Friday, March 31, 2017

March 2017 - 6

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

TO BE HUMBLE IS DIVINE.....

INTROSPECT YOURSELF.... DROP INSPECTING OTHERS.... DROP THE IDEA OF GOING IN TO EXTREMES.... CHOOSE THE MIDDLE PATH.....YOU WILL BE MORE AT PEACE.... WHEN YOU ARE PEACEFUL, YOU WILL ALLOW OTHERS TO BE PEACEFUL...

YOU HAVE TO PLOUGH DEEP WITHIN YOURSELF TO REALISE THE TRUTH...

IF YOU KEEP ON GRUMBLING WITH SELF PITY IN LIFE, A DAY WILL COME, WHEN NO ONE WILL BE SENSITIVE IN RESPONSE TO YOUR FEELINGS.... THIS WILL CERTAINLY LEAD TO MORE SELF PITY AND DEPRESSION....

WHEN A VAAMAACHAARI IS SO INTENSE AT HARMING THE PEOPLE AT LARGE, WHY AS A DAKSHAACHAARI, I SHOULD NOT BE INTENSE AT  PROTECTING THE PEOPLE? WE BOTH ARE TWO POLES APART.... AS A DAKSHAACHAARI, OUR FIGHT AGAINST THE EVIL WILL CONTINUE TILL OUR LAST BREATH...

EVERY DAY THE MOOD SWINGS.... MOOD IS RELATED TO MIND.... MIND IS CHANDRA (MOON).... THE MOON WAXES FOR 15 DAYS TO BECOME FULL MOON AND WANES THE REST 15 DAYS TO BECOME NEW MOON...SO ONE DAY IN A MONTH MIND IS BALANCED (FULL MOON), WHEREAS ONE DAY IN A MONTH IT IS TOTALLY IMBALANCED (NEW MOON)... IT IS BELIEVED THAT MOOD SWINGS HAPPEN DUE TO LUNAR MOVEMENTS.... INTERESTINGLY THE WORD 'LUNATIC' IN ENGLISH LOOKS TO HAVE ORIGINATED FROM 'LUNAR' (MOON).

TRUTH CAN ONLY BE EXPERIENCED AND CANNOT BE EXPRESSED.... ONCE YOU START DEFINING TRUTH WITH WORDS, YOU WILL BE FAR AWAY FROM IT....

EVERY DAY THE MOOD SWINGS.... MOOD IS RELATED TO MIND.... MIND IS CHANDRA (MOON).... THE MOON WAXES FOR 15 DAYS TO BECOME FULL MOON AND WANES THE REST 15 DAYS TO BECOME NEW MOON...SO ONE DAY IN A MONTH MIND IS BALANCED (FULL MOON), WHEREAS ONE DAY IN A MONTH IT IS TOTALLY IMBALANCED (NEW MOON)... IT IS BELIEVED THAT MOOD SWINGS HAPPEN DUE TO LUNAR MOVEMENTS.... INTERESTINGLY THE WORD 'LUNATIC' IN ENGLISH LOOKS TO HAVE ORIGINATED FROM 'LUNAR' (MOON).

MOTHER IS FULL OF EMOTIONS.....EMOTIONS ARE MOON.... SEA WAVES DURING FULL MOON IS PARA NORMAL AND DURING NEW MOON IS ABNORMAL..... SINCE EMOTIONS KEEP CHANGING THE FEMALE MOTHER IS COMPARED TO IT.... MOTHER EXHIBITS HER EMOTIONS IN DIFFERENT WAYS DEPENDING ON SITUATIONS.....

THE MASTER IS COMPARED TO FULL MOON..... THOUGH EMOTIONAL, HE IS TOTALLY BALANCED... HENCE WE CELEBRATE HIS DAY CALLED 'GURU POORNIMA'..... HE IS ALSO A MOTHER AND HENCE 'POORNI-MA'....


Monday, March 27, 2017

March 2017 -5

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

IF YOU KEEP ON GRUMBLING WITH SELF PITY IN LIFE, A DAY WILL COME, WHEN NO ONE WILL BE SENSITIVE IN RESPONSE TO YOUR FEELINGS.... THIS WILL CERTAINLY LEAD TO MORE SELF PITY AND DEPRESSION....

IF YOUR MEMORY IS POOR ON SOME ISSUE, IT MEANS YOU HAVE NO OR LESSER INTEREST IN THAT SUBJECT MATTER...

LIFE BECOMES A CELEBRATION IF IT IS UNCONDITIONAL OTHERWISE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SLAVE TO THOSE CONDITIONS AND CAN NEVER ENJOY FREEDOM IN LIFE...

DESPITE GETTING THE BEST IN LIFE, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO FEEL DISSATISFIED.... SUCH PEOPLE WHETHER YOUNG OR OLD DON'T DESERVE ANY SYMPATHY.... JUST LEARN TO IGNORE THEIR COMMENTS AND MOVE ON.... WHEN THEY COMMENT, JUST HEAR, DON'T LISTEN AND SPOIL YOUR DAY...
DO YOUR DUTY WITH LOVE.... DUTY WITHOUT LOVE IS TRASH..... DESPITE YOUR PERFORMING THE DUTY WITH LOVE, IN CASE SOME KEEP LAMENTING, JUST LEARN TO IGNORE THEIR COMMENTS.... IT'S POSSIBLE TO SATISFY ONE'S NEED BUT IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO SATISFY ONE'S GREED....


IF YOU ARE COURAGEOUS AND INTERNALLY STRONG, YOU WILL GUIDE OTHERS TO BE SO....
IF YOU ARE COWARD AND INTERNALLY WEAK, YOU WILL GUIDE OTHERS TO BE NOT SO....
THE BEAUTY OF NATURE IS YOU ARE ALWAYS USEFUL HOW SO EVER YOU ARE, TEACHING HOW TO BE OR HOW NOT TO BE....

WHEN YOU ARE TREMENDOUSLY FILLED WITH JOY, YOU WILL SPREAD THE FRAGRANCE OF PEACE AMONG ALL....

IF YOU ARE DISSATISFIED WITH YOUR LIFE, EMPATHY AND SYMPATHY FOR OTHERS WILL JUST BE A PRETENSION.... YOU WILL BE DUPING YOURSELF....

YOUR DUTY IS TOWARDS YOURSELF FIRST.... EVERYTHING BEGINS WITH YOU.... UNLESS YOU ARE HAPPY , YOU CANNOT MAKE OTHERS HAPPY... IF YOU ARE NOT CONTENDED AND HAPPY, YOU WILL MAKE OTHERS LIFE MISERABLE... SO FIRST SEARCH FOR YOUR HAPPINESS... THEN COMES THE FAMILY, SOCIETY, NATION AND THE WORLD...

YOU ARE ALONE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE.... YOU CANNOT HOLD OTHERS RESPONSIBLE FOR THINGS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE... TAKE TOTAL CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.... DON'T ALLOW ANY ONE TO INTERFERE HOW SO EVER CLOSE THEY MAY BE TO YOU.... NO ONE CAN THINK BETTER ABOUT YOUR LIFE THAN YOU....

YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS TO INTERFERE IN OTHERS PERSONAL LIFE.... LET THEM WALK THEIR PATH...

LEARN TO RESPECT THE FREEDOM OF OTHERS... ALLOW THEM TO TAKE DECISIONS AND OWN RESPONSIBILITY.... THEY TOO HAVE THEIR OWN ASPIRATIONS AND DON'T STAND IN THEIR WAY OF ACHIEVEMENT, CONDITIONING THEM AS TO WHAT THEY HAVE TO DO OR NOT TO DO....

BE CALM AND DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.... AGITATION COMES BECAUSE OF EXPECTATIONS.... NEITHER YOU NEED TO ALTER YOUR PLANS NOR YOU NEED TO EXPECT OTHERS TO TOE YOUR LINE.....

LIFE BECOMES A CELEBRATION IF IT IS UNCONDITIONAL OTHERWISE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SLAVE TO THOSE CONDITIONS AND CAN NEVER ENJOY FREEDOM IN LIFE...

DON'T YIELD TO EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILS.... BE STRONG IN YOUR CONVICTIONS....

DON'T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME TRYING TO DEFEND YOURSELF WITH THOSE WHO HAVE NO TRUST IN YOU....
ALLOW LIFE TO POSSESS YOU FOR YOU CANNOT POSSESS LIFE....
EVEN IF YOU CAN'T DROP THE PAST, AT LEAST ATTEMPT TO DROP THE UNPLEASANT PAST....

THE COURAGEOUS DROP THE PAST .... THE COWARDS CLING ON TO IT....

DROP THE PAST AND STEP IN TO THE PRESENT..... THE OLD HAS WITHERED AWAY AND NEW ONE HAS ARRIVED...ADOPT NEW IDEAS AND DROP THE OLD ONES....

