Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Master and disciple 4

THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A DISCIPLE AND A MASTER IS BASED ON TOTAL UNCONDITIONAL FAITH... SO THE DISCIPLE HAS TO BE UTTERLY NAKED BEFORE THE MASTER.....
YOU CAN DISCUSS CERTAIN THINGS WITH FATHER.... CERTAIN THINGS ONLY WITH MOTHER... CERTAIN THINGS WITH RELATIVES AND FRIENDS....YOU CAN DISCUSS  CERTAIN THINGS ONLY WITH YOUR SPOUSE...
BUT WITH A MASTER IT IS AN UNCONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP FULL OF FAITH AND CONFIDENCE....YOU HAVE SURRENDERED EVERYTHING TO THE MASTER, FOR HE IS THE ONLY REFUGE.....
IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING IN MIND AND YOU CANNOT EXPRESS IT TO THE MASTER, THEN HE MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT MASTER FOR YOU.... YOU HAVE APPREHENSIONS AND INHIBITIONS.... SUCH A RELATIONSHIP LACKS FAITH AND CONFIDENCE.....
THEN YOU HAVE TO SEARCH FOR A TRUE MASTER WITH WHOM YOU CAN BE TRANSPARENT....

IF YOU HAVE UNDERSTOOD A MASTER, THEN HE IS NOT A MASTER, EVEN PRESUMING THAT YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS RIGHT..... YOU CAN UNDERSTAND A TEACHER BECAUSE TEACHER CONFINES TO A SET OF LOGIC.... MASTER IS BEYOND LOGIC.... SOMETHING BEYOND LOGIC WILL LACK UNDERSTANDING OR REASONING.... IN FACT AFTER YEARS OF ANALYSIS OF GREAT MASTERS, PEOPLE HAVE ONLY MISUNDERSTOOD THEM.... THERE IS NOTHING TO UNDERSTAND WITH A MASTER... IT IS JUST A PURE SONG OF DIVINE LOVE.... THE MELODY WILL BE BEAUTIFUL, BUT LYRICS CANNOT BE UNDERSTOOD.... IF SUCH A RELATIONSHIP EXISTS BETWEEN THE MASTER AND HIS DISCIPLE THEN IT IS JUST GODLY .....

HEART KNOWS NO REASON.... OF COURSE MIND IS FULL OF REASONING, LOGIC, RATIONALITY, RULES, CONDITIONS ETC., MASTER IS OF THE HEART.... TEACHER IS OF THE MIND.... OFTEN WE CONFUSE BETWEEN A MASTER AND A TEACHER.... IN FACT THEY ARE OPPOSITES.... TEACHER TEACHES YOU TO WIND WHERE AS MASTER SHOWS THE WAY TO UNWIND....  WITH A TEACHER YOU LEARN, WITH A MASTER IT IS UNLEARNING...

MASTER HAS NOT COME TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS.... SO IF YOU GO TO A MASTER THINKING THAT YOUR PROBLEMS WILL BE SOLVED, YOU ARE LIKELY TO GET DISAPPOINTED.....  WITH A MASTER IT'S A DIVINE RELATIONSHIP THROUGH OUT ONE'S LIFE.... HE GIVES YOU THE COURAGE AND WILL TO WALK THROUGH YOUR PROBLEMS BY HOLDING YOUR HAND.... HE IS A 'MARGABANDHU' NOT ONLY IN YOUR JOURNEY IN THIS LIFE BUT ALSO AFTER LIFE , ON DEATH.... SO DON'T DEMEAN THE INSTITUTION OF A SADHGURU WITH YOUR LIMITED UNDERSTANDING OF THE GURU-SISHYA PARAMPARA.....

THROUGH THE MASTER, THE LORD BLESSES YOU, TO MAKE THINGS POSSIBLE.... MASTER SHOWS YOU THE WAY... IF YOU STRICTLY IMPLEMENT HIS WORDS AND GUIDANCE, YOU WILL NEVER SUFFER IN LIFE.... SOME SUFFER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO IMPLEMENT THE GUIDELINES IN TOTO SUGGESTED/ADVISED BY THE MASTER....

'AACHARYAYA PRIYAM DANA MAHRUDYAH'....
-YAJUR VEDA
IF A DISCIPLE SPEAKS OF HIS LIMITATIONS IN OFFERING SERVICE TO A MASTER, THEN HE IS NOT A DISCIPLE.... THE MASTER NEVER RUNS... WHETHER ITS REQUIREMENT OF MONEY, OR MATERIAL OR ANY WORK, ITS THE DISCIPLE WHO HAS TO RUN FOR THE MASTER TO GET IT... MASTER'S WORK IS PRIMARY TO THE DISCIPLE... HE HAS TO DO IT WHOLE HEARTEDLY WITHOUT FEAR OR FAVOUR...

A TRUE DISCIPLE RUNS WITH THE MASTER.... HE WILL NOT HAVE ANY EXCUSES IN PERFORMING ANYTHING FOR THE MASTER.... HE WILL BREATHE MASTER... HE WILL EAT MASTER... HE WILL DRINK MASTER.... IN ALL ACTIVITIES IT IS ONLY THE MASTER AND NOTHING ELSE. IN SHORT HE MERGES WITH THE MASTER AND REMAINS IN THAT ECSTATIC STATE....

IF THE MASTER POINTS OUT SOME THING, THERE WILL BE TRUTH IN WHAT HE SAYS.... OF COURSE WHEN IT CONCERNS YOU, IT MAY NOT BE PALATABLE, BUT WHAT TO DO.... I DO MY WORK.... HAD YOU DONE YOUR WORK DILIGENTLY, WHY SHOULD I POINT OUT?

A TRUE MASTER NEVER GUIDES YOU.... JUST THAT HE WILL QUOTE SOME EXAMPLES, ANECDOTES AND STORIES.... YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND.... EVERY TIME WHEN YOU READ IT, IT WILL GIVE A NEW DIMENSION AND NEW MEANING..... THIS HAPPENS BECAUSE OF YOUR INCREASED AWARENESS AND UNDERSTANDING BY BEING WITH THE MASTER.... SO EVERY ONE OF YOU SHOULD KEEP READING IT MANY TIMES TO UNRAVEL THE TRUTH BEHIND IT.... YU SHOULD MAKE IT A HABIT TO READ IT MANY TIMES TO ARRIVE AT A CLEAR UNDERSTANDING.....

August 2017 - 14

FACEBOOK HAS PROVIDED AN EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY BY GIVING AN OPTION OF ASKING QUESTIONS BEFORE ALLOWING ENTRY OF ANY ONE IN TO THE GROUP.... THIS IS INDEED A GOOD IDEA.... NOW IF SOME ONE  WANTS TO JOIN THIS GROUP OF SRI JWALA PRAYOGA CENTRAL TRUST, HE OR SHE  MAY HAVE TO ANSWER THREE QUESTIONS.....
1 ).... WHO INTRODUCED YOU TO THE GROUP?
2)...... HAVE YOU A GURU OR ARE YOU ATTENDING ANY SATSANG IN ANY OTHER GURUKULAM?
3)..... WHY DO YOU WANT TO JOIN THIS GROUP AND WHAT DO YOU EXPECT OF THE GROUP?
UNLESS THESE THREE QUESTIONS ARE SATISFACTORILY ANSWERED, HE OR SHE WILL NOT GET AN ENTRY IN TO THE GROUP....
PLEASE TAKE NOTE OF THIS FACTOR AND YOU ARE BEING INFORMED SO THAT YOU CAN PASS ON THIS MESSAGE TO THOSE WHO WANT TO JOIN THIS GROUP....

THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A DISCIPLE AND A MASTER IS BASED ON TOTAL UNCONDITIONAL FAITH... SO THE DISCIPLE HAS TO BE UTTERLY NAKED BEFORE THE MASTER.....
YOU CAN DISCUSS CERTAIN THINGS WITH FATHER.... CERTAIN THINGS ONLY WITH MOTHER... CERTAIN THINGS WITH RELATIVES AND FRIENDS....YOU CAN DISCUSS  CERTAIN THINGS ONLY WITH YOUR SPOUSE...
BUT WITH A MASTER IT IS AN UNCONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP FULL OF FAITH AND CONFIDENCE....YOU HAVE SURRENDERED EVERYTHING TO THE MASTER, FOR HE IS THE ONLY REFUGE.....
IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING IN MIND AND YOU CANNOT EXPRESS IT TO THE MASTER, THEN HE MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT MASTER FOR YOU.... YOU HAVE APPREHENSIONS AND INHIBITIONS.... SUCH A RELATIONSHIP LACKS FAITH AND CONFIDENCE.....
THEN YOU HAVE TO SEARCH FOR A TRUE MASTER WITH WHOM YOU CAN BE TRANSPARENT....

SOME FEEL VERY INSECURE... SUCH PEOPLE WILL BE MORE INTROVERTED AND SUSPICIOUS...HAVE SOME PITY FOR THEM... PRAY FOR THEM....

Vedavyas Chintalapati Pranams Guruji....... Some family members always get angry or shout at others for every small reason... They get irritated.... What should be do so that they can change their behaviour??

YOU HAVE NOT COME HERE TO CHANGE OR CORRECT OTHERS BEHAVIOUR..... EVERY ONE TEACHES HOW TO BEHAVE OR HOW NOT TO BEHAVE.... JUST IGNORE THEIR REACTIVE REACTION.... IT MAY BE A GOOD LESSON FOR YOU TO LEARN HOW NOT TO BEHAVE, WHEN SOME ONE SHOUTS.... IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO CORRECT OTHERS UNLESS THEY REALISE THEMSELVES.... THEIR EGO AND EXPECTATIONS OF YOU MAY BE HURTING THEM... IT'S THEIR PROBLEM NOT YOURS....

MOTHER.... 'SHOW YOUR REPORT CARD'....
SON....'IT'S MY PRIVATE MATTER... YOU CANNOT SEE IT... RESPECT MY PRIVACY AS DIRECTED BY SUPREME COURT'.....
LOL

THERE IS NO NECESSITY THAT YOU SHOULD KEEP ANSWERING ALL QUERIES OF OTHERS IN LIFE... SOME ARE INQUISITIVE AND MAY LIKE TO UNRAVEL OR KNOW OF YOUR PRIVATE MATTERS... KEEP YOUR PRIVATE MATTERS PRIVATE AND DO NOT MAKE IT PUBLIC.... IF YOU ARE ALERT, YOU WILL KNOW AT THE RIGHT POINT OF TIME WHEN PEOPLE ARE INTRUDING IN TO YOUR PRIVATE DOMAIN....
POLITELY TURN IT DOWN WITH A BEAMING SMILE IN RETURN, WHEN YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO GIVE THEM ANSWERS.... SO NOT NECESSARY THAT YOU SHOULD REPLY ALL OR ANY QUESTION MORE SO WHEN IT IS PERSONAL....THE CHOICE SHOULD BE YOURS AND IT DEPENDS ON THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OTHER PERSON....
SOME ASK QUESTIONS LIKE WHERE ARE YOU EMPLOYED? ARE YOU MARRIED? WHERE IS YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE WORKING? DO YOU HAVE A CAR? THESE CANNOT BE SHARED WITH EVERY ONE... I HAVE JUST GIVEN FEW EXAMPLES BUT THE LIST IS LONGER.....
PEOPLE ARE CURIOUS ABOUT OTHERS.... THEY WILL PROJECT IT AS A CONCERN..... BE AWARE.....

WHEN THE OTHER PERSON IS UNCONSCIOUS, HE MAY BE ANGRY.... THE WORDS HE POURS OUT IN ANGER SHOULD NOT BE GIVEN IMPORTANCE FOR HE IS NOT CONSCIOUS.... JUST IGNORE THE ANGRY PERSON'S WORDS EVEN IF HE IS ELDER TO YOU.... AS AN ELDER HE SHOULD BE MORE BALANCED... WHEN THE OTHER PERSON IS NOT BALANCED IGNORE HIS ANGRY ACCUSATIONS BUT DON'T DISRESPECT HIM IN RETURN.....

ONLY A PERSON WHO ACCEPTS LIFE IN TOTALITY CAN OFFER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..... ALL OTHERS WILL HAVE CONDITIONS AND HENCE IT CANNOT BE TERMED AS LOVE... JUST THEY ARE SELFISH AND HENCE TEND TO BE POSSESSIVE...

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

August 2017 -13

YOU SHOULD BE BOLD AND COURAGEOUS TO VENTILATE YOUR FEELINGS AND IDEAS... YOU MAY BE SUBJECTED TO SOME CRITICISM.... THERE WILL BE SOME WHO MAY NOT AGREE.... THEY MAY HAVE A GENUINE POINT OF DISAGREEMENT...PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO DISAGREE.... WHEN PEOPLE DISAGREE TO YOUR VIEWS, YOU CAN LEARN SOME THING BETTER... IN FACT , WHEN PEOPLE AGREE TO YOUR VIEWS, THERE IS NOTHING MORE TO LEARN.... OF COURSE THERE MAY BE STILL SOME WHO MAY LIKE TO ARGUE WITHOUT ANY SENSE OR PURPOSE.... DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON SUCH PEOPLE.... JUST SMILE AND MOVE ON...

SOME OF US TRY TO SATISFY THE OTHER.... IT IS NOT ONLY IMPOSSIBLE BUT SHEER MADNESS.... LIVE GRACEFULLY, DO THE BEST POSSIBLE AND ACHIEVE SELF SATISFACTION ....

WORK FOR YOUR SATISFACTION AND DON'T WORK FOR OTHERS APPRECIATION....

A MASTER IS LIKE A TREE... HE IS JUST THERE.... HE HAS VARIOUS BRANCHES AT VARIOUS HEIGHTS..... BIRDS ARE THE DISCIPLES... SOME BIRDS COME OCCASIONALLY AND SIT.... SOME BIRDS DO NOT COME AT ALL... SOME BIRDS MAKE A LIVING, BUILD A NEST, FOSTERS A FAMILY, LAYS EGGS AND THE YOUNG ONES HATCHED TOO SOME TIMES START MAKING A LIVING....
THE MASTER IS IN THE SAME PLACE.... HE HAS GROWN IN HEIGHT AS A TREE WITH MANY BRANCHES, JUST TO ACCOMMODATE THE CHANGING NEEDS OF THE BIRDS...
BIRDS HAVE WINGS..... SO THE TREE KNOWS TOO WELL THAT THEY HAVE AN OPTION TO FLY OUT.... SOME INDEED HAVE FLOWN OFF.....

MOST OF US HAVE THE HABIT OF COMMENTING ABOUT A SUBJECT IN WHICH WE DO NOT HAVE TRUE KNOWLEDGE.... IN FACT SOME TIMES WE JOIN A CROWD AND EXHIBIT MOB PSYCHOLOGY.... YOU HAVE NOT COME HERE TO COMMENT OR JUDGE... DON'T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME ON THINGS OF NEGLIGIBLE IMPORTANCE.....

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WITH THOSE WHO KEEP ARGUING AND FRETTING AGAINST YOU.... JUST ACCEPT DEFEAT AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR WORK..... INSTEAD OF WASTING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON THE WASTEFUL, BETTER TO USE THAT TIME FOR SOMETHING MORE USEFUL TO YOU OR OTHERS....

Hari Kuna Pranamam MASTER, This mind is devil may be it changes so, before that I want
to cut my wings.....then I should stay on
YES..... MIND IS THE RAVAN..... BUT HE MAY CUT YOUR WINGS JATAYU... DON'T ASPIRE FOR THAT... LET THE WINGS EXIST........ THANK GOD YOU ARE HARI KUNA, LUCKILY NOT SEETHA MATA TO BE TAKEN AWAY TO LANKA ...... LOL

TIME FLIES.... YOU CAN'T REGAIN IT.... TIME IS PRECIOUS AND INVALUABLE.... USE IT JUDICIOUSLY....IN ALL THAT AVAILABLE TIME, IF YOU CAN SPEND SOME TIME FOR THE NEEDY THE SICK AND THE ELDER, IT WOULD BE VERY DIVINE AND GRACIOUS ON YOUR PART....

Jayanthi Rajan If one does not remember past births - how will one prevent oneself from committing same mistakes ?
LORD IS THE DOER.... AS A DOER, HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE TOTAL FAITH IN HIM AND DO THE DUTIES OF THE PRESENT DILIGENTLY, BE COMPASSIONATE TO ALL, BE UNCONDITIONAL IN LOVE AND BE NON JUDGMENTAL...
SO HE CREATED YOU WIPING YOUR MEMORIES OF THE PAST....
LORD CREATED THE DEVIL TOO.... HE TRANSFORMED IT IN TO MIND..... LORD PREFERRED TO SIT IN THE HEART AND WATCH THE DEVIL IN THE MIND.... THE DEVIL STARTED ACTING SMART.... THE DEVIL BROUGHT IN THE FRAGRANCE AND SMELL (VAASANA) OF THE PAST... SUCCUMBING TO THE DEVIL IN THE MIND YOU STARTED REPEATING THE MISTAKES....
NOW LORD FELT THAT SINCE DEVIL IS THE DOER IN YOUR CASE, HE DISOWNED RESPONSIBILITY AND FIXED THE RESPONSIBILITY ON YOU AND CALLED IT 'KARMA'....
LORD LEFT THE HEART AND WENT TO HIS ABODE..STILL HIS COMPASSION FOR YOU, MADE HIM TO THINK OF YOU....
NOW HE SENDS A 'PRAYOGI' TO HELP YOU TO CROSS THE OCEAN OF KARMA, LIVING THROUGH SAMSARA.... AFTER THE PRAYOGI ENTERING YOUR LIFE, HE REMINDS YOU OF THE LORD TO BE INVITED BACK IN TO  HEART A... YOU INVITE BACK THE LORD IN TO YOUR HEART.... THE PRAYOGI TAKES YOUR KARMA ON HIS HEAD FOR PROCESSING IN TO SOMETHING BETTER... THE PRAYOGI TAKES CARE OF THE DEVIL IN THE MIND, SO THAT YOU CAN DANCE WITH THE LORD HEARTFULLY....

THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED 'YUGA DHARMA'.... THIS KEEPS CHANGING WITH THE TIME WE LIVE, WHETHER KRUTA/SATYA YUGA, OR TRETA YUGA OR DWAPARA YUGA OR KALI YUGA... EVERY YUGA RULES ARE TWEAKED TAKING IN TO FACTORS OF THE NEEDS AND DEMANDS OF THAT PARTICULAR YUGA...
LET US TAKE KALI YUGA IN WHICH WE ARE LIVING.... KALI YUGA TOTALLY SPANS OVER 432000 HUMAN YEARS.... IT IS BELIEVED THAT KALI YUGA IS JUST AN INFANT NOW.... IT'S ONLY 5000 YEARS OLD... DWAPARA YUGA WHICH IS BEFORE KALI ENDED WITH LORD KRISHNA'S DEPARTURE.... IT'S JUST 5000 YEARS BACK LORD KRISHNA LEFT THIS MUNDANE WORLD (HAVE WE JUST MISSED HIM BY A WHISKER?)....
IN THIS KALI YUGA SO MANY THINGS HAVE CHANGED... HOW TO ACT AS PER DHARMA IN THIS KALI YUGA?  BASIC RULES ARE THE SAME.... LIKE DO GOOD ETC., BUT HOW TO PRACTICE IT? WHETHER THE GOOD WE TALK IN COLLOQUIAL TERMS IS THE GOOD THE DHARMA SPEAKS OF? DOES WHAT WE DO UNDER CHANGED CIRCUMSTANCES GOING  TO BE ACCEPTABLE FROM KARMA POINT OF VIEW TODAY? THOUGH WE ALL BASICALLY WANT TO FOLLOW RULES OF DHARMA, IS IT PRACTICALLY POSSIBLE UNDER PRESENT DAY CIRCUMSTANCES? WHAT IS THE WAY OUT IN KALI YUGA FOR NORMAL PERSONS LIKE US?
THE COMPETENT GURU, OR THE AVADHOOTA OR THE PRAYOGI IS THE ANSWER.... YOU SHOULD GO TO SUCH A PERSON AND UNCONDITIONALLY SURRENDER (SARANAGATHI) WITH FAITH TO HIM..... HE WILL PRESCRIBE OR PROSCRIBE CERTAIN THINGS AND IT HAS TO BE FOLLOWED DEDICATEDLY WITHOUT ASKING QUESTIONS....
SUCH A PERSON IS TREATED AS.... ' EESHWARO GURU AATMETHIHI'..... SUCH A GURU IS PRACTICALLY OUR OWN SOUL AND GOD.... WHATEVER HE SAYS IS GODLY AND HAS TO BE FOLLOWED METICULOUSLY..... FOR THAT SARANAGATHI IS IMPORTANT TO A COMPETENT GURU OR AVADHOOTA OR A PRAYOGI... THOUGH BASIC RULES OF DHARMA IS SAME, HE WILL TWEAK IT IN THE LARGER INTEREST OF THE PERSON APPROACHING AND THE WORLD.... M. ACCORDINGLY HE WILL  SUGGEST A REMEDY....
JUST LIP SAKE SURRENDER OR LIP SAKE FAITH WILL NOT WORK...... THOUGH YOU MAY SAY THAT YOU HAVE SURRENDERED WITH UNCONDITIONAL FAITH, THE COMPETENT MASTER OR AVADHOOTA OR THE PRAYOGI KNOWS WHETHER YOUR SURRENDER IS TRUE OR FAKE....
LORD'S GRACE.... OUR PRAYERS.... ENJOY

If sons performing last rights a blessing then no wonder our society is so much against girl children and parents of girl children. Daughters are such a blessing and being a daughter is a blessing too. Why doesn't our vedas recognize that in this context guruji
YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS WRONG... THE VEDAS HOLD A GIRL OR WOMAN IN A VERY HIGH ESTEEM....
FIRSTLY THE ROLES DUTIES AND  RESPONSIBILITIES OF A MAN AND WOMAN HAVE BEEN CLEARLY DEFINED.... A MAN'S DUTIES AND A WOMAN'S DUTIES DIFFER DUE TO BIOLOGICAL CONDITIONS AND OF COURSE DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES....
A MAN CANNOT BEGET A CHILD... IF A MAN NEEDS A PROGENY, HE NEEDS THE WOMAN.... SO SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR BRINGING THE PITRUS FROM PITRU LOKA... IN VEDAS IT IS SAID ' MAATHA POORVA ROOPAM'.... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? IT MEANS BY VIRTUE OF HER BEING THE MOTHER, AUTOMATICALLY SHE BELONGS TO THE ORIGIN OF THE OLDEST FORM (POORVA ROOPAM).... OLDEST FORM MEANS SHE IS THE EMBODIMENT OF A JEEVA PITRU HERSELF... WHEREAS  WHEN IT COMES TO A MALE, THEY SAY 'PITHOTTHARA ROOPAM'... IT MEANS A MALE IS ALSO A PITRU.... IN FACT THE MALE IS KEPT ON A LOWER PEDESTAL....
BIOLOGICAL CONDITIONS SEEM TO HAVE CONTRIBUTED MORE CONSIDERED WHILE FIXING THE DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES....
FURTHER A FEMALE IS HERSELF CONSIDERED AS FIRE.... AN EMBODIMENT OF PURITY... SHE NEEDS NO FURTHER PURIFICATION.... THAT'S WHY A POORNA SANYASI OR A WIDOWER CANNOT PERFORM AGNI KARMA FOR HIMSELF OR HIS FAMILY, SINCE THE FEMALE IS NOT AVAILABLE....
WHILE DOING SHRRAARDHA KARMA, THE FEMALE OF THE HOUSE HAS TO BRING THE AGNI FOR THE KARMA AND WITHOUT HER IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO DO THE KARMA BY THE MALE...
WHY THAT MUCH WHEN THEY LIGHT THE FIRE IN THE EARTHEN POT, WHICH IS USED TO BURN THE BODY, ONLY 'DURGA SOOKTHAM' IS RECITED......
WHEN THE MALE IS INELIGIBLE TO DO, THE BRUHASPATHY OR THE GURU UNDER REQUEST CAN DO.... IF SHE IS A WIDOW SHE HAS TO GIVE AUTHORITY IN THE FORM OF DARBHA GRASS TO THE BRUHASPATHY WITHOUT WHICH EVEN THE GURU CANNOT DO UNLESS HE IS A 'PRAYOGI'....
WHETHER AT HOME OR OFFICE, ONE CANNOT DO THE DUTY OF ANOTHER.... ONLY THE JOB ASSIGNED TO YOU CAN BE DONE...... THERE WILL BE SOME ONE LIKE MANAGING DIRECTOR WHO CAN DO ANY WORK..... THE PRAYOGI IS LIKE THE MANAGING DIRECTOR, WHO KNOWS THE AGNI LAKSHANA AND THE AUTHORITY OF THE PUREST FORM OF AGNI CALLED 'PRAYOGAGNI'....
THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF THINGS THAT ARE AVAILABLE IN VEDAS WHICH SPEAK VERY HIGH OF A FEMALE.... IN FACT MALE IS NOT PRAISED OR ADORED IN COMPARISON TO THE FEMALE.... ONE BIRTH MAY NOT BE ENOUGH TO HIGHLIGHT THE NOBILITY OF A WOMAN......
SO SHOBHANA, SET ASIDE YOUR EMOTIONS AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE ROLE, DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF A MALE OR FEMALE..... YOUR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE AND EMOTIONS ARE BLINDING YOUR VISION AND HENCE YOU ARE JUMPING CONCLUSIONS....
BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY.....

TE EASIEST AND BEST WAY TO BYPASS ALL YOUR KARMAS IS TO LIVE A LIFE SHUNNING DOER SHIP... LORD IS THE DOER...IN EVERY ACTION WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO ENFORCE THIS PRINCIPLE.... IT HIS GRACE WHICH WILL HELP US TO PERFORM NON DOER SHIP.... THE PERSON WITH AN ATTITUDE OF NON DOER SHIP WILL ALWAYS FOCUS HIS HEART ON GOD WHILE CONTINUING TO PERFORM HIS DUTIES WITH COMPLETE DETACHMENT...
HIS FAITH WILL BE UNQUESTIONABLE AND UNCONDITIONAL.... WHAT EVER HE DOES WILL BE VERY PRAYERFUL.... HE WILL BE AT PEACE AND HE WILL SPREAD THE AURA AND MESSAGE OF PEACE AND TRANQUILITY... ANY ONE WHO COMES ACROSS HIM WILL FEEL THE POWER OF DIVINE WITH HIM....
HE WILL BE AS COMPASSIONATE AND SOFT AS WATER AND YET STRONG LIKE WATER ,THAT IT CANNOT BE STABBED OR PIERCED WITH A KNIFE.... HE WILL BE TOTALLY DEVOID OF EGO, ANGER, POSSESSIVENESS, GREED, JEALOUSY, RESENTMENT, CUNNINGNESS ETC., IN SHORT HE WILL BE A REFLECTION OF GOD....
IN CASE YOU COME ACROSS SUCH A PERSON IN LIFE, DO NOT MISSING HIM.... HE IS THE PERSON YOU HAVE BEEN SEARCHING ALL LONG TO FILL YOUR VOID... HE IS THE AVADHOOTA....HE IS THE AADHI GURU AND SAKSHAAT LORD DAKSHINAMURTHY HIMSELF.....

Monday, August 28, 2017

Pitru dhyanam - Pitru karma 3

FOR US WE GO BY PRASHNAM.... ANYTHING YOU DO IS A SIGNAL FOR US FROM YOUR PITRUS AND LORD UGRA SARPA NARAYANA WHO IS THE LORD OF THE PITRU CLAN ALSO CALLED AS 'AADI NARAYANA'.....
SO MY REPLY WILL BE ACCORDING TO YOUR QUESTION.... IF YOU FIND MY REPLY OTHERWISE, YOU SHOULD REVISIT YOUR QUESTION....

Sahana Rabindranath Guruji, what happens if the parents themselves instruct that no karma is to be performed and thier last rites should not be done according to rituals _/\_
What is the appropriate thing to do in such cases...
SAHANA, WONDERFUL QUESTION.....
ONCE  DEATH OF A PERSON HAPPENS, IT MEANS THAT THE SOUL IS NOT IN A POSITION TO CONTINUE ANY LONGER IN THE BODY..... THE SOUL IS FORCED TO LEAVE....
THE SOUL ITSELF REJECTED THE BODY AND HENCE WILL DEEM TO HAVE NO RIGHT.... TO INSTRUCT AS TO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO THE BODY AFTER THE SOUL LEAVES THE BODY, IS NOT FAIR..... THE PERSON HIMSELF LEFT THE BODY AND THE KARTA HAS A RIGHT OVER IT AS THE DESCENDENT....  FURTHER THE PERSON WHO IS ALIVE CANNOT INTERFERE WITH THE RIGHTS OF THE KARTA... IT IS NOT A PROPERTY TO BE WILLED THE WAY THEY WANT.... BODY IS NOT A PROPERTY AFTER ONE'S DEATH.. IT IS MORE THE RIGHT OF THE KARTA WHICH COMES TO PLAY....
SO RIGHT AWAY REJECT THE REQUEST... SINCE THEY ARE ELDERLY PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE ALIVE TALK OBLIGINGLY BUT AFTER DEATH DON'T OBLIGE...
JUST DO THE KARMA THE WAY THAT HAS TO BE DONE WITH ALL DEDICATION TO THE DEPARTED SOUL.... THAT WILL ONLY HELP THE DEPARTED SOUL TO REACH PITRU LOKA... THE DEPARTED SOUL WILL REALISE THIS AND BLESS THE KARTA FOR HIS FORESIGHT....
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS...

ALL THE GOOD THINGS YOU DO IN THIS BIRTH SELFLESSLY GOES IN TO YOUR ACCOUNT... THERE IS NO DOUBT ABOUT IT..... BUT SASTRAS SAY THAT, THAT ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH... ONE HAS TO GO THROUGH THE CYCLE OF KARMAS....
WHY THIS SITUATION? IT IS SIMPLE.... WE ALWAYS FEEL WE ARE THE DOERS.... YOU FEEL DELIGHTED WHEN SOME ONE COMPLIMENTS YOU AND YOU FEEL SAD WHEN SOME ONE ADMONISHES YOU....THIS HAPPENS BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE THE DOER.....
THE PRAYOGA VEDA SAYS.....'IF YOU ATTRIBUTE ALL YOUR ACTIONS TO GOD IN YOUR LIFE, BE IT GOOD OR BAD, RIGHT OR WRONG, CORRECT OR INCORRECT AND NOT GET EXCITED OR DEPRESSED, ALWAYS IN A STATE OF AWARENESS AND CONSCIOUSNESS, ON DEATH WHETHER ANY ONE PERFORMS KARMA OR NOT, WHETHER ANY DESCENDENT OR KARTA DOES IT SINCERELY OR NOT, ON DEATH, ONE ATTAINS THE POSITION OF A JEEVA PITRU IN THE FAMILY CLAN OR MERGES WITH GOD'.....
THAT'S WHY WE SAY... 'LIVE THE PRESENT.... BE UNCONDITIONAL IN LOVE TO EVERY ONE....... LIVE CONSCIOUS AND WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS.... DO SELFLESS SERVICE..SURRENDER TO THE WILL OF GOD... HAVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FAITH IN HIM... HE IS THE ULTIMATE SAVIOUR AND LORD IS THE DOER'.....
MY IDEA (GOD' S IDEA I VOICE FOR I'M NOT THE DOER) IS YOU ALL SHOULD EITHER MERGE WITH GOD OR BECOME A JEEVA PITRU OF YOUR CLAN.....
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT , I AM GOING TO LEAVE YOU, IF YOU ARE TREADING ELSE WHERE.... I HAVE FOLLOWED YOU IN THE PAST AND I WILL FOLLOW YOU IN FUTURE.... YOU CANNOT ESCAPE ME, WHICH IS THE DESIGN OF GOD....
ARE PEOPLE LISTENING?

Pranams Swami. Yourself has answered our doubt also...  Swami... Seeking one more blessing from you. My parents want their body to be donated to the hospital. Can this be done.  Should we do all the final rights that are done before cremation and handover the body to the hospital instead of cremating.
WE ARE BORN TO OUR PARENTS... OUR PARENTS WERE BORN TO THEIR PARENTS AND OUR KIDS ARE BORN TO US AND THEIR KIDS ARE BORN TO THEM... THIS IS CALLED 'PITRU RUNAM'.... THE SERVICES PERFORMED BY OUR PARENTS TO US CANNOT BE REPAID OR RETURNED..... SAME IS THE CASE WITH EVERY PARENT VIS A VIS THE KIDS....
ALL THESE DOUBTS ARISE IN US BECAUSE THE BODY WHICH IS THE TEMPLE HOUSING GOD BELONGS TO US.... IT IS A SENSE OF BELONGING ONE HAS TOWARDS THE BODY TO CLAIM OWNERSHIP THERE OF BOTH WHEN THEY ARE ALIVE OR DEAD....
MY ARGUMENT HERE IS THAT BODY IS NOT LIKE A PROPERTY THAT CAN BE WILLED... EVEN IN PROPERTY MATTERS AN ANCESTRAL PROPERTY HAS TO BE PASSED ON FROM ANCESTORS TO FUTURE GENERATIONS...OF COURSE SELF EARNED PROPERTY CAN BE WILLED TO ANY ONE.. . I DON'T KNOW WHETHER IT IS PROPER UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES MENTIONED TO DO SUCH AN ACT....
INDIVIDUAL SENTIMENTS AND FEELINGS PROBABLY  WERE  NOT CONSIDERED AS A POINT OF CONSIDERATION WHILE FRAMING THE RULES AND CONDITIONS THROUGH SASTRAS....
OF COURSE ONE'S PERSONAL FREEDOM,  FREE WILL TO DO WHAT THEY WANT IN PERSONAL LIFE AND THE LAWS GOVERNING DAY TO DAY LIFE ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IS SAID HERE..... I DON'T SAY WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG..... I HAVE ONLY STATED WHAT HAS BEEN TOLD TO ME BY MY MASTERS.... THIS IS ALL A MATTER OF FAITH.... PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO DISAGREE WITH IT....
WE PRAY FOR ALL...... OUR SCHOOL DOESN'T PREACH DISCRIMINATION......  MY PRAYERS FOR YOUR PARENTS TOO... LORDS WILL MERCY AND GRACE....

