....
AFTER SIX MONTHS OF MARRIAGE, SHE CAME BACK TO HER PARENTS PLACE... THE REASONS ARE...
-THE MOTHER-IN-LAW ASKS HER TO WORK AT HOME...
-THE SISTER-IN-LAW KEEPS COMING HOME EVERY SUNDAY WITH HER HUSBAND AND KIDS, SPOILING HER PRIVACY WITH HER HUSBAND....
-HUSBAND IS MORE A COWARD AND NOT ABLE TO STAND AND SPEAK FOR HIMSELF OR HER.....
SO I THOUGHT....
IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER HAD SHE ASKED QUESTIONS LIKE.....
WHETHER YOUR MOTHER WILL ASK ME TO WORK AT HOME?
IF 'YES'
THEN 'NO MARRIAGE'
ELSE
WHETHER YOUR SISTER WILL INTERFERE IN OUR PRIVACY
IF 'YES'
THEN 'NO MARRIAGE'
ELSE
WHETHER YOU WILL BE 'BRAVE' AND BE ABLE TO SPEAK FOR YOURSELF AND ME?
IF 'YES'
THEN 'MARRIAGE'
ELSE
'NO MARRIAGE' .....
I THINK HER LOGICAL REASONING AND QUESTIONING DIDN'T TALLY WITH THE PRESENT PROJECT ASSIGNED TO HER....
HENCE NOT ELIGIBLE TO CONTINUE AS 'WIFE' AND HENCE FUTURE PROMOTION AS A 'MOTHER' IN THE CURRENT PROJECT LOOKS BLEAK....
ROFL...

THE PROBLEM WITH LIFE IS, IT CANNOT BE PROGRAMMED.... IT DOESN'T FOLLOW ANY LOGIC.... YOU MAY BE AN EXPERT PROGRAMMER BUT YOU CANNOT PROGRAM LIFE.... LIFE IS NOT LOGICAL... IT IS MAGICAL... DON'T USE YOUR LOGIC AND REASONING IN LIFE.... ONCE YOU COME BACK HOME, IT'S A LANGUAGE OF THE HEART.... MIND HAS NOTHING TO DO AT HOME.... WHILE LEAVING OFFICE , KEEP YOUR MIND IN THE OFFICE TABLE AND LEAVE FOR HOME WITH YOUR HEART....
OF COURSE 'WORK FROM HOME'... THIS IS ANOTHER BIG CURSE THESE DAYS...

SINCE MANY OF US ALWAYS COMPARE AND CONTRAST, I SAY LIFE IS UNCERTAIN....HENCE RISKY... FOR A PERSON WHO ACCEPTS LIFE AS IT COMES, RISK OR NO RISK NEVER MATTERS... ACCEPTANCE OF LIFE AS IT COMES IS THE BEST....

ONLY A PERSON WITH COURAGE CAN ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES.... COWARDS CAN SELDOM DO IT....

RIGHT FROM BIRTH, MOST OF US ARE TAUGHT TO BECOME SOME ONE ELSE.... NEVER YOU ARE ALLOWED TO REMAIN YOURSELF.... YOU WANT TO BECOME SOME ONE ELSE... SO YOU START PUTTING IN EFFORT TO BECOME SOME ONE ELSE... WHEN YOU CANNOT BECOME SOME ONE, SLOWLY FEAR STARTS SETTING IN.... TO HIDE THIS COWARDICE, YOU POSE EXTERNALLY AS A BRAVE PERSON..... NOW EGO SETS IN.... BEHIND THIS EGO IS THE REAL FACE OF A COWARD....

DEATH COMES ONLY ONCE IN LIFE..... DON'T KEEP LIVING AND DYING EVERY DAY.... HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACCEPT LIFE AND WALK THE WAY THE GOD LEADS YOU.....