JOYOUS UGADI TO ALL OF YOU.....
BE FOCUSSED IN WHAT YOU DO....
HAVING MANY PRIORITIES IN LIFE IS JUST LIKE RUNNING BEHIND MANY RABBITS AND FINALLY CATCHING NONE....
NEVER ATTEMPT TO UNDERSTAND THE MASTER'S ACTIONS FOR YOU CAN NEVER DECIPHER IT..... YOU CAN AT BEST LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY AND BE A PART OF HIS MISSION...
WITH A MASTER COLLECTIVITY ALONE WORKS AND HE WILL REJECT SELECTIVITY....
I DON'T COMPROMISE ON PRAYOGA.... NEVER COMPROMISE ON MATTERS IN WHICH YOU HAVE ETERNAL LONGING OR INTEREST....
DON'T FALL A TRAP TO THE VICIOUS MIND.... MIND IS DANGEROUS.... IT COMPARES....
MIND IS ALWAYS SUSPICIOUS.... MIND IS ALSO AGGRESSIVE....VERY RARELY MIND IS CALM....
HEART KNOWS NO SUSPICION.... HEART IS NEVER AGGRESSIVE...
HEART IS ALWAYS JOYOUS...

COMMUNICATION CHANNELS HAVE IMPROVED DUE TO INNOVATIONS......BETTER COMMUNICATION SHOULD HAVE BROUGHT IN BETTER UNDERSTANDING AND EVER LASTING PEACE AMONG THOSE WHO COMMUNICATE...IN REALITY WE FIND THESE DAYS BETTER MODES OF COMMUNICATION HAS ALSO LEAD TO SOME SORT OF CHAOS AND CONFUSION.... IT SOME TIMES SPOILS INTER PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP... COMMUNICATION TRANSFORMS IN TO MISCOMMUNICATION.
SO I FEEL SOME TIMES  ......'CELL PHONE.....SELL PHONE' TO HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIP AND PEACE AMONG EVERY ONE...

THE STRUGGLES IN LIFE SHOULD BRING BETTER MATURITY IN YOU AND SELF PITY SHOULD NOT TAKE OVER YOU.... ONE NEEDS TO BE WEDDED TO PATIENCE IN LIFE TO LEARN OUT OF STRUGGLES.... YOU CAN'T ASK QUESTIONS LIKE, ' HOW LONG SHOULD I STRUGGLE?'.... THAT ATTITUDE SHOWS THAT YOU ARE BECOMING IMPATIENT WITH YOUR LIFE.... THIS WILL LEAD TO ANGER, FRUSTRATION AND FINALLY DEPRESSION....

I HAVE OBSERVED MANY PEOPLE GOING TO TEMPLES, OFFERING PRAYERS.... SOME RECITE SLOKAS AND STOTRAS AT HOME.... SOME DO YOGA AND MEDITATION..... SOME ATTEND DISCOURSES OF SAINTS, SEERS AND GURUS..... THESE THEY HAVE BEEN DOING FOR DECADES..... NORMALLY THIS COMBINED WITH THEIR DAY TO DAY EXPERIENCES SHOULD HAVE CALMED THEM DOWN.... IT SHOULD HAVE CALMED THEIR MIND TO ACCEPT EVERYTHING AS A GIFT OF GOD... THE REALITY IS GROSSLY DIFFERENT.... MANY OF THESE   ARE FULL OF EGO, PRIDE, GREED, POSSESSIVENESS, JEALOUSY ETC., ....SOME TIMES THEY ARE FULL OF ANGER, RESENTMENT AND SELF PITY.......

WHEN I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE, I FEEL ALL THE PRACTICES DONE OVER THE YEARS HAS NOT BROUGHT THE DESIRED MATURITY LEVELS TO ACCEPT THE LORD IN ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING.... IT LOOKS THEY HAVE BEEN DOING THESE PRACTICES MECHANICALLY AND THESE ARE JUST EGO TRIPS IN THEIR LIFE TO BOAST OF.... THE ENTIRE LIFE OF SUCH PEOPLE IS PSEUDO AND ONE LIFE HAS BEEN TOTALLY WASTED....

OF COURSE, WHO CAN QUESTION THE LORD OF HIS DESIGNS? HENCE  THAT TOO IS LORD'S WILL AND LORD HAS HIS OWN WAYS TO TEACH OTHERS 'HOW NOT TO BE OR BEHAVE'...
OUR PRAYERS....


THE ENEMY IS NOT OUTSIDE .... HE RESIDES INSIDE..... EGO, PRIDE, JEALOUSY, SELF PITY, ANGER, RESENTMENT, POSSESSIVENESS, QUARRELS ETC., ALL THESE ARE DREADED ENEMIES INSIDE YOU.... BE ALERT TO DEFEAT THEM... WAGE A WAR WITH THEM AND UPROOT THEM TOTALLY...IF NOT YOU WILL NEVER BE AT PEACE....

SOME TIMES I FIND ELDERS VERY CAUSTIC IN THEIR CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUNGSTERS.... THIS IS A VERY SORRY STATE OF AFFAIRS... AN ELDER WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE MATURED AND SET AN EXAMPLE AS TO HOW TO BE TURNS OUT TO BE HOW NOT TO BE...


LEARN TO DO YOUR DUTY WITH LOVE AND ZEAL...  DON'T EXPECT RETURNS.... YOU CAN SEE MIRACLES HAPPENING TO YOU ....



OTHERS BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS YOU CANNOT BE AN INDEX OF HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE.... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE EXPECTATIONS OF OTHERS REACTION TO YOU, YOU WILL BE MORE JOYOUS IN LIFE.... YOU WILL BE USEFUL TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS.... BEING USEFUL TO OTHERS WILL GIVE YOU IMMENSE HAPPINESS... PRIMARILY, FOR THAT TO HAPPEN YOU HAVE TO DEVELOP A 'DONT-BOTHER-ATTITUDE' TOWARDS LIFE AND BE JOYOUS....

UNLESS YOU LEARN TO DROP UNPLEASANT MOMENTS OF THE PAST IN LIFE, NEITHER YOU NOR OTHERS AROUND YOU CAN BE PEACEFUL.... WHATEVER MAY BE THE JUSTIFICATION GIVEN FOR YOUR LAMENTATION, YOU ARE DOING A GROSS INJUSTICE TO THE PRESENT MOMENT....

OVER GENERATIONS YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD TO LIVE WITHOUT FEELINGS TO REACH GOD.... YOU HAVE BEEN CONDITIONED TO THAT EXTENT THAT YOU WERE MADE TO FEEL GUILTY IF YOU LIVE WITH FEELINGS..... TO ME,THIS IS NEXT TO ABSURDITY..... I WON'T ADVOCATE YOU TO TOE SUCH AN ABSURDITY.... WITHOUT FEELINGS FOR GOD, YOU CANNOT REALISE HIM.... LOVE IS THE BEST FEELING.... LOVE IS GODLINESS AND THIS FEELING ENABLES YOU TO MEET, MIX, MINGLE AND MERGE WITH HIM.... THAT IS 'MOKSHA'.... YOU MUST BE CONSCIOUS OF THIS FACT.... YOU MUST BE AWARE OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM.... YOU MUST NOT BE UNCONSCIOUS OF IT.... THIS AWARENESS OR CONSCIOUSNESS OF THE FEELING OF LOVE LEADS YOU TO 'NIRVIKALPA SAMADHI'..... YOU ARE THE 'PRAKRITI' AND THE LORD IS THE 'PURUSHA'..... WITH THIS AWARENESS OF FEELING OF LOVE HAPPENS THE COSMIC DANCE AND UNION WITH THE REALITY...

YOU HAVE WOUND YOURSELF TOO MUCH.... TOO MUCH CALCULATIONS, TOO MANY MATRIX, TOO MUCH OF LOGIC AND FINALLY YOU FEEL SUFFOCATED.... MY WHOLE EFFORT IS TO BRING YOU OUT OF THIS MESS, THROUGH UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.... YOU NEED TO BE HEALED OF THIS MALADY....UNWIND YOURSELF AND COME OUT OF THIS MESS... FILL YOUR HEART WITH LOVE.... SPREAD THE MESSAGE OF PEACE TO THE NEAR AND FAR....

TO ME, MIND BY ITSELF IS A DEVIL'S WORKSHOP.... TAMING THE DEVIL IN ITS WORKSHOP IS THE TOUGHEST... HEART HAS TO WORK AS THE MASTER AND MIND MUST BE THE SERVANT... THEN THERE IS A POSSIBILITY TO TAME THE DEVIL.... IF MIND IS THE MASTER, THEN IT'S A DISASTER....

MY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH ME IS A MATTER OF THE HEART.... JUST IGNORE THOSE WHO CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT....DON'T KEEP EXPLAINING TO THEM... RELATIONSHIP WITH A MASTER IS A MATTER OF FAITH...

MATTERS OF MIND WILL ALWAYS BRING WITH IT THE EXECUTIVE STRESS.... TO DESTRESS THE MIND, HEART IS THE ANSWER.... LOVE IS THE WAY....

