Sunday, February 5, 2017

feb 2017 -1

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

COMPASSION IS BEYOND GOOD AND BAD, RIGHT AND WRONG, CORRECT AND INCORRECT... LORD HAS BEEN VERY COMPASSIONATE TO US, THAT'S THE REASON WHY WE ARE BORN AS HUMANS... UNFORTUNATELY AFTER BEING BORN AS HUMAN WE HAVE GONE IN TO REASONING AND ULTIMATELY JUDGMENTAL... HUMANITY HAS LOST THE TOUCH OF COMPASSION...

UNLESS IT DEFIES LOGIC AND REASONING IT CANNOT BE CALLED 'FAITH'...
SIMILARLY
UNLESS IT DEFIES LOGIC AND REASONING IT CANNOT BE TERMED AS' COMPASSION '...
I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO OFFER IN MY SCHOOL, IF YOU ARE INTELLECTUAL... I FEEL SORRY TO SEND YOU BACK EMPTY HANDED...
DECEPTION IS A BEAUTY IN THE HANDS OF A DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGI... HE USES IT EFFECTIVELY TO COMBAT THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF THE DARK FORCES OF NATURE...

YOU HAVE TO RAISE ABOVE RACIAL, RELIGIOUS, REGIONAL, CASTE, CREED, CLASS AND SEX, DIFFERENCES IF YOU REALLY WANT TO DO UNCOMPROMISING AND UNCONDITIONAL SELF LESS SERVICE TO THE WORLD... SHOWER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND CREATE THE PARADISE ON EARTH...

LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL WHEREAS POSSESSIVENESS IS CONDITIONAL... NOW YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND...

SELF PITY WILL HARM YOU.... IT SHOWS HOW INFERIOR YOU THINK OF YOURSELF... IT'S A MAJOR WEAKNESS AND NEEDS TO BE DROPPED AT ONCE...

LIFE IS WORTH LIVING SINCE YOU ARE BORN WITH FREEDOM...

LIFE IS WORTH LIVING AND IT'S GOD'S GIFT TO YOU...

RESPECT THE LIFE GIVEN TO YOU BY GOD AND VALUE THE INHERENT FREEDOM ...

FAITH WITH THE MASTER EQUALS TO FAITH WITH THE UNKNOWN GOD..

DO NOT FEEL HURT BY THE WORDS OF YOUR MASTER, FOR HE IS GOD TO YOU....

PROBLEMS ARE PLENTY.... HAVE THE COURAGE AND WILL TO HANDLE IT...GOD IS WITH YOU..

WHEN YOU RESPECT YOUR FREEDOM, YOU WILL OF COURSE RESPECT OTHERS TOO..

DO NOT KEEP PRESSING THE PANIC BUTTON FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING...HAVE PATIENCE.... EVERYTHING CHANGES... NOTHING REMAINS THE SAME FOR EVER....

DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO EGO...
DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO POSSESSIVENESS..
DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO GREED....
DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO SELF PITY...
DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO JEALOUSY...
DONT BECOME A SLAVE TO ARROGANCE....
IF YOU BECOME A SLAVE TO ALL THIS, YOU DON'T RESPECT FREEDOM GIVEN TO YOU BY GOD... YOU WILL TEND TO BE A SLAVE AND WOULD ENSLAVE OTHERS....

LORD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU.... HAVE THAT FAITH.... HE WILL GUIDE YOU...

COMPASSION BEGINS AT HOME.... BE CONSIDERATE TO YOUR KIN AND KITH...

FREEDOM ALWAYS COMES WITH A SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY MORE TOWARDS YOURSELF..

NEVER BE A SLAVE TO OTHERS HYPOCRISY....

A PERSON WHO ACCEPTS TO LIVE A LIFE UNCONDITIONALLY AND WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATIONS EXPERIENCES HEAVEN IN THIS WORLD.... HE WILL BE AN EPITOME OF PATIENCE... NOTHING DISTURBS HIM... HE IS FULL OF JOY... FAITH IN GOD HAS TO HELP ONE TO ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES.... IF YOUR FAITH IS WITH EXPECTATIONS, IT'S PURE BUSINESS AND ITS NOT THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR HIM.... THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS THE ESSENTIAL INGREDIENT OF TOTAL FAITH.....

