Saturday, April 22, 2017

April 2017 -4

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

AIMING FOR ETERNAL PERFECTION IS FOOLISHNESS..... IT'S IMPOSSIBLE.... YOU WILL MISERABLY FAIL AND GET DEPRESSED.... ONCE YOU REACH A STAGE OF PERFECTION, IMPERFECTION WOULD HAVE ALREADY CREPT IN.... SO THERE IS NOTHING LIKE ETERNAL PERFECTION.....

ETERNAL LUNACY IS VERY MUCH A POSSIBILITY IN CASE OF THOSE SEARCHING FOR ETERNAL PERFECTION...


ACCEPTANCE OF TOTALITY IS THE KEY TO HAPPINESS IN LIFE....


AS YOU REALISE, YOU GET PURIFIED..... PURIFICATION PROCESS KEEPS TAKING PLACE ETERNALLY AND THAT TOO INTERNALLY....MERELY POURING BUCKETS AND BUCKETS OF HOLY WATER DOESN'T PURIFY YOU.... IT IS JUST SYMBOLIC TO BRING A REALISATION IN YOU.... ONCE YOU START THE PROCESS OF REALISATION, YOU ARE ON THE PATH OF PURIFICATION.... JUST LIKE THE CLOTHES BEING WASHED EVERY DAY OR THE HOUSE BEING CLEANED EVERY DAY..... PURIFICATION IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS....


ANGER ARISES IN YOU BECAUSE OF EXPECTATIONS.... SOME TIMES ANGER ARISES BECAUSE OF DEPENDENCY ON SOME ONE ELSE AND THE PERSON NOT RESPONDING THE WAY IT WAS EXPECTED....


AFTER ANGER WILL FOLLOW GUILT... NOW YOU WILL FEEL GUILTY ABOUT YOUR BEHAVIOUR... YOU MAY APOLOGISE TO THE PERSON.... BUT THE APOLOGY WILL NOT BE TOTAL... IT WILL HAVE A RIDER.... YOU WILL JUSTIFY YOUR ANGER BY SAYING THAT THAT YOU SHOUTED DUE TO YOUR CONCERN ON THE PERSON..... EVEN YOUR APOLOGY LOOKS FARCE....


I HAVE SEEN SOME PEOPLE INSISTING THEIR WAY AS THE WAY TO PERFECTION.... IF NOT FOLLOWED OR IMPLEMENTED THEY WILL BECOME ANGRY..... THEN THERE WOULD BE A MESS..... I ENJOY MAKING SUCH PEOPLE ANGRY BY NOT FOLLOWING WHAT THEY SAY... IT'S FUN FOR ME WHEN THEY SHOUT AT ME.....



HE.....'GURUJI, MR. 'X' IS A PART OF THE SRI JWALA CENTRAL TRUST GROUP.... HE COPIES ALL YOUR SAYINGS AND LECTURES TO OTHERS AS THOUGH IT IS HIS SAYING... HE HAS BECOME A LOCAL GURU IN HIS AREA.... I JUST WANT TO BRING IT TO YOUR NOTICE'....
I BURST IN TO LAUGHTER....
I SAID....'I THINK YOU DO NOT KNOW THIS....I HAVE BETTER PEOPLE IN MY TEAM THAN MR. 'X'... THEY ALL DO EVEN PRAYOGAS.... THEY ALSO TALK TO DEPARTED SOULS AND PERFORM ASTRAL WALK....I ENJOY THE CIRCUS BECAUSE OF THESE CLOWNS'.....
LOL

INCASE YOU ARE IN PAIN OR AGONY, DOES THAT TRANSLATE YOUR EXPERIENCE IN PRACTICE TO AVOID IT FOR YOUR KIDS?
AN EXAMPLE.... SUPPOSE, YOU ARE A FEMALE MARRIED IN TO A FAMILY..... YOU WERE HARASSED AND TORTURED BY YOUR IN LAWS AND HUSBAND.... YOU MENTALLY SUFFERED A LOT OF PAIN AND AGONY.... YOU HAVE A DAUGHTER TO BE MARRIED.... WILL YOU INSIST HER TO MARRY AT ALL OR WILL YOU SAFELY PLAY THAT IT IS HER LIFE AND SHE HAS TO DECIDE? IN CASE YOUR GIRL CHOSES A PARTNER NOT BELONGING TO YOUR CASTE OR CREED WILL YOU ALLOW HER TO GO WITH HER CHOICE OR INSIST THAT THE GIRL SHOULD PROTO TYPE GO IN FOR A FAMILY ARRANGED MARRIAGE? CAN YOU TRANSLATE YOUR EXPERIENCE IN TO REAL PRACTICE WHEN SUCH A SITUATION OCCURS? OR WILL YOU SUCCUMB TO THE FAMILY AND CONDITION HER GROWTH RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING?

SHOULD ONE'S OWN EXPERIENCES OF GOOD AND BAD IN LIFE BE TAKEN AS A GENERAL INDEX TO CONDITION THE CHILD?
WHEN THE REACTIONS OF EACH ONE IS UNIQUE EVEN UNDER VERY SIMILAR CIRCUMSTANCES, IS IT WISE TO CONDITION THE CHILD BASED ON ONE'S OWN EXPERIENCE AS PARENTS?
WILL YOU BE COURAGEOUS TO ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO TASTE ITS OWN EXPERIENCES AND DRAW CONCLUSIONS WITHOUT CONDITIONING IT?

DON'T ALLOW THE KIDS TO CLING ON TO YOU FOR LONG..... MAKE THEM KNOW THAT THEY HAVE A LIFE TO LEAD..... TEACH THEM TO BE INDIVIDUALISTIC.... DROP THE FEAR THAT GROOMING THEM INDIVIDUALISTIC IS GOING TO DISTANCE THEM FROM THE FAMILY .....

I KNOW SOME KIDS..... THEY ARE WELL QUALIFIED..... THEY WERE CONDITIONED A LOT IN THE FAMILY....UNFORTUNATELY THE QUALIFICATIONS OR THE CONDITIONING IS NOT ABLE TO HELP THEM TAKE QUALITY DECISIONS IN LIFE...THEY DON'T KNOW TO RESPECT THEIR LIFE OR INDIVIDUALITY.... THEY JUST FEAR AND START VEGETATING....

I WENT TO THEIR HOUSE.....
HE ASKED HIS SON TO PROSTRATE ME....
HE.....'PROSTRATE GURUJI'....
THE BOY DID IT....
HE... SAY 'ABHIVADAYE'....
THE BOY DID ABHIVADAYE.....
HE....'PROSTRATE ONCE AGAIN, 4 TIMES'.....
THE BOY PROSTRATED....
HE....'SING A SONG'....
THE BOY SANG A BEAUTIFUL COMPOSITION OF MUTHUSAMY DEEKSHITAR.....
HE....'YOU HAVE IIT COACHING CLASS AT 6 PM.... LEAVE'...
THE BOY LEFT....
HE ASKED ME....'GURUJI, SEE HOW I HAVE BROUGHT UP MY KID..... UPBRINGING IS VERY IMPORTANT.... WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS?'.........
I SMILED AND SAID....'TO ME YOUR SON LOOKED LIKE A ROBOCOP'......
LOL

ALLOW YOUR KIDS TO TAKE DECISIONS.... LET THEM LEARN TO OWN RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR DECISIONS.... THIS WILL MAKE THEM A BETTER PERSON IN THE LONG RUN....

SOME OF US ALWAYS HAVE A THINKING THAT WE KNOW BETTER THAN OUR KIDS...SO WE IMPOSE ALL OUR BORROWED IDEAS IN THE NAME OF VALUE SYSTEMS ON THE KIDS..... UNLESS THIS COMPLEX IN US VANISHES, THE KIDS CERTAINLY WILL SUFFER DUE TO CONDITIONING AND IMPOSITIONS.... AT SOME POINT OF TIME THE KIDS MAY SUCCUMB AND START VEGETATING.... IN SOME CASES KIDS REBEL AND LEAVE THE FAMILY ONCE AND FOR ALL.....