YOU HAVE IMMENSE POTENTIAL TO ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE, FOR YOU ARE A CREATION OF GOD, THE ULTIMATE SUPER POWER.... LORD'S DESIGN CAN NEVER GO WRONG...
AN OPTIMIST CAN NEVER BE IMPATIENT...... IF HE IS IMPATIENT, HE CANNOT ACHIEVE WHAT HE WANTS TO ACHIEVE.... HIS IMPATIENCE WILL LEAD HIM TO FALTER..... FINALLY HE WILL GET DEPRESSED..... CONTINUOUS DEPRESSION WILL TRANSFORM HIM IN TO A PESSIMIST...

FAITH AND ACCEPTANCE IN THE WILL OF LORD TAKES YOU THROUGH A SERIES OF EVENTS IN LIFE TO REACH THE DESTINATION..... YOU HAVE TO REPOSE THAT KIND OF UNSHAKABLE FAITH IN HIM, WHICH IS ONLY POSSIBLE THROUGH HIS GRACE....

WHEN KIDS DO SOMETHING, WE PRETEND AS THOUGH WE DO NOT KNOW TO DO IT AND WONDER AT THEM AS TO HOW BEAUTIFULLY THEY HAVE DONE IT.... THIS MAKES THE KID HAPPY....
LIKE THE KID, THERE ARE MANY IN THIS WORLD WHO LONG FOR A PAT OR APPRECIATION.... NOTHING WRONG IN PRETENDING THAT YOU DON'T KNOW, TO MAKE THEM HAPPY AS THEY EXPLAIN.....


DURING MY COLLEGE DAYS, I HAD A FELLOW STUDENT WHO WAS ALWAYS DEPRESSED.... HE USED TO PLAY GOOD CHESS... THOSE DAYS I WAS CONSIDERED TO BE A GOOD CHESS PLAYER AND HAD WON SOME COMPETITIONS...
WHENEVER HE WAS DEPRESSED, I USED TO INVITE HIM TO PLAY A GAME OF CHESS.....
I WILL START THE GAME VERY SERIOUSLY AND GRADUALLY LOSE THE GAME.... NOT A SINGLE GAME, I USED TO WIN... AFTER EVERY WIN, HE USED TO FEEL DELIGHTED.... WHEN HE WAS HAPPY, I WOULD COUNSEL HIM AND HE SLOWLY CAME OUT OF DEPRESSION....HE GRADUATED AND WENT FOR HIGHER STUDIES.... HE SETTLED IN AUSTRALIA....
AFTER A FEW YEARS DURING HIS VISIT TO INDIA, WE MET AND HE WANTED TO PLAY A GAME OF CHESS....I READILY AGREED...WE BOTH PLAYED 5 GAMES IN 7 DAYS TIME.... HE LOST ALL THE FIVE GAMES.....
HE...'I THINK, NOW YOU HAVE IMPROVED YOUR TECHNIQUES AND SKILLS'....
I LAUGHED AND SAID...'NOW THAT YOU ARE OUT OF DEPRESSION, NO LONGER I NEED TO LOSE'....
HE COULD NOT UNDERSTAND....

EFFORT IS EGO.... EFFORTLESS IS EGOLESS..... EFFORT IS TO BE AGGRESSIVE.... TO PERFORM AND DELIVER THE BEST ONE NEED NOT BE AGGRESSIVE... IF YOU REALISE YOUR INNER POTENTIAL, YOU CAN PERFORM EFFORTLESSLY SURPASSING ALL THOSE PUTTING EFFORT....

CHANGE HAPPENS NATURALLY... IN THE SYSTEM OF NATURE EVERYTHING CHANGES.... NOTHING REMAINS THE SAME.....CHANGE CANNOT BE FORCED... SO TO BECOME SOMETHING IS NOT POSSIBLE.... EVEN IF YOU BECOME SOMETHING IT WILL BE UNNATURAL AND SHABBY... SO DON'T ATTEMPT TO BECOME SOMETHING... YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AS IT IS... SO JUST BE... JUST BE IN THE FLOW OF RIVER CALLED LIFE... IT WILL TAKE YOU TO THE OCEAN WITHOUT ANY EFFORT... EFFORT IS SWIMMING UP THE RIVER, WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE... SO JUST BE...

HEART KNOWS NO SUSPICION.... HEART IS NEVER AGGRESSIVE...
HEART IS ALWAYS JOYOUS...


SUJATHA RAJAGOPALAN.... HARD TO MOVE OUT OF THE SCENE MENTALLY, EASIER PHYSICALLY , IF WE HAVEN'T REACTED ALREADY....
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THE REASON WHY MENTALLY WE ARE NOT ABLE TO DROP IS WE GIVE TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE TO THE OTHERS.... WE EXPECT THEM TO BEHAVE BETTER.... DONT EXPECT APPLE IN ORANGE TREES.... THIS EXPECTATION WILL HURT US.... WE HAVE TO BE COURAGEOUS TO DROP EXPECTATION AND MOVE ON.... OTHERWISE THE RANT AND TH REACTION THERE OF WILL BE A VICIOUS CYCLE.... IT CONTINUES ON AND ON AND ON....

THERE IS NO LOGICAL END TO THE RANT OF OTHERS..... JUST LEARN TO IGNORE AND MOVE ON.... DON'T GIVE IMPORTANCE TO SUCH OUTBURSTS AND SPOIL YOUR PRECIOUS TIME... FURTHER THE MORE YOU STAY ON THE SCENE, YOU ARE LIKELY TO REACT AND IT WILL TURN WORSE....


Saturday, March 25, 2017

March 2017 -4

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

HE IS A GOOD ORATOR.... HE GIVES GOOD DISCOURSES ON RAMAYANA...
ONE DAY I LISTENED TO HIS DISCOURSE.... THE DISCOURSE WAS EXCEEDINGLY GOOD.....
HE....'HOW WAS THE DISCOURSE?'....
ME...'EXCELLENT....BUT THERE IS NOTHING SPIRITUAL ABOUT IT'...
HE...'IT'S ON RAMAYANA'....
ME....'I KNOW THAT... CERTAINLY IT NOT ABOUT 'TITANIC' MOVIE.... WHEN SOMETHING IS DELIVERED TO SATISFY THE EGO SELF, THERE IS NOTHING SPIRITUAL ABOUT IT.... WHY SHOULD YOU BE BOTHERED WHETHER THE DISCOURSE WAS GOOD OR NOT? YOU WANTED A CERTIFICATION FROM ME TO BOOST YOUR EGO SELF.... THOUGH THE TOPIC WAS A SPIRITUAL ONE, IT HAS LOST THE ESSENCE OF IT SINCE IT WAS DELIVERED TO SATISFY YOUR EGO SELF'....
HE LOOKED STUNNED AND I SMILED....
HE SHOWED A PHOTOGRAPH OF A GIRL AND ASKED ME....'GURUJI, HOW SECURED MY MARRIAGE WILL BE WITH THIS GIRL?'...
I LAUGHED AND ASKED HIM....'SO YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SECURITY IN MARRIAGE'.....
HE...'YES, GURUJI'.....
ME...'THEN BETTER DON'T MARRY....INSTEAD GO IN FOR A DOBERMAN OR ROTTWEILER'........ THEY WILL PROVIDE BETTER SECURITY'.....
LOL
THE BAR TENDER SQUEEZED 50 ML FROM A LEMON AND CHALLENGED OTHERS AS TO WHETHER ANY ONE CAN BETTER HIS PERFORMANCE, IN THE BAR OF A HOTEL....
A PUNY PERSON  TOOK THE SQUEEZED LEMON AND FURTHER SQUEEZED TO GET 10 ADDITIONAL DROPS....
THE AUDIENCE WERE SPELL BOUND.....
THE BARTENDER.....'ARE YOU A BARTENDER IN A BAR?'....
THE PUNY MAN.....'NO NO.... I AM AN INCOME TAX OFFICER'....
LOL
HE PRACTICES UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND SHE EXPECTS COMMITMENT IN RELATIONSHIP.... HIS BEHAVIOUR SUGGESTS IT TO BE FROM THE HEART AND  SHE IS EXPECTING AN ANSWER FROM HIS MIND.....
I AM JUST WATCHING THIS DRAMA....
LIFE IS RISKY.... NO ONE CAN GUARANTEE ANYTHING.... EVEN MANY MARRIAGES WHICH I HAVE PERFORMED, WHERE I HAVE PERSONALLY KNOWN THE BOY, THE GIRL AND THE FAMILIES HAVE FAILED AND RESULTED IN DIVORCES.....
SO FUTURE IS UNCERTAIN.... THERE IS NO GUARANTEE... UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO TAKE THAT CHANCE OR RISK, DON'T GET MARRIED OR DONT GET YOUR KIDS MARRIED... DAYS HAVE CHANGED... ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE AND BOLDLY LEAD LIFE.....
SOME TIMES I FIND CERTAIN THINGS FUNNY WITH MY FOLLOWERS....ONE SUCH INCIDENT...
THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A SUITABLE ALLIANCE FOR A GIRL...... SOME HOROSCOPE WAS RECEIVED... THEY TOOK THE HOROSCOPE TO AN ASTROLOGER AND THIS HOROSCOPE WAS FOUND NOT SUITABLE.... NOW THEY APPROACHED ANOTHER ASTROLOGER, WHO SAID THE HOROSCOPE MATCHES....
NOW IT SEEMS THEY WANT MY APPROVAL....
FUNNY PEOPLE OR CLOWNS?
ROFL....
HE KEPT A SERIOUS FACE AND SAID..'I AM PERFECT'...
I PREFERRED TO SMILE AND SAY..'IAM IMPERFECT'....
DON'T KEEP LAMENTING ABOUT WHAT HAS HAPPENED.... IT IS ALREADY OVER.... DON'T SPEND YOUR ENERGY ON THINGS THAT ARE OVER, CONSERVE IT FOR THINGS THAT ARE NOT OVER....
PEOPLE WHO ARE VERY SERIOUS CREATE FEAR AND DULLNESS TO OTHERS.... THEY ARE MORE A MESSIAH OF THE DARK.... KEEP SAFE DISTANCE....
EVEN THE HARD EXTERNAL CORE OF A SEED GIVES WAY AND THE INNER POTENTIAL COMES OUT AS A SAPLING, WHEN THE SEED IS PLANTED FIRMLY UNDER THE GROUND AND SPRINKLED WITH LITTLE WATER..... LIKE WISE , EGO MAY SURVIVE FOR SOME TIME BUT HAS TO MELLOW DOWN AND GIVE WAY FOR THE LIFE TO SPRING OUT...
COURAGE IS LIFE....
FEAR IS DEATH...
HE...'I AM AN EGOLESS PERSON'....
I BURST IN TO LAUGHTER...
HE...'WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING?'...
ME...'EGO IS SUBTLY HIDING IN YOUR EXPRESSION'....
A PRAYOGI IS THE ONLY PERSON WHO WAGES THE WAR WITH THE EVIL WITH A SMILE AND WITHOUT ANGER... IF YOU CAN DO IT, YOU ARE THAT CONSCIOUS PRAYOGI... OUR SALUTATIONS AND PROSTRATIONS TO YOU....
HE.....'GURUJI, NICE TO SEE YOU BEING IN FACEBOOK....WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN FACE BOOK?'...
ME....'JUST MARKETING MYSELF'.....
LOL
ONCE YOU BECOME POSSESSIVE OF SOME ONE AND HE OR SHE YIELDS TO IT, LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN KILLED FOR BOTH THE PARTIES.... YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO OUT RIGHTLY REJECT POSSESSIVENESS... LOVE IS NOT POSSESSIVENESS... DON'T CONFUSE OR GET CONFUSED.... IN THE NAME OF LOVE, MANY ONLY TRY TO POSSESS.... UNLESS YOU ARE ALERT, YOU MAY SLIP.... LOVE IS ABSOLUTELY UNCONDITIONAL....
 'THAMASO MA JYOTHIR GAMAYA'....
IF YOU ARE SINCERE IN YOUR PRAYERS, YOU CAN VISUALISE THE LIGHT AND DARKNESS DISPELS... THERE ARE LOTS OF PEOPLE PRAYING, BUT ARE FILLED WITH DARKNESS AND NEGATIVITY ALL AROUND.... BE SINCERE IN YOUR PRAYERS FOR THE DARKNESS TO DISPEL....