EDUCATING YOUR KIDS....
MARRYING THEM OFF....
IS NOT A RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE PARENTS.... YOU DO ALL THESE BECAUSE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE THEM.... WHEN YOU USE THE WORD RESPONSIBILITY FOR SUCH DIVINE THINGS, IT LOOKS AS THOUGH YOU WERE FORCED AND THRUSTED UPON YOU.... TO ME THIS IS HIGHLY IMMORAL AND OBJECTIONABLE... DON'T DEMEAN YOURSELF.... BE AWARE WHEN YOU TALK OR THINK ON THESE LINES....

HE FEELS THAT IT IS HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO GET HIS DAUGHTER MARRIED.....
I FEEL...OH GOD, WHY DID YOU BLESS HIM WITH A GOLDEN DAUGHTER IN THE FIRST PLACE?.... THERE ARE MILLIONS IN THIS WORLD LONGING TO HAVE A CHILD... YOU COULD HAVE BLESSED ONE OF THOSE.... PLEASE LORD , DON'T THRUST SUCH PEOPLE WITH YOUR OPTIONS.... PLEASE...PLEASE...

SHE HAS GOT USED TO LIVE WITHOUT HIS EMOTIONAL SUPPORT... NOW HIS ATTITUDE TOWARDS HER HAS CHANGED.... NOW WHEN HE APPROACHES HER, SHE IS REBELLING FOR SHE TOO IS A CHANGED WOMAN.... OUR PRAYERS.....
CHANGE CAN BE BOTH WAYS....IT MAY BE FOR GOOD OR FOR WORSE...OF COURSE , IT DEPENDS ON ONE'S OWN PERCEPTION OF THINGS VIEWED....

DROP ALL YOUR EXPECTATIONS.... MORE SO DON'T EXPECT THE DEVIL TO BE GOOD... YOU WILL CERTAINLY BE DISAPPOINTED....

MATURITY AND PEACE ARE INTERLINKED...IF YOU ARE MATURED, YOU WILL BE PEACEFUL AND IF YOU ARE PEACEFUL, IT MEANS YOU ARE MATURED....

WHEN MATURITY DONS, YOU WILL STOP RUNNING BEHIND.... AT THAT STAGE, PEACE DAWNS...

SOME ONLY KEEP COMPLAINING... HEAR TO WHAT THEY SAY.... LISTEN TO THAT PORTION ALONE WHICH CAN BE ATTENDED AND REMEDIED BY YOU.... IGNORE THE REST...

A MONTH BACK...

HE SAID....'I AM DR. X.... I GOT EDUCATED IN HARVARD.... I AM A KNOWN PUBLIC FIGURE....HOW ABOUT YOU?'...

I SAID...'I AM SRIDHAR.... I AM NOT EDUCATED.... NO ONE KNOWS ME.... I AM A PRIVATE FIGURE'.....

HE WAS BLINKING AND I SMILED AND LEFT THE PLACE....

HE SAID...'GURUJI, I HAVE DONE THE INTERVIEW WELL'....

MY MIND SAYS...'IT'S NOT ENOUGH... HAVE YOU DONE WELL VIS A VIS OTHERS?'....

I SAID....'OUR PRAYERS THAT YOU SHOULD BE BLESSED'...

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HE SAID...'GURUJI, I HAVE NOT DONE WELL IN THE INTERVIEW'....

I SAID...'DON'T WORRY.... YOUR PERFORMANCE MIGHT HAVE BEEN BETTER THAN THE OTHERS...SO YOU MAY STAND A CHANCE...SO NOTHING TO WORRY....GOD BLESS YOU'...

LIFE IS LOVE.... LOVE CAN ALSO BE EXPRESSED AS AN UNCONDITIONAL SERVICE TO THE SOCIETY AT LARGE... DO SOMETHING FOR THE HUMANITY AT LEAST IN A SMALL WAY WITHIN YOUR MEANS OF POSSIBILITY.... YOU WILL HAVE THE BLESSINGS OF LORD AND ALL THE MORE ETERNAL SATISFACTION....

ONLY A PERSON WHO HAS THE COURAGE TO DROP THE PAST AND LET GO OF THINGS, ATTAINS PEACE IN THIS LIFE... REST KEEP GRUMBLING AND ARE DEVOID OF PEACE...