TODAY OUR VALUE SYSTEMS ARE TOTALLY CORRUPTED DUE TO INTELLECTUAL INTERPRETATION OF THE HOLY SCRIPTURES.... THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF SUCH INTERPRETATIONS AND WHAT APPEALS TO OUR MIND BECOMES OUR VALUE SYSTEM..... THIS IS MORE A THEORY OF CONVENIENCE AND A SORT OF BUSINESS WHERE THE VALUE SYSTEM IS TRADED COMMERCIALLY BY US... THE TRUTH IS BEST KNOWN TO GOD.... REPEATEDLY TELLING LIES ARE ASSUMED TO BE TRUTH ... SO BE JUDICIOUS....

EXPRESS YOURSELF......BUT DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS OTHERS.....

AS YOU EXPRESS, IF YOU HAVE AN EXPECTATION OF A FAVOURABLE REACTION OF OTHERS TO YOUR EXPRESSION, IT MEANS YOU ARE TRYING TO IMPRESS UPON THEM.....

NEVER FEEL LOW OF YOURSELF....EITHER I FIND PEOPLE OVER CONFIDENT OR SUFFER FROM LOW ESTEEM.... THESE ARE EXTREMES.... JUST BE IN THE MIDDLE... FEEL CONFIDENT OF YOURSELF.... THIS BALANCE IN YOUR ATTITUDE WILL WORK MIRACLES FOR YOU....

ACCORDING TO THE PRESENT DAY NEEDS, THE HOLY SCRIPTURES HAVE TO BE MODERATED.... A STRICT APPLICATION OF WHAT WAS TOLD THOUSANDS OF YEARS BACK WILL ONLY LEAD TO CHAOS & CONFUSION.... FURTHER AS I MENTIONED EARLIER IN ONE OF MY POSTS THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF INTERPRETATIONS AND ONE THAT APPEALS TO THE INTELLECT IS NORMALLY FOLLOWED...THE FUNNIEST PART IS GOD, RELIGION, HOLY SCRIPTURES ARE A MATTER OF THE HEART AND IT IS INTERPRETED THROUGH INTELLECT FROM MIND... SO THERE IS EVERY CHANCE THAT THEY MEANT SOMETHING AND WE HAVE UNDERSTOOD SOMETHING ELSE THROUGH THESE INTERPRETATIONS....

INSTEAD OF ARGUING AND WASTING YOUR TIME, OFFER UNCONDITIONAL APOLOGIES TO THOSE WHO FIND YOUR COMMENTS NOT TO THEIR LIKING, FOR PERSONAL PREFERENCES AND CHOICES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH TRUTH..... YOU NEED NOT PROVE YOURSELF TO ANY ONE... DONT DEFEND YOURSELF..... JUST ACCEPT DEFEAT AND MOVE ON.... TIME IS MORE PRECIOUS.....

SOME TIMES PEOPLE WILL BE VERY MATURED AND TALK SENSIBLE.... THE VERY SAME PERSON SOME TIMES WILL BE CHILDISH.... I WONDER AT THE MOTHER NATURE WHO SHOWS DICHOTOMY OF BEHAVIOUR IN THE SAME PERSON..... SO A MATURED PERSON CAN SOME TIMES BE CHILDISH AND A CHILDISH PERSON CAN BE MATURED SOME TIMES....


Saturday, April 15, 2017

April 2017 -3

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO LOVE OTHERS IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF....

BEFORE ADDING ME TO ANY GROUP, YOU NEED TO TAKE EXPLICIT PERMISSION FROM ME ..... OTHERWISE I MAY BE CONSTRAINED TO QUIT THE GROUP.... PLEASE BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY....

DON'T BLINDLY ADD PEOPLE TO SRO JWALA CENTRAL TRUST GROUP..... HAVE MINIMUM COURTESY TO APPROACH THEM AND SEEK THEIR PERMISSION TO DO SO.... ALSO ASCERTAIN WHETHER THEY ARE REALLY INTERESTED TO BE A PART OF OUR GROUP... SO DUMP ME ON THEM... ITS NOT FAIR.....

ANY MASTER OR SADHGURU IS NOT A CHEAP COMMODITY..... EVERY ONE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE VALUE OF A MASTER IN GURU KULAM.... A MASTER IS NOT A POLITICIAN AND DOESN'T GO AFTER NUMBERS... ANY ONE WHO IS BEING INTRODUCED TO THE GROUP, SHOULD KNOW THE VALUE OF THIS GURU KULAM.... SO DON'T BRING DISREPUTE TO YOUR MASTER BY BEHAVING CHILDISHLY.....

SOME TIMES WE KEEP SEARCHING FOR ONE PERSON WITH THE OTHER.... WE KEEP SEARCHING FOR THE MISSING PERSON WITH THE OTHERS..... NOW WHEN YOU START DOING THIS, MIND WILL START PLAYING TRICKS WITH YOU....
SHE HAD AN EXCELLENT MASTER.... AFTER HIS SAMADHI, SHE IS NOW SEARCHING FOR HIM WITH OTHERS, SINCE SHE IS MISSING HIM....
NEVER ANY ONE CAN BE ON PAR WITH THE OTHER... EVERY ONE IS UNIQUE.... SO COMPARISON ITSELF IS STUPID.... IF YOU FIND SOME ONE SIMILAR, IT MEANS YOUR MIND HAD STARTED PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU... A ROSE IS A ROSE , A JASMINE IS A JASMINE, A LOTUS IS A LOTUS.... EVEN WHEN YOU COMPARE THE DESIGNS OF ONE ROSE WITH THE OTHER, YOU WILL FIND EVERY ROSE UNIQUE.....ULTIMATELY YOU WILL REALISE, IT IS FUTILE TO COMPARE....
EVERY ONE IN THIS WORLD IS ORIGINAL AND UNIQUE.... IN THE SYSTEM OF NATURE, YOU CAN'T FIND DUPLICATES...

TO LIVE AFRESH EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE, YOU HAVE TO DIE THE PREVIOUS MOMENT.... UNLESS YOU LEARN TO DROP YOUR PAST, YOU CANNOT BE PEACEFUL IN THE PRESENT.....

HOW SO EVER GOOD, IN THE NAME OF VALUE SYSTEMS IT SHOULD NOT BE IMPOSED ON ANY ONE.... AT BEST YOU CAN SAY THAT SUCH A VALUE SYSTEM EXISTS AND IT IS UP TO THE OTHERS TO ADOPT IT OR REJECT IT..... ABSOLUTELY NO IMPOSITION OF ANY RULES OR REGULATIONS.... VALUE SYSTEMS SHOULD BE ADOPTED FROM THE HEART.... DISCIPLINE IS A VALUE SYSTEM AND IT HAS TO BE ADOPTED FROM HEART... DISCIPLINE SHOULD NOT BE FORCED ON ANY ONE.... ANY VALUE SYSTEM NOT ADOPTED FROM HEART IS JUST FARCE AND LACKS GENUINE VALUE....

THE BOOK THAT WAS RELEASED ON UGADI DAY TITLED 'SRIMAAN PURUSHOTTHAM DAS KAKKADE' IS A VERY VALUABLE AND A RARE BOOK.... THOSE WHO ATTENDED THE POOJA AND STAYED TILL THE LAST WERE BLESSED WITH ONE COPY EACH FOR A FAMILY.... NO DOUBT TO SOME I HAD DISTRIBUTED IN CHENNAI THROUGH MY OWN SOURCES AND PERSONALLY A FEW COPIES ON TAMIL NEW YEAR DAY....
NOW EVERY ONE WANTS ME TO GIVE THEM A COPY.... THEY EXPECT ME TO COURIER AND PROBABLY IF POSSIBLE HAND OVER A COPY AT THEIR HOME.... VERY FUNNY PEOPLE.... I DO SUCH THINGS SELECTIVELY FOR A FEW AND I CAN'T EXTEND THAT FACILITY TO ALL.... WE HAVE SPENT ALMOST A YEAR OF TIME ON THE BOOK IN ADDITION TO CONSIDERABLE AMOUNT OF ENERGY AND MONEY.....
BOB FU SPENT HIS ENTIRE TIME IN DEVELOPING THE ARTFUL PHOTOGRAPHS AND A TEAM WORKED ALMOST 24 X 7 TO ACHIEVE THE QUALITY.....
PEOPLE WHO HAVE READ THE BOOK SHOULD SHARE WITH OTHERS INSTEAD OF HOARDING THE COPY...

NEVER COMPROMISE ON YOUR PERSONAL SPACE AND FREEDOM.....THE JOY BORN OUT OF FREEDOM HELPS YOU TO DO BETTER SERVICE TO HUMANITY....