PRAYERS HEAL EVERYTHING.... A COMPASSIONATE PERSON PRAYS FOR ALL.... HE PRAYS FOR EVERYTHING.... EVERY MOMENT , HIS LIFE IS PRAYERFUL FOR HE VISUALISES GOD IN ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING...

THE CURSE OF THE INTELLECTUAL BEAST IS CURED BY THE INTELLIGENT BEAUTY..

THE WORLD IS FULL OF INTELLECTUAL PEOPLE.... IT'S INDEED RARE TO FIND THE INTELLIGENT ONES...

HEART IS THE KEY FOR THE INTELLECT TO TRANSFORM IN TO INTELLIGENCE.... IF HEART IS ABSENT INTELLECT REMAINS INTACT AND AIDS EGO, JEALOUSY, GREED, PERVERSION ETC., INTELLECT IS MORE OF THE MIND AND INTELLIGENCE IS MORE OF THE HEART.... THE SOCIETY DOESN'T NEED RAW INTELLECT WHICH WILL ONLY LEAD TO DESTRUCTION.... INTELLIGENCE BRINGS A MEANINGFUL PURPOSE TO THE INTELLECT....

IN THE MATTERS OF THE HEART, IF MIND COMES TO PLAY, IT WILL BE A HOLOCAUST.... THE MUTUAL TRUST WILL BE BROKEN...  EVEN IF  A SCHEME OF COMPROMISE IS WORKED OUT , THE RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T REMAIN THE SAME.... IT IS LIKE A CROCKERY BROKEN AND FIXED LATER, BUT THE CRACK IS STILL VISIBLE....

FEELING INSECURE IS THE PRIMARY CAUSE OF POSSESSIVENESS... THIS INSECURE FEELING ARISES BECAUSE OF THE DEFICIT IN TRUSTING THE OTHER.... THE GREED IN THE PERSON IS TO THAT EXTENT, DESPITE NOT TRUSTING, HE OR SHE DOESN'T WANT THE OTHER TO BE LET GONE.... SO POSSESSIVENESS IS ALSO ACCOMPANIED WITH IT'S TWIN BROTHER CALLED 'GREED'....