WHEN TWO PERSONS ARE IN LOVE, EVERYTHING LOOKS UNCONDITIONAL.... WHEN POSSESSIVENESS TAKES OVER ONE OF TWO, IT CREATES A BARRIER BETWEEN THE TWO.... NOW MIND COMES TO PLAY.... MIND SAYS HE OR SHE MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT PERSON.... THIS LOOKS REALLY FUNNY.... THE PERSON WHO WAS LOVED DEEP DOWN FROM THE HEART IS NO LONGER TO BE TRUSTED... SO IN THE MATTERS OF HEART, WHEN POSSESSIVENESS CREEPS IN TO ONE, THE MIND TAKES OVER THE OTHER.....

IN THE MATTERS OF HEART, MIND IS THE REAL SPOILER....

REVENGEFUL VENGEANCE WILL ELUDE PEACE.... ONE NEEDS TO BE COURAGEOUS TO LET GO..

PERCEPTIONS MAY NOT LEAD TO TRUTH.... ONE PERCEPTION LEADS TO ANOTHER.... MOST OF THE TIME WE PRESUME AND TALK OF PERCEPTIONS THINKING THAT IT IS TRUTH... THE WISE MAN USUALLY LAUGHS AT IT...

HE SAID.... 'I KNOW HIM.... HE IS VERY GOOD'....
I JUST SMILED....
TODAY AFTER SIX MONTHS
HE SAID.....'I GUESSED IT WRONG...HE IS ABSOLUTELY DEVILISH'....
I LAUGHED TO MY HEART CONTENT AT HIS PERCEPTIONS...

DON'T APPLY YOUR MIND IN THE MATTERS OF LOVE OR FAITH... IT WILL TURN OUT TO BE DISASTROUS....

LONG LONG AGO....
WE WERE WAITING FOR THE SAINT TO HAVE HIS DARSHAN.... THERE WAS A LOT OF RUSH....
HE CAME NEAR MY FRIEND, MATERIALISED SOME HOLY ASH (VIBHUTHI) AND GAVE IT TO HIM.....
MY FRIEND GAVE THE VIBHUTHI TO ME AND I APPLIED IT ON MY FOREHEAD....
MY FRIEND SMELT IT AND SAID....'OH WHAT A WONDERFUL FRAGRANCE '....
HE ALSO MADE ME SMELL.... I TOO FELT THE FRAGRANCE....
HE ASKED ME...'HOW IS THE FRAGRANCE?'...
I SAID...'EXCELLENT'....
HE WAS NOT CONVINCED... HE WENT ON PESTERING....
FINALLY I SAID...' WHY ARE YOU PESTERING ME? IT'S ALL A MATTER OF FAITH...HAVE YOU EVER FELT THE FRAGRANCE OF PALANI VILAS VIBHUTHI ANY TIME ?'.....
LOL...

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ON UGADI DAY 28TH OF MARCH 2017 , WE ARE STARTING A SEPARATE RELIGIOUS TRUST (NOT UNDER CHARITABLE CATEGORY) AND IT WILL BE NAMED AS SRI JWALA PRAYOGA TRUST.... THIS TRUST IS AIMED TO PROMOTE ACTIVITIES PURELY CONCERNING THE PRAYOGA YAGNAS, POOJAS AND ACTIVITIES RELATED TO IT.... FURTHER THE TRUST WILL FOLLOW THE BASIC RULE OF SANATANA DHARMA OF BEING OPEN TO ALL... EVERY HUMAN BEING IS ENTITLED TO PARTICIPATE IRRESPECTIVE OF RACE, CASTE, CREED, COLOUR OR SEX.... THE EXISTING SRI JWALA CENTRAL TRUST AT HYDERABAD AND SRI JWALA TRUST CHENNAI WILL CONTINUE TO FUNCTION WITH THE USUAL CHARITABLE ACTIVITIES...

THIS IS FOR THE INFORMATION OF ONE AND ALL.,..

LORD'S GRACE....OUR PRAYERS.....

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THE ONE WHO JUST LIVES THE MOMENT IS A BLESSED SOUL....

THE MORE YOU THINK OF THE FUTURE, THE LESSER YOU WILL LIVE THE PRESENT....

STRESS ACCUMULATES TO THE ONE WHO IS VERY FUTURISTIC....

JOY IS NOW, THE PRESENT MOMENT...

BY BEING FUTURISTIC YOU ARE MILES AWAY FROM THE REALITY OF THE PRESENT.....