WE NEVER WANT TO LET GO OF THINGS..... WE CAN NEVER PARDON.... WE CAN NEVER FORGIVE.... SIMILARLY WE ARE NOT PREPARED TO LET GO OF LIFE TOO..... AS WE GET AGED, WE MUST BE PREPARED TO BE WITHOUT ANY LUGGAGE....JUST READY TO LEAVE... THE LUGGAGE OF EGO, PRIDE, JEALOUSY, POSSESSIVENESS, SELFISHNESS, GREED, ANGER, RESENTMENT SHOULD BE DROPPED.... YOU MUST BE FREE OF ALL THIS TO EXPERIENCE A HEAVENLY DEATH.... WITH THESE THINGS DEATH IS A HELL OF AN EXPERIENCE....

DEATH IS SO BEAUTIFUL....EVEN IF YOU DON'T OFFER LIFE BACK, YOU CANNOT HOLD ON TO IT... NATURE JUST SNATCHES IT AT THE RIGHT TIME.... IN DEATH ALL YOUR MISERY ENDS.... THIS PAVES WAY FOR FRESH LIFE....

COURAGE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE.... FEAR IS THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.... NEVER FEAR IN LIFE, FOR GOD IS ALWAYS AROUND IN SOME FORM OR THE OTHER.... HE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU.... HAVE THAT FAITH... UNQUESTIONABLE FAITH....HE KNOWS WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU ... HE TAKES ALWAYS GOOD CARE OF YOU.... WHEN YOU FORGET HIM, EVERYTHING LOOKS DARK...EVERYTHING LOOKS BLEAK....

WHEN YOU LIVE MOMENT TO MOMENT, IT WILL ALWAYS BE BLISS.... ONCE YOU START LOOKING AT THE UNCERTAIN FUTURE, TROUBLE STARTS FOR YOU.... DON'T BE FUTURISTIC.... JUST ENJOY AND CELEBRATE THIS MOMENT... NOW IS THE TIME FOR JOY....

YOU GO TO A WATERFALLS.... YOU GO TO A PLACE OF SCENIC BEAUTY..... YOU GO TO TIRUMALA TO ATTEND BRAHMOTSAVAM.... YOU CARRY YOUR MOBILE... THERE IS A POWERFUL CAMERA... YOU ARE BUSY CLICKING PICTURES AND SELFIES... YOU ARE BUSY TALKING ON PHONE ADVERTISING THAT YOU ARE IN THAT PLACE.... NO TIME TO ENJOY THE EVENT REAL TIME... YOU WANT TO PHOTOGRAPH IT , TO SHOW IT TO OTHERS THAT YOU WERE THERE .... THIS IS AWFULLY STUPID....

IF YOU ARE AN YOGI, YOU ALWAYS KNOW THAT IT IS NOT THE EYE THAT SEES, BUT IT IS THE MIND WHICH CHOSES TO SEE WHAT IT WANTS TO SEE, THE WAY IT WANTS TO SEE, THROUGH THE EYES....

NO CRIME LIKE EGO
NO CRIME LIKE ANGER
NO CRIME LIKE GREED
NO CRIME LIKE POSSESSIVENESS
NO CRIME LIKE HATRED
NO CRIME LIKE JEALOUSY.................

CONTENTMENT IS NOT ACHIEVED THROUGH SUPPRESSION OF DESIRES.... IF YOU LIVE WITH DESIRES AND KEEP WATCHING IT, IT WILL DROP.... IF YOU SUPPRESS DESIRES IT WILL BOOMERANG TO BECOME GREED....

HE.....GURUJI, WILL THIS GIRL BE SUITABLE FOR ME?
ME....DON'T PULL ME IN TO THIS, I DON'T WANT TO OPINE ON THIS?
HE...GURUJI, YOU ARE MY DAD...YOU ARE MY MOM.... I NEED YOUR OPINION...WITHOUT YOUR OPINION, I CAN'T PROCEED....
ME....BETTER DON'T PROCEED.....
HE....GURUJI, I WANT YOUR OPINION?
ME...I SAID IT....'BETTER DON'T PROCEED'.....
HE....WHY GURUJI? WHY?
ME....FIRE AND GUN POWDER CANNOT SLEEP TOGETHER......
BUT HE GOT MARRIED TO THAT GIRL....
JUST NOW GOT A CALL....THEY ARE GETTING SEPARATED...FILING FOR DIVORCE......
FUNNY KIDS....