NEVER ALLOW ANY ONE HOW SO EVER CLOSE THEY MAY BE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU, TO MEDDLE IN YOUR PERSONAL AFFAIRS.... IT'S BETTER TO BE AWAY FROM SUCH PEOPLE....

WHEN SOME ONE CROSSES THE LINE AND INTERFERES WITH YOUR PERSONAL FREEDOM, DEVELOP THE COURAGE TO WARN HIM/HER INSTEAD OF BROODING OVER IT LATER...

THE PRIME REQUIREMENT IN LIFE IS YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT.... UNLESS YOU REACH THIS IN YOUR LIFE, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO DO ANY MEANINGFUL SERVICE TO HUMANITY....

IF YOU RESPECT AND VALUE YOUR FREEDOM, YOU WILL RESPECT AND REGARD OTHERS FREEDOM TOO...

ONLY THE COURAGEOUS CAN LIVE WITHOUT CRUTCHES AND BE FREE.... SUCH A PERSON IS A LIVING EXAMPLE FOR OTHERS TO FOLLOW AND IMBIBE...

FEAR WILL EAT IN TO YOU.... YOU WILL BECOME DEPENDENT ON OTHERS..... THE OTHERS WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR SITUATION.... YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SLAVE....

FEAR WILL TAMPER YOUR FREEDOM.... YOU WILL LOSE YOUR ORIGINALITY AND ALWAYS WILL BE A SLAVE TO OTHERS....

IT'S NOT WORTH TO LOSE YOUR ORIGINAL FLAVOUR WITH WHICH YOU WERE BORN..... SOME OF US SEEM TO HAVE FORGOTTEN AND ARE AT SOME OTHER ADDRESS THAN THE ONE LEFT OVER BY LORD AT THE TIME OF BIRTH....

GOD IS SEARCHING FOR YOU AT THE ADDRESS WHERE HE HAD LEFT YOU, WHEN YOU WERE BORN.....

WHEN YOUR EGO GROWS TO BECOME A TREE, LORD ARRANGES TO CUT IT DOWN.....

NEVER REVEAL ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION TO OTHERS..... YOU MAY BE IN FOR A MAJOR TROUBLE.... THESE DAYS KIDS FREELY EXCHANGE A LOT OF PERSONAL INFORMATION.... SOME TIMES I FIND THIS HAPPENING AT OUR YAGNAM SPOTS TOO.... THOUGH I HAVE NO RIGHT TO QUESTION SUCH KIDS OF THEIR ACTIONS, I THOUGHT IT'S BETTER TO CAUTION SUCH KIDS THROUGH THIS POST.... MANY IN THIS WORLD ARE OPPORTUNISTIC AND SUCH KIDS MAY BECOME A VICTIM OF A CONSPIRACY.... IN SOME CASES THE PARENTS KNOW OF THE FACT, BUT CHOSE TO IGNORE FOR REASONS BEST KNOWN TO THEM....

PLEASE WORK FOR YOUR DESIRES.... YOU MAY ACHIEVE A GOOD RESULT BASED ON YOUR WORK..... A GURU WILL NOT FULFIL YOUR DESIRES.... SO DON'T GO TO A GURU FOR SUCH A PURPOSE.... WITH EXPECTATION, IF YOU APPROACH HIM, I AM SURE YOU WILL ONLY FACE DISAPPOINTMENTS IN LIFE.... THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A GURU AND A DISCIPLE IS A HOLY ONE AND BEYOND ANY SELFISH INTERESTS.....

SHE TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE BECAUSE OF 50% HER OWN STUPIDITY AND 50% OTHERS STUPIDITIES.... LUCKILY SHE SURVIVED DUE TO LORD'S GRACE.... NOW THE HUSBAND AND IN LAWS WANT A GUARANTEE FROM OTHERS WHO ARE CLOSE TO HER, THAT SHE WILL NOT ATTEMPT ONCE AGAIN.... IN CASE A GUARANTEE IS OFFERED , THEY MAY ALLOW HER TO COME BACK HOME... WHO CAN GUARANTEE THAT THE OTHER'S BEHAVIOUR?.... NONE.... FURTHER IF THE GIRL HAS ATTEMPTED SUCH AN ACT, THE OTHERS IN THE FAMILY WHO WERE CLOSE TO HER, TOO MIGHT BE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE... WILL THE IN LAWS AND HUSBAND GUARANTEE THAT THEY WILL BEHAVE PROPERLY WITH THE GIRL? TO ME BOTH THE GIRL AND HER HUSBAND ARE EQUALLY STUPID.....

FOR TRUTH TO DAWN ON YOU, YOUR MIND MUST BE LITERALLY BLANK AND NOT GUIDED BY ANY OPINIONS... YOU MUST BE A HOLLOW BAMBOO STICK FOR THE LORD TO USE YOU AS A FLUTE... THE MOMENT THIS HAPPENS YOU WILL EXPERIENCE TRUTH....

TRUTH AND LOVE ARE SYNONYMOUS.... IT CAN ONLY BE EXPERIENCED AND CAN NEVER BE EXPRESSED.....


IT'S FUNNY SOME TIMES WHEN I FIND PEOPLE TELLING ME....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER... SHE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL.....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER....SHE IS WELL EDUCATED....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER.....SHE IS WELL BEHAVED.....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER......SHE IS WELL TO DO.....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER.....WE BOTH WORK IN THE SAME OFFICE....
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER.....WE BOTH ARE IN THE SAME LINE OF PROFESSION.....
THIS IS NOT LOVE..... IT IS JUST BUSINESS..... LOVE IS DEVOID OF ANY REASONING..... LOVE IS FROM HEART... REASONING IS FROM MIND.... BOTH CANNOT GO TOGETHER... ALL THESE CASES ARE A MATTER OF CONVENIENCE.... THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO LOVE..... JUST KIDDING AROUND PROBABLY.....

EVEN IF YOUR WIFE HAS TWO MOBILE CONNECTIONS DONT RECORD IT IN YOUR MOBILE AS... WIFE 1 & WIFE 2....
YOU MAY BE HOSPITALISED FOR FRACTURE OF THE SKULL..
LOL....



YOU MUST BE ABSOLUTELY COURAGEOUS NOT TO DEFEND YOURSELF, WHEN SOME ONE VERBALLY ABUSES YOU....



ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TAKE DECISIONS AND OWN RESPONSIBILITY THERE OF.... DON'T KEEP SPOON FEEDING THEM..... THEY MAY NEVER LEARN TO TAKE DECISIONS, LEAVE ALONE OWNING RESPONSIBILITY.... SOME TIMES THEY MAY TAKE DISHONEST DECISIONS AND THAT MAY GO WRONG..... BUT THAT IS THE EXPERIENCE WHICH EVERY CHILD SHOULD UNDERGO TO TAKE HONEST DECISIONS IN FUTURE.... BAD DECISIONS GIVE EXPERIENCE TO TAKE GOOD OR BETTER DECISIONS.... AFTER ALL YOU MAY NOT LIKE THEM LIVING WITH CRUTCHES THROUGH OUT LIFE...



AN OVER PROTECTIVE PARENT IS A BIG DISINCENTIVE TO THE CHILD'S GROWTH AND FUTURE.



MANY TIMES FEAR GRIPS THE PARENTS ABOUT THEIR CHILD.... THEY START CONTROLLING THE CHILD TOO MUCH AND THEY STATE THAT THE PRESENT DAY CONDITIONS OUTSIDE WARRANT THEM TO EXERCISE THAT KIND OF A CONTROL.... IN MY EXPERIENCE, MANY OF THE KIDS SO CONTROLLED, ON GROWING EITHER BECOME A MONEY SPINNING MILL WITHOUT ANY HUMAN TOUCH OR THEY DO THINGS CLANDESTINELY WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF PARENTS AND BECOME NOTORIOUS IN THE LONG RUN.... FEAR IN THE PARENTS SEEMS TO BE THE CAUSE OF SUCH A DISASTER..... FURTHER THERE IS NO GUARANTEE THAT THE PARENTS ARE SHOWING THE RIGHT PATH.... THEY JUST APE OTHERS AND FOLLOW SOME MODULE WHICH HAS WORKED FOR SOME ONE ELSE.... EVERY CHILD IS UNIQUE AND HARDLY THE SAME MODULE OF DISCIPLINE OR CONTROL WILL WORK....