BEING WITH THE MASTER AND BEING IN THE HEAVEN IS ONE AND THE SAME....
JUSTICE SHOULD BE DONE.... CULPRITS MUST BE BROUGHT TO BOOKS...TRUTH MUST PREVAIL....
I DON'T KNOW ALL THIS....
I JUST KEEP PRAYING TO LORD....'MERCY ,MERCY , MERCY'

PLEASURE OR PAIN ALWAYS COMES TO PASS....

WHEN SOMETHING DOMINATES YOUR MIND, IT IS JUST THAT YOU GIVE SO MUCH OF IMPORTANCE TO IT.... THE DOMINATION WILL CEASE TO EXIST ONCE THE MIND REJECTS GIVING IMPORTANCE....

IF YOU HAVE BEEN FORCED, A REBELLION IS POSSIBLE IN THE FUTURE.....

LIKE WIPING YOUR MIRROR WITH A CLEAN PIECE OF CLOTH, WIPE YOUR MIND WITH THE TEACHINGS OF THE MASTER TO FIND OUT WHETHER, IT GOT STUCK TO THE MIND, OR FROM WHERE IT EMERGED OR IT CREATED ITSELF.... SOME TIMES THE DIRT WILL BE SO POWERFUL THAT IT MAY NEED WATER OR OTHER DETERGENTS TO HELP CLEANING IT....EVERY THING THAT CLINGS ON TO MIND ON EVERY OCCASION MAY BE SO UNIQUE, THAT IT MAY HAVE A REASON WHICH MAY NOT BE SAME....

A MIRROR NEEDS NO MORE OF POLISH....
WHILE NO ONE CAN DENY YOUR RIGHT OF EXPRESSION, ENSURE THE COMMUNICATION TO BE SMOOTH AND NON ABUSIVE....

HE IS WEAK.... HE FALLS FLAT FOR OTHERS PRAISES OF HIM....

I AM CERTAINLY CLOSE TO YOU.... I LOVE YOU AND MY RESPECT STEMS FROM THE LOVE I HAVE ON YOU.... I PRAY FOR YOU AND NONE ESCAPES THIS PRIVILEGE...THIS DOEN'T MEAN THAT YOU CAN TAKE ME FOR GRANTED.... WITHOUT MY PRIOR APPROVAL, YOU DON'T HAVE THE LIBERTY TO COME HOME TO SEE ME.... IN CASE I GIVE AN APPOINTMENT AND YOU MISS IT, THE NEXT APPOINTMENT WILL BE GIVEN ONLY AFTER A YEAR....
IF SOMETHING MAKES YOU TEMPORARILY HAPPY IN THIS LIFE, IT MEANS YOU ARE SHORT SIGHTED..

DO NOT USE HARSH WORDS IN YOUR REPLIES AND DONT BE AMBIGUOUS WHILE QUESTIONING.

DEVELOP SOFT COMMUNICATION SKILLS....MRUTABHASHINI.....

BEING WITH THE MASTER AND BEING IN THE HEAVEN IS ONE AND THE SAME....

THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE ALWAYS SAD, LAMENTING DESPITE HAVING THE BEST THINGS IN THE WORLD AND THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE ALWAYS JOYOUS WHETHER THEIR COMFORT LEVELS HAVE BEEN TAKEN CARE OR NOT.... JOY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WEALTH OR COMFORT... IT'S BEYOND ALL THAT....

AS LONG AS YOU CHERISH THE DREAM THAT YOU ARE THE DOER, THE KARMA WILL NEVER DISSIPATE.... SO SURRENDER TO GOD OR MASTER MUST BE UNCONDITIONAL AND GRACEFULLY ONE HAS TO ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES, TO GET FREED OF ALL LUGGAGES AND BONDAGES....

WHEN YOU SUFFER, NEVER ASK WHY ME ALWAYS? THIS LOOKS VERY CRUDE... IT LOOKS AS THOUGH YOU WOULD LOVE TO SEE OTHERS SUFFER.... PAIN IS MANDATORY IN LIFE...EVERY ONE UNDERGOES THE PAIN, BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL...SUFFERING IS BECAUSE OF YOUR PARTIAL AND BIAS ATTITUDE IN YOUR COMPARISONS...

IN APPLICATION FORMS, THESE DAYS THEY DON'T TRUST THE YOUNGER GENERATION....

THOSE DAYS IT USED TO BE BACHELOR/MARRIED

NOW A DAYS IT READS SINGLE/MARRIED....