HE IS A GREAT PERSON....WELL QUALIFIED.... HE ALWAYS TALKS ON JUSTICE, RIGHTEOUSNESS AND DHARMA.... BUT STILL HE FAILS TO IMPRESS ME FOR IT LOOKS VERY CRUDE TO ME WITHOUT MERCY AND COMPASSION....JUSTICE, RIGHTEOUSNESS AND DHARMA WITHOUT MERCY, COMPASSION AND DAYA IS TYRANICAL...

TOMORROW BHAGAWAN SRI RAJAR MAHARISHI'S ARADHANA CELEBRATIONS... ACCORDING TO MAHARISHI, HE WAS BORN ON 27TH JULY 1302 C.E AND ATTAINED SAMADHI ON 27TH JULY 1997 C.E.. (695 YEARS)....
AT HYDERABAD IT IS BEING CELEBRATED AT SHANTA DEVI'S RESIDENCE AND AT CHENNAI RAGOTHAMAN'S RESIDENCE... PLEASE ATTEND AND GET BLESSED.....

A RICH MAN NEEDS SECURITY.... HE NEEDS ARMED GUARDS AND BOUNCERS ALWAYS AROUND HIM.... EVEN IF HE GOES TO A PRIVATE FUNCTION IN HIS FAMILY, HIS SECURITY WILL NOT ALLOW HIM TO BE ALONE WITH HIS KIN AND KITH OR RELATIVES OR FRIENDS.... HE FEELS HE IS ALWAYS AT RISK.... HE IS NEVER FREE.... FEAR SEEMS TO BE LURKING HIM ALWAYS.... HE FEELS, HE POSSESSES A LOT OF THINGS... IN FACT HE IS POSSESSIVE OF HIS THINGS... SO HE NEEDS SECURITY TO GUARD HIM FAILING WHICH HE MAY FEEL THREATENED TO LOSE WHAT HE HAS POSSESSED ALL THESE YEARS... HE IS NEVER ABLE TO SMELL THE FRAGRANCE OF FREEDOM... HE IS CAGED.... I ALWAYS PITY HIM AND PRAY TO GOD FOR HIS LIBERATION FROM THIS SLAVERY.....

HE...I BECAME A MILLIONAIRE AFTER SHE BECAME MY GIRL FRIEND....
ME....WOW....
HE...WHAT WOW?..... PRIOR TO THAT I WAS A BILLIONAIRE.....
LOL...

WHEN YOU ARE UNTOUCHED BY HAPPINESS OR SORROW, THE MASTER IN YOU SHINES.....

IF YOU TOLERATE SOME ONE OR SOME THING, YOU WILL CERTAINLY BURST OUT SOME DAY..... TOLERANCE IS SHALLOW....ACCEPTANCE IS THE TRUE REMEDY....

SHE.... GURUJI, WHEN I GOT MARRIED TO HIM HE WAS GOOD.... NOW A DAYS I FEEL HE IS NOT THAT GOOD....
ME...YEAH, I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS.... IT MEANS YOUR EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT COMING TRUE.... YES DEAR...EXPECTATIONS ALWAYS DISAPPOINT AND HURT, WHEN REALITY DOESN'T MATCH IT.....

TO LIVE A LIFE WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATIONS MAY BE A BIT DIFFICULT BUT CERTAINLY NOT IMPOSSIBLE... JUST DROP THE FUTURE AND ACCEPT THE REALITY OF THE PRESENT...

YOU ARE THE SOURCE OF ALL UNDERSTANDING AND MISUNDERSTANDING.... YOU HAVE TO INTROSPECT YOURSELF TO TRANSFORM ALL MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR WAYS IN TO YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR GOOD SELF.... IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR ANY ONE ELSE FROM OUTSIDE TO CORRECT THIS ANOMALY... YOU HAVE TO CORRECT YOURSELF, BY DEEPLY GETTING CONNECTED WITH YOURSELF.... LEAVE ALONE YOUR UNDERSTANDING OTHERS, YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE UNDERSTOOD YOURSELF.... CONTEMPLATE AND PONDER TO FIND THE TREASURE OF TRUTH INSIDE YOU...

BEING COMPASSIONATE TO ALL BEINGS IS A SIGN OF DIVINITY....