BE MORE OF A FRIEND TO YOUR CHILD.... THE CHILD WILL RELISH YOUR COMPANY AND WILL NOT FALL IN TO WRONG HANDS.....



A PRACTICAL JOKE....AN EYE OPENER...
ONE DAY WHEN I WAS DRIVING MY CAR AND GOING TOWARDS GADCHIBOWLI, I SAW A PERSON KNOWN TO ME, OVERTAKING MY VEHICLE.... HE WAS ON A BIKE AND THE HELMET WAS IN THE REAR DULY LOCKED.... HE WAS NOT WEARING THE HELMET AT THAT TIME.....
THE OTHER DAY I MET HIM AND SO ASKED HIM....'YOU WERE DANGEROUSLY DRIVING THE BIKE THAT TOO WITHOUT HELMET LAST MONTH'....
HE....'GURUJI... MAY BE ... WHAT WAS THE TIME THEN?'....
ME....'MAY BE AROUND 2.30 PM IN THE AFTERNOON'....
HE.....'GURUJI.... NOTHING TO WORRY..... BETWEEN 2 PM AND 4 PM POLICE DO NOT PATROL THE ROAD.... THEY GO FOR LUNCH'.....
LOL....
ANY RULE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE THE ATTITUDE OF SOME PEOPLE, UNLESS THEY VOLUNTARILY ADOPT DISCIPLINE..... FURTHER NOT ONLY THESE GUYS ENDANGER THEIR LIFE BUT MAY ENDANGER OTHER'S LIFE TOO.... SO WEAR HELMET IN THE INTEREST OF YOURSELF AND OTHERS... DON'T NEGLECT IT.....

TO BE IN A GURUKULAM, DISCIPLINE IS A MUST.... MASTERS ALWAYS EXPECT THE DISCIPLES TO BE DISCIPLINED.... IF YOU TAKE A MASTER FOR GRANTED, YOU WILL LOSE THE ELIGIBILITY TO BE IN THE GURUKULAM.....

MANY OF US ARE FULL OF EXPECTATIONS.... ADDING ON TOP OF IT, WE ARE NOT AWARE OF THE POSSIBILITY OR IMPOSSIBILITY OF A SITUATION.... WITH EXPECTATIONS IN MIND, IF YOU FAIL TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE, YOU WILL FEEL DEPRESSED.... IT MAY BE HELL FOR YOU..... IF YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS, AT LEAST AN AWARENESS ABOUT POSSIBILITY/IMPOSSIBILITY OF THE SITUATION IS A MUST TO AVOID DEPRESSION....

SOME PEOPLE GO ON PURCHASING BOOKS ON SPIRITUALITY OR KEEP SEARCHING INTERNET FOR SUCH INFORMATION..... OUR PRAYERS TO LORD THAT THEY SHOULD LAND WITH THE CORRECT INFORMATION AND NOT CARRIED AWAY BY WHAT IS WRITTEN IN THE BOOKS OR POSTED ON THE NET..... WITH SUCH A CORRUPTED KNOWLEDGE, WHEN THEY RAISE QUESTIONS, A WISE MAN CAN ONLY LAUGH AT THEM.....




Thursday, April 6, 2017

April 2017 -2

Golden words of HH Sri VV Sridhar Guruji 

WITHOUT DESIRE LIFE IS SUICIDAL AND WITH GREED IT IS A DISASTER.. AWARENESS IS THE KEY FOR DESIRE NOT TRANSFORMING IN TO GREED....

BEFORE A MASTER YOU SHOULD BE UTTERLY NAKED AND NOT MASKED... IF YOU ARE MASKED BEFORE HIM, HE UNDERSTANDS YOUR PROBLEM, SMILES AND MOVES ON...


ANGER WILL BURN YOU..... DROP EXPECTATIONS.... ANGER WILL DISAPPEAR...


TO BE A KARMA YOGI, YOU MUST BE DEVOID OF ANY SELFISH MOTIVES...


YOU ARE A COSMIC POWER ON YOUR OWN..... YOU ARE A SPARK OF THE ULTIMATE.... WAKE UP AND ARISE ABOVE THE PETTY..... YOU ARE A GRANDEUR OF A BEING....


THE WORLD IS A PLACE OF UNEQUALS..... THIS ASPECT CREATES AN OPPORTUNITY TO SERVE.


THERE ARE MILLIONS MORE UNFORTUNATE THAN YOU... SO STOP LAMENTING AND BE OF SOME USE TO THE SOCIETY AT LARGE....


RESPECT ALL...

TRUST A FEW....
HAVE FAITH IN ONE....

HE..... SHE IS ARROGANT....

I LAUGHED....
HE...WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING?
ME..TO ME SHE LOOKS ASSERTIVE....

INTELLECTUALITY WILL NOT HELP YOU TO REALISE GOD.... AT BEST IT WILL TAKE YOU TO DOORS OF THE DEVIL.....


PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO DIE PREMATURE.... PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO DIE IN CIVIL WARS.... PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO DIE IN THE BATTLE FIELD.... PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE KILLED OR MURDERED OR ASSASSINATED.....PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO COMMIT SUICIDE.... PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO DIE.... LET THEM REACH THE LORD'S FEET OR AT LEAST REACH THE WORLD OF THEIR FOREFATHERS/PITRUS AND BE BORN TO LEAD A BETTER LIFE.....


HE WAS TALKING ABOUT THE COST FACTOR..... I WAS THINKING ABOUT ITS VALUE.....


PRAYERS/DHYANA/YOGA/MEDITATION, IF PRACTISED WITH CONVICTION AND DEDICATION ,UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF AN ABLE MASTER TAKES YOU CLOSER TO THE COSMIC REALITY....


SOME TIMES PEOPLE EARN TONS OF MONEY RUNNING 24X7, WHERE AS THE QUALITY OF LIFE THEY LEAD IS PATHETIC.... LET US PRAY FOR THESE BEINGS TO GOD, TO MAKE THEM REALISE THAT THEY ARE HUMAN....



IF YOU CAN CELEBRATE THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS AS THOUGH IT IS YOURS AND BE EMPATHETIC IN THEIR FAILURES, I SEE THE DIVINE IN YOU.....

IF YOU CELEBRATE THE FAILURES OF OTHERS AND JEALOUS OF THEIR SUCCESS, I SEE THE DEVIL IN YOU....

ATTRIBUTING THE SUCCESS TO THE TEAM IS THE HALLMARK OF A TRUE LEADERSHIP....

GOD CREATED THE WHOLE WORLD SINCE HE LOVED TO CREATE.... HE CREATED MAN, ANIMALS, BIRDS, TREES, RIVERS, SEAS, ETC., MAN STARTED USING HIS INTELLECT CREATED TEMPLES FOR GODS, BUILDINGS FOR HIMSELF, ZOOLOGICAL GARDENS FOR THE ANIMALS, CAGES FOR THE BIRDS, DAMS ACROSS THE RIVERS, CAUSEWAYS AND TUNNELS ACROSS THE SEAS...
I WONDER GOD AND LAUGH AT MAN.....

WHEN YOU ARE THE DOER, YOUR OWN THOUGHT CAN BE YOUR FRIEND OR ENEMY.....
WHEN LORD IS THE DOER, THE THOUGHT IS NEITHER A FRIEND NOR AN ENEMY.....

PEOPLE AT THE TOP ARE ALWAYS FULL OF STRESS UNLESS THEY ARE CONTENTED.... SOME ARE GREEDY TO CLING ON TO THE TOP AND THIS IS IMPOSSIBLE AT PEAK.... THEY KNOW FULLY WELL THAT PEAK IS MOMENTARY AND THEY ARE LIKELY TO LOSE... THIS RESULTS IN STRESS.... LIFE IN THE VALLEY IS THE MOST PEACEFUL ONE AND FREE OF ANY STRESS....

A FEW YEARS BACK.....
I HAD BORROWED SOME MONEY FROM SOME ONE..... I ASKED HIM TO COME TO TANK BUND....
HE CAME AND STOOD BY MY SIDE....

HE.....'HOPE YOU HAVE BROUGHT THE MONEY'.....