I WOULD PREFER IT AS SINGLE/MARRIED/COMPLICATED...

LOL...



TO UNDERSTAND MASTER'S SILENCE IS IMPOSSIBLE WHEN YOU CANNOT UNDERSTAND HIS WORDS... IF YOU ARE TRUE IN YOUR CONVICTION AND DEVOTION, THE MASTER WILL ALSO SPEAK TO YOU FROM HIS SAMADHI AFTER HE SHEDS HIS MUNDANE EXISTENCE.... IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE INSTITUTION OF FAITH WITH THE MASTER.....

MANY OF US PRETEND.... PRETENSIONS WILL NOT DAWN REALITY.... PRETENSIONS WILL ONLY AID FALSE EGO AND EXPECTATIONS WHICH BLOOM OUT OF IT, TO BE FINALLY DISAPPOINTED AND DEPRESSED... SO DON'T PRETEND...

EVERY PERSON WHO COMES TO US, ALWAYS CONSIDERS HIMSELF AS A DISCIPLE....

BUT TO US, WE CATEGORISE YOU IN TO ONE OF THE FIVE CATEGORIES....

-CURIOUS ONLOOKER
-CAT ON THE WALL...
-FOLLOWER...
-DISCIPLE...
-DEVOTEE...

YOU WILL KNOW TO WHAT CATEGORY YOU REALLY BELONG TO IF YOU DO NOT PRETEND....


HE IS A FUNNY GUY... HE IS SEARCHING FOR A MASTER TO SUIT HIS COMFORT LEVELS... THE VERY PURPOSE OF GOING TO A MASTER IS TO COME OUT OF THE ADDICTION OF COMFORT AND SEE BLISS THROUGH REALITY IN LIFE... THERE IS NO NECESSITY FOR SUCH PEOPLE TO SEEK A MASTER.... A TRUE MASTER MANY TIMES IS BLUNT AND DOESN'T BORDER ON DIPLOMACIES AND NICETIES WITH HIS DISCIPLES....

HE CALLED ME....

HE....GURUJI, A FAVOUR... ONE OF MY CLOSE FRIEND IS NOT HAVING A JOB.... HE NEEDS YOUR BLESSINGS.... CAN I BRING HIM TO YOU AT YOUR CONVENIENT TIME?

ME...I CAN'T GIVE HIM ANY JOB.... WITH MASTER'S GRACE, WE KNOW SOME PRAYERS.... WE CAN ONLY PRAY FOR HIM... ASK HIM TO COME TO THE POOJA ON UGADI DAY AT V S MURTHY'S HOUSE...

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AS DISCIPLES, YOU SHOULD KNOW THE VALUE OF YOUR MASTER.... WHEN SOME ONE ASKS YOU ABOUT MEETING ME, YOU SHOULD DIRECT THEM TO ATTEND OUR PUBLIC FUNCTIONS....

AS A PRAYOGI, WE HAVE A LOT OF RESTRICTIONS...IN FACT WE CAN'T DISCLOSE MANY.... SO IF I DENY TO MEET YOUR FRIEND OR EVEN YOU, THERE IS A CAUSE... FURTHER I AM NOT A PROBLEM SOLVER... MAY BE, IF YOU COME TO ME, YOUR PROBLEMS MAY INCREASE AND IS NOT ADVISABLE.... I AM NOT AN ASTROLOGER OR SOOTH SAYER.... WE ARE FROM A BREED OF ENVIABLE DAKSHCHARA PRAYOGIS... DON'T DEMEAN OUR PARAMPARA BY INDULGING IN SUCH ACTS.... SO IF ANY OF YOUR FRIENDS WANT TO ME IN PERSON, LET THEM ATTEND OUR FUNCTIONS...LET THEM JOIN IN OUR PRAYERS FOR ONE AND ALL... AFTER A FEW YEARS I MAY CONSENT TO MEET THEM.... IF THEY HAVE NO PATIENCE OR TIME, THEY CAN VISIT OTHER SUPER BAZAARS WHICH PROVIDE INSTANT RELIEF....

A WEALTHY MAN....

HE......GURUJI, I HAVE TOTALLY SURRENDERED TO YOU...