If sons performing last rights a blessing then no wonder our society is so much against girl children and parents of girl children. Daughters are such a blessing and being a daughter is a blessing too. Why doesn't our vedas recognize that in this context guruji
YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS WRONG... THE VEDAS HOLD A GIRL OR WOMAN IN A VERY HIGH ESTEEM....
FIRSTLY THE ROLES DUTIES AND  RESPONSIBILITIES OF A MAN AND WOMAN HAVE BEEN CLEARLY DEFINED.... A MAN'S DUTIES AND A WOMAN'S DUTIES DIFFER DUE TO BIOLOGICAL CONDITIONS AND OF COURSE DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES....
A MAN CANNOT BEGET A CHILD... IF A MAN NEEDS A PROGENY, HE NEEDS THE WOMAN.... SO SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR BRINGING THE PITRUS FROM PITRU LOKA... IN VEDAS IT IS SAID ' MAATHA POORVA ROOPAM'.... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? IT MEANS BY VIRTUE OF HER BEING THE MOTHER, AUTOMATICALLY SHE BELONGS TO THE ORIGIN OF THE OLDEST FORM (POORVA ROOPAM).... OLDEST FORM MEANS SHE IS THE EMBODIMENT OF A JEEVA PITRU HERSELF... WHEREAS  WHEN IT COMES TO A MALE, THEY SAY 'PITHOTTHARA ROOPAM'... IT MEANS A MALE IS ALSO A PITRU.... IN FACT THE MALE IS KEPT ON A LOWER PEDESTAL....
BIOLOGICAL CONDITIONS SEEM TO HAVE CONTRIBUTED MORE CONSIDERED WHILE FIXING THE DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES....
FURTHER A FEMALE IS HERSELF CONSIDERED AS FIRE.... AN EMBODIMENT OF PURITY... SHE NEEDS NO FURTHER PURIFICATION.... THAT'S WHY A POORNA SANYASI OR A WIDOWER CANNOT PERFORM AGNI KARMA FOR HIMSELF OR HIS FAMILY, SINCE THE FEMALE IS NOT AVAILABLE....
WHILE DOING SHRRAARDHA KARMA, THE FEMALE OF THE HOUSE HAS TO BRING THE AGNI FOR THE KARMA AND WITHOUT HER IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO DO THE KARMA BY THE MALE...
WHY THAT MUCH WHEN THEY LIGHT THE FIRE IN THE EARTHEN POT, WHICH IS USED TO BURN THE BODY, ONLY 'DURGA SOOKTHAM' IS RECITED......
WHEN THE MALE IS INELIGIBLE TO DO, THE BRUHASPATHY OR THE GURU UNDER REQUEST CAN DO.... IF SHE IS A WIDOW SHE HAS TO GIVE AUTHORITY IN THE FORM OF DARBHA GRASS TO THE BRUHASPATHY WITHOUT WHICH EVEN THE GURU CANNOT DO UNLESS HE IS A 'PRAYOGI'....
WHETHER AT HOME OR OFFICE, ONE CANNOT DO THE DUTY OF ANOTHER.... ONLY THE JOB ASSIGNED TO YOU CAN BE DONE...... THERE WILL BE SOME ONE LIKE MANAGING DIRECTOR WHO CAN DO ANY WORK..... THE PRAYOGI IS LIKE THE MANAGING DIRECTOR, WHO KNOWS THE AGNI LAKSHANA AND THE AUTHORITY OF THE PUREST FORM OF AGNI CALLED 'PRAYOGAGNI'....
THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF THINGS THAT ARE AVAILABLE IN VEDAS WHICH SPEAK VERY HIGH OF A FEMALE.... IN FACT MALE IS NOT PRAISED OR ADORED IN COMPARISON TO THE FEMALE.... ONE BIRTH MAY NOT BE ENOUGH TO HIGHLIGHT THE NOBILITY OF A WOMAN......
SO SHOBHANA, SET ASIDE YOUR EMOTIONS AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE ROLE, DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF A MALE OR FEMALE..... YOUR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE AND EMOTIONS ARE BLINDING YOUR VISION AND HENCE YOU ARE JUMPING CONCLUSIONS....
BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY.....

A CLARIFICATION...
THOSE WHO ARE ONLY BLESSED WITH DAUGHTERS AND NOT SONS, WHAT THEY CAN DO?
THE SON IN LAW OR THE DAUGHTER HERSELF OR ANY ONE ELSE CAN CONTINUE TO DO THE SHRRARDHA KARMA, BUT SHOULD APPROACH A COMPETENT GURU OR AN AVADHOOTHA OR A PRAYOGI AND SHOULD UNCONDITIONALLY SURRENDER (SARANAGATHI) AND SHOULD REPRESENT THEIR CASE... THE COMPETENT GURU OR AVADHOOTHA OR PRAYOGI WILL SUGGEST SUITABLE REMEDIAL MEASURES FOR THE PERSON SO SURRENDERED....
IN OUR CASE, PEOPLE WHO COME TO ME CAN ATTEND THE PRAYOGA YAGNAMS AND WITH LORD'S GRACE THIS ASPECT CAN BE TAKEN CARE... OTHERS CAN APPROACH THEIR COMPETENT MASTERS AND THEY WILL SUGGEST A REMEDY...
IN ALL THIS UNCONDITIONAL FAITH AND SURRENDER IS THE KEY.... THE COMPETENT MASTER KNOWS THE WAY... NO QUESTIONS SHOULD BE ASKED, JUST SURRENDER UNCONDITIONALLY TO THE COMPETENT MASTER...
A COUPLE OF YEARS BACK, A GIRL WHO WAS THE ONLY CHILD OF HER FATHER WANTED TO PERFORM THE FUNERAL RITES OF HER DEMISED FATHER... SHE APPROACHED ME WITH THE REQUEST... I ALLOWED HER TO GO AHEAD WITH WISH AND SHE PERFORMED HER DAD'S FUNERAL RITES.... WE TOOK UP HER CASE AND COULD SUCCESSFULLY LODGE HIS SOUL IN PITRU LOKA.... SIMILARLY WE HAVE GRANTED PERMISSION TO MANY GIRLS, SONS-IN-LAW DAUGHTERS-IN-LAW AND OUTSIDERS TO PERFORM THE SAMSKARAS AND SHRRARDHAS..... WE TOOK UP ALL CASES AND THEY HAVE REACHED THE PITRU LOKA.... EVEN WHERE WE HAVE NOT KNOWN PEOPLE WE HAVE SUCCESSFULLY MANAGED TO PLACE THEM IN PITRU LOKA.....
THIS IS PURELY LORD'S GRACE AND WE DO IT UNDER THE AUTHORITY GIVEN BY OUR MASTERS THROUGH DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGA MAHA VIDYA..... A PRAYOGI'S ONE OF THE MAIN DUTY IS TO PLACE A SOUL IN THE PITRU LOKA THROUGH PRAYOGAMS..... A PRAYOGI'S LIFE IS SPENT ON PRAYERS AND PRAYOGAMS THROUGH FIRE WORSHIP.....
SO THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.... LORD IS THE SAVIOUR AND TAKES CARE OF ALL OF US IN A BEFITTING WAY....
LORD'S GRACE..... OUR PRAYERS

A CLARIFICATION...
THOSE WHO ARE ONLY BLESSED WITH DAUGHTERS AND NOT SONS, WHAT THEY CAN DO?
THE SON IN LAW OR THE DAUGHTER HERSELF OR ANY ONE ELSE CAN CONTINUE TO DO THE SHRRARDHA KARMA, BUT SHOULD APPROACH A COMPETENT GURU OR AN AVADHOOTHA OR A PRAYOGI AND SHOULD UNCONDITIONALLY SURRENDER (SARANAGATHI) AND SHOULD REPRESENT THEIR CASE... THE COMPETENT GURU OR AVADHOOTHA OR PRAYOGI WILL SUGGEST SUITABLE REMEDIAL MEASURES FOR THE PERSON SO SURRENDERED....
IN OUR CASE, PEOPLE WHO COME TO ME CAN ATTEND THE PRAYOGA YAGNAMS AND WITH LORD'S GRACE THIS ASPECT CAN BE TAKEN CARE... OTHERS CAN APPROACH THEIR COMPETENT MASTERS AND THEY WILL SUGGEST A REMEDY...
IN ALL THIS UNCONDITIONAL FAITH AND SURRENDER IS THE KEY.... THE COMPETENT MASTER KNOWS THE WAY... NO QUESTIONS SHOULD BE ASKED, JUST SURRENDER UNCONDITIONALLY TO THE COMPETENT MASTER...
A COUPLE OF YEARS BACK, A GIRL WHO WAS THE ONLY CHILD OF HER FATHER WANTED TO PERFORM THE FUNERAL RITES OF HER DEMISED FATHER... SHE APPROACHED ME WITH THE REQUEST... I ALLOWED HER TO GO AHEAD WITH WISH AND SHE PERFORMED HER DAD'S FUNERAL RITES.... WE TOOK UP HER CASE AND COULD SUCCESSFULLY LODGE HIS SOUL IN PITRU LOKA.... SIMILARLY WE HAVE GRANTED PERMISSION TO MANY GIRLS, SONS-IN-LAW DAUGHTERS-IN-LAW AND OUTSIDERS TO PERFORM THE SAMSKARAS AND SHRRARDHAS..... WE TOOK UP ALL CASES AND THEY HAVE REACHED THE PITRU LOKA.... EVEN WHERE WE HAVE NOT KNOWN PEOPLE WE HAVE SUCCESSFULLY MANAGED TO PLACE THEM IN PITRU LOKA.....
THIS IS PURELY LORD'S GRACE AND WE DO IT UNDER THE AUTHORITY GIVEN BY OUR MASTERS THROUGH DAKSHACHARA PRAYOGA MAHA VIDYA..... A PRAYOGI'S ONE OF THE MAIN DUTY IS TO PLACE A SOUL IN THE PITRU LOKA THROUGH PRAYOGAMS..... A PRAYOGI'S LIFE IS SPENT ON PRAYERS AND PRAYOGAMS THROUGH FIRE WORSHIP.....
SO THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.... LORD IS THE SAVIOUR AND TAKES CARE OF ALL OF US IN A BEFITTING WAY....
LORD'S GRACE..... OUR PRAYERS

August 2017 -12

FOR US WE GO BY PRASHNAM.... ANYTHING YOU DO IS A SIGNAL FOR US FROM YOUR PITRUS AND LORD UGRA SARPA NARAYANA WHO IS THE LORD OF THE PITRU CLAN ALSO CALLED AS 'AADI NARAYANA'.....
SO MY REPLY WILL BE ACCORDING TO YOUR QUESTION.... IF YOU FIND MY REPLY OTHERWISE, YOU SHOULD REVISIT YOUR QUESTION....

Sahana Rabindranath Guruji, what happens if the parents themselves instruct that no karma is to be performed and thier last rites should not be done according to rituals _/\_
What is the appropriate thing to do in such cases...
SAHANA, WONDERFUL QUESTION.....
ONCE  DEATH OF A PERSON HAPPENS, IT MEANS THAT THE SOUL IS NOT IN A POSITION TO CONTINUE ANY LONGER IN THE BODY..... THE SOUL IS FORCED TO LEAVE....
THE SOUL ITSELF REJECTED THE BODY AND HENCE WILL DEEM TO HAVE NO RIGHT.... TO INSTRUCT AS TO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO THE BODY AFTER THE SOUL LEAVES THE BODY, IS NOT FAIR..... THE PERSON HIMSELF LEFT THE BODY AND THE KARTA HAS A RIGHT OVER IT AS THE DESCENDENT....  FURTHER THE PERSON WHO IS ALIVE CANNOT INTERFERE WITH THE RIGHTS OF THE KARTA... IT IS NOT A PROPERTY TO BE WILLED THE WAY THEY WANT.... BODY IS NOT A PROPERTY AFTER ONE'S DEATH.. IT IS MORE THE RIGHT OF THE KARTA WHICH COMES TO PLAY....
SO RIGHT AWAY REJECT THE REQUEST... SINCE THEY ARE ELDERLY PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE ALIVE TALK OBLIGINGLY BUT AFTER DEATH DON'T OBLIGE...
JUST DO THE KARMA THE WAY THAT HAS TO BE DONE WITH ALL DEDICATION TO THE DEPARTED SOUL.... THAT WILL ONLY HELP THE DEPARTED SOUL TO REACH PITRU LOKA... THE DEPARTED SOUL WILL REALISE THIS AND BLESS THE KARTA FOR HIS FORESIGHT....
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS...

ALL THE GOOD THINGS YOU DO IN THIS BIRTH SELFLESSLY GOES IN TO YOUR ACCOUNT... THERE IS NO DOUBT ABOUT IT..... BUT SASTRAS SAY THAT, THAT ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH... ONE HAS TO GO THROUGH THE CYCLE OF KARMAS....
WHY THIS SITUATION? IT IS SIMPLE.... WE ALWAYS FEEL WE ARE THE DOERS.... YOU FEEL DELIGHTED WHEN SOME ONE COMPLIMENTS YOU AND YOU FEEL SAD WHEN SOME ONE ADMONISHES YOU....THIS HAPPENS BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE THE DOER.....
THE PRAYOGA VEDA SAYS.....'IF YOU ATTRIBUTE ALL YOUR ACTIONS TO GOD IN YOUR LIFE, BE IT GOOD OR BAD, RIGHT OR WRONG, CORRECT OR INCORRECT AND NOT GET EXCITED OR DEPRESSED, ALWAYS IN A STATE OF AWARENESS AND CONSCIOUSNESS, ON DEATH WHETHER ANY ONE PERFORMS KARMA OR NOT, WHETHER ANY DESCENDENT OR KARTA DOES IT SINCERELY OR NOT, ON DEATH, ONE ATTAINS THE POSITION OF A JEEVA PITRU IN THE FAMILY CLAN OR MERGES WITH GOD'.....
THAT'S WHY WE SAY... 'LIVE THE PRESENT.... BE UNCONDITIONAL IN LOVE TO EVERY ONE....... LIVE CONSCIOUS AND WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS.... DO SELFLESS SERVICE..SURRENDER TO THE WILL OF GOD... HAVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FAITH IN HIM... HE IS THE ULTIMATE SAVIOUR AND LORD IS THE DOER'.....
MY IDEA (GOD' S IDEA I VOICE FOR I'M NOT THE DOER) IS YOU ALL SHOULD EITHER MERGE WITH GOD OR BECOME A JEEVA PITRU OF YOUR CLAN.....
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT , I AM GOING TO LEAVE YOU, IF YOU ARE TREADING ELSE WHERE.... I HAVE FOLLOWED YOU IN THE PAST AND I WILL FOLLOW YOU IN FUTURE.... YOU CANNOT ESCAPE ME, WHICH IS THE DESIGN OF GOD....
ARE PEOPLE LISTENING?

DONT ASK FOR JUSTICE WITH GOD.... ALWAYS ASK FOR HIS GRACE, FOR WE DO NOT KNOW HOW DREADED OUR PAST ACTIONS WERE....
THERE IS A PAST .... THERE IS A PRESENT... THERE IS A FUTURE.... PAST IS A DEAD PAST AND WE DUNNO.... DON'T COMMENT LIKE...'HE IS SUFFERING BECAUSE HE BEHAVED LIKE THIS'..... YOU HAVE NOT COME HERE TO JUDGE... YOU HAVE COME HERE TO PEACEFULLY LIVE MINDING YOUR BUSINESS..... DON'T JUDGE OTHERS... ITS NOT YOUR JOB... YOU HAVE NOT COME HERE TO CHAMPION THE CAUSE OF OTHERS... JUST PRAY TO LORD TO BE MERCIFUL TO ALL....

WE GO BY PRASHNAM.... WE GO BY AKSHARAS..... WE DO PRAYOGAMS.... WITH LORD'S GRACE, WE ARE BLESSED TO KEEP WATCHING VARIOUS TURNS AND EVENTS HAPPENING IN LIFE OF MANY PEOPLE.....
THROUGH THE PRAYERS, WE ASK THE LORD TO REMEDY THE SITUATION.... FINALLY HIS WILL PREVAILS....
SOME TIMES PEOPLE ASK ME SOME QUESTIONS BASED ON OUR  AND OTHER PRACTICES.... THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF SCHOOLS OF THOUGHTS WHICH IS BEING PREACHED AND PRACTISED.... DISCIPLES BELONGING TO EACH SCHOOL FOLLOW THEIR MASTERS....
WHY DOES CONFUSION  OCCUR?
CONFUSION OCCURS WHEN PEOPLE OF ONE SCHOOL COME TO KNOW OF A DISCIPLINE/RULE/CONDITION OF ANOTHER SCHOOL OF THOUGHT..... THE CONFUSION WILL NEVER OCCUR IF THE DISCIPLE STICKS ON TO THE WORDS OF HIS MASTER AND APPLY IT IN DAY TO DAY LIFE.....
WE RESPECT ALL SCHOOLS AND ALL MASTERS... WE ARE NOT HERE TO QUESTION OR CHALLENGE ANY SCHOOL... WE ARE NOT HERE TO PROVE OUR SUPREMACY.....
OUR SCHOOL IS ONLY FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO SPREAD THE MESSAGE OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, PEACE  WITH A NON JUDGMENTAL ATTITUDE IRRESPECTIVE OF ANY RELIGION, CASTE, CREED, COLOUR, SEX AMONG THE PEOPLE AT LARGE....
WE ARE SMALL ORDINARY PEOPLE AND WOULD LOVE TO BE ORDINARY....
BE ORDINARY AND DO SOME THING EXTRA ORDINARY....
DON'T BE EXTRA ORDINARY AND DO SOME THING ORDINARY....
LORD'S GRACE.. OUR PRAYERS...

Pranams Swami. Yourself has answered our doubt also...  Swami... Seeking one more blessing from you. My parents want their body to be donated to the hospital. Can this be done.  Should we do all the final rights that are done before cremation and handover the body to the hospital instead of cremating.
WE ARE BORN TO OUR PARENTS... OUR PARENTS WERE BORN TO THEIR PARENTS AND OUR KIDS ARE BORN TO US AND THEIR KIDS ARE BORN TO THEM... THIS IS CALLED 'PITRU RUNAM'.... THE SERVICES PERFORMED BY OUR PARENTS TO US CANNOT BE REPAID OR RETURNED..... SAME IS THE CASE WITH EVERY PARENT VIS A VIS THE KIDS....
ALL THESE DOUBTS ARISE IN US BECAUSE THE BODY WHICH IS THE TEMPLE HOUSING GOD BELONGS TO US.... IT IS A SENSE OF BELONGING ONE HAS TOWARDS THE BODY TO CLAIM OWNERSHIP THERE OF BOTH WHEN THEY ARE ALIVE OR DEAD....
MY ARGUMENT HERE IS THAT BODY IS NOT LIKE A PROPERTY THAT CAN BE WILLED... EVEN IN PROPERTY MATTERS AN ANCESTRAL PROPERTY HAS TO BE PASSED ON FROM ANCESTORS TO FUTURE GENERATIONS...OF COURSE SELF EARNED PROPERTY CAN BE WILLED TO ANY ONE.. . I DON'T KNOW WHETHER IT IS PROPER UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES MENTIONED TO DO SUCH AN ACT....
INDIVIDUAL SENTIMENTS AND FEELINGS PROBABLY  WERE  NOT CONSIDERED AS A POINT OF CONSIDERATION WHILE FRAMING THE RULES AND CONDITIONS THROUGH SASTRAS....
OF COURSE ONE'S PERSONAL FREEDOM,  FREE WILL TO DO WHAT THEY WANT IN PERSONAL LIFE AND THE LAWS GOVERNING DAY TO DAY LIFE ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IS SAID HERE..... I DON'T SAY WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG..... I HAVE ONLY STATED WHAT HAS BEEN TOLD TO ME BY MY MASTERS.... THIS IS ALL A MATTER OF FAITH.... PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO DISAGREE WITH IT....
WE PRAY FOR ALL...... OUR SCHOOL DOESN'T PREACH DISCRIMINATION......  MY PRAYERS FOR YOUR PARENTS TOO... LORDS WILL MERCY AND GRACE....