YOU ALWAYS BELIEVE IN CHOICE....HENCE YOU ARE YOUR OWN FRIEND AND YOU ARE YOUR OWN ENEMY.... YOU CREATE YOUR OWN HELL AND HEAVEN.... EITHER YOU SUFFER OR YOU DELIGHT.... YOU FEEL ELATED AND OTHER TIMES GUILTY.... THIS IS THE AFTER EFFECT OF NOT ACCEPTING LIFE AS CHOICE LESS OR NOT SURRENDERING TO THE WILL OF THE SUPREME.... THIS TOO IS HIS DESIRE AND HIS WILL ALONE PREVAILS....

SHAKUNI DID NOT HAVE A CHOICE WHILE ROLLING THE DICE....YUDHISHTRA HAD A CHOICE TO CALL THE NUMBER...WHILE CALLING THE NUMBER, YUDHISHTRA DID NOT THINK IT WAS CHOICE LESS BUT THOUGHT IT AS A CHOICE.... SHAKUNI WON AND YUDHISTRA LOST... STILL THE HYPOCRISY IN US MADE US TO SAY 'DHARMA' LOST....

IF YOU DONT 'LIVE' LIVE (LYV), MORE THE PRESENT, 'LIVE' WILL GET REVERSED AND RESULT IN 'EVIL'.... IF YOU HAVE NOT 'LIVED' (LYV), MORE THE PRESENT, 'LIVED' WILL GET REVERSED AND RESULT IN 'DEVIL'.....

WHEN YOU ARE AGGRESSIVE, YOU GET 'STRESSED'..... REVERSE IT TO BE COOL.....HAVE 'DESSERTS'.....



YOU DON'T GET EVERYTHING IN LIFE.... WHEN YOU GET CERTAIN THINGS, YOU SHOULD LEARN TO FOREGO CERTAIN THINGS.... DON'T CLING ON TO EVERYTHING IN LIFE... YOU WILL GET CERTAINLY DISAPPOINTED....

HE GOT A GOOD WIFE....SHE IS A NICE GIRL.... SHE IS QUITE UNDERSTANDING AND VERY LOVING/CARING..... ALONG WITH IT GOD BLESSED HIM WITH NAGGING IN-LAWS.... HE COMPLAINED TO ME....
I SAID....'YEAH....THIS IS PRESENT DAY WORLD..WHEN YOU PURCHASE SOME GOOD, YOU DO GET SOME THING FREE..... SO IN YOUR CASE, YOU GOT SOME THING VERY GOOD, LORD ALSO GAVE SOME HEADACHE FREE WITH THE MAIN PRODUCT... SO LEARN TO ENJOY THIS DEADLY COMBINATION'.....
LOL....

TO BE GRACEFUL IS A DIVINE QUALITY.... THIS CANNOT BE TUTORED.....

HE.....GURUJI, I SPEND A LOT AND IT WORRIES ME.... I HAVE NO CONTROL OVER SPENDING.....
ME....WHAT IS THE USE OF WORRYING ABOUT SOMETHING ON WHICH YOU HAVE NO CONTROL? FINALLY ONE DAY THE ENTIRE SYSTEM WILL COLLAPSE... YOU WILL HAVE NO MONEY TO SPEND OR YOU WILL HAVE NO LENDERS TO GIVE YOU MONEY.... AT THAT STAGE THERE WILL NOT BE ANY SPENDING AT ALL... TILL SUCH TIME FEEL HAPPY TO SPEND.... LET THE INEVITABLE FINALLY HAPPEN SOME DAY TO STOP IT ONCE AND FOR ALL....

IT LOOKS AS THOUGH YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF THINGS.... THIS IS THE BEST ILLUSION.... EVERYTHING IS UNDER THE CONTROL OF MOTHER NATURE AND NOTHING IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL.... ONCE YOUR EGO CERTIFIES THAT EVERYTHING IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL, YOU WILL FIND THE MIRACLE HAPPENING RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU TO SHOW THAT NOTHING IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL.... HENCE SURRENDER YOUR EGO AND BE UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LORD....