Friday, March 24, 2017

March 2017 -3

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

HE... WHY ARE YOU ON FACEBOOK?
ME... SO THAT I CAN MINGLE WITH YOUR INNER FACE (SPACE)...
LOL
LEARN TO DISAGREE POLITELY... YOU MAY NOT AGREE WITH THE PERSON AT THE OTHER END BUT HE TOO IS A HUMAN AND ENTITLED TO HAVE HIS OWN VIEWS...
WHEN WE LOOK AT YOU, WE LOOK THROUGH YOUR INNER CORE... IT REVEALS YOUR INNER AS TO WHETHER YOU ARE MORE A MALE OR FEMALE... WE ARE NOT CONCERNED MUCH ABOUT YOUR EXTERNAL APPEARANCE FOR IT IS OF NO CONSEQUENCE TO US...
TO UNDERSTAND A FEMALE THROUGH  MIND IS IMPOSSIBLE, SINCE SHE IS MORE OF THE HEART AND LESS OF MIND... TO EXPECT A MALE TO RESPOND POSITIVELY TO THE FEELINGS OF A FEMALE IS NEAR IMPOSSIBILITY,  SINCE MALE IS MORE OF THE MIND AND LEAST OF THE HEART... THE FEMALE LONGS MORE FOR AN EVERLASTING  EMOTIONAL WELL BEING AND LOVE, WHEREAS THE MALE MORE CRAVES FOR THE MOMENTARY SEX.... THE TUSSLE CONTINUES... SINCE FEMALE IS MORE OF THE HEART, SHE IS THE CLOSEST IN PROXIMITY TO GOD... THE MALE HAS TO LEARN TO GIVE FEMALE THAT RESPECT AND SPACE WHICH RIGHTFULLY SHE DESERVES...
THE EXTERIOR MAY BE MALE, BUT THE INTERIOR MAY BE FEMALE... THE INTERIOR MAY BE MALE AND EXTERIOR FEMALE... IT'S NOT THE EXTERNAL STRUCTURE BUT THE INNER CORE THAT MATTERS...  YOU WOULD HAVE COME ACROSS MANY IN THIS WORLD WITH THIS PHENOMENON... THE MALE MAY BE VERY TIMID AND THE FEMALE MAY BE BOISTEROUS... WHEN THE MALE IS TIMID, HE IS MORE A FEMALE AND WHEN THE FEMALE IS BOISTEROUS SHE IS A MALE... THE SAME PERSON SOMETIMES BEHAVES LIKE THE MALE AND OTHER TIMES AS FEMALE THOUGH ITS A 'HE' OR A 'SHE'....
YES... IT'S LOVE THAT MATTERS... THAT TOO THE UNCONDITIONAL ONE.... ANY ONE WHO OFFERS THAT IS MORE A FEMALE THAN A MALE... WHEN I MEAN FEMALE, NOT THE E TERNAL STRUCTURE BUT THE INNER CORE... SO THERE MAY BE MALES WITH AN INNER CORE OF A FEMALE...
WHEN THE MALE REBELS IN THE FAMILY IT MAY AFFECT ONLY THE FAMILY, BUT WHEN A FEMALE REBELS IT WILL AFFECT THE WORLD... THAT IS THE KIND OF POWER (SHAKTHI) OF THE FEMALE... SO REALISING THIS, SHE COMPROMISES AND KEEPS QUIET THOUGH DOMINATED... BUT STILL HER SILENCE  CANNOT BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED FOR SHE IS AADI SHAKTHI, MAAYA, THE DYNAMIC FORCE BEHIND THE EXISTENCE OF THE UNIVERSE...
SOME FEMALES ARE BECOMING REBELLIOUS THESE DAYS WHENEVER THE MALE TRIES TO DOMINATE THEIR SPACE AND FREEDOM... THIS IS A WELCOME CHANGE... STILL MAJORITY OF FEMALES ARE DOMINATED AND ITS A MALE CHAUVINISTIC SOCIETY OUT THERE... STILL A LONG WAY TO GO...
MRS. X.. ... GURUJI, I WOULD LIKE TO ATTEND RICHMOND BHAIRAVA YAGNAM...
ME.. WOW... WELCOME...
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HE... GURUJI, ONE MRS. X CALLED ME FROM HYDERABAD... SHE IS ASKING ME TO ARRANGE FOR SPONSORSHIP PAPERS TO ENABLE HER TO ATTEND RICHMOND BHAIRAVA YAGNAM... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
ME... YEAH... SHE DID TELL ME THAT SHE WANTS TO ATTEND AND I SAID YES... I THOUGHT SHE HAS SOME ONE THERE TO HELP HER OUT WITH SPONSORSHIP PAPERS SINCE SHE WAS IN USA FOR SOME TIME LONG BACK... I NEVER KNEW THAT SHE IS GOING TO APPROACH YOU... I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR PROBLEM, SPONSORSHIP PAPERS MEANS YOU HAVE TO DIVULGE ALL DETAILS ABOUT YOUR INCOME, ASSETS AND LIABILITIES ETC., I THINK IT IS NOT PROPER TO DIVULGE SUCH INFORMATION TO STRANGERS... PROBABLY SHE WAS NOT AWARE OF IT... SO PLEASE DO NOT DO IT...
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PLEASE DON'T APPROACH PEOPLE IN USA UNLESS YOU KNOW THEM VERY WELL FOR SPONSORING YOUR TRIP....  ITS NOT FAIR... EVEN IF YOU HAVE KNOWN SOME ONE MAY BE EVEN A CLOSE FRIEND OR RELATIVE, THEY MAY NOT CONSIDER YOUR REQUEST FAVOURABLY, SINCE THEY MAY NOT LIKE TO SHARE THE FINANCIAL DETAILS... 
SO BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY
IF A PERSON WHO HAS ADVANCED IN AGE , IS FULL OF SELF PITY TALKING ABOUT HIS OR HER SUFFERINGS , HAS WASTED ONE GOOD CHANCE IN THIS CYCLE OF LIFE TO SPREAD A MESSAGE OF WISDOM GAINED FROM SUCH EXPERIENCES....
AS YOU ADVANCE IN AGE, SELF INTEREST SHOULD DROP AND A SELFLESS ATTITUDE SHOULD TAKE OVER.... AN ELDERLY PERSON SHOULD BE CAPABLE OF SEEING THE SOCIETY AS HIS FAMILY, INSTEAD OF JUST LOOKING AT HIS OWN FAMILY.... THERE ARE SOME OLD PEOPLE WHO STILL KEEP WORRYING ABOUT THEIR GRAND CHILDREN AND GREAT GRAND CHILDREN....  THIS IS UTTER NON SENSE... THEY HAVE ADVANCED IN AGE BUT NOT ADVANCED IN THEIR OUTLOOK... HAVING LIVED A LIFE FULL OF EXPERIENCE, THEY KNOW THE STRUGGLES FACED BY THE YOUNGSTERS ONLY STRENGTHEN THEM TO BE BETTER.... I PITY THE YOUNGSTERS OF SUCH FAMILY.... THEY HARDLY WILL GET ANY MEANINGFUL SUGGESTION OR ADVISE FROM SUCH OLDIES....
A JOKE FOR YOU....
IN INDIA THE BIRTH RATIO IS 1000 BOYS AGAINST 943 GIRLS....
WHICH MEANS 57 BOYS REMAIN SINGLE....
THESE BOYS MOVE ON TO BECOME, ATAL, KALAM, RATAN AND MODI....
THE REST 943 ....CONTINUE TO CHECK THE COOKER AFTER THREE WHISTLES AND SWITCH OFF THE GAS....
LOL
AT SOME POINT OF TIME IN ONE'S LIFE, AS MATURITY TAKES OVER, ONE NEEDS TO LOOK BEYOND ONE'S OWN SELF... EVEN AFTER ADVANCING IN AGE, IF ONE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT HIS OWN PROBLEMS, NOT MUCH CAN BE EXPECTED OF HIM AS A CONTRIBUTION TO THE SOCIETY...
HAVING SURRENDERED UNCONDITIONALLY TO THE WILL OF THE LORD, ONE BECOMES UTTERLY COURAGEOUS TO LEAD A LIFE WITH A 'DONT-BOTHER-ATTITUDE'..... SUCH PEOPLE NEITHER BOTHER OTHERS NOR BOTHER THEMSELVES.... THEY ARE RICH IN WISDOM AND ONE SHOULD NEVER LOSE TOUCH WITH SUCH ELDERS....
A PERSON WHO KEEPS CRYING ABOUT THE PAST CAN NEVER ENJOY THE PRESENT...
COURAGE CANNOT BE INJECTED IN TO COWARDS....
IF THE DEAD PAST COMES ALIVE IN THE PRESENT, THE PRESENT TOO WILL BE DEAD....
ANNAM NA NINDAYAAT..... PRANOVA ANNAM....
-TAITREYA UPANISHAD OF KRISHNA YAJUR VEDA...
NEVER INSULT OR REJECT FOOD, FOR FOOD IS LIFE.....
FOOD FOR BODY, FOOD FOR MIND AND FOOD FOR SOUL...
MY AIM IN LIFE IS TO PROVIDE FOOD IN ALL THESE THREE WAYS....
AS A PRAYOGI, I FEED YOU AND AS YOU ASSIMILATE IT AND GAIN ENERGY, I ENJOY IT.....
OM ANNA POORNESWARYAI NAMAHA....
DAKSHACHAARA PRAYOGA IS A HOLY MISSION..... NOT EVERY ONE IN THIS WORLD GETS A CHANCE TO BE A PART OF THIS HOLY ACT.... SINCE YOU ARE CONNECTED DEEPLY WITH ME IN THE PAST, YOU ARE ALL WITH ME TODAY.... YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE THERE WITH ME IN THESE LONG CYCLES OF BIRTHS AND DEATHS.... ULTIMATELY, ONCE THE CHURNING PROCESS IS OVER, ALL THE SOULS CONNECTED WITH THE PRAYOGI , WILL BE BLESSED TO BE IN COSMIC UNION WITH GOD.... I TOO WILL ENTER THAT UNION BUT NOT TILL ALL OF YOU MERGE WITH THE REALITY....
BY BEING NORMAL, PARA NORMAL DAWNS ON YOU....
IF YOU AIM OF REACHING PARA NORMAL, YOU WILL TEND TO BECOME ABNORMAL.... JUST BE NORMAL, LORD ALWAYS TAKES CARE....
TO BE A PART OF REALITY, THE FALSIFIED HAS TO BE REMOVED, WITH HIS WILL.....
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THE MONK WAS A GREAT SCULPTOR.... HE SCULPTED THE IMAGE OF THE LORD .....
DISCIPLE.... 'MASTER, HOW BEAUTIFULLY YOU HAVE SCULPTED THE LORD.... IT IS SO GRATIFYING TO SEE THIS WORK OF YOURS'....
THE MONK LAUGHED AND SAID....'I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.... THE LORD DECIDED TO APPEAR AND SO HE HID HIMSELF INSIDE THE ROCK.... HE JUST OFFERED ME A CHANCE TO REMOVE THE UNWANTED PORTIONS OF THE ROCK...WHEN I REMOVED IT, HE APPEARED.... IN EVERY ONE'S LIFE GOD IS HIDING SOMEWHERE INSIDE.... HE BLESSES US TO REMOVE THE UNWANTED FALSIFIED PORTION AND FINALLY HE APPEARS.... THE REALITY IS GOD WHO DAWNS, WHEN HE GIVES US AN OPPORTUNITY TO REMOVE THE UNWANTED'....
TO FORGET THE UNPLEASANT PAST AND MOVE ON IS A RARE VIRTUE...
HUSBAND AND WIFE KEEP QUARRELLING ALWAYS AND ENTIRE HYDERABAD CAN HEAR IT.....
I THOUGHT LIKE MOTHER-IN-LAW, FATHER-IN-LAW, SISTER-IN-LAW, BROTHER-IN-LAW,
THERE ARE ALSO CASES OF HUSBAND-IN-LAW & WIFE-IN-LAW....
ROFL....
ONE DAY, SOME ONE KNOWN TO ME WANTED TO DONATE SOME MONEY FOR MY PRAYOGAMS.....
HE...'GURUJI, I WANT TO DONATE SOME MONEY FOR YOUR PRAYOGAMS'....
I JUST LAUGHED AND ASKED HIM, ' HAVE YOU TOLD YOUR WIFE ABOUT THIS?'....
HE....'NO'.....
ME....'OK...INFORM HER AND COME BACK WITH THE CHEQUE FOR THE AMOUNT'.....
HE LEFT.... I AM STILL WAITING AND IT IS NOW ALMOST CLOSE TO 10 YEARS......
IN SOME ZEN SCHOOLS, THE DISCIPLE IS GIVEN THE OPTION TO DECIDE AS TO WHEN HIS EDUCATION WITH THE MASTER IS COMPLETE..... THE MASTER DOESN'T SAY AT ANY POINT OF TIME AS TO WHEN THE DISCIPLE HAS TO LEAVE.... ABSOLUTELY NO RESTRICTIONS AND FREE AUTONOMY FOR THE DISCIPLE TO CHOSE HIS TIME TO LEAVE THE MASTER.... AFTER THE DISCIPLE  LEAVES WITH HIS MAT,  THE MASTER PROSTRATES IN THE DIRECTION IN WHICH THE DISCIPLE HAS LEFT....WHEN THE MAT IS MISSING, THE MASTER KNOWS THE DISCIPLE HAS CHOSEN TO LEAVE.... THE MASTER FEELS HAPPY THAT THE DISCIPLE HAS CHOSEN TO LEAVE AND SO HAS BECOME A MASTER..... HENCE THE PROSTRATION BY THE MASTER.....
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MY SCHOOL IS ONE SUCH SCHOOL....
THE ELDERS SHOULD ALWAYS THINK OF THE WELFARE OF YOUNGSTERS AND ACT IN SUCH A WAY THAT IT LEADS TO HARMONY IN FAMILY LIFE.... IF TWO YOUNGSTERS ARE QUARRELLING, THE ELDER CANNOT TAKE SIDES.... THEY HAVE TO BE IN THE MIDDLE AND SORT OUT THE PROBLEM.... MOST OF THE TIME THE ELDERS ARE MORE GRIPPED WITH THE FEELING OF INSECURITY AND JOIN HANDS WITH ONE OF THE YOUNGSTER AND BLAMES THE OTHER... IN SUCH CASES THEY ARE JUST AGED AND NOTHING MORE THAN THAT....THE AGED ONE WILL CERTAINLY WITHER AWAY SOON AND THE YOUNGSTERS STAND SEPARATED FOR EVER.... VERY SORRY AND SAD STATE OF AFFAIRS.... LACK OF MATURITY AND FEELING OF INSECURITY IN AN AGED PERSON SPOILS THE LIFE OF THE YOUNGSTERS...
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS REALITY AND HENCE GODLY....
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE MEANS IT IS DEVOID OF ANY EXPECTATIONS..... ABSOLUTELY NO CONDITIONS.... IF YOU FEEL THAT THE OTHER PERSON IS TAKING ADVANTAGE, THEN THE VERY FEELING SHOWS THAT YOU DON'T UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE HIM OR HER... IN FACT THE VERY WORD LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL.... LOVE CANNOT BE BACKED WITH CONDITIONS.... THEN IT IS NOT LOVE.... IT IS JUST ATTRACTION DUE TO SOME REASON.... LOVE IS DEVOID OF CONDITIONS AND REASONING... LOVE HAS NO LOGIC... LOVE IS MAGICAL.... IT IS ETERNAL....
ELDERS SHOULD NOT FORCE THEIR KIDS TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE, IN CASE MUTUALLY THE PARTIES CONCERNED CONCUR TO CALL IT OFF.... WHEN THINGS HAVE REACHED A POINT OF NO RETURN, ELDERS SHOULD HELP THE KIDS FOR SMOOTH TRANSITION TO THE NEXT PHASE IN LIFE...
HE SAID 'GURUJI, TODAY IS MY FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY'....
I SMILED AT HIM SINCE THE STATEMENT LOOKED FISHY....
LOL
UNCONDITIONALITY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE VERY BASIS OF ITS SURVIVAL IN TODAY'S WORLD
MARRIAGES OF YESTERYEARS SURVIVED BECAUSE ONE OF THE PARTIES ALWAYS COMPROMISED.... TODAY COMPROMISE IS VERY RARE BECAUSE ALWAYS BETTER OPTIONS ARE AVAILABLE AND HENCE MARRIAGE DOESN'T SURVIVE...