ME...OH GREAT TO HEAR THIS.... BRING ALL YOUR PROPERTY PAPERS DULY TRANSFERRED IN MY NAME.... TRANSFER ALL THE MONEY IN YOUR ACCOUNT TO MY ACCOUNT.... EVERY DAY YOU MAY COME HOME TAKE CARE OF ALL THE HOUSE HOLD WORK.... WHEN SHALL WE BEGIN?

HE...GURUJI, ARE YOU JOKING?

I SMILED AND SAID..'WHO STARTED IT IN THE FIRST PLACE?'....
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TOTAL SURRENDER TO A MASTER IS THE HOLIEST ACT IN ONE'S LIFE.... DON'T USE WORDS WHICH YOU CANNOT IMPLEMENT.... BE CAREFUL IN CHOICE OF WORDS ESPECIALLY TO A MASTER....


IN THE FIRST PLACE HAD YOU VALUED A RELATIONSHIP MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE IN YOUR LIFE, YOUR MONKEY BRAIN WOULD NOT HAVE SPOILED IT.... LAMENTING AFTER EVERYTHING IS OVER, IS STUPID.... FIRST OF ALL IN THE MATTERS OF HEART, MIND SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN APPLIED...


NOW A DAYS I FIND THE PRSENT DAY YOUNGSTERS, MANY OF THEM DO NOT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MATTERS OF HEART AND MATTERS OF MIND.... IN OFFICIAL THINGS THEY BECOME EMOTIONAL AND AT HOME THEY KEEP TALKING RULES... FUNNY...

MANY CASES I COME ACROSS THESE DAYS ARE LIKE THIS....

THE BOY AND THE GIRL LOVE EACH OTHER FOR YEARS TOGETHER.... THEN WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE, THE BOY OR THE GIRL SAYS THAT THEIR PARENTS ARE NOT AGREEING AND HENCE CANNOT PROCEED....

THEY WANT TO HAVE EMOTIONAL WELL BEING DURING LOVE AND WHEN IT COMES TO COMMITMENT IN THE FORM OF MARRIAGE, THEY COME UP WITH SOME EXCUSE....

AT LEAST BEFORE LOVING, A 'NO OBJECTION CERTIFICATE' FROM THE PARENTS IS A MUST IN CASE OF SUCH BOYS AND GIRLS WHO COME UP WITH THIS EXCUSE AS AN AFTER THOUGHT....

CAN WE CALL THIS AS LOVE (UNCONDITIONAL)?.... IS THE SUBJECT MATTER OF LOVE SO CHEAP THAT ONE CAN FLIRT AROUND WITH SOME ONE AND GET MARRIED TO SOME ONE ELSE?

SO IN CASE, YOU ARE IN LOVE AT LEAST TREAT IT AS UNCONDITIONAL, SO THAT EVEN IF HE OR SHE MARRIES SOME ONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU, YOU CAN ALWAYS LET IT GO SINCE PRIMARILY THERE IS NO CONDITION ATTACHED TO IT.... THIS UNCONDITIONALITY IS TO BE TO THAT TOTAL EVEN IF IT DOESN'T FRUCTIFY, YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL DEPRESSED OR DEJECTED ABOUT IT....

HIS BOSS IS IRRITATING HIM... I ASKED HIM TO SMILE BACK.... THE BOSS IS PROVOKING HIM , SO THAT HE CAN BE SACKED... BOSS WIFE'S BROTHER IS JOBLESS AND WIFE IS GETTING IRRITATED WITH THE BOSS..(LOL).... HE WANTS TO REPLACE THIS BOY WITH HIS BROTHER-IN-LAW...

I KNOW HIS BOSS.....

HE IS A PROFESSIONAL FROM STANFORD....

I LAUGH AT THIS....TOTAL WASTE OF ONE SEAT...IT COULD HAVE GONE TO A BETTER DESERVING CANDIDATE..

HIS WIFE IS A BETTER MANAGER THAN THIS STANFORD GENTLEMAN, THAT TOO WITH A NORMAL COLLEGE DEGREE FROM HYDERABAD.......LOL


BE COMMITTED WITH WHATEVER YOU DO.... DO IT PRECISELY WITH ALL ZEAL.... COMPLETE THE WORK WITH DUE DILIGENCE IN THE SET TIME....

HAVE COURAGE TO SAY 'WE HAVE DONE IT'....

I SEE A GROWING LEADER IN YOU....

JUST BECAUSE OF ONE MISSPELLING OF ONE LETTER THIS BOOK SOLD A MILLION COPIES IN NO TIME...