IF YOU OFFEND , ASK FOR PARDON.....
IF YOU ARE OFFENDED, FORGIVE.....

WHEN THE NEW DAUGHTER-IN-LAW DOESN'T WASH HER HANDS, SHE IS DIRTY AND IF SHE WASHES HER HANDS, SHE IS WASTING WATER...
I KNOW THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW IN THIS FAMILY IS GOING TO TURN REBELLIOUS.....

HATRED DESTRUCTS......LOVE IS CONSTRUCTIVE....

IT IS DIFFICULT FOR A PERSON WHO IS JUDGMENTAL IN CHARACTER TO MEDIATE...

A PERSON WHO HAS COMPROMISED IN HIS LIFE CAN TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD MEDIATOR...

A GOOD MEDIATOR SHOULD HAVE SOFT COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND SHOULD BE AN ORATOR WITH OUTSTANDING CAPABILITIES....

A MEDIATOR SHOULD NOT BE AN INTERESTED PARTY IN THE SUBJECT MATTER OF MEDIATION....

INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS HUMBLE... THEY WON'T SEE DIGNITY OF LABOUR... LORD KRISHNA CONSENTED TO BE THE CHARIOTEER OF ARJUNA.....

HE WAS TALKING ABOUT SELF ESTEEM...... I COULD OBSERVE THE EGOISTIC STEAM BEHIND THAT SELF ESTEEM....

YOU ARE NEITHER SUPERIOR NOR INFERIOR..... YOU ARE AS GOOD AS ANY ONE ELSE.... THERE IS NOTHING TO FEEL ELATED OR DEPRESSED IN LIFE.... YOUR MONEY, YOUR QUALIFICATION, YOUR PROFESSION, YOUR YOUTH, YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOUR LIFE, IS ALL TRANSITORY..... YOU ARE JUST THE SUPREME WITNESS... YOU AND YOU ALONE ARE THE IMPERISHABLE, REST ALL PERISHES....

THE WORLD BECOMES A WAR ZONE WHEN IT CONCERNS WOMAN OR PROPERTY..... OTHERWISE THE POSSIBILITY OF RAMAYANA OR MAHABHARATA IS IMPOSSIBLE....

THE FUNNIEST PART OF HUMAN LIFE IS NEITHER WE WANT TO RENOUNCE THE PLEASURES NOR THE SUFFERINGS....

YOU CAN LEARN FROM A PERSON OF KNOWLEDGE....
YOU CAN UNLEARN FROM THE WISE...
AFTER WINDING FOR TOO LONG, WHEN YOU REALISE THE TROUBLE OF KNOWLEDGE, YOU WILL YEARN TO UNLEARN....
WHEN THIS YEARNING TURNS IN TO LONGING....
THE WISE MAN APPEARS.....

THE GARBAGE ACCUMULATED OVER GENERATIONS AND THOUSANDS OF YEARS BECAME KNOWLEDGE....THIS DEMON OF KNOWLEDGE HAD CORRUPTED THE MIND.... THE MIND CONTRIBUTED TO THE SUFFERINGS AND CALAMITIES TO THE HUMAN AND THE WORLD...THE CALL WAS FOR THE MIND TO BE DESTRUCTED....THE WISE APPEARED WHICH RESULTED IN ANNIHILATION OF THE MIND.... THAT MARKED THE END OF KALI YUGA...

ALL THE GARBAGE WHICH WE PICK UP IN THE NAME OF KNOWLEDGE NEEDS TO BE DUMPED SOME DAY.... THE WISE GIVES THE COURAGE TO UNWIND, UNLEARN AND DUMP THIS GARBAGE TO GET LIBERATED FROM THE SLAVERY OF KNOWLEDGE....

SOME TIMES WHEN THINGS DON'T HAPPEN THE WAY THEY EXPECTED, SOME PEOPLE KEEP A LONG AND DULL FACE.... IT LOOKS LIKE THEY TOOK A JAR OF CASTOR OIL THAT DAY..... THE WISE MAN LAUGHS AT THEM AND RUNS AWAY....