ME.....'NO......BUT SEE THE GAUTAM BUDDHA....HOW SERENE HIS LOOKS ARE.....HOW BEAUTIFUL HE IS....SEE THAT GRACIOUS SMILE ......I LOVE HIM'.....
HE WAS WILD AND SEETHING WITH ANGER.....
HE......'YOU KEEP ON DODGING LIKE THIS.... YOU ARE A CHEAT.... I DON'T TRUST YOU'...... BLAH....BLAH....BLAH...
THEN I TOOK OUT A CHEQUE FROM MY POCKET AND GAVE IT TO HIM....
HE...'YOU SAID YOU DIDN'T BRING THE MONEY'....
ME...'YES....I ONLY BROUGHT THE CHEQUE FOR THE SAID AMOUNT, I DID NOT BRING CASH...THIS IS WHAT IT MEANS...FURTHER PLEASE DEPOSIT THE CHEQUE IMMEDIATELY.... IF YOU DON'T DEPOSIT TODAY, I MAY WITHDRAW IT IN TWO DAYS TIME AND THE CHEQUE WILL BE RETURNED FOR WANT OF FUNDS.... AFTER THAT I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE'.....
HE JUST SNATCHED THE CHEQUE AND RUSHED TO HIS BANK TO DEPOSIT.... THE CHEQUE GOT CLEARED AND HE GOT THE AMOUNT....
HE CALLED ME ON MY MOBILE,,,'I AM SORRY.... I EXCEEDED MY LIMITS ON THAT DAY AND SCOLDED YOU VERY NASTILY'.....
I SAID....'I WAS FEELING THAT YOU MISSED A BIG CHANCE..... HAD YOU SEEN BUDDHA THAT DAY, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN VERY GRACEFUL.... I FELT LIKE HE SMILED MORE THAT DAY...YOU MISSED HIS GRACIOUS SMILE'.....
WHEN OUR MIND IS CLOUDED, WE MISS SOME BEAUTIFUL MOMENTS IN LIFE....

WHEN YOU TRY TO POSSESS SOME ONE, YOU REDUCE THEM TO A THING..... THIS IS UNFORTUNATE AND A DISGRACE....UNLESS YOU DROP POSSESSIVENESS AND REALLY LOVE THE PERSON, YOU ARE ILL TREATING THE PERSON AND ALSO BRINGING DISREPUTE TO THE FAMILY YOU BELONG TO.... YOUR LINEAGE AND ANCESTORS WILL BE BLAMED FOR SUCH AN ACT OF YOURS...... THIS IS HIGHLY IMMORAL....

REFORM OR RE......FORM.....


A PERSON FULL OF MIND CAN NEVER BE NON JUDGMENTAL....

OWNERSHIP AND DOER SHIP OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS IS THE PRIMARY CAUSE OF ALL YOUR SUFFERINGS.... WHEN YOU SHUN THIS OWNERSHIP/DOER SHIP, PAIN STILL MAY BE MANDATORY BUT YOU WILL BE DEVOID OF SUFFERINGS....


AHBAO WANTS....ENROL ONE GET THREE FREE.....LOL....

TO HAVE A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A MASTER ONE HAS TO BE EGOLESS AND HUMBLE... OTHERWISE THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE JUST PSUEDO...

SOME OF YOU HAVE A LOT OF DEFENCES SUCH AS PRETENSIONS, EGO, INHIBITIONS, PREJUDICES.... THIS IS INDEED A VERY BIG BAGGAGE..... INTIMACY WITH THE MASTER BECOMES IMPOSSIBLE... YOU HAVE TO BECOME UTTERLY NAKED BEFORE THE MASTER... FOR THAT THE DEFENCES NEED TO BE DROPPED....

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO BE RUTHLESS TO ONE SELF AND KIND TO THE OTHER... UNLESS YOU LOVE YOURSELF YOU CANNOT LOVE OTHERS... YOU CANNOT BE KIND TO OTHERS... YOU MUST FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR THE LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED TO BE KIND TO OTHERS... SO DON'T BE RUTHLESS TO YOURSELF, FOR YOU WILL ONLY BE CALLED A 'MASOCHIST'.... YOUR BEING SO HAS TO BE DOUBTED FOR THERE WILL BE ULTERIOR MOTIVE TO YOUR ACTION OF BEING RUTHLESS TO YOURSELF....


NOW A DAYS KIDS ARE MORE INDIVIDUALISTIC BY NATURE.... THEY DO EVERYTHING ON THEIR OWN AND ARE LESS DEPENDENT ON THE PARENTS..... SOME TIMES PARENTS LAMENT THAT THEIR KIDS DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEM AND WHEN ASKED GIVE A REPLY THAT THEY ARE BUSY WITH THEIR LIFE.... YES... IT IS PATHETIC FOR THE PARENTS.... BUT PARENTS HAVE TO MATURE BETTER TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE KIDS HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE AND WOULD LIKE TO LIVE THE WAY THEY WANT....
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A JOKE FOR YOU....
SHE WENT ABROAD FOR HER MASTER'S DEGREE....SHE WAS VERY CONCERNED ABOUT HER FATHER'S ILL HEALTH AND WAS LITERALLY IN TEARS....
I WROTE TO HER BACK....
'THAT'S WHY I TOLD YOU IN THE BEGINNING ITSELF TO DECIDE WHILE LEAVING ABROAD.... COMPLETE YOUR EDUCATION AND COME FAST TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR DAD'....
SHE STOPPED COMMUNICATING.....
LOL

SOME KIDS OF THE PRESENT DAYS ARE EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO PARENTS.... AT THE SAME TIME THEY WANT TO GO ABROAD AND PURSUE THEIR HIGHER STUDIES....AFTER THEY LEAVE FOR ABROAD, WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS ON THE HOME FRONT THEY START PANICKING.... NEITHER THEY CAN COME BACK NOR ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT IS..... WHAT CAN YOU SUGGEST FOR SUCH KIDS?

SHOULD PARENTS CONDITION KIDS AND IMPOSE THEIR WHIMS AND FANCIES? CAN NOT THE KID BE ALLOWED TO GROW ON ITS OWN AND LEARN FROM IT'S EXPERIENCES? SHOULD PARENTS BE SO PROTECTIVE OF THEIR KIDS? CAN THIS BE TERMED AS POSSESSIVENESS? ARE PARENTS AFRAID OF THE KIDS GOING ASTRAY, IF LEFT FREE? IS PARENTAL CONTROL GOING TO REALLY HELP THE KIDS TO GROW AND MATURE AS BETTER CITIZENS? ANY THOUGHTS ON ALL THIS?

OUT OF THE DEEP RESPECT AND REGARD YOU HAVE FOR A PERSON, YOU ALLOW HIM OR HER TO BE FREE.... FREEDOM IS AN ASPECT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.... WHEN YOU LOVE A PERSON YOU WILL HAVE DEEP RESPECT FOR THE PERSON...

HE....MY BOY HAS GONE TO USA FOR HIGHER STUDIES.... WILL HE COME BACK TO INDIA?
ME....PLACE YOUR FAITH ON TRUMP THAN YOUR BOY.... TRUMP WILL SEND HIM BACK SOON....
LOL....





HEART KNOWS NO VIOLENCE.... OF COURSE MIND KNOWS VIOLENCE...

MOOD SWINGS HAPPEN BECAUSE OF MIND, FOR HEART KNOWS NO SWINGS....

IF YOU ARE A CONSCIOUS PERSON, YOU WILL BE TOTALLY BALANCED... AWARENESS IS THE KEY.... MOST OF US ARE UNCONSCIOUS.... HENCE ALL THE TROUBLE....