SRI HRUDANANDA SATPATHY WAS A GREAT MASTER AND WAS GOOD AT MAKING POTS....
HE WAS GUIDING A GROUP OF DISCIPLES AND SPREADING THE MESSAGE OF PEACE, BUT HE WAS VERY POOR.... HIS WIFE'S NAME WAS SAKUNTALA....
SAKUNTALA WAS NOT HAPPY WITH THE MINIMUM MONEY HE WAS ABLE TO EARN BY SELLING MUD POTS.... SO SHE STARTED PESTERING HIM FOR MORE MONEY.....
HRUDANANDA SATPATHY SLOWLY STARTED ADOPTING OTHER TACTICS WITH THE PEOPLE AND EARNED MONEY..... HE WENT IN TO VAAMAACHAARA PRACTICES... MANY PEOPLE AROUND HIM AND AWAY GOT AFFECTED DUE TO SUCH PRACTICES..... SOME LOST WEALTH... SOME LOST FAMILY.... SOME LOST FAME.... SOME LOST NAME.... HIS PRACTICES BECAME VIRULENT AND INDISCRIMINATE IN HIS PRACTICE.... HE BECAME VIRTUALLY DEVILISH....
HE DIED UNCEREMONIOUSLY AND WAS KICKED BY HIS FOREFATHERS AND NOT ALLOWED TO ENTER THE PITRU LOKA.... AFTER HANGING BELOW ETHER AS A GHOST FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS HE HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO BE BORN AS AN INSECT AND VARIOUS OTHERS FORMS AND FINALLY REACHED THE BIRTH AS AN 'ANT'....
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I HAD GONE TO AHOBILAM..... I PARKED MY CAR LATE NIGHT IN LOWER AHOBILAM AND WALKED UP TO UPPER AHOBILAM..... HAD A DARSHAN OF LORD UGRA NRUSIMHASWAMY.... VISITED THE ARYA VYSYA CHOULTRY... STARTED WALKING BACK TO LOWER AHOBILAM.... HAD A DARSHAN OF SRI KAARANJA NRUSIMHA SWAMY AND WAS WALKING DOWN.... IT MUST BE AROUND 8.30 A.M, VERY SUNNY MORNING.... AS I WAS WALKING DOWN, IT LOOKED LIKE SOME ONE WAS CALLING ME.... I STOPPED.... I COULD HEAR A FAINT VOICE FROM A PLANT ON THE ROAD SIDE.... ON THE LEAF, I SAW AN 'ANT' SITTING..... I JUST PLUCKED THE LEAF AND LOOKED STRAIGHT AT THE 'ANT'....
THE ANT  STARTED TALKING....
'MASTER, I WAS A VAAMACHAARI TWO THOUSAND YEARS BACK AND MY NAME IS HRUDANANDA SATPATHY...... I AM BORN AS AN 'ANT' NOW AND I HAVE BEEN LIVING IN THE FORESTS OF AHOBILAM FOR THE PAST 120 YEARS..... I WAS A GHOST FOR MORE THAN 600 YEARS AND I HAD TO TAKE DIFFERENT BIRTH FORMS TO REACH THE STAGE OF AN ANT, DUE TO MY MISDEEDS AS A VAAMAACHAARI'....
THE ANT CONTINUED...'52 YEARS BACK, I CAME IN TO CONTACT WITH A MAHA PRAYOGI WHO INTRODUCED HIMSELF AS  RAJAR.... I REQUESTED HIM TO HELP ME REGAIN HUMAN FORM.... HE ASKED ME TO WAIT IN THE AHOBILAM FOREST.... HE TOLD ME MY DISCIPLE WHO WILL BE A MAHA PRAYOGI WILL VISIT AHOBILAM.... YOU MAY SUBMIT YOUR SUBMISSIONS TO HIM.... HE SURE WILL HELP YOU IN ACHIEVING WHAT YOU NEED'....
I THANKED HIM AND ASKED AS TO HOW I CAN IDENTIFY HIM...
TO MY QUESTION RAJAR REPLIED ...'DON'T WORRY.... WE BOTH WILL BE VISTING AHOBILAM MANY TIMES BEFORE THAT.... YOU WILL HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO SEE HIM MANY TIMES WITH ME'....
I CONTINUED TO ASK HIM.....'IF I AM PERMITTED TO ASK MASTER, WHY NOT THE PROCESS START DURING YOUR VISITS ALONG WITH HIM?'....
TO THIS RAJAR REPLIED...'FOR EVERYTHING, THE APPROPRIATE  TIME HAS TO COME...HE WIL COME MANY TIMES TO AHOBILAM EVEN WITHOUT ME, BUT YOU CANNOT SPOT HIM.... HE WILL COME ALONE ONCE YOUR WAY ... YOU HAVE TO WAIT FOR THAT TIME, WHEN HE WALKS YOUR WAY.... YOU HAVE TO BE ALERT'.....
THE ANT CONTINUED.....'THIS IS WHAT RAJAR SAID AND I AM WAITING FOR YOU WITH ALL ALERTNESS, SO THAT I DON'T MISS YOU'.....
I TOLD THE ANT....'HRUDANANDA, THERE IS GOING TO BE A MAHA YAGNAM AT SRI CHATRAVATA NRUSIMHA SWAMY TEMPLE IN A FEW MONTHS TIME (2003)... LET ME START YOUR MISSION BY THAT TIME.... KEEP PRAYING TO LORD NRUSIMHA.... LET HIS BLESSINGS SEE YOU THROUGH DURING THIS HARD PHASE OF LIFE'....
WITH LORD'S GRACE WE COULD ALL PRAY FOR HIM AT CHATRAVATA NRUSIMHA SWAMY YAGNAM (GANDHARVA GAANAM).... AFTER THAT A SERIES OF PRAYOGAMS AT FOREST AND ELSE WHERE WERE DONE.....
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IN 2014, AT PURI, LORD JAGANNATH BLESSED A COUPLE AND A SON WAS BORN TO THEM..... I KNOW THIS FAMILY... THEY ASKED ME TO NAME THE CHILD...
I SMILED AND SAID....'CALL HIM HRUDANANDA'....
SRI CHATRAVATA NRUSIMHA SWAMY KI JAI...
SRI AHOBILA NRUSIMHA SWAMY KI JAI....
LORD'S GRACE...
OUR PRAYERS.....

Sunday, August 27, 2017

August 2017 -11

FEEL HAPPY THAT YOU WERE USEFUL TO SOME ONE IN HIS LIFE... DON'T EXPECT HIM TO SHOW GRATITUDE TO YOU FOR YOUR ACT.... YOU WILL BE DISAPPOINTED.... SOME PEOPLE ARE THANKLESS AND NEVER KNOW OF LOYALTY OR GRATITUDE.... JUST LEARN TO IGNORE SUCH BRUTES AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE JOYFULLY....

WHEN YOU ARE EMOTIONAL, YOU WILL NEVER SPEAK TRUTH.... YOU WILL FEEL MORE AT HOME DURING SUCH A PHASE TO TALK WITH SOME ONE WHO CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELINGS.... FEELINGS ARE MORE BASED ON ONE'S OWN PRESUMPTION OF THINGS.... IT'S JUST A PERCEPTIVE IDEA, WHICH NEED NOT BE TRUTH.... IF YOU TAKE SIDES WITH SUCH AN EMOTIONAL PERSON AND START ARGUING ON THEIR BEHALF, YOU WILL BE IN TROUBLE IN FUTURE....

FOR SOME, IT'S ALWAYS A GAME OF HIDE AND SEEK..... THEY ARE NOT COURAGEOUS.... THEY NEED SOME OTHER MOUTH TO VOICE THEIR OPINION/CONCERN....
BE BOLD TO EXPRESS YOURSELF AT THE TIME OF NEED... NEVER MINCE WORDS.... NEVER KEEP CHANGING YOUR VERSIONS.... IF YOU KEEP DOING THAT NONE WILL TRUST YOU IN FUTURE... EVEN IN AN EMERGENCY, PEOPLE WILL IGNORE IT AS YOUR USUAL DRAMA AND IT WILL GO AGAINST YOU....

YOUR PRESENCE IN A FAMILY OR WITH FRIENDS SHOULD BE IMPOSING TO THAT EXTENT, THEY ARE ALL UNITED IN YOUR PRESENCE AND LATER.... NEVER BECOME A CAUSE IN DIVIDING A RELATIONSHIP....

MY MOTHER IS THE MOST INTELLIGENT AND A WOMAN OF FORESIGHT, I HAVE SEEN IN THIS WORLD....
WHEN WE WERE DISCUSSING SOME ISSUES CONCERNING SOME FAMILY, SHE PROMPTED TO SAY 'IT IS A WAR AMONG THE PITRU CLANS BELONGING TO DIFFERENT GOTRAS....... THIS WAR HAS EXISTED FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS.... IT CONTINUES TO HAPPEN EVEN NOW.... AT BEST WE CAN PRAY THAT EVERYTHING SETTLES DOWN PEACEFULLY SOON'
TO ME MY MOTHER IS A BOON, WHO NOT ONLY GIVES SUGGESTIONS WHEN ASKED, BUT ALSO CORRECTS ME WHEN I GO WRONG....

WHEN A PERSON'S SOUL  HAS BEEN FIGHTING AND LAMENTING FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS, WHAT ELSE WILL HE KNOW OTHER THAN THAT? WISDOM SHOULD DAWN ON ONLOOKERS AND NOT HIM.....

Seshagiri Gollapudi can you please tell the difference of pitrus and pitru devatas?
EVERY FAMILY HAS A CLAN AND THE FOREFATHERS OF THE CLAN ARE CALLED PITRUS.... THEY REMAIN IN THE PITRU LOKA AND ARE REBORN IN THE FAMILY.... THE PROCESS OF BIRTHS AND DEATHS KEEPS GOING ON, TILL THE MERGER WITH THE LORD....
EVERY FAMILY / CLAN WILL HAVE A JEEVA PITRU OR A SET OF JIVA PITRUS WHO ACT AS THE MASTERS IN PITRU LOKA TO TEACH THE PITRUS OF BETTER EVOLVEMENT DURING THEIR NEXT BIRTH...
THE ENTIRE PITRU CLAN COMES UNDER THE PITRU DEVATAS..... THEY ARE ASHTA VASUS (8), EKADASHA RUDRAS (11) AND DWADASHA AADITYAS (12).... 8+11+12 IS 31.... FOR EACH ONE CRORE (KOTI) DEVATAS... SO IT IS 31 KOTI PITRU DEVATAS.... ONE MORE IS PRAJAPATHI AND ONE OTHER IS BRAHMA.... TWO MORE CRORES OF OTHER DEVATAS... SO TOTALLY 33 CRORES (KOTI) DEVATAS IN HINDU PHILOSOPHY.... THE CIRCLE OF 33 KUNDAMS IN THE MAHA YAGNAMS REPRESENT 33 KOTI DEVATAS (31 KOTI PITRU DEVATAS AND 2 KOTI OTHER DEVATAS)....

WE FIND MORE OF QUALIFIED SCHOLARS.... EVEN IF WE HAPPEN TO STUMBLE UPON ONE EDUCATED SCHOLAR AMONG THE QUALIFIED SCHOLARS, WE DONT FIND A TRACE OF A SPIRITUAL MASTER IN HIM...EDUCATED SCHOLARS ARE NOT ENLIGHTENED SPIRITUAL MASTERS... SUCH SPIRITUAL MASTERS HAVE TO BE THE GUARDIANS OF RELIGION... SELDOM THEY WILL SPREAD A MESSAGE OF HATE.... THEY WILL BE FOR ALL ROUND PEACE... THEY CAN UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEMS OF THE SOCIETY AND CAN EFFECTIVELY COUNTER IT.... THE QUALIFIED/EDUCATED SCHOLARS LIKE DEBATING WHO IS RIGHT AND WHO IS WRONG? THEY CREATE DIVISIONS IN THE SOCIETY, IN THE NAME OF RELIGION...RELIGION CAME FOR COMRADESHIP.... RELIGION CAME FOR PEACE, MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTANCE...

IF YOU ARE RELIGIOUS, YOU WONT BE LOGICAL.....

ALL DOUBTS ARISE FROM MIND.... ONCE YOU GET A DOUBT, BECOME ALERT... IT IS THE MIND.... NOW WATCH YOUR MIND AND THE DRAMAS IT PLAYS, TO ENFORCE IT'S OPINIONS ON YOU... YOUR MIND IS NOT A FOOL... IT IS VERY SHREWD.... IT WILL SHOW YOU A LOGICAL EXPLANATION TO ANYTHING IT ENFORCES OR OTHERWISE..... SO MIND IS A DRAMATIST.... YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO WATCH YOUR MIND TO UNDERSTAND IT'S DESIGNS ABOUT YOU....

Santosh Thati Guruji Pranam .. how do I draw a line between Good & bad .. many times both sounds Synonyms for me .. some times what is Good as per my book my me bad as per others book ..probably good vs bad is heart vs mind ? ur mercy ..
THE BAROMETER IS INSIDE YOU..... YOU HAVE TO LOOK INWARDS....INQUIRY.....NOT ENQUIRY..... DON'T ASK ANY ONE.... DON'T GO BY WHAT OTHERS SAY..... DON'T GO BY BOOKS..... JUST PLUNGE IN TO YOURSELF..... YOU WILL KNOW THAT THERE EXISTS AN OCEAN OF KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM HIDDEN INSIDE YOU.... PLEASE REMEMBER JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE CALLS IT BAD, IT'S NOT BAD AND JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE CALLS IN GOOD, IT'S GOOD..... THE WISE MAN, LORD BHOLENATH IN YOU WILL GUIDE YOU.....
(ON A LIGHTER SIDE, SANTOSH.... STOP POSTING WHAT EVER YOU HAVE HEARD OF ON THE TIME LINE.... IT MEANS WE ARE SUCCUMBING TO WHAT IS BEING TOLD, WITHOUT REALLY KNOWING ANYTHING ON THE SUBJECT..... JUST BAKRAS).....LOL

Bharadhwaaj Ramaswamy Swami seeking your mercy.. Are pitrus are not evolved.. Do they have difference of opinions..
Triple prostrations at your lotus feet swami.
THE EVOLUTION OF THE PITRUS HAPPENS IN CONSONANCE WITH THE QUALITY OF LIFE LIVED AND DELIVERED.... SOME TIMES THERE IS NEGATIVE PROGRESS OR NO PROGRESS FROM THE PREVIOUS LEVEL.... AFTER EVERY BIRTH, ONE LEADS LIFE AND LEARNS HERE ON EARTH... AFTER DEATH, ONE GOES TO PITRU LOKA FOR FUTHER LEARNING AND REDEMPTION.... DESPITE ALL THESE LEARNINGS, IN PRACTICALITY THERE IS ALWAYS A SHORTFALL IN IMPLEMENTATION.... THE HAPPINESS AND SUFFERINGS ONE UNDERGOES IN ONE LIFE SHOULD REFLECT ON THE MATURITY LEVELS IN THE NEXT LIFE.... BUT IT MAY OR MAY NOT BE....
AT BEST ONE CAN SAY THE 'JEEVA PITRU' IN A FAMILY IS THE MOST EVOLVED SOUL....

GOOD THINGS DONE BY A PERSON MUST BE PUBLICISED.... HIS MESSAGE TO HUMANITY SHOULD REACH EVERY NOOK AND CORNER.... HIS MESSAGE WILL REVOLUTIONISE PEOPLE TO DO GOOD TO THE NATION, COMMUNITY AND WORLD AT LARGE.... IF GOODNESS SURROUNDS YOU, IT WILL BE AUSPICIOUS.... THE MORE THE AURA OF GOODNESS, THE MORE PEACE AND PROSPERITY TO ALL....

THE WORLD IS ALL THAT.... WHEN A MAN COMMITS A MISTAKE, IT WILL BE HIGHLIGHTED AND PUBLICISED, BUT THE GOOD WORKS DONE BY HIM WILL GO UNNOTICED...

HE WAS GIVING A LECTURE ON BHAGAVAD GITA.... I WAS INTRODUCED TO HIM.... ON THE STAGE HE WAS SEATED ON A BIG CHAIR.... I WAS GIVEN A SMALLER STOOL TO SIT BY HIS SIDE (ON THE LIGHTER SIDE, SEATS IN ACCORDANCE WITH EGO LEVELS... HE WAS SWAMIJI AND I WAS GURUJI....LOL)
THE DISCOURSE WAS TOO GOOD....
FINALLY HE SAID LOOKING AT ME...'I JUST HAPPENED TO COME BACK FROM KAILASH, IS IT NOT GURUJI'....
I ASKED HIM IN LOW TONE....'KAILASH-MANASAROVAR?'...
HE....NO NO.... TO THE KAILASH WHERE LORD SIVA AND PARVATHY RESIDE'....
NOW I KNOW, I WAS IN TROUBLE..HE WANTS ME TO AUTHENTICATE HIS VISIT.... HAD HE TOLD , HE VISITED KAILASH, I WON'T BE BOTHERED... BUT HE WANTS ME TO APPROVE HIS STATEMENT.... NOW I AM IN A FIX.. WHAT TO DO? I HAVE TO MAKE LIGHT OF A SERIOUS SUBJECT WHICH HE IS ASKING....
SO I ASKED HIM...'HOW IS PARVATHY'S HEADACHE NOW? IS SHE RELIEVED FROM THE PAIN?'
HIS DISCIPLES LAUGHED... HE GOT WILD AND WENT INSIDE THE ASHRAM...(PROBABLY HIS EGO DID NOT ACCEPT THIS STATEMENT OF MINE, SINCE IT SHOWS ON RECORD THAT MY VISIT TO KAILASH IS PRIOR TO HIM....LOL)... I JUST ESCAPED IN THE MELEE....
SOME OF THE SO CALLED RELIGIOUS LEADERS TODAY ARE GOOD AT THE ART OF DELIVERING THE SUBJECT (EDUCATED SCHOLARS) BUT VERY QUIXOTIC AND MISLEADING....

YOU MIGHT HAVE JUMPED DIRECTLY FROM SRIVAIKUNTAM.... I AGREE.... BE POLITE TO ELDERS... DON'T HURT THEM BY TALKING RUBBISH NONSENSE....

