Sunday, January 7, 2018

Jan 2018 -2

AMONG RELATIVES, RELATIONSHIP IS 'FORMAL' AND AMONG FRIENDS IT IS 'INFORMAL'...
IN CASE RELATIVES BECOME 'INFORMAL' OR 'CASUAL' IN THEIR APPROACH AND THE FRIENDS BECOME 'FORMAL' OR 'SERIOUS' IN THEIR APPROACH,  THE RELATIONSHIP OR FRIENDSHIP WILL BE A DISASTER....

AMONG GOOD MEANINGFUL FRIENDS 'FORMALITIES' SELDOM EXISTS FOR THE SURVIVAL OF FRIENDSHIP....
BUT
AMONG CLOSE RELATIVES 'FORMALITIES' IS A MUST FOR SURVIVAL OF A RELATIONSHIP....

HE....'GURUJI, I HAD BEEN TO MY COUSIN DAUGHTER'S MARRIAGE.... THERE I OBSERVED MY RELATIVES GOSSIPING ABOUT OTHERS'....
I COULD NOT CONTAIN MY LAUGHTER.....
HE....'WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING GURUJI?'....
ME....'YOU SHOULD SOMETIME COME TO AHOBILAM..... NOW A DAYS ALMOST EVERY YEAR WE HAVE OUR MAHA YAGNAM FOR 8-10 DAYS.... WE PRAY DEDICATEDLY FOR THE WELFARE OF HUMANITY EVERY DAY FOR 8 TO 9 HOURS..... REST OF THE TIME, WE ONLY GOSSIP..... WE SPREAD RUMOURS.... WE KEEP ENQUIRING ABOUT OTHERS PERSONAL DETAILS.... WE KEEP EXCHANGING BUSINESS VISITING CARDS....A LOT OF BUSINESS DEALS DO HAPPEN.... TIE UPS ETC., ... THERE IS WHOLE LOT OF FUN AND DRAMA.... MANY PEOPLE COME TO ENJOY ALL THIS.... SO INSTEAD OF WASTING TIME BY ATTENDING THE MARRIAGES, EVERY YEAR PLEASE VISIT OUR MAHA YAGNAM SPOT WHETHER IT IS AHOBILAM OR SOME OTHER PLACE.... WE ASSURE YOU A WHOLESOME ENTERTAINMENT'.....
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IF YOU KEEP ON ASKING OTHERS FOR EVERYTHING, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IN LIFE TO TAKE DECISIONS... AS YOU GROW, YOU MUST BECOME MORE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE AND NOT KEEP ASKING OTHERS FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING.... IN FACT YOU SHOULD NOT ALLOW OTHERS TO INTERFERE WITH YOUR LIFE.... YOU HAVE TO TAKE DECISIONS AND OWN RESPONSIBILITY FOR SUCH DECISIONS.... DON'T BE A COWARD AND KEEP EXPECTING OTHERS TO GUIDE YOU ALWAYS IN YOUR LIFE...

YOU CAN GIVE SUGGESTIONS OR OPINIONS TO OTHERS WHEN ASKED, BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOURSELF SURE WHETHER YOU HAVE UNDERSTOOD THEIR PROBLEM AND HAVE NECESSARY EXPERTISE TO DEAL WITH IT... MANY OF US ARE NOT CONSCIOUS ENOUGH TO KNOW WHETHER WE ARE REALLY ELIGIBLE TO ADVISE THE OTHER OR NOT.... THERE ARE SOME WHO GIVE FREE ADVISE, EVEN WHEN THEY ARE NOT ASKED FOR.... WHEN WE DO NOT KNOW THE SUBJECT OR TRUTH OF THE MATTER, WE SHOULD STRICTLY NOT INTERFERE....

YOU ARE NOT EXPECTED TO TEACH ANY ONE HOW TO BEHAVE OR NOT BEHAVE, ESPECIALLY WHEN THGEY HAVE MATURED IN AGE.... IF SOME ONE BEHAVES IMMATURE, EVEN AFTER HAVING LIVED A BIG LIFE, NO ONE CAN HELP IT... SOME TIMES KIDS OR YOUNGSTERS BEHAVE MORE MATURED THAN THOSE AGED.... AS YOU MATURE IN AGE BECOME MORE CONSCIOUS OF YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS AFTER LIFE ON EARTH....

THE MORE YOU TALK ABOUT SOMETHING, YOU ARE LIKELY TO GET ADDICTED WITH IT....

SOME OF THE CONVERSATIONS AT YAGNAM SPOT....
-ARE YOU AWARE THAT THE BOY 'X' HAS DIVORCED?
-IT SEEMS THE GIRL 'Y' ALWAYS TALKS ILL OF HER MOTHER....ARE YOU AWARE OF IT? HOW COME THIS GIRL TALKS OF HER MOTHER LIKE THIS? HAD IT BEEN MY GIRL, I WOULD HAVE SENT HER OUT.... MY GIRL IS A GEM.. SHE JUST ATTENDS COLLEGE AND COMES BACK
-SEE THAT BOY, HE IS STARING AT THAT GIRL.... SHE TOO SEEMS TO BE SMILING BACK....
-IF GURUJI COMES TO KNOW, WHAT YOU ARE DOING, HE WILL REPRIMAND YOU....
-I DON'T TRUST MY HUSBAND... HOW TO FIND OUT WHAT HE IS UP TO?
-SHE HAD SOME ISSUES WITH HER HUSBAND.... ARE YOU AWARE OF IT?
-IT SEEMS THAT GIRL 'Y' RESIGNED HER JOB ABRUPTLY  BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO GO OUT AND ROAM WITH THE BROTHER OF 'X'+++++++++ 'YEAH, YEAH, I SAW THEM BOTH IN A CINEMA HALL'......
-MY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW DOESN'T RESPECT ME AT ALL.... MY SON TOO KEEPS LISTENING TO HER'....
-WHAT IS YOUR GRANDSON NOW DOING? IS HE IN INDIA OR ABROAD?
-YOU KNOW ANY ONE IN M/S INFO COMPANY? MY SON IS TRYING FOR A TRANSFER TO HYDERABAD....
-SHE IS FULL OF PRIDE.... SEE THE WAY SHE WALKS AND TALKS.....
-HE COACHED HIS SON IN PREMIER INSTITUTIONS FOR IIT ENTRANCE, FINALLY THAT BOY COULD NOT EVEN CLEAR HIS 12TH BOARD EXAMS..... ARE YOU AWARE OF IT?
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LIKE THIS, IN THIS YAGNAM AT AHOBILAM, I HAPPENED TO RECORD 3,28,445 CONVERSATIONS IN A SPAN OF 9 DAYS......
I DON'T THINK WE DID SO MANY AVARTIS OF JAPAM....
YOU BOYS AND GIRLS ENTERTAINED ME A LOT.... ALONG WITH ME THE GOD TOO WAS SMILING, OF COURSE BETTER NOT TO COMMENT ON THE FOREFATHERS....
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