I KNOW A PERSON WHO USED TO ENJOY SAYING THAT HE CAN TALK TO SOULS/SPIRITS ETC.,.....
I KNOW THAT HE WAS A BIG LIAR AND WAS CHEATING PEOPLE....
HE USED TO VISIT EERIE PLACES AND SPEND HOURS OF TIME.... EVERY TIME HE WILL SAY THAT HE WAS SPEAKING TO THE SOUL OF 'X' OR 'Y' OR 'Z'..... THE USED TO SAY THAT THE SOUL IS SUFFERING AND NEEDS HELP..... HE USED TO COLLECT MONEY ON THIS PRETEXT FROM THE RELATIVES OF DEPARTED SOUL....I HAD WARNED HIM THAT HE WAS PLAYING A DANGEROUS GAME....
THIS WAS GOING ON FOR YEARS.....
SUDDENLY ONE DAY HIS MOTHER CRIED ON PHONE TO ME AND ASKED ME TO COME HOME.... I WENT TO HIS PLACE....
HE LOOKED MENTALLY DERANGED....
I ASKED HIS MOTHER AS TO WHAT HAPPENED....
SHE SAID.....'YESTERDAY, HE WENT TO SOME ONE'S PLACE AND TOLD THEM THAT SOUL WAS SUFFERING AND HE WOULD RELIEVE IT FROM THAT SUFFERING.... HE DID SOME POOJA AT NIGHT AT THEIR PLACE..... THOSE PEOPLE BROUGHT HIM IN THIS CONDITION BACK HOME'....
WHEN I SAW HIS FACE, IT WAS CLEAR THAT FOR THE FIRST TIME HE HAS SIGHTED SOMETHING AND VIRTUALLY GONE MAD.....
ME...... 'DONT WORRY..... TAKE HIM TO SHOLINGUR AND STAY IN THAT STHALAM FOR 48 DAYS.... LORD YOGA NRUSIMHA SWAMY AND YOGA ANJANEYA SWAMY WILL CURE THIS AILMENT.....BUT YOU HAVE TO STAY IN THAT STHALAM AND DAILY TAKE HIM TO BOTH THE TEMPLES ON THE SEPARATE HILL LOCKS EVERY DAY AND GIVE HIM THE THEERTHA PRASADAM (HOLY WATER)'.....
DURING MY NEXT VISIT TO FOREST, I HAD TO DO A PRAYOGAM, PRAYING TO LORD YOGA NRUSIMHA AND YOGA ANJANEYA... HIS MOTHER DEDICATEDLY STAYED FOR 48 DAYS IN THE STHALAM.....
FINALLY HE CAME BACK TO SENSES..... NOW A DAYS HE DOESN'T INDULGE IN SUCH GIMMICKS....
UGRAM VEERAM MAHAVISHNUM JWALANTHAM SARVATHOMUKHAM I
NRUSIMHAM BEESHANAM BHADRAM MRTUMRTYUR NAMAMYAHAM II
LORD'S GRACE....OUR PRAYERS....

LIVE MOMENT TO MOMENT TO ENJOY LIFE.....

HE......'GURUJI, I HAVE UNDERSTOOD YOU WELL'....
I HAD A HEARTY LAUGH AND TOLD HIM....'THEN STILL WHY ARE YOU HANGING AROUND WITH ME'....
HE WAS BLINKING.....
I CONTINUED.....'ANY PERSON WHO HAS UNDERSTOOD ME WELL, WILL NOT STAY WITH ME..... ONLY THE IGNORANT HANG AROUND ME..... THE WISE ONE HAS WINGS....HE WILL FLY AWAY.... SO DON'T KEEP CRAWLING WITH ME.... FLY AWAY'.....
HE STOPPED COMING TO ME.......
IPL SEASON HAS STARTED.... ONE MORE WICKET DOWN....
LOL....

SHE LOST HER HUSBAND RECENTLY.... SHE ASKED ME WHETHER I CAN COMMUNICATE WITH THE SOUL AND LET HER KNOW THE STATUS OF IT..... SHE HAD LOVED HER HUSBAND A LOT.... THOUGH I CAN UNDERSTAND HER FEELINGS, I SAID THAT AS OF NOW IT IS IMPOSSIBLE....
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TRACING A SOUL IN THE PITRU LOKA IS NOT AN EASY TASK.... SOULS TAKE THEIR OWN TIME TO REACH THE PITRU LOKA.... DIFFERENT SCRIPTURES GIVE DIFFERENT VERSIONS... LET ME TRY EXPLAINING THIS FROM PRAYOGA VEDA POINT OF VIEW.....
FOR EVERY FAMILY THERE EXISTS A SOUL CALLED 'JIVA PITRU/JIVA PITRUS' WHO DECIDES ABOUT THE FATE OF THE SOUL DEPENDING ON IT'S PREVIOUS BIRTH'S ACTIONS, INACTIONS AND REACTIONS..... IT DECIDES THE MATURITY OF THE SOUL... FROM THE EXPERIENCES OF THE PREVIOUS BIRTH WHETHER THE SOUL HAS LEARNT ANYTHING OR NOT? HAS IT MATURED BETTER? HAS IT MADE PROGRESS IN THE LEVELS OF INDIVIDUAL CONSCIOUSNESS? AND MANY MORE DETAILS... ALL THESE DETAILS ARE SCRUTINISED AND THE SOUL IS TOLD ABOUT THE POSITIVITIES AND NEGATIVITIES IN ITS ACT AS A HUMAN BEING IN THE PREVIOUS BIRTH.... COMPARISON CHARTS ARE DRAWN WITH IT'S OWN MANY BIRTHS IN THE PAST.....
ACCORDING TO THE BALANCE OF GOOD KARMA AND BAD KARMA, THE SOUL IS GIVEN A PRIORITY TO BE REBORN.... SOME TIMES SOULS WHICH HAVE RECENTLY ENTERED THE PITRU LOKA GET A PREFERENCE TO BE REBORN QUICKLY WHERE AS THE SOULS WHICH HAVE LONG BACK REACHED THE PITRU LOKA ARE KEPT WAITING....
THE ARITHMETIC AND EQUATIONS ARE A COMPLEX SET OF ALGORITHMS THAN THE PRESENT DAY COMPUTER SCIENCE.. THE SOLE DECIDING AUTHORITY IS THE JIVA PITRU.... THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN INFLUENCE THEM TO CHANGE THEIR DECISION IS THE GOTHRA RISHIS....GOTHRA RISHIS GO BY MERITS OF INDIVIDUAL CASES....
SO EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO FIND OUT THE STAGE AT WHICH A SOUL, IT CAN BE DONE ONLY WITH THE EXPLICIT PERMISSION OF THE 'JIVA PITRU/JIVA PITRUS'.... THE MERIT OF THE SOUL IS IMPORTANT.... JIVA PITRUS ARE HIGHLY EVOLVED SOULS WHO COULD HAVE MERGED WITH GOD, BUT CHOSE TO GUIDE AND GUARD THEIR FAMILY ANCESTORS....THEY SACRIFICE EVERYTHING TO REMAIN IN THE FAMILY TO GUIDE THE PITRUS......
TO CONTACT THE 'JIVA PITRU/JIVA PITRUS' OF A FAMILY, IS NOT LIKE MAKING A CALL ON THE MOBILE.... IT'S NOT THAT EASY.... CONSIDERABLE TIME AND ENERGY HAS TO BE SPENT... IT INVOLVES LOTS OF PRAYOGA PRACTICES....
OF COURSE WHEN THE SOUL HAS WHILE LIVING IN ITS BODY IN THIS WORLD ATTRIBUTED EVERYTHING TO GOD, IF IT HAS SHUN DOER SHIP AND HAS CONSIDERED EVERY ACT PERFORMED AS AN ACT OF GOD, THEN IT BECOMES ELIGIBLE TO MERGE WITH LORD OR BECOME A JIVA PITRU OR BE REBORN AT WILL....
THOUGHT OF JUST SHARING THE LIMITED INFORMATION WHICH I AM PERMITTED TO SHARE....
'UDEERATHAM AVARA UTHPARASAHA UNMADHYAMA PITARAHA SOMYASA ASOOMYA EEYUHU, AVURUGA RUTHAGYNA THENOVANTHU PITARO HAVESHU'....
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS....