Wednesday, March 15, 2017

March 2017-2

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji

OH HOW BEAUTIFUL THE WORLD WOULD BE A PLACE TO LIVE IN, IF EVERY ONE CHOSES TO PERFORM THEIR DUTIES DILIGENTLY.....

DON'T SHOULDER OTHERS RESPONSIBILITIES .....

ALLOW OTHERS TO PERFORM THEIR DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES... NEVER INTERFERE OR POKE IN TO IT....

HE.... GURUJI, I AM A PRIEST IN A TEMPLE.... NOW A DAYS VERY LESS PEOPLE ARE VISITING THE TEMPLE...HOW TO IMPROVE THE SITUATION?
ME....YEAH, I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS PROBLEM....
TRY ANY OF THE FOLLOWING METHOD.....ONLY A MIRACLE CAN SAVE YOU.....
-KEEP A SPOON FULL OF MILK AT THE MOUTH OF THE LORD... LORD WILL SIP FROM THE SPOON, GIVE HIM ONE MORE AND ONE MORE AND SO ON....... JUST ASK YOUR FRIEND TO VIDEO IT ON THE MOBILE.... PASTE IT IN FACEBOOK AND OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA.....
-VIBHUTHI OR KUMKUM FROM THE HANDS OR FEET OF GOD OR EVEN FROM HAIR...
-HONEY FLOWING FROM THE HANDS.....
-TEARS FROM THE EYES OF GOD....
-TIE UP WITH A LOCAL ASTROLOGER/GODMAN FOR SUITABLY RECOMMENDING THE DEITY TO THEIR CLIENTS.....
LOL...

HEIGHT OF HOPE....
A 99 YEAR OLD MAN APPLYING FOR A LIFE TIME FREE VALIDITY CREDIT CARD.....

TODAY RELIGION IS SURVIVING BECAUSE OF THE HOPES DOLED OUT BY THE GUARDIANS OF IT..... RELIGION IS RELIGIOUSNESS AND IS BASED ON PURE UNCONDITIONAL FAITH ON GOD.... RELIGION SHOULD FOSTER UNITY AMONG ALL SECTIONS OF SOCIETY AND SHOULD STRIVE TO MAKE A SELFLESS SOCIETY, WHICH TAKES CARE OF THE NEEDY AND POOR.... HOPE MORE AIDS THE SELF WITH ALL SORTS OF FUTURISTIC EXPECTATIONS.... SO THE GUARDIANS OF RELIGION, SHOULD STRIVE TO BRING THE CONCEPT OF UNCONDITIONALITY IN FAITH, PRAYERS AND LOVE TOWARDS GOD AND FELLOW BEINGS....HOPE JUST FUELS EXPECTATIONS AND NEEDS TO BE CHECKED...

ONE NEEDS TO CROSS THE BARRIER OF 'HOPE' TO HAVE UNCONDITIONAL FAITH AND ACCEPTANCE IN THE WILL OF GOD....

THE UNFORTUNATE PART OF 'HOPE' IS, IT MAKES YOU TO KEEP LIVING WITH EXPECTATIONS..

IF YOU HAVE TOTALLY SURRENDERED TO THE WILL OF GOD, WORDS LIKE 'HOPE' WILL HAVE NO MEANING OR PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE....

CONDITIONING FIRES BACK..... IT BECOMES COUNTER PRODUCTIVE...
ANYTHING DONE BY A PRAYOGI HAS AN INNER MEANING AND IT CANNOT BE DECIPHERED THROUGH A SELF CENTRIC MIND....... A TRUE PRAYOGI IS LITERALLY NOT BOTHERED ABOUT OTHERS COMMENT ABOUT HIM....

I NEITHER RECOMMEND NOR I OPPOSE SINCE I DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THE LEGALITY OF LANDS OR PLOTS IN AND AROUND AHOBILAM.... AS ON DATE, I DON'T OWN EVEN A GRAIN OF SAND AT AHOBILAM...SO IN CASE, YOU ARE DOING SO, DO IT AFTER LEGALLY VERIFYING EVERY ASPECT.... JUST THAT I DON'T WANT ANY OF YOU TO LOSE MONEY INCASE THE TRANSACTION IS OTHERWISE.... SO BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY...

MY TEACHING IS VERY SIMPLE....'BE YOURSELF'.... CHANGE WILL HAPPEN AUTOMATICALLY WHEN YOU FEEL THE NEED OF IT....CHANGE CANNOT BE FORCED....FURTHER CHANGE CANNOT BE DICTATED BY OTHERS... JUST LEARN TO IGNORE THOSE WHO ARE COMMENTING...JUST THAT THEY ARE JOBLESS...

HE JOKED... WE PERFORM BUT YOU PERISH.....
ME....'EXACTLY.... THIS IS VERY MUCH APPLICABLE IN MY CASE.... THERE ARE RELIGIOUS LEADERS WHO AS A MISSION IN THEIR LIFE EDUCATE PEOPLE BY BUILDING SCHOOLS, COLLEGES, PATASHALAS, DHYANA KENDRAS ETC.,.. THEY ALWAYS STAND AS A MONUMENT BEFORE EVERY ONE'S EYES AND THEY ARE REMEMBERED FOR GENERATIONS.... THEY HAVE PERFORMED....
WE DO PRAYOGA YAGNAS SPENDING A LOT OF MONEY... IN THE YAGNA, EVERYTHING IS PERISHED... ONCE THE YAGNA IS OVER, NO TRACE OF EVIDENCE IS AVAILABLE....SO AS A PRAYOGI, I BELONG TO THE 'PERISH' COMMUNITY... THERE IS NOTHING TO SHOW CASE OUR PERFORMANCE'....
LOL

ETERNALLY TO BE IN THE SERVICE OF GOD OR A TRUE MASTER IS THE BEST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN IN ONE'S LIFE,, FOR THEY ARE ONES TO TRAVEL WITH US EVEN AFTER WE PERSIH..