THE BOOK WAS TO BE TITLED 'HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?'

BUT

IT WAS PRINTED AS 'HOW TO CHANGE YOUR WIFE?'....

LOL




'I DON'T WANT TO LIVE IN A RENTED HOUSE'...
'I DON'T WANT MY PARENTS AND SIBLINGS TO LIVE IN A RENTED APARTMENT'...
'I HAVE GOT A GOOD JOB... SO I CAN PURCHASE A HOUSE TAKING BANK LOAN'
'PROPERTY PRICES WILL SPIRAL UP....I MAY NOT BE ABLE TO PURCHASE IN FUTURE'...
'SINCE MY WIFE IS ALSO WELL EMPLOYED, HER SALARY CAN GO TOWARDS EMIs AND MY SALARY IS ENOUGH TO MANAGE THE SHOW COMFORTABLY'....


ALL THESE REASONS ARE SHALLOW AND YOU MAY BE IN TROUBLE IN FUTURE IF YOU TOW THESE LINES....




WHEN YOU START MOVING TOWARDS THE PEAK IN YOUR PROFESSIONAL LIFE, YOU MUST ALSO BE AWARE THAT YOU CAN'T MAKE A LIFE IN THE PEAK ETERNALLY..... YOU MAY HAVE TO SCALE DOWN TO THE VALLEY... PEAK IS ALWAYS AGGRESSIVE....VALLEY IS ALWAYS PEACEFUL....




ONE NEEDS TO BE BALANCED....MONEY, POWER AND STATUS IN LIFE IS TEMPORARY.




I KNOW A GIRL.... SHE WAS HAPPY IN BENGALURU.... SHE GOT MARRIED AND LEFT TO KOLKOTA... HER HUSBAND IS A NICE CHAP BUT IS VERY SOBER BY NATURE.... THOUGH HE EARNS WELL, MOST OF HIS INCOME IS SPENT ON EMIs ON LOANS HE BORROWED BEFORE HIS MARRIAGE.... EVEN OUR ELDERS ARE TO BE BLAMED... ONCE A BOY STARTS EARNING WELL, IN THE NAME OF FUTURE, SECURITY AND SAVINGS, THEY MAKE THEM TO INVEST IN PROPERTIES WHICH MAY BE BEYOND THE FINANCIAL CAPACITY OF THE PERSON... HE ALSO JUST PLAYED ALONG WITH HIS ELDERS TO COMMIT HIMSELF.... IF YOU ARE GOING TO START LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE WITH A BIG MINUS, WHAT CHARM YOU WILL HAVE TO ENJOY THE EARLY FEW YEARS OF MARRIAGE? THE ELDERS HAVE TO THINK MORE ON THIS BEFORE MAKING THEIR KIDS TO COMMIT FOR SUCH EXPENSES...WHAT IS WRONG IN LIVING IN A RENTED HOUSE FOR SOME TIME OR AT LEAST WHEN THE BOY FEELS COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO TAKE SUCH LEAP... FURTHER TODAY IN INDIA JOBS ARE NOT GUARANTEED FOR LIFE.. ANY TIME YOU WILL BE REPLACED IN THE NAME OF CURBING COSTS... ADDING TO THIS SHE HAS THE PROBLEMS OF HER PARENTS.... HER DAD IS IN SERIOUS FINANCIAL CRISIS.... SHE KEEPS WORRYING ALL THE TIME ABOUT ALL THIS AND IT HAS A TELLING EFFECT ON HER HEALTH... VERY SAD INDEED....OUR PRAYERS....


LEARN TO PRACTICE SMALL AND SIMPLE GESTURES TO KEEP OTHERS HAPPY....

WHEN YOU LOOK AT ME, YOU JUST LOOK AT ME....WHEN I LOOK AT YOU, I LOOK THROUGH YOU, ON TO YOUR FOREFATHERS... WHEN YOU PROSTRATE ME, I PROSTRATE YOUR FOREFATHERS WHO HAVE COME TO ME IN YOUR FORM...I ALWAYS OFFER MY HEARTFELT THANKS TO YOU FOR HAVING INTRODUCED YOUR FOREFATHERS THROUGH YOU...... PITRUS/MANES/FOREFATHERS BLESSINGS IS A MUST TO LIVE A PEACEFUL LIFE IN THIS WORLD.... SO KEEP ALWAYS PRAYING TO THEM... ADORE THEM....