THERE ARE VARIOUS TYPES OF BEINGS IN THIS WORLD, A PART FROM HUMANS.... WE HAVE THE ANIMALS, THE TREES, THE PLANTS, THE INSECTS ETC., ALL HAVE CERTAIN LEVEL OF MATURITY.... CERTAIN LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS..... ALL THESE HAVE THEIR OWN CLAN AND FAMILIES.... THERE ARE LOTS OF DIVISIONS.... EVERY SOUL IS CONSCIOUS TO A CERTAIN EXTENT.... EVERY CLAN HAS ITS SEGMENT IN PITRU LOKA WITH A JIVA PITRU/ JIVA PITRUS AS ITS HEAD....
I SOME TIMES LAUGH WHEN PEOPLE COME AND TELL ME THAT THE HIGHEST EVOLVED BEING IS HUMAN..... CERTAINLY NOT.... IF HUMAN IS HIGHEST EVOLVED BEING HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND AND COMMUNICATE ACROSS ALL THE BEINGS OF THIS WORLD.... FOR EXAMPLE WHEN A CROW MAKES A SOUND, IT'S A MIXTURE OF COOS, CAWS, CLICKS, RATTLES... IF HUMAN IS AN EVOLVED BEING , HE MUST BE ABLE TO DECIPHER WHAT IT IS COMMUNICATING.... IN REALITY NO ONE UNDERSTANDS... IN FACT WE DON'T EVEN HEAR THE BEAUTY OF ITS SOUNDS...SO IT'S JUST HUMAN HYPOCRISY THAT WE CALL OURSELVES A SUPER BEING....
WHEN ONE REACHES THE STAGE OF A JIVA PITRU IN THAT BEING, IT HAS AN OPTION TO COME BACK AND BORN IN ITS FAMILY OR CHANGE OVER TO OTHER BEINGS OR EVEN MERGE WITH GOD.... IT IS WRONG TO SAY THAT HUMANS ALONE CAN REACH GOD.... ANY BEING CAN REACH GOD OR GET TRANSFORMED IN TO ANOTHER BEING ONCE THEY BECOME CONSCIOUS IN THEIR LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING....

THE HUMAN HYPOCRISY IS TO THAT EXTENT THAT WHAT CANNOT UNDERSTAND IS LOWER LEVEL AND WHAT CAN BE UNDERSTOOD IS HIGHER LEVEL.... IN FACT IT HAS TO BE THE OPPOSITE.... EVEN IN COMPUTERS, THE SYSTEMS PROGRAMMING IS DIFFICULT AND IS WRITTEN IN BINARY DIGITS...ONLY A SYSTEMS PROGRAMMER CAN UNDERSTAND THAT LANGUAGE AND NOT THE APPLICATION PROGRAMMER...THE SYSTEMS PROGRAMMING IS MORE CALLED MACHINE CODE AND IT IS COMPLEX CANNOT BE UNDERSTOOD BY OTHER PROGRAMMERS...SO LOW LEVEL... SIMILARLY HUMANS CANT UNDERSTAND WHAT A CROW SAYS OR A COW SAYS OR CAN COMMUNICATE WITH OTHER BEINGS..... HYPOCRISY AND EGO MAKES US TO BRAND OTHER BEINGS AS LOW LEVEL BEINGS....

A FEW YEARS BACK, ONE DAY A PERSON KNOWN TO ME CAME TO ME ....
HE... 'GURUJI, WHICH IS OUR FAMILY DEITY?.... I HAD BEEN TO MANY ASTROLOGERS AND THEY HAVE BEEN SAYING DIFFERENT VERSIONS.... I AM TOTALLY CONFUSED.... PLEASE GUIDE ME'....
ME....'GO TO TIRUMALA AND WORSHIP LORD BALAJEE EVERY YEAR AT LEAST ONCE'....
HE....'I HAVE TO STAND IN QUEUE, FOR HOURS TOGETHER TO HAVE A GLIMPSE OF HIM.... I CAN'T DO THAT SINCE I AM VERY BUSY WITH MY BUSINESS... SUGGEST SOMETHING EASIER'....
I LAUGHED AND SAID...'BETTER CONSULT ANOTHER ASTROLOGER.... I HAVE NO OTHER OPTION IN YOUR CASE'....
HE LEFT....
HE WAS ON A BUSINESS TRIP SOMEWHERE SOUTH IN HIS CAR..... HIS CAR STOPPED MIDWAY IN A FOREST LIKE AREA, AT AROUND 10 PM.... THERE WAS NO ONE ON THE ROAD... SO HE LOCKED THE CAR AND WALKED SOME DISTANCE... HE FOUND A ROAD SIDE TEMPLE.... THERE WAS NO LIGHT AND NO ONE AROUND..... HE WAS TIRED AND SLEPT..... IN THE MORNING A PRIEST CAME AND WOKE HIM UP....
PRIEST....'WHO ARE YOU? WHY ARE YOU SLEEPING HERE?'...
HE SAID...'MY CAR HAS BROKEN DOWN JUST A FURLONG AWAY AT NIGHT... SINCE I WAS JUST SEARCHING FOR A PLACE TO STAY THROUGH THE NIGHT, I FOUND THIS TEMPLE'...
THE PRIEST HANDED HIM OVER A TOWEL AND SAID....'ON THE BACK SIDE THERE IS A REST ROOM AND BATH ROOM... TAKE BATH AND COME BACK.... I WILL DO THE ABHISHEGAM FOR THE LORD, COOK FOOD, OFFER HIM AND THEN CALL YOU'...
HE COMPLETED ALL THAT AND WAITED FOR AN HOUR...THE SCREEN OPENED.... IT WAS LORD BALAJEE.....
HE WAS IN TEARS..... HE CAME BACK TO THE CAR AND TRIED STARTING THE CAR AND IT STARTED... HE WAS AMAZED....
HE CAME BACK AND TOLD ME THE STORY THAT HAPPENED...
I LAUGHED AND TOLD HIM, 'IN YOUR NEXT TRIP TOO, GO TO THAT TEMPLE'....
IN THE NEXT TRIP DURING HIS VISIT SOUTH, WHEN HE WENT TO THAT PLACE, THERE WAS NO TEMPLE....
HE CALLED ME ON MY MOBILE AND TOLD ME THAT THE TEMPLE IS MISSING...
I LAUGHED ROARINGLY....
HE...'WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING GURUJI?'....
ME....'DON'T EXPECT THE LORD TO KEEP WAITING FOR YOU AT THAT PLACE EVERY TIME..HE IS NOT YOUR SERVANT... HE HAS BETTER THINGS TO DO...AT LEAST NOW MAKE IT A PRACTICE TO GO TO TIRUMALA EVERY YEAR'....
HE WAS ZAPPED....
NOW EVERY YEAR HE RELIGIOUSLY VISITS TIRUMALA ON JANUARY 1ST AND OFFERS HIS PRAYERS....
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS....
OM NAMO VENKATESAYA......
LORD'S GRACE...OUR PRAYERS....

YOU MAY BELONG TO A GROUP BUT DON'T INDULGE IN GROUPISM...

RESPECT EVERYONE BUT PLACE YOUR FAITH ON ONE....

THIS WORLD IS FULL OF FAKE GURUS, FAKE ASTROLOGERS.... SO BE CAUTIOUS.... ASK YOUR HEART IT WILL DIRECT YOU TO A RIGHT PERSON.... MIND WILL PLAY TRICKS....IF YOU LAND WITH A WRONG PERSON, BY THE TIME YOU COME TO KNOW, YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN NECK DEEP IN TO IT AND WOULD FIND IT DIFFICULT TO EXTRICATE.... YOU WILL CERTAINLY FEEL DEJECTED AND DEPRESSED AND START FEELING EVERY ONE AS THE SAME...

FAITH IS FROM THE HEART.... YOU CAN ALWAYS SEE MIRACLES HAPPENING WITH YOU AND AROUND YOU.....

Kavitha Govindarajan for non believers or those who aren't willing to wait in queues r go through hardships ummachi will come and be therea?
ME...LOL....UMMACHI IS ALWAYS THERE... HE THERE ALWAYS AT HOME..... HE IS THERE AS YOUR MOM....HE IS THERE AS YOUR SON.... HE IS THERE AS YOUR FRIEND.... HE IS THERE AS YOUR SERVANT....HE IS THERE AT TIRUMALA ALSO... SO IF YOU ARE LAZY LIKE ME, YOU CAN SEE TIRUMALA AT HOME....LOL

IN THE MATTERS OF FAITH, MIND WILL BE THE SPOILER....


GOD IS INSCRUTABLE.... GOD IS A MATTER OF FAITH..... GOD IS A MATTER OF THE HEART.... TO PERCEIVE HIM THROUGH, INTELLECT, SCIENCE OR RESEARCH IS IMPOSSIBLE.... HE IS INDETERMINATE, BUT ALL POWERFUL AND ALL COMPASSIONATE.... COSMOS AND CREATION HAPPENED FOR A CAUSE BEST KNOWN ONLY TO HIM.... ANY AMOUNT OF RESEARCH CANNOT REVEAL THE MYSTERY OF GOD.... YOU CAN AT BEST WONDER AT HIM... HIS GRACE ALONE CAN MAKE YOU TO DO THAT.....UNCONDITIONAL FAITH AND TOTAL SURRENDER ALONE IS THE KEY TO THE UNIVERSAL CONSCIOUSNESS CALLED GOD.... OUR PROSTRATIONS AND SALUTATIONS TO HIM.....