THE BOY FORGOT TO WISH THEIR PARENTS FOR ANNIVERSARY.... THEY WERE UPSET.... HE TOO REPENTS HIS MISTAKE.... I TOLD HIM TO TAKE THEM OUT SOME TIME AND EXPRESS HIS FEELINGS FOR THEM...AFTER ALL THEY ARE HIS PARENTS.... I KNOW THEM... THEY ARE QUITE MATURED THAT WAY TO UNDERSTAND HIM AND BRUSH IT UNDER THE CARPET........

UNDER THE NORMAL CIRCUMSTANCES, THE PITRUS ARE SUPPOSE TO GET EVOLVED AND WHEN THE FATHER ATTAINS THE VASU ROOPAM, THE GRANDFATHER OCCUPIES THE RUDRA ROOPAM AND THE GREAT GRANDFATHER ATTAINS THE ADITYA ROOPAM..... PROBABLY DURING THE VEDIC DAYS PEOPLE WERE MORE DISCIPLINED, HONEST AND NEVER TRANSGRESSED THEIR LIMITS, STUCK TO THEIR DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES.... HENCE EVOLUTION AUTOMATICALLY TOOK PLACE FROM ONE ROOPAM TO ANOTHER....
THE FATHER DIES AND REACHES THE VASU ROOPAM AND COMES BACK LEADS A LIFE AND GOES BACK TO RUDRA ROOPAM, COMES BACK AND GOES TO ADITYA ROOPAM AND THEN TO THE STAGE OF THE DEVATAS AND MERGER WITH THE LORD.....
BUT TODAY THOUGH WE DO THARPANAM, WE ARE NOT SURE WHETHER THEY HAVE REACHED THE STAGE WHICH THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO REACH.... MAY BE THERE IS MORE STAGNATION OF PITRUS AT VASU ROOPAM WHICH I VISUALISE MANY TIMES.... TODAY UNDER CHANGED CIRCUMSTANCES IN KALI YUGA, THERE IS A LOT OF STAGNATION IN VASU ROOPAM.... FURTHER THE THARPANAM IS GIVEN, SO THAT WHEN THEY ARE BORN IN THE NEXT BIRTH, THEY ARE NOT DEPRIVED OF FOOD AND GENERAL WELFARE....

WHEN RELATIONSHIP BREAKS, MONEY MATTERS WILL SURFACE... PEOPLE START TALKING HOW MUCH THEY SPENT ETC., THIS DOESN'T ARISE WHEN RELATIONSHIP IS INTACT.... THAT'S WHY IN DIVORCE CASES, THE MATTER OF ALIMONY IS DISCUSSED.... NOW A DAYS BOYS AND GIRLS KNOW OF THIS... SO THEY START DISCUSSING FINANCIAL MATTERS BEFORE ENTERING IN TO A RELATIONSHIP..WHAT'S YOUR SALARY? HAVE YOU GOT A HOUSE? IS THERE A HOUSING LOAN? HAVE YOU A VEHICLE... WILL YOU EXPECT ME TO STAY WITH YOUR PARENTS OR WILL YOU NOT MIND STAYING WITH MY PARENTS AFTER MARRIAGE, CREDIT CARDS ETC.,. SO TODAY WE GO IN TO A RELATIONSHIP PRESUMING THAT IT MAY NOT SUCCEED... NOW A DAYS MIND LOOKS BIGGER THAN THE HEART.... FUNNY TO OLDIES LIKE US....

Soumya Sivakumar....'Please, would you be able to guide us about what to do if a couple did not have sons and had only daughters (or had no children at all)...How would pitru karma get done?
THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION.....THERE ARE DIFFERENT VIEWS AND OPINIONS ABOUT THIS.....
LET ME ADD TO THE EXISTING CONFUSION..... THANKS TO PURANAS...(LOL)....
THE DUTIES OF A MALE AND FEMALE ARE DESCRIBED IN PRAYOGA VEDA AS 'PRAYOGA MANU SASTRA'.... SINCE WE HAIL FROM THE WORLD OF PRAYOGA, I GO BY THIS EXPLANATION....
WHEN THE SON DOES THE KARMA, THE KAARMIC EFFECT OF THE PARENTS , THE SON SHOULDERS OF THE DEPARTED SOUL AND INDEED HE IS ELIGIBLE FOR PROPERTIES TOO, SINCE HE FACES THE KAARMIC EFFECT OF THE PARENTS.....
WHEN A COUPLE DO NOT HAVE SONS AND ONLY DAUGHTERS OR NO ISSUE AT ALL, THE ISSUE BECOMES A LITTLE BIT TRICKY.... WHETHER THEY HAVE DAUGHTERS OR NO KIDS, THE PROCESS IS THE SAME.... SOME ONE ELSE WILL DO THE KARMA, MAY BE SON-IN-LAW OR A RELATIVE OR AN OUTSIDER....
A ) THE PERSON PERFORMING THE KARMA WILL GET THE PROPERTY, BUT WILL NOT HAVE ANY KAARMIC EFFECT OF THE SOULS FOR WHOM KARMA IS BEING DONE, SINCE HE IS NOT THE PROGENY..... BUT SUCH A PERSON WILL DEEMED TO HAVE UNJUSTLY ENRICHED HIMSELF BY ACQUIRING A PROPERTY AND HAS ALSO PERFORMED A DUTY WHICH HE IS NOT SUPPOSED TO DO.... FOR DOING A DUTY WHICH DOESN'T BELONG TO HIM, HE BECOMES LIABLE ENDLESSLY TO THE GOTRA PITRUS FROM WHOM HE HAS TAKEN THE PROPERTY AND DONE KARMA FOR A SOUL FOR WHICH HE IS NOT LIABLE TO DO.... IN SHORT HE HAS NO ELIGIBILITY TO PERFORM THE KARMA... HE SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE.... BUT ENJOYS THE PROPERTY.... HE IS ALWAYS INDEBTED TO THE GOTRA PITRUS FROM WHOM HE INHERITED THE PROPERTY.... EVEN IF HE DOESN'T TAKE THE PROPERTY, IT'S A KARMA WHICH DOESN'T BELONG TO HIM AND HE SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE....
B) SO FEARING CLAUSE 'A' MENTIONED ABOVE, IF NO ONE COMES FORWARD TO DO THE KARMA FOR SUCH HUMANS (THOUGH INITIALLY SOME ONE WOULD HAVE BURNT THE BODY AND DID THE PRELIMINARY RITUALS), WHAT HAPPENS TO THESE SOULS?
IN BOTH CLAUSE A AND B , THEY MAY NOT BE ABLE TO CROSS THE VAITARANI RIVER AND HENCE CANNOT BE REBORN.....THEY MAY VEGETATE AS GHOSTS AND OTHER NEGATIVE COSMIC BEINGS....
THERE IS ONE EXCEPTION TO THE ABOVE RULES....
IF THE HUMANS ARE INVOLVED HEART AND SOUL TO A 'PRAYOGI', THEN HE BECOMES THE 'MARGABANDHU' AND TAKES THEM SAFELY ACROSS THE VAITARANI RIVER TO REACH THE SOUTHERN GATES OF YAMA LOKA.... THE 'PRAYOGI' ARGUES THE MERITS OF THE CASE AND BARTERS HIS GOOD KARMA AND TAKES THE KAARMIC LIABILITY OF THE SOULS , TO ALLOW THE SOULS TO REACH PITRU LOKA WITHOUT ANY HURDLES.... ONCE THEY REACH PITRU LOKA, THEY ARE UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF THE JEEVA PITRU AND THEY ARE REBORN AS PER THE CHANCES AVAILABLE, SOME WHERE ELSE IN THE SAME FAMILY OR WILL BE BARTERED WITH OTHER GOTRAS....
FURTHER EVEN FOR THE KARTA WHO DID THE KARMA AND BECAME LIABLE TO THE GOTRA PITRUS, ONLY A 'PRAYOGI' CAN GIVE A RELIEF BY NEGOTIATING WITH THE PITRUS.....
EVEN FOR THOSE SOULS WHICH DIED AN UNNATURAL DEATH OR DEATH BEYOND EXPLAINABLE CIRCUMSTANCES, WHO ARE IN THE FORM OF GHOSTS, A 'PRAYOGI' ALONE CAN BARTER AND SEE THEM OFF TO THEIR PITRU LOKA....
A 'PRAYOGI' ALONE CAN DO ALL THESE WORKS AND SEE THAT THE SOULS REACH THE CLAN.....
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS..

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

August 2017-10

YOU MUST BE SMART ENOUGH TO SMELL A FISH.... OF COURSE AFTER SPOTTING IT, IT'S A MATTER OF CHOICE IN YOUR BOOKS, WHILE I SEE IT AS 'CHOICE LESS'....

SOME TIMES, WE ARE NOT AWARE OF IT'S VALUE.... WE BECOME MEAN BY BARGAINING FOR A PRICE....

DONT LOOK AT IT AS A PROBLEM... LOOK AT IT AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW OR A DRASTIC POSITIVE CHANGE IN LIFE FORTHCOMING....

DESIRE IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF LIFE WHILE GREED WILL BLEED YOU TO DEATH..

MAKE BEST USE OF AN OPPORTUNITY ON HAND THAN DREAMING OF A PARADISE IN FUTURE..

THE ADVISE OF THE WISE, WILL  NEVER GOES WASTE, IF IT IS IMPLEMENTED IN TRUTH AND SPIRIT...

'NOT UNDERSTANDING' IS THOUSAND TIMES BETTER THAN 'MISUNDERSTANDING'...

BEFORE JUMPING TO CONCLUSION, HAVE PATIENCE TO HEAR THE OTHER SIDE TOO... YOUR SCALES OF JUSTICE MAY DIFFER AFTER SUCH A HEARING....

DON'T BE TOO STRICT IN THE PERFORMANCE OF RITUALS AND PRACTICES..... MEANS OF PRAYERS SHOULD NOT BECOME MONOTONOUS BOREDOM.... WHEN THE CUP IS FULL, YOU HAVE TO EMPTY IT FIRST TO REFILL... TAKE AN OFF... IT'S THE WILL OF GOD....

MY WISDOM SUPPORTS ME TO THE HILT.... BECAUSE OF THE WISDOM, I AM ABLE TO UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS.... I CAN ONLY 'PRAY' FOR YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE....

HIS WIFE CURSES ME SINCE SHE FEELS HER HUSBAND IS NOT NICE TO HER UPON MY INSTRUCTIONS..... HER HUSBAND IS A CLOWN OF MANY SORTS.... DESPITE MY ADVISE HE IS NOT ABLE TO MAKE HER HAPPY..... NOW A DAYS SHE THINKS OF ME MORE.....

HAVE SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF AND FAMILY....

HE WORKS FROM MORNING 6 TO MIDNIGHT..... HE HAS ALL FACILITIES AT HOME BUT DOESN'T EVEN KNOW TO OPERATE THE REMOTE..... I DON'T UNDERSTAND FOR WHOM HE IS WORKING FOR?

SHE IS TRUSTING HIM.... HE HAS TAKEN LOANS AND NOT REPAID....SHE WANTS HIM TO CLEAR THE DUES AND RELIEVE HER PARENTS OF THE BURDEN.... FURTHER SHE EXPECTS HIM TO PAY HER LIVING EXPENSES... HER PARENTS ARE HIS SURETIES... OF COURSE HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE HER HUSBAND AS PER RECORDS...
OUR PRAYERS...

PEOPLE DON'T SUDDENLY BECOME RESPONSIBLE...IF THEY HAVE BEEN IRRESPONSIBLE, MOST OF TIMES THEY REMAIN SO..... BETTER DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING FROM THEM..... YOU SLOG ON YOUR OWN AND THAT WILL GIVE BETTER PEACE AND RETURNS....

DON'T SPEND BEYOND YOUR MEANS AND SUFFER.... IN THE SYSTEM OF NATURE ALL NEEDS ARE SURE TO BE MET BUT NOT THE WANTS.... SOME ARE SO GREEDY, THEY INVEST WITH SHARKS AND CROCODILES EXPECTING HIGHER RETURNS, LOSE THE PRINCIPAL ITSELF.... LIVE HAPPILY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.... DO SHARE WITH THE POOR AND NEEDY TO THE EXTENT YOU CAN....

DON'T GIVE MONEY AS A LOAN TO A SOURCE WHERE IF YOU LOSE YOU WILL LAMENT..... EVEN IF YOU GIVE MONEY, IT SHOULD BE TO A SOURCE WHICH IS AS GOOD AS YOURS.... EVEN IF THE PERSON DOEN'T RETURN IT, IT SHOULD BE SATISFYING AS THOUGH YOU SPENT IT....

Monday, August 21, 2017

August 2017 -9

WORRIES WILL BLIND YOU.... YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO THINK WISE AND JUST INCASE YOUR MIND IS FULL OF WORRIES.... EVERY PROBLEM OF TODAY HAS A SOLUTION IN ITSELF..... IF YOU ARE CONSCIOUS AND AWARE, YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO APPROACH THE PROBLEM IN A BALANCED WAY.... TO BE CONSCIOUS AND AWARE, ONE HAS TO DROP WORRIES....

WHENEVER, I POST SOME THING, MANY ON THE MESSENGER ASK ME PRIVATELY WHETHER I HAVE REFERRED TO THEIR CASE.... TO MY KNOWLEDGE I KNOW AROUND TWO MILLION PEOPLE ACROSS THIS WORLD... WHENEVER SOME PROBLEM COMES TO MY NOTICE, IN RESPECT OF ANY OF THEM, I VOICE MY VIEWS ON THE SUBJECT, SO THAT THE MATTER REACHES THEM.... INCIDENTALLY YOUR CASE MAY BE SIMILAR TO THE ONE POSTED BY ME.... IF IT IS EXACTLY THE SAME, YOU MAY ALSO BE GUIDED ACCORDINGLY....

HELP THE YOUNGER ONES WITH YOUR IDEAS ABOUT THE FINER ASPECTS OF LIFE..... WHEN IT COMES TO DECISIONS, ALLOW THEM TO TAKE IT.... LET THEM OWN RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS...

PRAYERS CAN REMEDY ANY SITUATION..... HERE FAITH IS THE KEY IN OFFERING PRAYERS.... PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED OF IT.... DON'T JUST PRAY FOR  YOUR NEEDS ALONE....

Chandrasekaran Vaidyanathan Guruji - namaskaaram.. is not the idea of conscience ego based and complying to codes created by man?
CERTAINLY VC..... IT IS EGO BASED..... IT IS BASED ON THE CONCEPT THAT WE ARE THE DOERS AND NOT THE LORD.... THE POST WAS RELEASED ONLY TO QUESTION SUCH AN EGO BASED PERSON OF HIS ACTIONS? THIS IS NOT APPLICABLE TO THE ONE WHO ALWAYS TRUSTS IN THE LORD BEING THE DOER.....
EGO WORKS BEAUTIFULLY... WHEN YOU ACHIEVE THE CONSCIENCE GETS ELATED AND OWNS THE SUCESS.... WHEN YOU DO NOT PERFORM OR ACHIEVE THE CONSCIENCE GETS HURT AND RESULTS IN GUILT.... EGO SOME TIMES OWNS THE GUILT OR THROWS THE BLAME ON GOD/FATE WHEN IT GETS DEFEATED...

FEEL THE LORD TOTALLY IN ALL YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS... YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT A SINNER FOR NONE OF YOUR ACTIONS ARE YOURS.... LORD IS THE DOER.... ONE HAS TO CONSCIOUSLY FEEL THIS....

IN YOUR SPEECH, ACTION AND DEED, IT HAS TO REFLECT THAT LORD IS THE DOER.... ONLY THE ONE WHO CAN ALWAYS RETAIN THE FEELING THAT IT IS THE GOD WHO ACTS THROUGH HIM AND  AT THAT POINT OF TIME,  HE IS JUST A WITNESS TO HIS OWN ACTIONS HAS THE ELIGIBILITY TO MERGE WITH THE LORD....
CONFESSIONS ARE JUST A FORM OF ESCAPE MECHANISM TO FEEL BETTER AFTER COMMISSION OF A CRIME BY THE EGO.... WHEN YOU CONFESS AND THE OTHER WHO IS CONSIDERED SUPERIOR TO YOU, ACCEPTS  YOUR CONFESSION IS JUST TO SOOTHE AND EMBOLDEN YOUR EGO BY RATIFYING THE BLUNDERS COMMITTED....

EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE EVERYTHING, YOU MAY FEEL VOID AT TIMES.... THIS VOID IS DUE TO THE FACT THAT YOU ARE NO LONGER YOURSELF..... YOU BELONG TO THAT VOID WHICH MAKES YOU FEEL YOURSELF.... IF YOU HAVE EVERYTHING, BUT NOT YOURSELF, THEN 'VOID' IS JUST A REMINDER OF THAT....

NONE CAN GIVE YOU FREEDOM OR LIBERATION.... YOU HAVE TO SNATCH IT AT THE RIGHT MOMENT.. IF YOU GO AND BEG WITH OTHERS FOR LIBERATION, BY DEFAULT THEY WOULD OFFER WILL BE ONLY 'SLAVERY'....

INSTEAD OF LIVING A LIFE FULL OF FEAR AND SLAVERY FOR A HUNDRED YEARS, LIFE FULL OF LOVE AND FREEDOM EVEN FOR A FEW YEARS IS A MILLION TIMES MORE  WORTHY....

SHE LOVES HIM, BUT HE DOESN'T... THIS ONE SIDED LOVE DRAMA IS SICKENING FOR HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.... THE BEST PART IS THE BOY GOT MARRIED 2 MONTHS BACK AND SHE IS NOW PSYCHIC TO BELIEVE THAT HE WILL DIVORCE HER AND COME BACK TO HER, TO MARRY HER.... SHE IS ABSOLUTELY PATHOLOGICAL TODAY.....OUR PRAYERS....

JEALOUSY LEADS TO HATE.... I KNOW IN A FAMILY, WHEN THE WIFE GOT A PROMOTION IN HER OFFICE, THE JOBLESS HUSBAND WAS JEALOUS, WHICH TURNED IN TO HATE....

Friday, August 18, 2017

August 2017 - 8

WHY LONG FOR SOMETHING FOR WHICH YOU HAVE BECOME INELIGIBLE?  DOESN'T YOUR CONSCIENCE  PRICK YOU FOR THE CONTINUED BLUNDERS WHICH YOU FEEL TO HAVE COMMITTED?.. ARE YOU BECOMING GREEDY TOO?