WHEN THE CHILD NEEDS CONSTANT ATTENTION, WE REPRIMAND IT SAYING CHILDISH....
WHY NOT YOU REPRIMAND YOURSELF WHEN YOU NEED CONSTANT ATTENTION BY CALLING IT 'EGO'?

HE....GURUJI, CAN YOU DEFINE TRUTH?
ME...ONCE I DEFINE IT, IT IS NO LONGER TRUTH...

THE WISE SITS IN THE MIDDLE AND WITNESSES....

CAN YOU STILL DO IT WITHOUT CLAIMING TO BE THE DOER IN THOUGHT AND DEED? THEN YOU ARE THAT 'WISE'.....

SHE IS VERY MUCH WORRIED THAT HER MONTHLY PERIODIC CYCLE MAY FALL ON THE EVENTFUL DAY OF HER LIFE? WHAT IS THE POINT IN WORRYING ABOUT SOMETHING ON WHICH YOU DON'T HAVE A CONTROL? IN CASE YOU HAD A CONTROL ON SOME THING AND YOU FAILED IN YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, THEN THERE IS SCOPE TO FEAR OR FEEL GUILTY... NOTHING IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL.... IT'S LORD'S SWEET WILL... HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACCEPT IT THE WAY IT HAPPENS....THAT COURAGE TOO IS POSSIBLE ONLY THROUGH HIS GRACE....

THE IDEAS ARE NOT YOURS... IT CAN BE ONLY FROM THE LORD.... EVERYTHING IS ATTRIBUTED TO HIM... HE IS THE DOER.... THEN HOW IS IT POSSIBLE BY YOU TO INFLUENCE OTHERS? NONE OF THE IDEAS ARE YOURS...YOU CANNOT BE THE DOER....

YOU FEEL ELATED OR GUILTY AFTER AN ACT BECAUSE IN THOUGHT AND DEED, YOU ALWAYS PRESUME THAT YOU ARE THE DOER..... THIS TOO IS AN ILLUSION CREATED BY THE LORD.... WITH HIS GRACE, WHEN YOUR FAITH IN HIM DEEPENS, YOU WILL KNOW THAT HE IS THE DOER IN ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING.....

SHOULD AT ALL AN ELDER, FOR HAVING GONE THROUGH HARDSHIPS FOR THE YOUNGER ONES, ASPIRE TO BE COMPENSATED BY THE YOUNGER?
CAN THE ELDER CLAIM THE TITLE OF AN 'ELDER' IF FEELINGS OF INSECURITY DRIVES THEM TO CLING ON TO YOUNGER ONES MORE SO WHEN THE YOUNGER ONES NEED TO EXPLORE AND FIND LIFE FOR THEMSELVES?
SHOULD THE ELDERS BE PUSHED TO A STAGE OF HELPLESSNESS AND CAN NOT THE YOUNGER ONES VOLUNTARILY DO SOME THING FOR ALL THE LOVE AND CARE THEY ENJOYED FROM THE ELDERS?

STILL IN INDIA, IN MANY FAMILIES, AFTER MARRIAGE THE GIRL COMES AND LIVES WITH THE BOY'S PARENTS ALONG WITH THE BOY IN THE BOY'S PARENTAL HOME..... SHOULD THIS SYSTEM BE CONTINUED? HOW ABOUT A SYSTEM WHERE THE BOY AFTER MARRIAGE HAS TO COME AND LIVE WITH THE GIRL'S PARENTS ALONG WITH THE GIRL IN THE GIRL'S PARENTAL HOME? ANY THOUGHTS ON THIS?

NOW A DAYS GIRLS ARE TREATED ON PAR WITH BOYS.... THEY ARE BETTER QUALIFIED AND EMPLOYED TOO.... IN FACT I KNOW MANY WOMEN WHO ARE TOP MANAGEMENT PROFESSIONALS.... IN FACT TODAY A WOMAN SHOULDERS ALL SORTS OF RESPONSIBILITIES.....THERE ARE MANY FAMILIES WHICH ARE SURVIVING BECAUSE OF THE WOMAN BEING A STRONG ECONOMIC PARTNER....WOMAN IS WONDERED THESE DAYS FOR THEIR ABILITY IN HANDLING COMPLEX THINGS.... TODAY A WOMAN IS ALSO MADE AWARE OF HER RIGHTS AND SHE DOESN'T KEEP QUIET WHEN HER FREEDOM IS INFRINGED...... I FEEL TODAY, A WOMAN CAN TAKE BETTER CARE OF THE ELDERS THAN A MAN, WHETHER IT IS HER PARENTS OR IN LAWS OR ANY ONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER.... TODAY WOMANHOOD NEEDS TO BE COMPLIMENTED AND CELEBRATED....