IN THE MATTERS OF FAITH, LEARN NOT TO DECRY OTHER FAITHS OR RELIGIONS.... YOUR RELIGION, YOUR MASTER MAY BE INVALUABLE TO YOU, BUT AT THE SAME TIME FOR OTHERS THEIR FAITH IS MORE VALUABLE ... WE HAVE TO APPRECIATE THAT LORD HAS CREATED A VARIETY IN THIS WORLD... YOUR EGOISTIC MIND MAY NOT APPRECIATE THE BEAUTY OF THIS PLURALITY BUT AT LEAST SHOULD NOT DECRY OTHER SCHOOLS OF THOUGHT OR FAITH.....

WITHOUT HAVING A PROPER EMPLOYMENT ON HAND , DON'T RESIGN YOUR EXISTING JOB.... TO EXIT IS EASY, TO GET A NEW ONE MAY BE DIFFICULT....

JUST DON'T BLAME YOUR EMPLOYER.... THE MISTAKE MAY BE WITH YOU ALSO, THOUGH IN A FEW CASES SOME VICTIMISATION TAKES PLACE.... IF YOU ARE NOT EFFICIENT TO DELIVER WHAT YOU ARE EXPECTED TO DELIVER, THE EMPLOYER HAS A RIGHT TO TERMINATE YOUR SERVICES... THE EMPLOYER IS NOT RUNNING A MUTT LIKE ME, TO FREELY FEED YOU... NO FREE LUNCH ....LOL

SOME TIMES IN THE HIERARCHY OF MANAGEMENT, SOME BECOME INSECURE OR JEALOUS AND DO FUNNY THINGS... ULTIMATELY EMPLOYEE IS DISMISSED.....


A LEADER CANNOT AFFORD TO KEEP INEFFICIENT PEOPLE OR LOSE EFFICIENT ONES...

IT IS DIFFICULT FOR TWO EQUALLY INTELLECTUAL GUYS TO CO EXIST....

BOTH THE HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE DOCTORS..... EVEN AT HOME THEY KEEP FIGHTING ABOUT TREATMENTS GIVEN IN THE HOSPITAL.... THEIR EGO LEVELS ARE STUPENDOUS, THEIR KIDS HARDLY GET SOME QUALITY TIME WITH THEM DUE TO THEIR FIGHTS.... IT'S BETTER YOU DONT MARRY A BOY OR A GIRL WITH THE SAME PROFESSION... A DOCTOR SHOULD MARRY AN ENGINEER, SO THAT NO FIGHT IS POSSIBLE DUE TO PROFESSION .... I KNOW MANY CASES WHERE THE SAME PROFESSION HAS ENDED IN DIVORCE, NO DOUBT NOT ALL CASES....

YOU MAY BE A DOUBLE OR TREBLE DOCTORATE.... AT HOME YOU ARE EXPECTED TO BE A SON OR A DAUGHTER OR A HUSBAND OR A WIFE OR A BROTHER OR A SISTER OR A FATHER OR A MOTHER.... BE LEVEL HEADED AND BALANCED...


IF YOUR DAD OR MOM GIVES YOU SOME PROPERTY OR MONEY, DON'T DENY IT..... TAKE IT.... IT WILL EARN PITRU KATAKSHAM..... IT IS THEIR BLESSINGS TO YOU....
I KNOW A FEW CASES WHERE THE PARENTS CAME FORWARD TO HELP THE SON OR DAUGHTER..... THE KIDS SAID THAT THEY DON'T NEED THE MONEY/ PROPERTY..... THEY SAID THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN US EDUCATION AND LIFE.... THAT'S MORE THAN ENOUGH....
THE ARGUMENT YOU PUT FORWARD IS WRONG.... YOU CAN NEVER REPAY BACK THE SERVICES OF PARENTS.... YOU SHOULD NOT THINK THAT IT WILL BURDEN THEM.... IN CASE THEY COME FORWARD TO GIVE YOU, YOU SHOULD TAKE IT AND PASS IT ON TO FUTURE GENERATIONS OR PUT IT TO PROPER USE....
NEVER DENY ANY GIFT GIVEN BY PARENTS.... IF YOU DENY, PITRUS / FOREFATHERS MAY NOT BE HAPPY WITH YOUR DECISION....

I KNOW IN SOME CASES WHERE THERE WERE KIDS AND THE FATHER HAD HIS OWN MATRIX AND DIVIDED THE PROPERTY IN A CERTAIN PROPORTION.... ONE OF THE SONS AND ONE OF THE DAUGHTERS FELT THAT THEY DIDN'T GET WHAT THEY WANTED..... THEY DENIED TAKING THEIR SHARE OF THE PROPERTY..... PITRUS WILL BE DISPLEASED BY THEIR ACTION...

THE PARENTS RIGHT TO DIVIDE THE PROPERTY IN A PARTICULAR PROPORTION CANNOT BE QUESTIONED......IF QUESTIONED , IT IS CONSIDERED AS A DISRESPECT/INSULT TO THE PITRUS WHO ARE REPRESENTED BY THE PARENTS....

ONE DAY SOME ONE CAME TO ME AND SAID....'GURUJI, I HAVE A BIG PLOT.... I WANT TO BUILD FLATS AND SELL IT.... I WANT TO GIVE ONE FLAT TO YOU FOR YOUR USE'.....
I SAID.....'NO....I DON'T NEED IT...GIVE IT TO SOME ONE ELSE'....
CAN ANY ONE SAY WHY I REFUSED?



WHY I REFUSED TAKING THE PLOT?
IT MAY BE ONE OF THESE REASONS...
- THE PRASHNAM AT THE POINT OF TIME OF THEIR ASKING THE QUESTION HAS TO BE NEGATED... HENCE A NO INSTEAD OF A YES.....
- THE PROPERTY WAS ACQUIRED THROUGH UNFAIR MEANS....
- THE PITRUS OF THE PROPERTY WANT ONLY THEIR PROGENIES TO ENJOY AND NOT GIVE IT FREE TO ANY ONE....
- THE AKSHARAS IN THE VICINITY ARE NOT FAVOURABLE FOR A PRAYOGI TO ACCEPT IT AS GIFT.....
- HE SAID THAT THE PROPERTY IS FOR MY USE... FOR MY USE, I HAVE ENOUGH AND I DON'T NEED SUPPORT.... I NEED SUPPORT FOR OUR MISSION OF DOING DAKSHACHAARA PRAYOGAS FOR THE WELFARE OF THE WORLD... LOKA KALYANAM....
- HE WANTED TO SHOW OFF.... HE JUST GIVES TO SATISFY HIS EGO AND TRUMPET TO THE WORLD THAT HE HAS DONATED A PROPERTY TO ME.....WHEN YOU APPROACH A MASTER HUMILITY AND HUMBLENESS IS IMPORTANT AND THAT IS ABSENT....
- I DON'T TAKE EVERYTHING GIVEN... EVEN RUPEE 1, I WILL TAKE AND MAY REJECT CRORES... THE OPTION IS MINE... NO REASONS ARE GIVEN FOR REJECTION...
BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY....

DONOR SHOULD BE HUMBLE AND THANK THE ACCEPTOR.... THE ACCEPTOR THANKING THE DONOR IS RIDICULOUS....

MATRU DEVO BHAVA...
PITRU DEVO BHAVA....
-TAITREYA UPANISHAD....
VEDAS DID NOT SAY MATHA DEVO BHAVA OR PITHA DEVO BHAVA.... THEY USED THE WORD MATRU AND PITRU.... MOTHER AND FATHER BECOME THE REPRESENTATIVES OF THE CLAN TO WHICH WE BELONG..... THE RESPECT IS OFFERED TO THEM GOES TO THE FOREFATHERS.... THE FOREFATHERS ACT THROUGH THEM.... SO THEIR WORDS ACTIONS AND DEEDS ARE THAT OF YOUR FOREFATHERS... THEY ARE INTERNALLY DIRECTED AND GUIDED BY THEIR FOREFATHERS.... HENCE SUCH AN EMPHASIS TO THEIR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND DEEDS.....