HE WAS SMILING...
SHE....'HOW BEAUTIFUL AND ATTRACTIVE HIS SMILE IS'....
I TOO SMILED....
SHE WAS VERY HAPPY ON SEEING MY SMILE AS AN APPROVAL OF HER STATEMENT....
EVERY SMILE HAS IT'S OWN MEANING... A SMILE FROM THE OTHER PERSON MAY NOT BE APPROVAL.... I SMILED BECAUSE BEHIND THE SMILE, I COULD SEE THE MASK WHICH HE WAS WEARING.... MY SMILE TOO WAS MASKED BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T READ IT....
SO NOT EVERY SMILE IS PURE.... THERE MAY BE A MASK BEHIND IT...

YES... YOU ARE RIGHT ON DOT.... BE ORIGINAL.... JUST BE YOURSELF... JUST BE....

AN OLD MONK OF 90 YEARS, WAS VERIFYING THE OLD MANUSCRIPTS IN THE MONASTERY WITH THE ONE THAT WAS COPIED, WHEN HE JOINED THE MONASTERY IN HIS TEENS...
HE FOUND A GRAVE MISTAKE AND STARTED CRYING INCONSOLABLY.....
DISCIPLE....'MASTER, WHAT HAS HAPPENED? I HAVE NEVER SEEN YOU CRYING..... HAS SOMETHING SAID IN THE SCRIPTURES HURT YOU?
THE OLD MAN IN TEARS SAID....'THE ORIGINAL SCRIPTURES HAVE CATEGORICALLY SAID TO 'C E L E B R A T E' IN LIFE....
SOME FOOL WHILE COPYING HAS WRITTEN, 'C E L E B A T E' INSTEAD OF 'C E L E B R A T E'.... NOW I AM 90 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE MISSED A WHOLE LIFE....

SHE ALWAYS CRIBS ABOUT HER HUSBAND.... I HAD TO FINALLY TELL HER.....'STOP CRIBBING... GO IN FOR A DIVORCE'....
SHE JUST DIVORCED COMING TO ME....
LOL

BE POLITE WHILE DENYING OR OBJECTING... LET THE OTHER PERSON KNOW THAT YOU TOO HAVE A RIGHT TO REJECT....

PEOPLE WHO DO NOT UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE, KNOW 'NO' REAL MEANING OR VALUE OF THE WORD CALLED 'RESPONSIBILITY'.... MANY DO MAKE SUCH BIG STATEMENTS VERY CASUALLY AND SUCH STATEMENTS BY THEM SHOULD BE ALSO TREATED IN THE SAME WAY... SUCH A PERSON CAN ONLY BE IRRESPONSIBLE...

TO BE OPEN MINDED AND NOT TO HAVE ANY PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS IS A GRACE.... NEVER BE CARRIED AWAY BY WHAT OTHERS EXPRESS ON A SUBJECT MATTER....EVERYTHING CANNOT BE TAKEN FOR FACE VALUE SINCE THERE MAY BE A LOT OF PREJUDICE AND BIAS CONNECTED TO SUCH OPINIONS..... HAVE YOUR INDIVIDUAL IDENTITY EMBLEM ON ALL YOUR ACTIONS....NOTHING WRONG IN JUST SMILING BACK TO SUCH PEOPLE...

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO TEACH ELEGANCE IN BEHAVIOUR....
IT IS EASY FOR A MALE TO COMPROMISE AND WRIGGLE OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP, BUT FOR A FEMALE IT IS DIFFICULT ESPECIALLY AMONG FIRST TIME YOUNGSTERS.... SUPPOSE YOUR BOY OR GIRL WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IT GOT FIZZLED OUT FOR SOME REASON OR THE OTHER, AS PARENTS WE HAVE TO GIVE TIME FOR THINGS TO SETTLE DOWN, BEFORE GETTING MARRIED TO SOME ONE ELSE.... AS ELDERS YOU ARE ALSO RESPONSIBLE FOR THE EMOTIONAL WELL BEING OF YOUR KIDS....MERE REPETITION OF WORDS THAT ELDERS WANT THE KIDS TO BE HAPPY AND SETTLED IN LIFE IS NOT ENOUGH.... YOU MAY HAVE TO WALK THE TALK AND SET AN EXAMPLE TO OTHERS....
IF YOU ARE NOT A COURAGEOUS PERSON, DECISION MAKING SHOULD NOT BE YOUR PORTFOLIO....

PATIENCE IS ADORABLE.... PROCRASTINATION IN THE NAME OF PATIENCE IS JUST A MONUMENTAL DISASTER...

CRIBBING HAPPENS DUE TO EXPECTATIONS.... IF YOU ARE BEYOND THIS, THE MALADY OF CRIBBING NEVER OCCURS IN YOUR LIFE.....

ALL ARE BLESSED WITH ENOUGH EXPERIENCES IN LIFE..... BUT IT IS THOSE WHO LEARN OUT OF IT ARE THE ONES WHO ARE CALM AND BALANCED IN TURBULENCE....


SANTA WAS EXPLAINING TO HIS TEACHER...
GADDE
USKE PEECHE EK GADDE
USKE PEECHE MAIN HOON 
AUR
USKE PEECHE SAARAA DESH.....
'ASSASSINATION'....ASS-ASS-I-NATION
THE TEACHER FAINTED....
LOL

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS SOMETHING LIKE A RESERVOIR.... ANY ONE CAN DRINK IT OR USE IT...EVEN IF MORE AND MORE USE IT, IT WON'T GO DRY.... IN THE NAME OF LOVE, PEOPLE ARE ATTACHED OR ATTRACTED.... THEN IT IS A CONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP.... JUST LIKE A BORE WELL AT HOME... ONLY YOU CAN USE IT....

THE EXTERIOR MAY BE MALE, BUT THE INTERIOR MAY BE FEMALE... THE INTERIOR MAY BE MALE AND EXTERIOR FEMALE... IT'S NOT THE EXTERNAL STRUCTURE BUT THE INNER CORE THAT MATTERS...  YOU WOULD HAVE COME ACROSS MANY IN THIS WORLD WITH THIS PHENOMENON... THE MALE MAY BE VERY TIMID AND THE FEMALE MAY BE BOISTEROUS... WHEN THE MALE IS TIMID, HE IS MORE A FEMALE AND WHEN THE FEMALE IS BOISTEROUS SHE IS A MALE... THE SAME PERSON SOMETIMES BEHAVES LIKE THE MALE AND OTHER TIMES AS FEMALE THOUGH ITS A 'HE' OR A 'SHE'....

YES... IT'S LOVE THAT MATTERS... THAT TOO THE UNCONDITIONAL ONE.... ANY ONE WHO OFFERS THAT IS MORE A FEMALE THAN A MALE... WHEN I MEAN FEMALE, NOT THE E TERNAL STRUCTURE BUT THE INNER CORE... SO THERE MAY BE MALES WITH AN INNER CORE OF A FEMALE...

WHEN THE MALE REBELS IN THE FAMILY IT MAY AFFECT ONLY THE FAMILY, BUT WHEN A FEMALE REBELS IT WILL AFFECT THE WORLD... THAT IS THE KIND OF POWER (SHAKTHI) OF THE FEMALE... SO REALISING THIS, SHE COMPROMISES AND KEEPS QUIET THOUGH DOMINATED... BUT STILL HER SILENCE  CANNOT BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED FOR SHE IS AADI SHAKTHI, MAAYA, THE DYNAMIC FORCE BEHIND THE EXISTENCE OF THE UNIVERSE...

SOME FEMALES ARE BECOMING REBELLIOUS THESE DAYS WHENEVER THE MALE TRIES TO DOMINATE THEIR SPACE AND FREEDOM... THIS IS A WELCOME CHANGE... STILL MAJORITY OF FEMALES ARE DOMINATED AND ITS A MALE CHAUVINISTIC SOCIETY OUT THERE... STILL A LONG WAY TO GO...

TO UNDERSTAND A FEMALE THROUGH  MIND IS IMPOSSIBLE, SINCE SHE IS MORE OF THE HEART AND LESS OF MIND... TO EXPECT A MALE TO RESPOND POSITIVELY TO THE FEELINGS OF A FEMALE IS NEAR IMPOSSIBILITY,  SINCE MALE IS MORE OF THE MIND AND LEAST OF THE HEART... THE FEMALE LONGS MORE FOR AN EVERLASTING  EMOTIONAL WELL BEING AND LOVE, WHEREAS THE MALE MORE CRAVES FOR THE MOMENTARY SEX.... THE TUSSLE CONTINUES... SINCE FEMALE IS MORE OF THE HEART, SHE IS THE CLOSEST IN PROXIMITY TO GOD... THE MALE HAS TO LEARN TO GIVE FEMALE THAT RESPECT AND SPACE WHICH RIGHTFULLY SHE DESERVES...