NEVER AVENGE OR SEEK REVENGE.... HAVE A COMPASSIONATE FORGIVING ATTITUDE.... TRY BEING HUMAN BEFORE EMBARKING ON ATTEMPTS TO SEARCH FOR THE DIVINE...
Anand Raaja The fear is more of becoming disabled than death.One should not be a burden for others.
Correct me if I am wrong Guruji.

IN ONE SENSE MAY BE OR MAY NOT BE...... SOME ARE HEALTHY BUT STILL A BURDEN..... YOUR FEAR IS YOU MAY BECOME A BURDEN WHEN YOU BECOME DISABLED.... I FEEL YOU MAY BE CONSIDERED A BURDEN EVEN IF YOU ARE HEALTHY.... SO HOW BEST THE ELDERS CAN LET GO OF THE PAST AND LIVE PEACEFULLY.... WE ARE DOING ALL NONSENSE ON THE MOTHER EARTH... WILL SHE NOT FEEL AS A BURDEN FOR ALL THAT WE DO ON TOP OF HER?

WE DON'T LEARN FROM THE PAST EXPERIENCES IN LIFE.... INCIDENTS WHICH HAPPEN IN AND AROUND YOU HELPS YOU TO HANDLE THINGS MORE MATURELY.... IF YOU ARE AWARE AND CONSCIOUS, YOU WON'T GET AGITATED WITH OTHERS ACTIONS.... INSTEAD, YOU WILL LEARN TO BE MORE BALANCED AND AVOID CONFRONTATION....

YOU WILL NOT BE ETERNALLY YOUNG..... SOME DAY YOU TOO WILL ROT TO BECOME OLD.... THE SAME PROBLEMS YOU TOO ARE GOING TO FACE.... BE POLITE WITH ELDERS IN YOUR SPEECH AND ACTIONS.....

DONT BE ARROGANT WITH ELDERS.... YOU MAY HAVE TO PAY A SEVERE PRICE FOR SUCH AN ATTITUDE IN FUTURE.... YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO EXCUSE YOURSELF OF THE GUILT, WHEN IT STARES AT YOU.....

THEY ARE SHIFTING FROM ONE HOUSE TO ANOTHER.... THEY ARE BUSY CLEANING THE HOUSE... THE HOUSE ALL LONG HAS HOUSED ELDERS.... PRESENTLY TWO ELDERS ARE BEING SHIFTED TO ANOTHER HOUSE WHERE FACILITIES ARE EXPECTED TO BE BETTER.... THE ELDERS HAVE A LOT OF THEIR PERSONAL BELONGINGS WHICH ARE AGE OLD.....
OH HOW NICE IT WOULD HAVE BEEN IF THE YOUNGER ONES ASK THE ELDERS WHILE CLEANING WHETHER THEY WOULD LIKE TO RETAIN SOME OF THE OLD ITEMS... NO DOUBT FOR THE YOUNGER ONE  IT IS GARBAGE, BUT FOR THE ELDERS IT MAY BE OF IMMENSE SENTIMENTAL VALUE.....
IN THIS FAMILY, THE YOUNGER ONES ARE BEHAVING A BIT HIGH HANDED AND DON'T SEEM TO RESPECT EVEN THE SMALL SENTIMENTS OF THE ELDERS.... SOME DAY THESE YOUNGER ONES ARE GOING TO BE ELDERS... IF I AM ALIVE, I WOULD LOVE TO SEE HOW THEY REACT WHEN THEIR YOUNGER ONES GIVE BACK A BIT OF THEIR OWN ACTIONS OF THE PRESENT IN FUTURE....
FUNNY PEOPLE....

AS A MASTER, I AM JUST A MIRROR..... YOU CAN ONLY SEE YOUR OWN FACE.... DON'T FIND FAULT WITH MY ANSWERS..... IN THE FIRST PLACE CHECK YOUR DEEDS AND OF COURSE YOUR INTENTION BEHIND THE QUESTIONS ASKED.....

HE IS A LIVING EXAMPLE OF A MASOCHIST..... HE ALLOWS HIS SON TO TORTURE HIM AND THEN KEEPS BLAMING HIM FOR HIS RUDE BEHAVIOUR.... ALMOST HE HAS BECOME INSANE TO THE POINT THAT HE IS ENJOYING HIS SUFFERINGS.... OF COURSE THE SON IS A SADIST... THEY MAKE AN EXCELLENT COMBINATION.... A SADIST AND A MASOCHIST PERFECTLY COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER LIKE A PLUG AND A SOCKET.... LORD IS GIVING ME A LOT OF EXPERIENCE THROUGH THIS CASE... OF COURSE LEARNING HOW TO BEHAVE AND HOW NOT....

RARELY WE COME ACROSS LEADERS.... MOST ARE  MANAGERS.... MANAGERS ARE JUST MANIPULATORS.... THEY HAVE TO MANAGE AT ALL COST GIVEN THE INPUTS ON HAND... SO MANAGERS MANIPULATE EVEN AT THE COST OF DAMAGING THE REPUTATION OF OTHERS..... EVEN AT HOME, THIS CORPORATE CULTURE HAS SEEPED IN NOW A DAYS... WE HARDLY FIND ANY ONE WHO TAKES UP THE RESPONSIBILITY FROM THE FRONT TO LEAD... MOSTLY THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY MANAGES THROUGH MANIPULATION.... TODAY EVERY HOME  HAS IT'S SHARE OF JACKALS....

A VERY GREEDY PERSON SELDOM HAS ANY CONSCIENCE..... HIS AIM IS TO ACHIEVE WHAT HE DESIRES TO ACHIEVE, HOOK OR CROOK.... TO EXPECT SUCH A BEING TO BE BALANCED IS UNFAIR.... SUCH PEOPLE SIMPLY DOMINATE THE SITUATION TAKING LAW IN TO THEIR HANDS.... THEIR ACTIONS WILL NEVER BE JUSTIFIED..... OUR PRAYERS TO LORD....OH LORD PLEASE GRACE THEM TO BE AWARE AND CONSCIOUS OF THEIR ACTIONS BEFORE THEY ARE COMMITTED.....

SOME OF US STAY OUTSIDE INDIA....SOME OF US THOUGH IN INDIA, MAY BE ELSE WHERE IN THE COUNTRY BUSY ATTENDING TO OUR BUSINESS... WE PROMPTLY REMIT MONEY IN TO OUR PARENT'S ACCOUNT FOR THEIR DAY TO DAY FINANCIAL NEEDS..... OUR PARENTS TOOK CARE OF ALL NEEDS,  FINANCIAL EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, SOCIAL  NEEDS WHEN WE WERE YOUNG.... NOW WE ARE BUSY TAKING CARE OF OUR CHILDREN AND WE ARE NOT ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THE PARENTS EMOTIONAL AND OTHER  NEEDS.... EVEN WHEN WE COME DOWN TO MEET OUR PARENTS, WE KEEP BUSY FIGHTING WITH THE ELDERS INSISTING THEM TO TOE OUR LINE.... CAN WE DO SOMETHING TO CHANGE OUR ATTITUDE AND HANDLING TOWARDS ELDERS?

ONE DAY WHEN I WAS YOUNG, MAHARISHI RAJAR TOLD ME... 'ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT YOU MAY DIE ANY MOMENT..... THIS ATTITUDE WILL HELP YOU WHEN YOU ARE IN DANGER'.....
I STARTED PRACTICING THIS IN DAY TO DAY LIFE.....
ONE DAY HE ASKED ME TO GO VERY DEEP INSIDE THE FOREST AND MEDITATE ON THE PRANAVAKARA SOUND OF 'AUM'.....
I CARRIED MY SEAT MADE OUT OF DARBHA GRASS AND WAS ABOUT TO START MY MEDITATION DEEP INSIDE THE FOREST.... SUDDENLY FROM NO WHERE A TIGER APPEARED AND IT WAS LOOKING STRAIGHT AT ME.... I REMEMBERED MY MASTER'S WORDS.... DEATH CAN COME ANY TIME.... PROBABLY THIS IS THE TIME.... THE TIGER MAY POUNCE ON ME.... THERE WAS NOT AN IOTA OF FEAR IN ME... I HAD MENTALLY ACCEPTED TO DIE.... ONCE YOU ACCEPT DEATH WHOLE HEARTEDLY, FEAR WILL DISAPPEAR... PEOPLE FEAR IN LIFE, SINCE THEY ARE NOT PREPARED TO ACCEPT DEATH AS A FINAL CONCLUSION IN LIFE... EVEN WHEN THEY GET OLD, THEY WANT TO SURVIVE AND ESCAPE DEATH..SO THEY KEEP FEARING.....  WHEN DEATH COMES, THE NATURE IS SO BEAUTIFUL THAT IT WILL MAKE ALL YOUR ATTEMPTS TO LIVE FUTILE.... SO I HAD ACCEPTED DEATH WHOLE HEARTEDLY AND HENCE WAS FEARLESS.... THE TIGER WAS LOOKING AT ME FOR MORE THAN 10 MINUTES BUT THERE WAS NO FEAR IN ME..... SUDDENLY THE TIGER LEFT THE PLACE AND I STARTED MY DHYANA...
LORD'S GRACE... OUR PRAYERS....

Babu Jammi Namaskarams Guruji. I believe the current generation is more focused on effective space utilization and purpose than considering the historical significance of the items or the emotional bonding the elders have with these items. However, I do have a question - Aren't we all supposed to detach from all material possessions?
YES.... I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU..... AS YOU GROW IN AGE YOU HAVE TO BECOME DETACHED WITH EVERYTHING, NOT MERELY MATERIAL POSSESSIONS.... BUT THAT IS EASIER SAID THAN DONE.... MOST OF US ARE STILL BUNDLED WITH EMOTIONS, SENTIMENTS AND FEELINGS.... RIGHT FROM THE YOUNGER DAYS, IF ONE IS ABLE TO LET GO THINGS AS THEY GROW, THEY ALL REACH A STAGE OF COMPLETE NIRVANA.... BUT THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN.... THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF PEOPLE AS THEY GET AGED... ONE IS THE OLD AND THE OTHER IS THE ELDER.... WE HAVE MORE OLD PEOPLE THAN ELDERLY PEOPLE ,THOUGH I COMMONLY ADDRESS THEM AS ELDERS IN ORDER NOT TO HURT THEM.... THAT'S WHY IN HINDU PHILOSOPHY WE HAVE THE CONCEPTS OF VANAPRASTHAM AND SANYAS.... AS YOU AGE YOU HAVE TO MENTALLY DISSOCIATE YOURSELF FROM WORLDLY THINGS  THOUGH YOU CONTINUE TO LIVE IN THIS WORLD.... THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN IN THE NORMAL COURSE OF LIFE... THE ELDERS KEEP CLINGING ON TO SENTIMENTS AND FEELINGS EVEN IF NOT MATERIAL POSSESSIONS.... THEY KEEP TALKING OF THEIR DULL DEAD PAST, SOME TIMES EVEN CRYING AND LAMENTING ABOUT IT....

Anand Raaja The fear is more of becoming disabled than death.One should not be a burden for others.
Correct me if I am wrong Guruji.
IN ONE SENSE MAY BE OR MAY NOT BE...... SOME ARE HEALTHY BUT STILL A BURDEN..... YOUR FEAR IS YOU MAY BECOME A BURDEN WHEN YOU BECOME DISABLED.... I FEEL YOU MAY BE CONSIDERED A BURDEN EVEN IF YOU ARE HEALTHY.... SO HOW BEST THE ELDERS CAN LET GO OF THE PAST AND LIVE PEACEFULLY.... WE ARE DOING ALL NONSENSE ON THE MOTHER EARTH... WILL SHE NOT FEEL AS A BURDEN FOR ALL THAT WE DO ON TOP OF HER?

FAITH NEVER QUESTIONS.... FAITH KNOWS ONLY TO SURRENDER.... FAITH IS BEYOND ANY DOUBT.... THE LORD HAS TO BE TRUSTED 100 PER CENT FOR ALL HIS ACTIONS.... OTHERWISE WE CANNOT CALL IT AS FAITH.... YOU CAN'T COME OUT WITH EXCUSES CLAIMING THAT YOU ARE HUMAN AND BOUND TO SUCCUMB.... IN FACT SINCE YOU ARE HUMAN, YOU CANNOT SUCCUMB TO THE WILL OF NEGATIVE FORCES.... YOU HAVE TO ONLY SUCCUMB TO THE WILL OF GOD.... WE CAN'T AFFORD TO BE PSEUDO IN OUR FAITH AND COMMITMENT TOWARDS HIM..... HE IS ALWAYS WITH US AND HE IS INSCRUTABLE... HE KNOWS BEST AND HE DOES BEST FOR US.... SO DON'T WOBBLE WHEN IT COMES TO FAITH... BE STEADY....

DON'T ASK OTHERS..... ASK YOURSELF..... THE SOLUTION LIES WHERE THE PROBLEM AROSE.... 

WHEN LORD GIVES YOU A PROBLEM TO SOLVE, HE HIMSELF WILL GIVE YOU THE SOLUTION IN CASE YOU HAVE TOTAL FAITH AND HAD SURRENDERED TO HIM....
RECENTLY I KNOW OF AN INCIDENT.... SHE USED TO PRAY TO GODDESS BHAGAWATHY A LOT.... SUDDENLY SOMETHING HAPPENED TO THE NEGATIVE IN HER DAUGHTER'S LIFE.... SHE STARTED BLAMING THE GODDESS.... SHE STARTED TAKING COVER FOR HERSELF LIKE....'I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING WRONG TO ANY ONE... WHY THIS SHOULD HAPPEN TO MY DAUGHTER?'...ETC.,
THIS SHOWS THE  DEGREE OF IMMATURITY.... IF YOU ARE REALLY UNCONDITIONAL AND STAUNCH IN YOUR FAITH TO GOD, NOTHING SHOULD DISTURB YOU AND YOU SHOULD SWEETLY ACCEPT THE WILL OF GOD.... IT CANNOT DENT YOUR FAITH....
THIS IS A CLASSICAL EXAMPLE OF FAITH BEING TOTALLY MISPLACED....
EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION.... FOR A PERSON OF FAITH, THE LORD TAKES CARE OF IT.... FOR OTHERS, AN INTROSPECTION MAY BE NECESSARY AND NEVER ASK OTHERS FOR A SOLUTION.... THE SOLUTION LIES WHERE THE PROBLEM AROSE....

SOMETIMES PEOPLE COME AND TELL ME.....'GURUJI, I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING HARMFUL TO ANY ONE....WHY THIS SHOULD HAPPEN TO ME?'....

I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELINGS.... THIS IS WHERE WE BELIEVE IN A PAST... WE DUNNO WHAT WE DID THEN.... WE DO NOT KNOW EVEN WHETHER THE PRESENT SITUATION IS BECAUSE OF THE UNKNOWN PAST.... IN SHORT WE DON'T KNOW...

EVEN IN THE PRESENT, OUR MEMORY MAY BE SHORT.... OR EVEN WE MAY PRESUME THAT WE NEVER HARMED ANY ONE.... WE ARE JUST DOING SELF EVALUATION.... WE CANNOT ASSESS OUR CHARACTER AND GIVE A GOOD CONDUCT CERTIFICATE FOR OURSELF... IT IS FOR OTHERS TO SAY.... IT MAY BE THAT WE THOUGHT WE ARE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT AND IT MIGHT HAVE HARMED SOME ONE.... MAY BE...
ALL THESE PROBLEMS ARISE BECAUSE WE THINK WE ARE THE DOERS ..... WE NEVER ATTRIBUTE EVERYTHING TO GOD... YOU FEEL ELATED WHEN SOME ONE PRAISES YOU, SINCE YOU THINK YOU ARE THE DOER.... YOU FEEL GUILTY WHEN SOME ONE CURSES BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE THE DOER....
SHUN YOUR DOER SHIP..... DO EVERYTHING BUT DON'T OWN DOER SHIP FOR YOUR ACTIONS... KNOW THAT LORD IS THE DOER.... TRUST IN HIS ACTIONS... HAVE UNQUESTIONABLE FAITH.... YOU CAN SEE MIRACLES HAPPENING AROUND YOU....

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

August 2017 -7

IF YOU GO ON COMPARING THE UNPLEASANT PAST WITH THE CURRENT SET OF THINGS AND SITUATION, YOU CAN NEVER BE PEACEFUL....

TIME FLIES.... TIME NEVER WAITS.... SO UNDERSTAND THIS AND PREPARE YOURSELF MENTALLY FOR THE UNSEEN AND UNKNOWN FUTURE.....YOU CANNOT GO BACK IN THE TIME SCALE TO ALTER THINGS THAT HAVE ALREADY PASSED BY... AT BEST, THE EXPERIENCE GAINED CAN SET TONE FOR YOUR FUTURE PRIORITIES....

UNLESS YOU LEARN TO DROP THE UNPLEASANT PAST AND MOVE ON, IT WILL BE DIFFICULT NOT ONLY FOR YOU BUT ALSO THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.... THE EXPERIENCE GAINED OUT OF IT SHOULD REFLECT IN YOUR ACTIONS OF THE PRESENT.... MERELY LAMENTING ABOUT THE UNPLEASANTNESS OF THE PAST WILL HARM YOU....

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE AND FUNNY... WHEN YOU THINK THERE IS PATTERN WHICH LINKS YOUR PAST TO THE PRESENT, THE MOTHER NATURE PROVES OTHERWISE.... SIMILARLY WHEN YOU THINK THE PRESENT IS NOT LINKED TO THE PAST, MOTHER NATURE PROVES THAT THERE IS A CONNECTION.... THAT'S WHY LIFE IS CHOICE LESS....

IF YOU LEARN TO ENJOY THE CONFUSION IN LIFE, YOU WILL BE ROCK SOLID AND NOTHING WILL DISTURB YOU...