EXTERNALLY SOME ONE LOOKS LIKE A MAN , BUT INTERESTINGLY ON THE INNER, HE MAY BE 70% FEMININE AND 30% MASCULINE..... EXTERNALLY SHE LOOKS A WOMAN, BUT THE INNER IS 80% MASCULINE AND 20 % FEMININE.... THOUGH A MAN THE INNER MAY BE A FEMALE AND THOUGH A FEMALE INNER MAY BE A MAN.... HAVE YOU NOTICED THIS PHENOMENON?

WHY DO YOU CALL A MAN, A MAN OR A WOMAN, A WOMAN? IS IT JUST THE EXTERNAL FEATURES OR IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE WHICH NEEDS TO BE LOOKED AT?

THE LORD IS CALLED 'PURUSHOTTHAMAN'....
THE WORD IS SPLIT IN TO TWO SMALLER WORDS....
-PURUSHA + UTTAMAN....
HERE WHEN YOU COMBINE THESE TWO WORDS YOU GET PURUSHOTTHAMAN....
THERE IS ALSO ANOTHER WAY OF SPLITTING THIS WORD....
PURUSH + OTTHAMAN....
THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED OTHAMOTTHAMAN....
HERE THE OTTHAMAN IS TAKEN AS OTHAMOTTHAMAN....
OTTHAMAN / UTTAMAN MEANS.... GOOD, NOBLE, KIND HEARTED, VERY FAIR IN APPROACH, COMPASSIONATE, DUTIFUL, ABUNDANCE OF LOVE ETC.,
OTHAMOTTHAMAN MEANS...HIGHEST DEGREE OF GOODNESS, HIGHEST DEGREE IN NOBLE THOUGHTS, HIGHEST DEGREE OF KINDNESS, HIGHEST DEGREE OF FAIRNESS, HIGEST DEGREE OF COMPASSION, MASSIVE ABUNDANCE OF LOVE....
ONE WHO IS BLESSED WITH THOSE QUALITIES OF 'OTHAMOTTHAMAN' IS THE PURUSHA....
HENCE HE IS CALLED PURUSHOTTHAMAN.....
'PURUSHA' DOESN'T MEAN THE MALE..... ONE WHO IS ADORNED WITH SUCH QUALITIES IS THE 'PURUSHA' AND THAT IS THE LORD AND HE HAS THOUSANDS OF HEAD ....'SAHASRA SEERISHA PURUSHAHA'..... SO HE HAS THOUSANDS OF SUCH DIVINE QUALITIES WHICH CANNOT BE DESCRIBED.... HE HEADS WITH SUCH QUALITIES.....SO NOT JUST THE MEANING OF MALE OR MASCULINE....
THIS IS THE MEANING OF THE WORD....
'P U R U S H O T T H A M A N'......

Meditation

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

MEDITATION IS MORE OF THE HEART AND CERTAINLY MIND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MEDITATION.... THE WORLD IS FULL OF QUACKS ON THIS SUBJECT... IT'S TODAY MORE A TOOL USED BY MANY TO HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME AND FAME....

MEDIATION CANNOT HAPPEN WHEN THE WAR IS ON....

A GOOD MEDIATOR IS NEVER PARTIAL.... HE KNOWS ALL SIDES OF THE TRUTH....

A PERSON WHO HAS COMPROMISED IN HIS LIFE CAN TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD MEDIATOR...

A GOOD MEDIATOR SHOULD HAVE SOFT COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND SHOULD BE AN ORATOR WITH OUTSTANDING CAPABILITIES....

A MEDIATOR SHOULD NOT BE AN INTERESTED PARTY IN THE SUBJECT MATTER OF MEDIATION....