LEARN TO DISAGREE POLITELY... YOU MAY NOT AGREE WITH THE PERSON AT THE OTHER END BUT HE TOO IS A HUMAN AND ENTITLED TO HAVE HIS OWN VIEWS...


THE SERVANT MAID WAS ABSENT FOR WORK FOR THREE DAYS....

HOUSEWIFE.... WHY YOU DIDN'T TURN UP FOR WORK ALL THESE THREE DAYS?

MAID.... PROBABLY MADAM ,YOU DIDN'T LOG IN TO FACEBOOK...I HAD GIVEN A STATUS UPDATE THAT I AM LEAVING THE CITY FOR A MARRIAGE AND THAT I WOULD BE BACK ONLY AFTER THREE DAYS.... IN FACT SIR HAD EVEN MENTIONED IN THE PRIVATE CHAT...'ALL THE BEST ...COME SOON...WILL BE MISSING YOU FOR 3 DAYS...TOO LONG A TIME'...
ROFL...

GOD IS NOT A THOUGHT OF THE MIND TO BE ANALYSED AND INTERPRETED......GOD IS THE INNERMOST FEELING OF THE HEART TO BE CHERISHED AND ENJOYED....

THE WIFE HAD GONE FOR DELIVERY TO HER PARENTS HOUSE AND CAME BACK WITH THE CHILD AFTER 8 MONTHS TO HER HUSBAND....
ON ENTERING THE BEDROOM, SHE WAS NOT COMFORTABLE...
SHE...'DID YOU SLEEP WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN?'
HE....'NO DEAR...I SWEAR UPON GOD, I ONLY SLEEP WITH YOU.... WITH ALL OTHERS, I WAS ALWAYS AWAKE'.....
ROFL....


A JOKE FOR YOU......
THE PRIEST WAS CALLED FOR AN INTERVIEW TO A HIGHER POSITION IN AN ORGANISATION OF GOD....
IN THE INTERVIEW HE WAS ASKED A QUESTION,
'HAVE YOU ANY TIME IN YOUR LIFE AS A PRIEST SLEPT WITH ANY WOMAN?'
THE PRIEST REPLIED.....'NONE' (NUN).....
LOL

IN THE FIELD OF SERVICE, IT IS SELFLESS.... IF YOU FEEL USED, MISUSED AND ABUSED, THEN YOU ARE UNFIT FOR SELF LESS SERVICE.....

HE.... 'MY SON IS ALWAYS BITING THE FINGER NAILS, PLEASE GIVE A SOLUTION'......
YOGA TEACHER...'JUST SEND HIM TO ME FOR A MONTH, YOU WILL BE ASTONISHED'.....
AFTER A MONTH OF YOGA....
YOGA TEACHER....'HOW IS HE NOW?'....
HE...'LOT OF IMPROVEMENT.... HE IS NOW ABLE TO BITE THE TOE NAILS TOO'....
 NOW YOGA TEACHER WAS ASTONISHED.....
LOL

I HAD GONE TO SEEK SOME MONETARY HELP FOR MY PRAYOGAMS IN THE FOREST TO A GENTLEMAN KNOWN TO ME.... I TOOK AN APPOINTMENT FROM HIS SECRETARY AND WAS AT HIS OFFICE IN THE MORNING... I WAITED FOR TWO HOURS OUTSIDE HIS CABIN.... EMPLOYEES WERE GOING IN AND COMING OUT WITH FILES AND WERE QUITE BUSY.....
AS I WAS GETTING LATE, I WANTED TO LEAVE BUT INFORM THE GENTLEMAN INSIDE THE CABIN, THAT I WILL MEET HIM SOME OTHER DAY SINCE HE WAS BUSY....
SO I WENT TO HIS SECRETARY, WHO WAS SITTING OUTSIDE THE CABIN....
ME....'SIR, I WANT TO LEAVE SINCE I HAVE SOME IMPORTANT WORK.... MAY I JUST GO IN TO THE CABIN FOR A MINUTE  AND INFORM YOUR MANAGING DIRECTOR THAT I WILL COME SOME OTHER TIME SINCE HE IS BUSY'....
SECRETARY PUT HIS RIGHT INDEX FINGER ACROSS HIS MOUTH AND SAID......'SSSHHHHH'....
I COULD UNDERSTAND THAT HE WANTED ME TO REMAIN SILENT.....
SO I WENT BACK AND SAT ON THE SOFA....
LUNCH TIME.... ALL EMPLOYEES LEFT FOR LUNCH....
THE SECRETARY HAD HIS LUNCH ON HIS TABLE.... AFTER HE COMPLETED IT, I WENT TO HIM.....
BEFORE I COULD SAY ANYTHING, HE SAID...'SSSHHHHHH'...
SO ONCE AGAIN I WENT BACK AND SAT ON THE SOFA....
EVENING IT WAS 6.30 PM.....
THE MANAGING DIRECTOR CAME OUT OF THE CABIN..... HE SAW ME AND TOOK ME INSIDE HIS CABIN....
MD....'INFACT, I WANTED TO COME AND MEET YOU.... I'M SURPRISED TO SEE YOU AT MY OFFICE TODAY.... GOD HAS SENT YOU TO ME'...
I DIDN'T TELL HIM THAT I TOOK APPOINTMENT FROM HIS SECRETARY....
I JUST SMILED AND SAID...'I JUST CAME SOME WHERE NEARBY AND THOUGHT OF MEETING YOU'...
MD...'WHEN DID YOU COME?'....
ME...'JUST 2 MINUTES BACK.... BY THE BY, YOU WANTED TO COME AND SEE ME.... ANYTHING USEFUL I CAN DO FOR YOU?'.
MD...'I AM STARTING A NEW TRADING COMPANY AND I WANT YOU TO SUGGEST A NAME'....
ME...'CAN YOU COME HOME 2MRW MORNING AT 9 AM AND I CAN CERTAINLY SUGGEST A NAME'....
MD...'IT'S VERY URGENT.... CAN YOU GIVE ME A NAME RIGHT AWAY'...
ME....'OK.... KEEP THE NAME AS 'SSSHHHHHH TRADING COMPANY'....
MD...'WHAT SORT OF A NAME IT IS? VERY FUNNY NAME FOR A SERIOUS BUSINESS?'....
I LAUGHED AND SAID....'EVERY ONE MEANS SERIOUS BUSINESS AT THEIR WORK PLACE.... TODAY ACCORDING TO PRASHNA BHAVAM, THE NAME  SHOULD BE 'SSSHHHH', SO I SUGGESTED'....
MD....'OK...THEN TOMORROW MORNING , I WILL COME TO YOUR PLACE AND YOU SUGGEST A BETTER NAME'....
I SMILED AND SAID 'OK...NICE TO HAVE MET YOU TODAY.. PLEASE COME TOMORROW'.....
I JUST LEFT THE OFFICE.....
ROFL...

THE PHONE RINGS....
ME....'SRIDHAR HERE'....
SHE..'GURUJI?'.....
ME....'SRIDHAR HERE'...
SHE...'GURUJI?'....
ME....'SRIDHAR HERE'....
SHE...'SORRY...WRONG NUMBER'....
THE PHONE GOT DISCONNECTED.....
LOL...

ACHAARYAA PRIYANDHANA MAHHRUDYA.....
VEDAS SPEAK TRUTH AND ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL.... THE ABOVE SAID PORTION OF THE HYMN APPEARS IN THE TAITREYA UPANISHAD, FIRST PRASNA TITLED 'SIKSHAVALLI'....
TEACHINGS AS TO HOW GURU-SISHYA PARAMPARA SHOULD EXIST AND FOLLOW....
THE GURU WORKS FOR THE WELFARE OF THE WORLD.... THE SISHYA SHOULD ASSIST HIM IN ALL WAYS..... HE SHOULD SUPPORT THE GURU IN HIS ACTIVITIES.... HE SHOULD ASSIST HIM WHOLE HEARTEDLY WITH ALL LOVE..... TO THE GURU THE WORLD IS IMPORTANT AND TO THE SISHYA THE GURU IS IMPORTANT..... HE SHOULD GO ALL OUT AND SUPPORT THE GURU IN HIS MISSION VOLUNTARILY, WITHOUT ASKING FOR, WITH ALL HUMILITY..... THIS IS THE HALL MARK OF HIS DIVINE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GURU.....

AT SOME POINT OF TIME IN ONE'S LIFE, AS MATURITY TAKES OVER, ONE NEEDS TO LOOK BEYOND ONE'S OWN SELF... EVEN AFTER ADVANCING IN AGE, IF ONE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT HIS OWN PROBLEMS, NOT MUCH CAN BE EXPECTED OF HIM AS A CONTRIBUTION TO THE SOCIETY...