INITIALLY MARRIAGE WAS A BIG PROBLEM...NO ONE UNDERSTOOD HER.... THEN SHE CROSSED IT.... THEN SHE CONCEIVED.... PREGNANCY PROBLEMS.. NO ONE UNDERSTOOD HER.... THEN  SHE DELIVERED A BOY..... THE KID IS CRYING....NOW THIS IS A BIG PROBLEM... NO ONE UNDERSTANDS HER.... THIS WILL GET SOLVED .... THEN SCHOOLING IS A PROBLEM.... NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND HER.... BOY WILL NOT STUDY PROPERLY... THEN THAT WILL BECOME A PROBLEM.... NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND HER.... BOY HAS TO GO TO COLLEGE.... TEEN AGE PROBLEMS.... NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND HER....
VERY FUNNY LIFE... NO ONE UNDERSTANDS HER PROBLEMS..... LIFE MOVES ON.....

IF YOU UNDERSTAND THAT OTHERS CANNOT UNDERSTAND YOU OR WILL ALWAYS MISUNDERSTAND YOU, YOUR PROBLEM STANDS SOLVED.... SO YOU SHOULD DEVELOP THAT KIND OF AN UNDERSTANDING WHEN IT COMES TO OTHERS......

YOUR TALENTS AND ABILITIES ARE UNIQUE..... PROBABLY IF ONE IS BLESSED WITH AN ART OF WONDER, THEN THEY WILL LAUD YOU.... THEY WILL APPRECIATE YOU.... BUT THIS WORLD IS FULL OF RATIONALITY.... PEOPLE TRY TO REASON IT OUT... WHEN THEY CANNOT UNDERSTAND, THEY DECRY IT..... IT IS MORE THEIR FAULTY KNOWLEDGE AND EGO THE CAUSE..... THEN WHY DO YOU LONG FOR THEIR COMPLIMENTS? JUST UNDERSTAND THIS AND MOVE ON....

NEVER CONFIDE WITH A PERSON WHO DOES NOT KNOW TO VALUE THE INFORMATION PASSED ON.... BE VERY SELECTIVE AND CHOOSY WHEN IT IS PERSONAL.... THERE ARE A LOTS OF HEADLESS CHICKENS OUT THERE.... BE CAREFUL WHILE YOU DISCUSS SOMETHING THAT IS PERSONAL.....

A BIG SAINT IS COMING FROM HIMALAYAS TO THEIR HOME.... THE PARENTS WERE INSISTING THEIR SON TO STAY HOME TO RECEIVE HIM... HE REFUSED.... SO HIS DAD WAS ON MOBILE....
DAD....'GURUJI, YOU ARE AWARE THAT SWAMI HIMALAYANANDA IS VISITING OUR HOME.... MY SON IS REFUSING TO RECEIVE HIM..... IT WILL BE AN EMBARRASSMENT FOR ME IF HE IS NOT THERE.... SINCE MY SON LOVES YOU SO MUCH, CAN YOU INFLUENCE HIM TO CHANGE HIS MIND?'....
ME....'I AM SORRY, I DON'T WANT TO INTERFERE..... I DON'T INFLUENCE OTHERS.... I WANT PEOPLE TO BE THE WAY THEY ARE.... I DON'T EXPECT THEM TO CHANGE.... I LOVE THEM THE WAY THEY ARE'....
DAD...'OK, GURUJI..... CAN YOU COME HOME ON THAT DAY? MY SON WILL STAY BACK AT HOME IF YOU ARE THERE'.....
DAD WAS DESPERATE..... HE WENT ON PLEADING..... THEN I AGREED TO THE PROPOSAL.... I CALLED HIS SON AND TOLD HIM THAT HIS DAD ASKED ME TO COME WHEN THE SAINT ARRIVES.....
THE D-DAY ARRIVED..... LOT OF RUSH..... DAD WAS WAITING WITH A SANDALWOOD GARLAND.... SAINT HIMALAYANANDA ARRIVED..... ALL RUSHED TO THE CAR....... FINALLY DAD  MANAGED TO GARLAND HIM... IN THE MELEE THAT FOLLOWED DAD TOOK MY HAND AND WADED ME ACROSS THE CROWD AND INTRODUCED ME AS HIS SON TO SWAMI.... SWAMI WAS AMUSED...
SWAMI SAID TO DAD....'YOU NEVER TOLD ME THAT YOU HAVE A SON WHO IS MORE AGED THAN YOU'.....
DAD REALISED THE MISTAKE.... I JUST PULLED A BOY IN THE CROWD TO THE DAD'S SIDE.... THE DAD'S EGO WAS SATISFIED SINCE SWAMI UNDERSTOOD THAT BOY AS HIS SON.....
SWAMI HIMALAYANANDA LEFT FOR THE NEXT DESTINATION.....
HIS SON AND MYSELF HAD A HEARTY LAUGH AND ENJOYED BUTTER SCOTCH ICE CREAM IN THE MEMORY OF THIS EPISODE IN THE NEARBY ICE CREAM PARLOUR...

DON'T EXPECT YOUR SIBLINGS OR KIN AND KITH OR YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS TO TOE YOUR LINE OF BELIEF.... THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO FOLLOW THEIR OWN BELIEF SYSTEMS.... INSISTING THEM TO FOLLOW YOURS IS NEITHER DESIRABLE NOR WARRANTED....

IN THE SYSTEM OF NATURE, GOD CREATED EVERYTHING.... CALL HIM BY ANY NAME YOU WANT AND ADORE HIM TO THE CORE... AT THE SAME TIME TAKE CARE TO SEE THAT YOU DON'T HURT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS WHO MAY NOT BELONG TO YOUR BELIEF SYSTEMS.... AFTER ALL IT IS THE SAME LORD WHO CREATED YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM CREATED THE OTHER SCHOOLS TOO, UNDER A DIFFERENT NAME FOR HIMSELF.......

Haresh Pandya Pranams Guruji....Love this on-the-spot humour disguised as presence-of-mind you provided Guruji....Was this also a Prayogam Father?
THERE IS ANOTHER SIDE TO THIS STORY..... SWAMI HIMALAYANANDA IS A PERSON KNOWN TO ME....
LONG LONG AGO, HE LIVED IN THE CITY OF KUMBAKONAM WITH HIS WIFE AND 4 DAUGHTERS.... HE VANISHED FROM THE SCENE SUDDENLY, WITHOUT INFORMING ANY ONE WHEN THE KIDS WERE TOO YOUNG....... AFTER MANY YEARS, I HAPPENED TO SPOT HIM ONCE IN HARIDWAR, WHERE HE HAD BUILT AN ASHRAM AND WAS LIVING WITH A LOT OF DISCIPLES.....
DURING MY VISIT TO HIS ASHRAM, I PRETENDED AS THOUGH I DID NOT KNOW HIM.... BUT HE IS SHREWD... HE CALLED ME FOR AN AUDIENCE IN PRIVATE.... I WAS ESCORTED TO A ROOM.... HE SENT HIS DISCIPLES AWAY FROM THE ROOM AND CALLED ME BY MY NAME... STILL I CONTINUED TO PRETEND SINCE I WAS SCARED OF HIS DISCIPLES WHO WERE MORE LOOKING LIKE BOUNCERS...
HE ENQUIRED ABOUT HIS FAMILY....
SWAMIJI....'HOW IS MY WIFE? HOW ARE MY KIDS?'....
NOW I KNEW , I CANNOT ESCAPE... SO I HAD TO TELL THE TRUTH....
ME...'YES THEY ARE DOING FINE.... THE FIRST AND THE SECOND DAUGHTERS OF SWAMIJI, HAVE BEEN MARRIED OFF TO BOYS KNOWN TO ME.... THE OTHER TWO ARE STUDYING.... WHENEVER I VISIT YOUR PLACE, I DO MEET THEM AND WITH LORD'S GRACE, I PROVIDE SOME FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE TO RUN THE FAMILY'....
SWAMIJI.....'DON'T SAY THEY ARE MY DAUGHTERS.... I AM NOW A SANYASI.... DON'T GO AND TELL THEM MY ADDRESS'....
ME...'YES, SWAMIJI.... I WILL NOT INFORM THEM.... I DON'T WANT THE SANCTITY OF YOUR SAINTHOOD TO BE DISTURBED IN ANY WAY'.....
-------------------------------------------------------------------TILL DATE, I HAVE NOT INFORMED THEM.... AS RIGHTLY GUESSED BY HARESH PANDYA, IT'S FOR A PRAYOGAM, I HAD GONE THERE.... I HAD TO SEE HIM ONCE AND THIS ACT OF MINE WILL HELP THE OTHER TWO GIRLS TO SETTLE DOWN PEACEFULLY IN LIFE.....
LORD'S GRACE.... OUR PRAYERS....

Shravan Sonayila Guruji kshama... but what if the people from other belief systems try attacking us to follow only theirs even we have respect for every belief systems... how to deal with them guruji... _/\_
YES.... THIS IS A PROBLEM THAT NEEDS TO BE HANDLED WITH ALL SENSITIVITY AND HUMILITY..... FIRST WE SHOULD KNOW THAT WE HAVE NOT COME HERE TO CHAMPION THE CAUSE OF OUR BELIEF SYSTEM.... IT IS MORE SOME THING VERY PERSONAL AND IT GOES WITH YOU.... JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE DECRIES YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU TOO CAN INDULGE SIMILAR TO WHAT THEY DO....
FURTHER ONE SHOULD THOROUGHLY UNDERSTAND FROM HEART WHAT YOUR BELIEF SYSTEMS ARE BASED UPON.... WITHOUT HAVING ANY THOROUGH KNOWLEDGE OF OUR OWN SYSTEM DECRYING THE OTHER SYSTEMS IS RIDICULOUS... EVEN FOR ARGUMENT SAKE, YOU WANT TO ARGUE THAT YOUR SYSTEM IS SUPERIOR, YOU MUST HAVE IN DEPTH KNOWLEDGE OF WHAT YOUR SYSTEM SPEAKS OF.... THEN YOU SHOULD TRY TO ACQUIRE THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE OTHER SYSTEMS... NOW YOU CAN COMPARE AND PRESENT A BETTER PICTURE AS TO WHY YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS SUPERIOR.... THIS WAY IS ONLY FOR THOSE WHO TRY TO BRING RATIONALITY IN TO RELIGION....TO ME, TO BE RATIONAL IN RELIGION IS STUPIDITY.... IT'S A MATTER OF FAITH WHICH CANNOT BE DEMONSTRATED TO CONVINCE OTHERS.... THE PROBLEM WITH THE SOCIETY IS MANY OF US ARE CARRIED AWAY BY WHAT SOME DEMAGOGUES PREACH IN THE NAME OF RELIGION.... RELIGION OR BELIEF SYSTEMS CANNOT AFFORD TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS OR ANGRY OVER THE OTHER.... RELIGION IS NOT POLITICS WHERE YOU GO IN AFTER NUMBERS... RELIGION IS MORE FOR YOUR INNER PEACE... YOU HAVE NOT COME IN TO RELIGION TO COMPETE....

WHEN YOU KNOW THAT IT IS A JACKAL, ONLY ONE THING SHOULD COME IN TO YOUR MIND....... HOW TO DIVERT THE JACKAL TO YOUR LEFT OR RIGHT , NOT ALLOW IT TO POUNCE ON YOU AND BITE.... YOU CAN FIGHT WITH A TIGER AND EVEN WIN THE FIGHT, BUT WITH JACKALS YOU SHOULD AVOID CONFRONTATIONS.... THERE ARE ENOUGH JACKALS IN THIS CONCRETE JUNGLE... SO BE AWARE AND CAUTIOUS....

Friday, August 11, 2017

August 2017 -6

YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE THE WAY YOU WANT..... YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO DO WHAT YOU WANT....  BUT ONE NEEDS COURAGE TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT.... UNFORTUNATELY IN THIS WORLD ALL ARE NOT COURAGEOUS..... MANY ARE COWARDS.... COWARDS TOO HAVE A DESIRE TO DO WHAT THEY WANT... BUT THE UNFORTUNATE PROBLEM HERE IS THE COWARD WHEN QUESTIONED THROWS THE BLAME ON OTHERS.... SO BE CAREFUL ABOUT SUCH DUBIOUS COWARDS....

Lazy Sridhar THE PITY WITH THIS GROUP IS MANY TIMES YOU ALL MISUNDERSTAND WHAT I SAY..... THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW LACKED GUTS TO SAY TO HER FATHER-IN-LAW THAT SINCE IT IS CONVENIENT TO US WE HAVE GONE AHEAD WITH THE REGISTRATION... INSTEAD SHE WAS SCARED OF THE FATHER-IN-LAW AND USED MY NAME.... SHE SAID THAT I HAVE CONSENTED TO THIS.... NEITHER THE SON NOR THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW CONSULTED ME ABOUT THE REGISTRATION IN THE INAUSPICIOUS MONTH...I JUST WANTED TO HIGHLIGHT THAT PEOPLE LACK COURAGE TO SAY THAT IT IS THEIR DECISION AND ALWAYS THROW THE BLAME ON OTHERS.....

LEARN TO FACE THE WORLD COURAGEOUSLY.... YOU COME ALONE....YOU GO ALONE...YOU DIE ONLY ONCE..YOU CAN'T KEEP FEARING EVERY DAY AND KEEP DYING EVERY DAY DUE TO FEAR.... LIKE ACKNOWLEDGING LIFE, ONE NEEDS COURAGE TO ACKNOWLEDGE DEATH TOO... WHEN IT COMES, WHERE IT COMES IS NOT KNOWN.... IT CAN HAPPEN ANY MOMENT..... ONCE THE FLOWER HAS BLOSSOMED, IT MAY WITHER AWAY ANY TIME.... OF COURSE DEATH IS JUST A NEW BEGINNING....

LIFE IS A CONTINUOUS LEARNING PROCESS.....AT EVERY POINT OF TIME WE ARE LEARNING WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO OR HOW TO BEHAVE OR HOW NOT TO BEHAVE..... EVERY ONE IS AN EXAMPLE.... I TOO AM LEARNING A LOT FROM MY DISCIPLES.... IN FACT SOME TIMES I FEEL IT IS BETTER THAN THE LEARNING I HAD WITH MY MASTERS.....😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜

A FEW YEARS BACK THIS INCIDENT HAPPENED....
AN ELDERLY PERSON  WAS RUNNING 80 AND APPROACHING HIS 81ST BIRTHDAY... HIS SON WANTED TO CELEBRATE THE SATHABHISHEGAM OF HIS DAD IN A GRAND MANNER....
ELDER....'GURUJI, MY SON WANTS TO CELEBRATE IT, WHERE AS I AM NOT INTERESTED, SINCE MY WIFE IS NO MORE.... THAT DAY I WANT TO VISIT MY KULA DEVATA ..... THE PROBLEM IS THIS TEMPLE IS OUTSIDE MY VILLAGE ON A STEEP HILL.... I HAVE TO CLIMB 600 STEPS WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE AT MY AGE... YOU HAVE TO HELP ME REGARDING MY DESIRE....I DON'T KNOW FOR HOW LONG I AM GOING TO LIVE... BEFORE MY LAST I WANT TO VISIT MY KULA DEVATA...MY SON IS REFUSING CITING MY HEALTH REASON AND AGE FACTOR.'....
I TOLD HIM....'DON'T WORRY.... I WILL CONVINCE YOUR SON TO TAKE YOU ON THAT DAY'.....
I SPOKE TO HIM ABOUT THIS....
SON...'GURUJI, ARE YOU JOKING? HOW CAN MY FATHER CLIMB THE HILL?'....
I SAID...'DON'T WORRY....I WILL ARRANGE FOR HIS JOURNEY UP THE HILL TO LORD LAKSHMI NRUSIMHA, WHO IS YOUR KULA DEVATA....YOU JUST BRING HIM ON THAT DAY TO YOUR VILLAGE'....
ON THE APPOINTED DAY THE SON BROUGHT HIM BY HIS CAR ALONG WITH SOME RELATIVES.... I HAD ARRANGED FOR  ONE DOLLI ( A CARRIER UP THE HILL BY TWO PERSONS) .... I TOO WAS PRESENT AT THE FOOT OF THE HILL.... HE WAS CARRIED UP THE HILL BY THE TWO PEOPLE IN THE DOLLI.... INCLUDING ME AROUND 5 PEOPLE CLIMBED UP THE HILL....
THE PRIEST PERFORMED ABHISHEGAM AND GAVE THE TIRTHA PRASADAM AT THE END TO THE ELDER AFTER GARLANDING HIM.... I WAS JUST STANDING BEHIND HIM... AS HE TOOK THE TIRTHA PRASADAM HE JUST COLLAPSED BACK ON ME... I JUST HELD HIM.... HE BREATHED HIS LAST AND REACHED THE ABODE OF LORD NRUSIMHASWAMY.....
ALL WERE SHELL SHOCKED.... WE MANAGED TO CARRY THE BODY BACK DOWN.... HE WAS CREMATED THE VERY SAME DAY IN HIS VILLAGE....
LORD'S GRACE....
SRI LAKSHMI NRUSIMHAYA NAMAHA...

Thursday, August 10, 2017

August 2017 -5

WHEN YOU NOTICE SOME ONE DOING SOMETHING WONDERFUL AND WHICH CANNOT BE DONE BY YOU, YOU FEEL HAPPY AND APPRECIATE.... THIS IS NORMAL....
WHEN YOU NOTICE SOMEONE DOING SOMETHING WONDERFUL AND WHICH CANNOT BE DONE BY YOU, YOU FEEL SAD AND JEALOUS.....THIS IS AN INCURABLE DISEASE....

IN THE NAME OF BEING ORTHODOX, YOU CAN'T BE INHUMAN TO OTHERS....

A FEW YEARS AGO.....
HE....'SORRY, TODAY I AM FASTING, I CANNOT EAT HERE'....
ME...'IN FUTURE, WHEN YOU ARE FASTING, DON'T GO ANYWHERE.... IN CASE YOU ARE GOING TO FEAST PLEASE COME TO ME'....
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WHY SHOULD YOU GO ANY WHERE ON A DAY YOU FAST? WHEN YOU GO TO ANYONE'S PLACE, THEY WOULD LIKE TO OFFER YOU SOMETHING TO EAT SINCE YOU HAVE COME HOME..... WHY GO TO THEIR PLACE WHEN YOU ARE FASTING? JUST TO SHOW OFF?  HYPOCRISY....

Sujatha Rajagopalan Padanamaskaram Guruji
There is an entire set of people that believe orthodoxy is the name of religion created by God and will treat any human as lowly if they ignorant of this belief.
It is tough to watch this kind of treatment meted out to people.

YES SUJA.... I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS..... IN FACT THOSE WHO PREACH ORTHODOXY SHOULD NEVER MIX WITH OTHERS OR MIX WITH ONLY THOSE WHO ARE ALSO FOLLOWERS OF IT.... IN CASE ONE PERSON OR A SET OF PEOPLE PRACTICE ORTHODOXY IN A FAMILY AND ANOTHER SET OF PEOPLE ARE AVERSE TO IT, IT WOULD BE HELL..... MOST OF THE PEOPLE PRACTISING ORTHODOXY NEVER REALISE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE HURTING THE HUMAN SENTIMENTS OF OTHERS.... GOD MADE MAN... MAN MADE RELIGION.... RELIGION BROUGHT IN THE CONCEPT OF ORTHODOXY TO MAKE PEOPLE DISCIPLINED, BUT UNFORTUNATELY THE PRACTITIONERS TURNED ARROGANT....

DON'T COMPEL THE ELDERS OF YOUR FAMILY TO TOE YOUR LINE, HOW SO EVER GENUINE IT IS.... LET ELDERS BE FREE TO DO WHAT THEY WANT...IN THE EVENING OF LIFE, LET THEM WALK THE PATH OF LIFE WITH THEIR CHOICE AND FREEDOM... DON'T RESTRICT THEM JUST BECAUSE THEY NEED YOUR CARE AND SUPPORT..... SOME DAY YOU TOO MAY TURN OUT TO BE AN ELDER, AND YOUR YOUNGER ONES ARE WATCHING YOU THE WAY YOU TREAT YOUR ELDERS.... THEY MAY BE SILENTLY OBSERVING TO GRASP A LESSON OUT OF IT... SO BE AWARE OR ELSE BEWARE.....

PEOPLE MANY TIMES ACT ACCORDING TO THEIR OWN THEORY OF CONVENIENCE.... WHEN QUESTIONED THEY TRY THROWING THE BLAME ON OTHERS... THEY LACK COURAGE TO ACCEPT IT..... VERY SORRY STATE OF AFFAIRS....

NORMALLY TAMILIANS DO NOT DO REGISTRATION OF PLOTS, HOUSES OR FLATS OR HOUSE WARMING CEREMONY OR ENTERING A NEW HOUSE DURING THE PERIOD JULY 15TH TO AUGUST 15TH.... THIS GENERALLY CONSIDERED IN AUSPICIOUS, SINCE THE MONTH IS CALLED AADI IN TAMIL....
YESTERDAY 10 TH AUGUST 2017, A BOY KNOWN TO ME LANDED FROM USA IN CHENNAI..... HE HAS PURCHASED A FLAT ON THE OUTSKIRTS OF CITY..... HE HAS GOT IT REGISTERED.....
HIS FATHER QUESTIONED HIS DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AS TO WHY IT IS BEING DONE IN THE AUSPICIOUS MONTH.....
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW....'WE HAVE CONSULTED GURUJI AND HE HAS ASKED US TO GO AHEAD WITH THE REGISTRATION'......
THE FATHER OF THE BOY TODAY MORNING GAVE ME THIS INFORMATION.....
VERY FUNNY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AND VERY FUNNY SON...
FAMILY OF CLOWNS....
LOL

IT'S AN IRONY THAT PEOPLE NEITHER CELEBRATE LIFE OR DEATH.....
DURING LIFE, THEY KEEP  ON FIGHTING  AND QUARRELLING... KEEP BLAMING OTHERS FOR ALL THE TROUBLES THEY FACED IN LIFE.... ALWAYS IN MELANCHOLY AND SPREADING NEGATIVE VIBRATIONS ALL AROUND.... BEING DEPRESSED, UNSATISFIED..... FULL OF GREED AND JEALOUSY..... PEOPLE NEVER CELEBRATE LIFE....
AFTER DEATH OF SUCH A PERSON, EACH KIN AND KITH CRIES.... GETS DEPRESSED.... BEREAVED.... NOW THEY FEEL IT IS THE END OF LIFE FOR THEM.... EVERY ONE AROUND SHOULD SHARE THEIR GRIEF..... PEOPLE ARE FORCED TO BE SYMPATHETIC TO THEM....THAT'S ANOTHER HYPOCRISY.... PEOPLE NEVER CELEBRATE DEATH....
THIS CYCLE KEEPS ON GOING.....

YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO FLOW LIKE A RIVER IN LIFE..... WITH ALL THAT TWISTS AND TURNS FINALLY REACHING AND MERGING WITH THE OCEAN..EVERY ONE WHO COMES ACROSS YOU WILL FEEL ENERGISED... WHEN YOU DON'T DO THIS, YOU JUST STAGNATE, BREEDING MOSQUITOES CALLED NUISANCE... YOU BECOMING NAGGING AND PEOPLE WILL RUN AWAY FROM YOU.....

EITHER YOU DROP AND LET GO OR YOU DON'T..... THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DROPPING AND THEN PICKING UP.... IN THE FIRST PLACE IT MEANS YOU NEVER DROPPED IT....

DON'T-BOTHER-ATTITUDE WILL HELP YOU A LOT IN HANDLING PEOPLE IN AND AROUND YOU... YOU HAVE TO BE BLESSED WITH THIS TOOL..... NOT GIVING TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE TO WHAT OTHERS SAY MAY BE THE NEED OF THE HOUR.... IF YOU CAN COUPLE THIS WITH A NON EXPECTATIONAL APPROACH, NO INSULT WILL REALLY MAKE ANY SENSE TO YOU... YOU WILL BE LIKE WATER BOTH AMIABLE AND STRONG.... OF COURSE EVEN THE SHARPEST  KNIFE CANNOT CUT YOU EITHER....AT THE SAME TIME YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THOSE IN AND AROUND YOU REMAINS INTACT....

AMBITIONS ALWAYS KEEP GROWING.... WE HAVE TO BE AGGRESSIVE TO FUEL IT..... CERTAINLY IT TURNS EXPLOSIVE AT SOME POINT OF TIME IN LIFE.... AT THAT INSTANT DUE TO ENORMOUS PRESSURE, WE FEEL LIKE RETIRING FROM ALL ACTIVITIES AND BECOME PEACEFUL.... AFTER FUELLING RAGING FIRE FOR YEARS, WE  WANT IT TO BE DOUSED OVERNIGHT....AREN'T WE GREEDY?

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

August 2017 -4

IF YOU ARE IN LOVE OR A RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR PARENTS ARE APPREHENSIVE ABOUT IT (TYPICAL CONSERVATIVE INDIAN SYNDROME), WILL YOU DROP THE ISSUE OF LOVE WITH THE LOVER AND GO WITH THE FAMILY DECISION OR WALK OUT WITH THE LOVER AGAINST THE FAMILY'S WILL?...

IF YOU ARE EXPECTING A SECURED LIFE AFTER BEING IN LOVE, THEN YOU ARE UNFIT FOR LOVE... BETTER DON'T GO IN TO IT, FOR MANY TIMES, LOVE IS NOT ONLY LIFE BUT DEATH TOO....

LOVE WITHOUT REASONING IS THE HIGHEST FORM OF LOVE.... IF REASONING IS THE BASIS OF YOUR LOVE, THE MOMENT YOUR REASONING DROPS, YOUR LOVE TOO WILL DROP..... IF YOU MARRY A GIRL BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL OR IN A GOOD JOB, THE DAY SHE LOSES HER BEAUTY OR JOB, YOUR LOVE FOR HER  WILL ALSO GET DROPPED...LOVE MUST BE BEYOND REASONING... LOVE SHOULD HAVE NO RATIONALE.... NOW A DAYS IF MARRIAGES ARE FAILING MORE, IT IS DUE TO THIS REASONING AND RATIONAL APPROACH, IN THE MATTERS OF LOVE AND MARRIAGE....

EACH ONE OF US IS ENTITLED TO BE RESPECTED..... RESPECT COMES ON ACCOUNT OF LOVE AND IT WILL ETERNALLY LAST..... IF RESPECT IS EARNED OUT OF FEAR, IT MAY NOT LAST LONG.....  FURTHER BEING POLITE IN SPEECH AND ACTION ADDS TO EARN THE DESERVED RESPECT.... SOME TIMES IN IMBALANCE, ONE TENDS TO SPEAK WITHOUT CARING FOR THE SENSITIVITY.... THIS ATTITUDE WILL BRING A LOT OF ANIMOSITY AND GRUDGE IN THE MIND OF THE OTHER... SO BE POLITE AND LOVEABLE ALWAYS.... YOUR PRESENCE WILL ALWAYS BE FELT AND WELCOMED TOO WITH RESPECT .....

SATYAM APRIYAM NA BROOYAAT....

IF YOU CANNOT SPEAK TRUTH SWEETLY AND SOFTLY DONT SPEAK.....
IF TRUTH IS HARSH, DON'T SPEAK ABOUT IT.....

SOME ENJOY CONVEYING TRUTH VERY RUDELY...THIS ARROGANCE CANNOT BE ACCEPTED JUST BECAUSE TRUTH IS BEING EXPRESSED.... IF YOU CANNOT DELIVER TRUTH POLITELY IT SHOULD NOT BE DELIVERED AT ALL IN THE FIRST PLACE.... FURTHER IF TRUTH IS A HARSH REALITY, IT SHOULD NOT BE SPOKEN.. THE ETIQUETTE INVOLVED IN CONVEYING TRUTH IS WELL DEFINED.... FURTHER IF TRUTH IS HURTING, IT SHOULD NOT BE DELIVERED THOUGH IT IS TRUTH.....

THOUGH YOU HAVE SEEN THE WORST OF HIM AND STILL THINK HE IS THE BEST, I SEE SOME DIVINITY BEHIND THIS SONG OF LOVE....

I DON'T THINK YOU NEED TO KEEP ON TALKING TO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE AND CARE....YOU CAN STILL DO ALL THAT IN ABSOLUTE SILENCE.... NO DOUBT WHEN THE OTHER CANNOT UNDERSTAND, YOU BETTER EXPRESS LOVE AND CARE, THROUGH WORDS....

THE ONE WHO BLAMES OTHERS FOR ALL THE MISHAPS IN HIS LIFE, CANNOT BE ENTRUSTED WITH ANY RESPONSIBLE ROLE.....

AMBITIONS ALWAYS KEEP GROWING.... WE HAVE TO BE AGGRESSIVE TO FUEL IT..... CERTAINLY IT TURNS EXPLOSIVE AT SOME POINT OF TIME IN LIFE.... AT THAT INSTANT DUE TO ENORMOUS PRESSURE, WE FEEL LIKE RETIRING FROM ALL ACTIVITIES AND BECOME PEACEFUL.... AFTER FUELLING RAGING FIRE FOR YEARS, WE  WANT IT TO BE DOUSED OVERNIGHT....AREN'T WE GREEDY?

Sujatha Rajagopalan Padanamaskaram Guruji🙏🙏🙏
Please guide us to never forget nondoership so ambitions do not arise.

PRECISELY SUJA..... NON DOER SHIP IS THE KEY TO BE AWAY FROM AMBITIONS..... IN FACT WHEN YOU REALISE THAT LORD IS THE DOER, YOU WILL UNEARTH SO MUCH OF UNEXPLOITED POTENTIAL IN YOU, WHICH WILL BE THOUSANDS OF TIMES MORE IN PROPORTION TO WHAT YOU ACHIEVE THROUGH A DOER'S AMBITIONS..... TAKE THE NAME OF GOD IN ANYTHING YOU DO AND BE BLESSED TO BE GRACED WITH A NON DOER SHIP ATTITUDE.....LORD IS ULTIMATELY THE DOER.....

WITHOUT RAISING YOUR VOICE, TRY TO IMPROVE ON YOUR ARGUMENTS.... MOST OF US FEEL ANGRY WHEN WE CANNOT PUT FORTH AN EFFECTIVE COUNTER ARGUMENT, WHICH IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS.... IMPROVISE ON THIS AND REDUCE YOUR IRRITABLE ANGER.....

Friday, August 4, 2017

August 2017 -3

IT BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR PEOPLE TO COME OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE.... GETTING TOO MUCH USED TO A PARTICULAR PLACE OR A PARTICULAR STYLE OF LIFE, PEOPLE REFUSE TO ACCEPT ANY CHANGE.... THIS IS WHERE YOU GET TRAPPED IN IT.... SO BE AWARE AND DON'T GET TRAPPED , IN ORDER TO ACCEPT THE INEVITABLE CHANGE WHEN IT HAPPENS.....

THE BELIEF SYSTEMS WHICH ARISES ON ACCOUNT OF ONE'S OWN EXPERIENCE OF THINGS IS BETTER THAN THE BELIEF SYSTEMS WHICH ARE INITIATED THROUGH CONDITIONING.....

WHEN YOUR MIND IS DISTURBED OR CLOUDED, DON'T TAKE DECISIONS.... JUST TAKE A BREAK AND REVISIT YOUR PROBLEM FOR A BETTER SOLUTION......

IT'S BETTER KIDS WHO HAVE ALWAYS DEPENDED ON OTHERS FOR TAKING DECISIONS IN LIFE AND KIDS WHO ARE TOO TIMID , DON'T OPT FOR A LOVE MARRIAGE.... MANY SUCH CASES KNOWN TO MY LIMITED KNOWLEDGE HAVE RESULTED IN FAILURE.....

SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH A BOY.... A DRASTIC INCIDENT WHICH HAS A BEARING ON THE BOY'S CHARACTER HAPPENED LAST WEEK.... I HAD TO ADVISE AND WARN HER TO BE CAUTIOUS, SINCE IT MAY RUIN HER LIFE...I THINK THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL FOR HER FROM THE LORD...HOPE SHE LISTENED TO WHAT WAS TOLD BY ME..... LORD'S GRACE...OUR PRAYERS

LOVE IS ONLY FOR THE COURAGEOUS.... PERSONS WHO LACK COURAGE SHOULD NOT ATTEMPT IT.... LOVE IS MORE LIKE FIRE.... YOU MUST BE FIRE TO MERGE WITH IT.... IF YOU ARE AN INSECT YOU WILL PERISH.....

 NO BODY SPOKE TO YOU ABOUT GOOD AND BAD, RIGHT AND WRONG WHEN YOU WERE BORN.... THEY KNEW YOU WERE DIVINE..... BUT AS YOU GREW THEY STARTED TALKING ALL THAT AND IT CORRUPTED YOUR INNOCENCE.... NOW IT IS A BIG CHALLENGE AND UPHILL TASK FOR YOU TO REWIND, REACH THAT POINT OF INNOCENCE AND DIVINITY......

IT IS DIFFICULT TO TRUST THE 'MAN OF CONVENIENCE'.....

IF YOU ARE BALANCED PERSON, YOU ARE ELIGIBLE TO KNOW THE TRUTH.... A BALANCED PERSON IS THE ONE WHO HAS UNDERSTOOD THE DESIGN OF THE NATURE AND LIVES A LIFE OF TOTALITY..... IMBALANCED PEOPLE SHOULD NEVER KNOW TRUTH FOR THEY CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT, LEAVE ALONE ASSIMILATING IT.....
MANY OF US WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH OF EVERYTHING....
AT ANY POINT OF TIME, DO WE THINK AS TO WHETHER WE ARE ELIGIBLE TO KNOW IT?
THE MAIN ELIGIBILITY IS ONLY FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LIVED A LIFE OF TOTALITY AND NOT FOR THOSE WHO HOP ON ONE LEG OF PRESUMPTIVE PERFECTION.....

Umaa Badri Guruji, if the comfortable zone is a safe one, why should one try to come out of it please?
READ THE ANSWER PROPERLY BEFORE JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS..... CLUE IS 'TRAPPED'.....

HE HAS NEVER REALLY LIVED HIS ROLE AS A HUSBAND..... WHAT EVER THE WIFE TALKS TO HIM PRIVATELY ABOUT ANY MATTER, IS INFORMED BY HIM TO HIS PARENTS..... AFTER TWO KIDS, THE GIRL IS TOTALLY DEPRESSED AND DISAPPOINTED WITH HIS BEHAVIOUR....SHE HARDLY HAS ANY PEACE IN THIS FAMILY..... WHAT IS YOUR SUGGESTION TO THIS GIRL?

DON'T SUGGEST OR ADVISE ANY ONE WITHOUT KNOWING THE FACTS OF THE TOTAL CASE.... BY DEFAULT IT IS BETTER TO PRESUME THAT, ANY ONE WILL BE BIASED WHILE PROJECTING THEIR SIDE OF THE CASE.... SUGGESTING REMEDIAL MEASURES BY JUST HEARING  ONE SIDE WILL BE DISASTROUS....

LOVE IS OPPOSITE OF 'CLINGING ON'.....

IF YOU CLING ON, YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO LET GO WITH EASE IN AN ADVERSE SITUATION....

ONE DAY....

A BOY HAD COME AND SAID.....'GURUJI, I AM IN LOVE WITH A GIRL..... I NEED YOUR BLESSINGS.... I WANT TO MARRY HER'.....

ME....'LORD'S GRACE....OUR PRAYERS.... GOOD WISHES...WHEN IS THE MARRIAGE?'.....

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AFTER SOME TIME, ONE MORE BOY HAD COME.....'GURUJI, I AM IN LOVE WITH A GIRL....I NEED YOUR BLESSINGS....I WANT TO MARRY HER BUT SHE BELONGS TO A DIFFERENT CASTE?'.....

ME....'YOUR FAMILY IS A VERY CONSERVATIVE FAMILY.... YOUR PARENTS MAY NOT AGREE TO THIS PROPOSAL... FURTHER YOU DON'T HAVE COURAGE TO LIVE INDEPENDENT OF YOUR FAMILY.... WHY DO YOU WANT TO SPOIL ANOTHER GIRL'S LIFE? EVEN IN CASE YOU MARRY HER, YOU MAY NOT SUPPORT HER AND SHE MAY BE LEFT ALONE TO FACE THE WRATH OF YOUR FAMILY.... IN YOUR OWN INTEREST AND IN THE GIRL'S INTEREST , IT'S BETTER YOU BURY YOUR DESIRE OF MARRYING THAT GIRL'....